Igbo, Queer, and Unfiltered

Charles Okeke

Welcome to a podcast unlike any other, in which I bring my unique intersectional identity as a gay Igbo man from Nigeria to the forefront. This is a space where personal stories meet cultural insights, and where meaningful discussions about LGBTQIA+ issues, representation, and empowerment take centre stage. Each episode is a journey into the intricacies of being queer and African, examining themes of identity, perseverance, and visibility. As I amplify queer voices, spill some palm wine, slay stereotypes, and redefine what it means to be seen and celebrated, you can expect a blend of heartfelt storytelling, insightful discussions, and a generous dose of humour. Join me as we navigate the intersections of culture, sexuality, and community, one candid conversation at a time. This is not just a podcast, it is a celebration of diversity, a call for inclusion, and a reminder that every voice matters.

  1. Jul 21

    My Non-Negotiables as a Gay Igbo Man

    For years, I negotiated things that were never meant to be up for debate. My identity. My dignity. My peace. My right to be seen. In this episode, I share the personal principles that guide my life now as a gay Igbo man. These are not rules for anyone else to follow. They are the standards I chose for myself after years of trying to earn acceptance from people who were never willing to give it freely. I talk about what changed, what it cost me, and why my peace stopped being something I hand over to keep other people comfortable. If you have ever bent yourself out of shape to be loved, this one is for you. New episodes of Igbo Queer and Unfiltered drops every Tuesday. Listen, share it with someone who needs it, and tell me your own non negotiables in the comments. 🖤 Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos: https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS Visit my website: www.myownkindofrunway.com Listen to my podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a Instagram: https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/ Shop My Looks: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway Join My Newsletter: https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/ Let’s Talk

  2. Jun 30

    The Freedom Of Self Approval

    What would your life look like if you stopped waiting for permission to be yourself? In this episode, I am getting into something deeply personal. The emotional cost of seeking approval from family, religion, culture, and society when your authentic life challenges everything you were raised to be. As a Gay Igbo Man I know exactly what it feels like to silently hope that one day the people you love will look at you and say we are proud of you. I know the weight of carrying that hope. And I know what it costs you when it never comes. This episode is about what happens when you stop waiting. When you decide that your approval is enough. When you finally choose yourself, not because nobody else will, but because you deserve to. If you have ever shrunk yourself to fit into someone else's idea of whom you should be, this one is for you. Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos: https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS Visit my website: www.myownkindofrunway.com Listen to my podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a Instagram: https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/ Shop My Looks: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway Join My Newsletter: https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/ Let’s Talk

About

Welcome to a podcast unlike any other, in which I bring my unique intersectional identity as a gay Igbo man from Nigeria to the forefront. This is a space where personal stories meet cultural insights, and where meaningful discussions about LGBTQIA+ issues, representation, and empowerment take centre stage. Each episode is a journey into the intricacies of being queer and African, examining themes of identity, perseverance, and visibility. As I amplify queer voices, spill some palm wine, slay stereotypes, and redefine what it means to be seen and celebrated, you can expect a blend of heartfelt storytelling, insightful discussions, and a generous dose of humour. Join me as we navigate the intersections of culture, sexuality, and community, one candid conversation at a time. This is not just a podcast, it is a celebration of diversity, a call for inclusion, and a reminder that every voice matters.