The One Percent

Luke Doran

How to go from Burnout to Balance, one percent at a time.

  1. 6d ago

    #73 - Matt Emblem - A Different Version Of Me Was Born

    In this episode, I welcome Matt Emblem onto the podcast. Forty-three, CFO at an independent PR and social agency, married to the woman he met at school, dad to three, and still playing and coaching rugby - "your average bloke", in his words. Matt first got in touch back in May 2021, after seeing my content on LinkedIn. From the outside it looked great. Inside, he didn't feel good about himself, felt guilty for even saying so, and the gap kept getting a little bit bigger. He wasn't ready to start, so he spent the next few years trying to build his own version of my playbook - the gym, healthy eating, cold showers. His verdict: "way off, nowhere near." Nearly a year ago he came back. We started with the basics, parked the ego, and a morning routine as small as ten press-ups. Then came a call where I asked if everything was all right, he said it was fine, I asked again, and he heard himself say no. From that moment, he says, a different version of him was born. A year in, and still working together, the biggest changes show up in ordinary moments. His 13-year-old drops a beaker of blackcurrant juice on a white carpet and his first reaction is to check the kid's OK. The promises he makes to himself now get kept like the ones he makes to his kids. His advice to anyone on the fence: jump off it. Either side, make a decision. His only regret is not doing it sooner. If any of this resonates - I can help - listen to the episode, then book a call with me: https://theone-percent.com/book-a-call/

    #73 - Matt Emblem - A Different Version Of Me Was Born
  2. Oct 21

    #72 - Graham Manley - I've Got My Old Self Back

    In this episode, I welcome Graham Manley onto the podcast. Sixty-seven, a former solicitor turned legal headhunter working with commercial law firms in the north of England, married with three grown-up children, and, as he puts it, probably the oldest person in the group. A few months ago Graham reached out after following my content on LinkedIn. By then he'd spent about ten years putting himself at the bottom of his own to-do list. Work overload, drinking a bit too much in the evenings as a reward for a tough day, a diet all over the place, brain fog and a feeling of being totally directionless. Every day the same - Groundhog Day, only not as funny. He knew where he wanted to be - the version of himself he used to be. He kept breaking promises to himself, and every time things got tough he gave up on the lot. His description: like getting a puncture and stabbing the other three tyres. So we built slowly, one block at a time, with a weekly plan, accountability to himself and to me, and a group where everyone tells it straight. Nearly five months in, and still working together, the change is as much in his head as his body. His mindset used to be "when's it going to go wrong?" Now it's "how can we make it work?" He's more resilient, he's present with his family again, and he says it's like walking into a dark room and someone switching the light on. His wife agrees. He's got his old self back. His advice to anyone on the fence: why wait? It's just kicking the can down the road. If any of this resonates - I can help - listen to the episode, then book a call with me: https://theone-percent.com/book-a-call/

    #72 - Graham Manley - I've Got My Old Self Back
  3. Oct 14

    #71 - Alex Calthrop - I Knew The Stuff. I Couldn't Make It Stick

    In this episode, I welcome Alex Calthrop onto the podcast. Thirty-eight, a disputes lawyer based in Paris, half British and half Australian, and dad to a nineteen-month-old daughter. A few months ago Alex reached out for a chat. Nothing dramatic was wrong. He was in a relentless stretch at work, adjusting to life as a new father, and diet, sleep and being present at home were all slipping. He'd also read the books and listened to the podcasts. He knew the stuff. He just couldn't make it stick. And with a daughter, the questions got more real: was he becoming the man she'd be proud of? "Maybe" wasn't a good enough answer. He signed up in the middle of the busiest stretch of his career: a trial, court deadlines, working past midnight most days for a couple of months. Not the textbook time to start. So we started small. A 10-15 minute bodyweight workout, steps, cold showers. Whatever he could do, that day. When the trial finished, he didn't need a week or two to recover. His energy and mood stayed up and he bounced back far quicker. The bigger shift is how he thinks. A rough morning no longer writes off the day - it's "what's the next good decision I can make?" We're still working together, and his advice to anyone on the fence is blunt: you'll earn the money back, you won't get the time back. If any of this resonates - I can help - listen to the episode, then book a call with me: https://theone-percent.com/book-a-call/

    #71 - Alex Calthrop - I Knew The Stuff. I Couldn't Make It Stick
  4. Oct 7

    #70 - Steve Faber - The Best Value Thing I've Ever Done

    In this episode, I welcome Steve Faber onto the podcast. Fifty-two, chartered surveyor, husband and dad. Two years ago he reached out after following some of my content - though, as he puts it, it took a fair bit of nagging to get him on here to talk about it. Nothing was in crisis. A building project next to his house he had no control over, changes at work, an old injury he couldn't shake. Individually nothing. Together, enough to have him blaming everyone else for how he felt - and then blaming himself when that didn't help either. A bit of a moody bastard, by his own admission, after fifty years of practice at it. He signed up anyway - and the next day had the classic wobble: have I just been turned over here? He didn't tell a soul for six months, not even most of his friends. Two years on, he calls it one of the best value things he's ever done in his life. Down from 96kg to 80kg. The fittest he's been since he was eighteen. A cold plunge he still doesn't want to get into most mornings and gets into anyway. But the bit he comes back to most isn't any of that. It's that he's not a moody bastard anymore - his words. His relationships have improved, because he's not carrying the weight he used to carry into every interaction. He cares about people and doesn't have to be difficult to do it. If any of this resonates - I can help - listen to the episode, then book a call with me: https://theone-percent.com/book-a-call/

    #70 - Steve Faber - The Best Value Thing I've Ever Done

About

How to go from Burnout to Balance, one percent at a time.

You Might Also Like