Raising the Next Gen Podcast

Sonia Dong

Raising the Next Gen is your go-to parenting podcast for practical, uplifting advice on raising happy, resilient, and productive teens and tweens. Each episode features practical advice from experts, real-life stories from parents, and personal insights from our own family’s journey. We’ll dive into the challenges and triumphs of modern parenting, from cultivating healthy habits and digital wellbeing to building mental resilience and fostering leadership skills. Our approach is simple: small actions compound to create big impacts. Discover easy, actionable tips that you can start using today to encourage your kids to explore their unique talents, achieve their goals, and define their own success—all while creating stronger family bonds.

  1. Jul 14

    E43 - Strategies Every ADHD Family Can Use

    In this episode, Host Sonia Dong speaks with Dr. Bethany Bilodeau, or Dr. B, behaviourist, author, and business owner about ADHD and the different types of ADD. They discuss why blood flow to the prefrontal cortex matters, why high-intensity movement can shift a kid's ability to focus in minutes, and why dehydration symptoms so often mimic an ADHD diagnosis. We walk through the different types of ADD — classic, overfocused, inattentive, anxious — and why they need different approaches, from diet to supplements to environment design. There's also a candid look at oppositional behaviour: why power struggles with kids almost always backfire, and a simple hack for making requests land without triggering a fight. We close on toxic stress and how a prolonged stress state can produce symptoms that look exactly like ADHD, and why more people are showing up with both right now. Practical, brain-first, and useful whether or not your kid has a diagnosis. About Dr. Bethany Bilodeau Dr. Bethany Bilodeau, or Dr. B, is a behaviorist, author, and business owner whose work centers on supporting children, families, and professionals through trauma-informed, nervous-system-aware approaches to behavior, regulation, and connection. Her career began as a teacher in Guam and has been shaped by both professional experience and her own family’s challenges, leading her to specialize in practical, brain-based strategies that help adults better understand and support developing nervous systems. She is the CEO of C.O.R.E. Methods and author of the book, Ease the Pain in the Classroom: A Guide to Safety and Regulation. Follow Dr. B’s on Instagram and LinkedIn.

    E43 - Strategies Every ADHD Family Can Use
  2. Jul 12

    E42 - When Your Teen Feels Everything Intensely

    This episode discusses self-harm and suicidal ideation in teens — listener discretion is advised, and if you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional or crisis line. Some kids don't feel sad; they feel like they're on fire. Host Sonia Dong speaks with Katie K. May, founder of Creative Healing Teen Support Centers and author of *You’re on Fire, It’s Fine* about teens whose emotions come in fast, big, and overwhelming, and the behaviours such as self-harm, withdrawal, numbing that show up as a brain's fastest way to put that fire out. We break down why "just take a walk" doesn't work when a teen is in crisis, and what real validation sounds like instead. We also get into the practical side of assessing our parental stress meter, how to use “text check-ins,” and radical acceptance when your teen's path looks nothing like what you pictured. This episode is for any parent who has felt out of their depth with a kid who feels everything at full volume. About Katie K. May She is a dialectical behavior therapy Linehan Board certified clinician and owner and executive director of Creative Healing Teen Support Centers. She's helped thousands of teens cope with their emotions and understand their feelings of depression, anxiety, and self-harm. Her book *You’re on Fire, It’s Fine: Effective Strategies for Parenting Teens with Self-Destructive Behaviors* combines Katie’s professional and personal perspectives (her own child struggled with depression) to provide an instruction manual with help and hope for parents who struggle with their teens’ risky behaviors. Connect with Katie K. May on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and TikTok Did you like this episode? Remember to review, follow and share! Receive weekly parenting tips and reflections, and don’t miss an episode by signing up to my newsletter, Next Gen Connection.

    E42 - When Your Teen Feels Everything Intensely
  3. May 15

    E38 - Teaching Our Little and Big Kids That Kindness Matters

    What if one of the most powerful things you could do for your kids costs absolutely nothing? In this episode, host Sonia Dong sits down with Marcia Agius, founder of the Kindness Circle, to explore how families can weave intentional kindness into everyday life. Marcia shares how her own parents modelled kindness and how that inspired her to launch a 52-week kindness challenge that grew into a thriving community movement. Sonia and Marcia unpack the difference between being nice and being truly kind, why kids need to see kindness in action rather than just hear about it, and simple, low-cost ways to get your whole family involved. Whether it's complimenting a stranger or paying for someone's meal, this episode will leave you inspired to take one small step that could change someone's entire day. About Marcia Agius Marcia Agius is a HumanKIND Influencer and founder of The Kindness Circle, a community-driven movement inspiring people to lead with compassion, connection, and purpose. Guided by four core pillars—kindness to self, kindness to others, giving back, and making kindness fun—her work focuses on creating meaningful moments that bring people together. With a belief that we are better together, Marcia is on a mission to make kindness visible, celebrated, and contagious—empowering others to create ripple effects of good in their everyday lives. Follow Marcia on Instagram @kindnesscircle.community. Learn more about and join the Kindness Circle Community. Did you like this episode? Remember to review, follow and share! Receive weekly parenting tips and reflections, and don’t miss an episode by signing up to my newsletter, Next Gen Connection.

