Dating Déjà vu

Dating Déjà Vu
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It might be déjà vu but it also might be you! Join Christina Hathaway, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, as she dives deep into the complexities of relationships and personal growth. Each episode offers practical insights, expert advice, and heartfelt discussions on topics like communication, intimacy, family dynamics, and self-discovery. Whether you're navigating challenges in your marriage, strengthening friendships, or working on your relationship with yourself, Christina provides a compassionate and relatable perspective to help you thrive in all areas of your life!

  1. 4d ago

    The Ghost of Relationships Past: Why You’re Still Replaying Your Old Relationship

    Why are you still arguing with your ex in your head long after the relationship ended? In this Halloween episode of Dating Deja Vu, Christina Hathaway explores relationship rumination, why past criticism can become your inner critic, and how to stop replaying painful memories. Learn five practical strategies to break the cycle of overthinking, rebuild your self-worth, establish healthier boundaries, and reclaim your life after a breakup. Because thinking about your ex doesn't necessarily mean you want them back. Sometimes, you're still processing what happened. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me (AZ residents only): https://igniteambition.com/ Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  2. Oct 23

    How to Break Up With Someone Like an Adult In 6 steps

    Why is it so hard to leave a relationship you know isn't right for you? Guilt, people-pleasing, and the hope that things will change can keep us stuck in unhealthy relationship cycles. In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, Christina Hathaway uses examples from Love Is Blind: Boston and her own experiences to explain why we avoid difficult breakup conversations and how to end a relationship with clarity, compassion, and confidence. In this episode, you'll learn: 🩵 How people-pleasing and avoidant attachment affect breakups. 🩵 How to communicate your decision without overexplaining. 🩵 How to hold your boundaries without feeling responsible for someone else's emotions. 🩵 Six practical steps to end a relationship and avoid getting pulled back into the same cycle. You can care about someone and still choose to walk away. Learn how to honor your needs, communicate honestly, and move forward. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me (AZ residents only): https://igniteambition.com/ Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  3. Oct 16

    Why We Settle Every October: The Cuffing Season Trap

    You said you were done with them in August. So why are they coming to Thanksgiving? As the weather cools down, the calendar fills up with couple’s costumes, holiday dinners, and the dreaded question: “Are you seeing anyone?” Suddenly, being single feels a little louder and that “Hey, stranger” text starts looking a lot more tempting. In this episode of Dating Déjà Vu, we’re breaking down the psychology of cuffing season and why so many of us fall into the trap of confusing a cozy weekend with real compatibility. We’ll look at the hidden drivers behind holiday dating urgency—from the fear of being single to external pressure—and give you practical questions to help you stop repeating old relationship patterns. Remember: It might feel like déjà vu, but it also might be you. Let’s break the cycle before the holidays hit. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me (AZ residents only): https://igniteambition.com/ Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  4. Oct 9

    Are You Full Off Breadcrumbs? Why You're Glorifying Minimums

    Why do we mistake anxiety for chemistry in dating? In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, licensed associate marriage and family therapist Christina Hathaway breaks down the psychology of breadcrumbing and why inconsistent attention can keep us hooked on emotionally unavailable partners. Christina explores how childhood experiences, conditional love, and hyper-independence influence our dating patterns. She also shares practical ways to establish relationship non-negotiables, regulate dating anxiety, and stop settling for the bare minimum. In this episode, you'll learn: How to recognize breadcrumbing and inconsistent effort. Why anxiety and relief can feel like romantic chemistry. How childhood patterns influence your relationship choices. How to set healthier standards and break the cycle of unhealthy dating patterns. Remember: Potential is not a relationship. You deserve consistency, emotional safety, and genuine effort. Follow Dating Deja Vu on Instagram and TikTok for more dating and relationship insights. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me (AZ residents only): https://igniteambition.com/ Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  5. Oct 2

    You Planned the Wedding, But Did You Prepare for the Marriage?

