Perspective unfiltered🎙️💗

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Perspective Unfiltered is a space for real, unfiltered conversations about life as a young adult, love, identity, faith, self-worth, and the quiet thoughts we don’t always say out loud. It’s honest, reflective, and deeply human, exploring the messy in-between of figuring yourself out while growing, unlearning, and becoming. No perfection, no performance —just perspective.

  1. Jun 19

    S2. EP 16| Romance on screen: Dopamine, fantasy and attachment

    From movies to TV shows to social media, we're constantly surrounded by stories of love. But how much of what we believe about romance is actually ours... and how much of it was shaped by what we've watched? In this episode of Perspective Unfiltered, I reflect on romance on our screens, the expectations it creates, and the ways it can influence how we view relationships, love, and ourselves. Maybe the stories we consume are shaping us more than we realize. Article on Kobe Bryant- https://open.substack.com/pub/bi... Articles on off campus- https://open.substack.com/pub/bi...

    34 min

  2. Jun 12

    S2. EP15| The space between trying and giving up

    There’s a space that no one really talks about,the space between giving up and trying. The place where you’re tired, uncertain, and questioning whether all your effort is leading anywhere. You're not ready to quit, but you're not as hopeful as you used to be either. In this episode of Perspective Unfiltered, I reflect on that in-between season..the waiting, the frustration, the quiet resilience, and what it means to keep showing up when nothing seems to be changing. Maybe not every season is about winning. Maybe some seasons are simply about staying. Article on off campus- https://open.substack.com/pub/bi...

    34 min

  3. May 29

    S2. Ep14| Their success is not a proof of your failure

    Sometimes it’s hard to be happy for people when you feel like life hasn’t been moving for you. Not because you’re bitter… but because somewhere deep down, you start wondering when it’ll finally be your turn. In this episode of Perspective Unfiltered, I reflect on comparison, silent pressure, insecurity, and the fear of being left behind. This is a conversation about learning to celebrate people without questioning your own worth in the process. Maybe their success was never proof of your failure… maybe your story is just unfolding differently. Article- https://open.substack.com/pub/bisolasdiary/p/healing-energy?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=6l0qe5 Socials ✨ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/this_is_bisola?igsh=MW9xenBiM2hzY21saQ== Tiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@yurgal_bisola?_r=1&_t=ZS-96jgIfzIhNt

    27 min

  4. May 14

    S2. Ep13| The Quiet pressure of becoming

    This episode feels a little all over the place… but maybe that’s the point. I talk about my past obsession with physical appearance, pressure, growth, and what it feels like when you’re trying so hard but nothing seems to be showing yet. Just a quiet conversation about becoming, uncertainty, and figuring things out in real time. The quiet Ramadan article- https://open.substack.com/pub/bisolasdiary/p/the-quiet-ramadan?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=6l0qe5 The mindset shift episode- https://open.spotify.com/episode/6VBWOOakndg3brfbe7WtVB?si=mYEWOCAUSzKGS40yMQl6yQ

    29 min

  5. May 1

    S2. Ep12| The Grey Area -The idealism of good and bad

    Hi lovelies, welcome back to another weekly episode of perspective unfiltered 💗✨ On today's episode, I talked about how we’re so quick to label things as good or bad… but life doesn’t always feel that simple. In this episode, I talk about the grey areanthe in-between space where things are not so clear, and maybe were never meant to be. To get full episode check Spotify and Apple podcast My latest article - https://open.substack.com/pub/bisolasdiary/p/seeking-validation-as-a-hopeless?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=6l0qe5 Where I get all my books from - https://oceanofpdf.com/ Dilemma link - https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fforms.gle%2F4uH6192SzB5RHPiS7%3Futm_source%3Dig%26utm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_content%3Dlink_in_bio%26fbclid%3DPAb21jcARhZfFleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA81NjcwNjczNDMzNTI0MjcAAaeX6huBX9mlB52Oo0xOJk1VK0Uokf3EwMm7yGGSrdqWIFBpoTOHl1Jo0-8baw_aem_SvGCbLVEqOVTWPD_BMUWzA&e=AUCPWfhvC3JlDBIeOKnT4ipFF6zsaMfJbWrVVEvvsXiUZDqGupxkYT8gTtbd2F2ZBthrh07o1TxFwwZBYkKK26CG9KCOVCSVNUcuYvJ2E-FhBxzbzIRbn_rjFuQeugiNMw&utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNTY3MDY3MzQzMzUyNDI3AAGnl-obgV_ZpQedjqNMTiZNVStFKJH9xMDJu8hhkq3aliBQaaEzh5dSaNPvG2s_aem_SvGCbLVEqOVTWPD_BMUWzA

    37 min

  6. Apr 23

    S2. Ep11| When respect feels like pressure

    At what point does respect start to feel like pressure? In this episode of Perspective Unfiltered, I reflect on growing up in an African household where being “respectful” often means being quiet, obedient, and not questioning anything. But somewhere in all of that, it’s easy to lose your voice without even realising it. This isn’t about being disrespectful… it’s about understanding the difference between respect and people pleasing, and learning how to exist without constantly shrinking yourself. My article on people pleasing https://open.substack.com/pub/bisolasdiary/p/is-it-people-pleasing-or-just-manipulation?r=6l0qe5&utm_medium=ios The enmeshment article https://open.substack.com/pub/beautifullyunscripted/p/some-mothers-do-not-like-their-daughters?r=6l0qe5&utm_medium=ios

    28 min

  7. Apr 17

    S2.Ep 10| “You’re carrying too much (and it’s not yours)”

    When everything starts to feel heavy, we rarely stop to ask… is all of this even mine? In this episode, I reflect on the quiet pressure we carry people, expectations, and emotions that don’t always belong to us… and what it might look like to finally put it down.

    32 min

  8. Apr 10

    S2. Ep9I “I Didn’t Want to Be a Doctor” living a life that was chosen for you. ft(Doctor Ameer)

    He did everything right… chose medicine, became a doctor, made everyone proud. But the truth? It was never his dream. In this episode, we talk about what it feels like to live a life that was chosen for you; the pressure, the expectations, and the quiet regret that comes with it. Because sometimes, success isn’t the same as fulfillment. By the way which business do you think he should get into?

    47 min
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Perspective Unfiltered is a space for real, unfiltered conversations about life as a young adult, love, identity, faith, self-worth, and the quiet thoughts we don’t always say out loud. It’s honest, reflective, and deeply human, exploring the messy in-between of figuring yourself out while growing, unlearning, and becoming. No perfection, no performance —just perspective.

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