    E38 - Teaching Our Little and Big Kids That Kindness Matters
  4. May 12

    E37 - Easy Ways to Get Kids Involved & Save Time Scheduling

    If you've ever felt like you're holding up the entire household on your own, this episode is for you. Business consultant and simplicity expert Erin Binns joins host Sonia Dong to talk about how to streamline life at home. From rethinking the after-school activities to getting kids involved in chores and meal planning, Erin shares practical, low-pressure strategies for parents who are ready to stop doing it all. You'll also hear why asking for help from your kids, your partner, or your community isn't a sign of weakness, but the key to creating a calmer, more connected family life. Take action by choosing one small shift you can implement this week. About Erin Binns Erin Binns is a business consultant, speaker, and former luxury hotel sales executive with nearly two decades of experience driving multi-million-dollar revenue through strategic client relationships. She now leads corporate workshops and works with established women in business to make The Simplicity Shift, simplifying operations, leveraging time as a strategic asset, and helping women with work/life integration. Known for seeing the big picture and filling the gaps others miss, Erin challenges the idea that busy equals successful and helps organizations create clarity, momentum, and measurable results. Follow Erin on Instagram @erinbinns and LinkedIn. Learn more about Erin’s work on her website. Book Recommendation for Adults Turning Pro by Steven Pressfield A short book on the mindset difference between an amateur and a professional, and can be applied to any area of life. Books/Series Erin Recommends for Tweens Bunny vs Monkey series by Jamie Smart ****A UK series that can now be ordered internationally; great for kids who enjoy Dog Man Donut Squad series by Jamie Smart Calvin and Hobbes (original collections) by Bill Watterson Doctor Who magazines Did you like this episode? Remember to review, follow and share! Receive weekly parenting tips and reflections, and don’t miss an episode by signing up to my newsletter, Next Gen Connection.

    E37 - Easy Ways to Get Kids Involved & Save Time Scheduling
  5. Apr 8

    E36 - Learning Strategies Every Student (and Parent) Needs

    What if learning and doing well in academics (and life) meant doing less, not more? In this conversation between host Sonia Dong and Dr. Deena Kara Shaffer, founder and CEO of Awakened Learning, we learn how to unpack what it really means to support your kids as learners without the burnout. Dr. Deena shares how she went from high school teacher to pioneering holistic learning strategies that serve learners of all ages, backgrounds, and abilities. She challenges the myth that hours of note-rewriting equals real studying, and introduces her practical 3-2-1 method for exam prep that reduces stress and improves grades. This conversation offers parents a refreshing new lens on how to show up for their kids (and themselves) as lifelong learners. About Dr. Deena Kara Shaffer Dr. Deena Kara Shaffer is Founder & CEO of Awakened Learning, Canada’s #1 team of Learning Strategists. She’s a lifelong educator with over 20 years of experience supporting thousands of learners, educators, and parents and chosen families across K–12 and post-secondary spaces. Deena is also a TEDx speaker and a 2× bestselling author of Feel Good Learning and Raising Well Learners, where she explores how learning can feel more humane, inclusive, and effective–without burnout, shame, or overwhelm. Follow Dr. Deena on Instagram @awakendlearning and LinkedIn. Find freebies, accessible workshops and more about Dr. Deena’s work on her website. Resources How to Get From To-Do to Done, Tedx Talk by Dr. Deena Inside the Mind of a Master Procrastinator, Ted Talk by Tim Urban Dr. Deena’s best-selling book to parents, Raising Well Learners Dr. Deena’s best-selling book to students, Feel Good Learning Thriving in Action Program, TMU (Toronto Metropolitan University) Did you like this episode? Remember to review, follow and share! Receive weekly parenting tips and reflections, and don’t miss an episode by signing up to my newsletter, Next Gen Connection.

    E36 - Learning Strategies Every Student (and Parent) Needs

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Raising the Next Gen is your go-to parenting podcast for practical, uplifting advice on raising happy, resilient, and productive teens and tweens. Each episode features practical advice from experts, real-life stories from parents, and personal insights from our own family’s journey. We’ll dive into the challenges and triumphs of modern parenting, from cultivating healthy habits and digital wellbeing to building mental resilience and fostering leadership skills. Our approach is simple: small actions compound to create big impacts. Discover easy, actionable tips that you can start using today to encourage your kids to explore their unique talents, achieve their goals, and define their own success—all while creating stronger family bonds.