    Couples spend months debating venues, guest lists, flowers, and seating charts—often without ever discussing how they will manage money, resolve heated conflict, handle family boundaries, or navigate invisible labor. A wedding changes your legal and relationship status, but it doesn't automatically change your emotional habits or communication patterns. In this episode of Dating Déjà Vu, licensed marriage and family therapist Christina breaks down PREPARE/ENRICH: what it actually is, why difference doesn’t equal dysfunction, and how engaged and newlywed couples can replace unspoken assumptions with clear, healthy agreements before small misunderstandings become hardwired patterns. In this episode, we cover: Why love alone doesn’t answer the practical questions of married life What PREPARE/ENRICH is (and why it is not a compatibility test or a pass/fail exam) The hidden trap of engagement idealism: facts vs. fears vs. fantasy Why the newlywed stage is one of the best times to do relationship work The real meaning underneath recurring arguments about chores, money, and in-laws How your family-of-origin rules secretly enter your marriage What working with a certified PREPARE/ENRICH facilitator actually looks like Tune in now! - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me (AZ residents only): https://igniteambition.com/ Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  6. Sep 25

    Why You Can't Let Go: The Psychology of Taylor Frankie Paul & Dakota's Trauma Bond

    Is it love or are you addicted to the chaos? In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, Christina Hathaway breaks down Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen’s on-again, off-again relationship and the controversial idea of trauma bonding. Their story raises an uncomfortable question: can intense chemistry actually be a sign of an unhealthy attachment? Christina explores why we confuse chaos with chemistry, why healthy love can feel “boring,” and why missing someone doesn’t mean you should go back to them. Because sometimes what feels like love… is just familiarity. Tune in! - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me (AZ residents only): https://igniteambition.com/ Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  7. Sep 18

    Call Her Mommy: Are You Mothering Your Partner?

    When did you stop being his girlfriend and start being his mother? Maybe you're reminding him about appointments, helping him find a job, managing the household, planning the dates, remembering important birthdays, or constantly telling him what needs to get done. Little by little, you may find yourself carrying not just your share of the relationship—but responsibility for his life, too. In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, Christina Hathaway breaks down what happens when a relationship shifts from partnership into a dynamic where one person over-functions and the other under-functions. You'll hear about: The difference between supporting your partner and carrying your partner How the over-functioning/under-functioning relationship dynamic develops Why constantly rescuing or reminding your partner can reinforce the pattern The invisible mental load of remembering, planning, organizing, and anticipating everything Why becoming your partner's caretaker can affect resentment, attraction, and intimacy The difference between a temporary season of imbalance and a permanent relationship dynamic Why being needed can sometimes feel like being loved How dating someone's potential can keep you stuck in a relationship with who you hope they'll become What happens when you stop over-functioning and allow your partner to take responsibility Why interdependence is different from dependence How to start looking at the patterns you're participating in, choosing, and tolerating If you've ever found yourself thinking, “Why am I always the one doing everything?”, this episode invites you to look beyond what your partner isn't doing and get curious about the role you've taken on in the relationship. Stop focusing on the fantasy of who someone could become. Step back, allow them to show you who they are, and pay attention to the facts. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me (AZ residents only): https://igniteambition.com/ Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  8. Sep 11

    Quiet Quitting Your Relationship: 7 Signs You’re Emotionally Checked Out

    You may not be fighting. You may not be thinking about divorce. You may still share a home, raise your kids, have sex, pay the bills, and look like a perfectly functional couple from the outside. But what happens when you’ve stopped trying? In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, Christina Hathaway explores the increasingly common idea of “quiet quitting” a relationship—when you remain physically present but become emotionally disconnected from your partner. It’s not necessarily about no longer caring. Sometimes, it happens because you cared, tried, asked, and were disappointed so many times that eventually, you stopped believing anything would change. The episode also explores why independence can sometimes mask relational resignation, how unequal mental and emotional labor can contribute to withdrawal, and why conflict isn't always a bad sign. Sometimes anger and frustration mean there is still emotional investment; indifference can signal something much deeper. If you’ve ever felt like you’re still in your relationship but no longer truly in it, this episode is for you. Because sometimes the absence of conflict doesn't mean there’s peace. Sometimes it means you've stopped caring enough to fight. Listen now and get curious about what your emotional withdrawal might be telling you. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me: https://igniteambition.com/ Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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It might be déjà vu but it also might be you! Join Christina Hathaway, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, as she dives deep into the complexities of relationships and personal growth. Each episode offers practical insights, expert advice, and heartfelt discussions on topics like communication, intimacy, family dynamics, and self-discovery. Whether you're navigating challenges in your marriage, strengthening friendships, or working on your relationship with yourself, Christina provides a compassionate and relatable perspective to help you thrive in all areas of your life!

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  • Creator
    Dating Déjà Vu
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    72
  • Rating
    Explicit
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