Dating Déjà vu

Dating Déjà Vu

It might be déjà vu but it also might be you! Join Christina Hathaway, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, as she dives deep into the complexities of relationships and personal growth. Each episode offers practical insights, expert advice, and heartfelt discussions on topics like communication, intimacy, family dynamics, and self-discovery. Whether you're navigating challenges in your marriage, strengthening friendships, or working on your relationship with yourself, Christina provides a compassionate and relatable perspective to help you thrive in all areas of your life!

  1. Jun 26

    Anxious, Avoidant, or Secure? Understanding Attachment Styles in Relationships

    Do you believe you're "just an anxious attachment" or "that's just how avoidants are"? In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, we unpack one of the biggest misconceptions about attachment styles: they're not your identity, they're learned survival strategies. If you've ever found yourself attracting emotionally unavailable partners, fearing abandonment, pulling away when relationships get too close, or feeling trapped in the same dating cycle, this conversation is for you. You'll learn: What attachment styles really are (and what they aren't)The four attachment styles explained: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidantWhy anxious and avoidant partners often find each otherThe difference between chemistry and familiar nervous system patternsHow childhood experiences shape adult relationshipsWhy attachment styles are not permanentWhat "earned secure attachment" means and how anyone can develop itPractical exercises to begin rewiring unhealthy relationship patternsYour attachment style isn't a life sentence. It's simply the strategy your nervous system learned to survive. And the best news? Strategies can change. If you're ready to stop repeating the same relationship patterns and start building healthier connections, this episode is your next step. Listen now and subscribe for new episodes every week. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me: https://link.optimafunnels.com/widget/bookings/tmom-clarity-call0b27p0 Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DatingD%C3%A9j%C3%A0vuPodcast

  2. Jun 19

    Are You a Pick Me? The Hidden Reasons You Keep Losing Yourself in Relationships

    Have you ever looked back at a relationship and wondered, "When did I stop being me?" In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, Christina breaks down what "pick me" behavior actually is and why it's so much deeper than an internet insult. Instead of shame, she offers a compassionate look at how childhood experiences, codependency, and low self-esteem can lead us to seek validation through relationships. You'll learn why becoming the "easy" partner often means abandoning yourself, how these patterns repeat in dating, and the five areas you can begin healing to build healthier, more authentic relationships. In this episode: What "pick me" behavior really means (and what it doesn't) How childhood experiences shape adult relationships The five codependency patterns that fuel self-abandonment Why you keep attracting the same relationship dynamics How to rebuild self-esteem from within Setting boundaries without guilt Reconnecting with your wants, needs, and identity Practical exercises to stop losing yourself while dating If you've ever felt like you become a different person in every relationship, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now, and remember: you were never meant to audition for love—you get to do the choosing. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me: https://link.optimafunnels.com/widget/bookings/tmom-clarity-call0b27p0 Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DatingD%C3%A9j%C3%A0vuPodcast

  3. Jun 12

    If You Muted Your Partner, What Would Their Actions Say?

    What if your partner couldn't text you, call you, make promises, or tell you how much they care? Would their actions alone make you feel loved, secure, and chosen? In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, Christina explores a powerful question that can instantly bring clarity to relationships, situationships, and everything in between: If you muted your partner and could only pay attention to their actions, what would you learn? If you've ever found yourself waiting for someone to become the person they say they want to be, this conversation is for you. You'll hear: Why actions provide more clarity than words The gap between promises and follow-through How hope can keep you stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns Why inconsistency feels addictive Signs you're falling for potential instead of reality How to stop grading partners on a curve The role of self-worth in relationship decisions A simple exercise to help you evaluate your relationship with more clarity Words are easy. Actions require time, effort, vulnerability, and consistency. If someone's actions and words don't match, trust the actions. Follow Dating Deja Vu for more conversations about dating, relationships, attachment patterns, and breaking free from unhealthy cycles. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me: https://link.optimafunnels.com/widget/bookings/tmom-clarity-call0b27p0 Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DatingD%C3%A9j%C3%A0vuPodcast

  4. Jun 1

    When Sex Leaves the Building: Rebuilding Desire in Long-Term Relationships

    When was the last time you had sex with your partner? It's one of the most searched relationship questions online, and one of the least discussed. If you've ever wondered whether your relationship is normal, worried that the spark has disappeared, or felt disconnected from your partner, this episode is for you. In this special crossover episode of The Mindset Mirror Connection and Dating Déjà Vu, host Christina Hathaway explores why sex naturally changes throughout a relationship, what a healthy sex life actually looks like, and how couples can intentionally rebuild intimacy, desire, romance, and passion over time. Many couples experience a decline in sexual frequency and assume something is wrong. The truth is that slowing down sexually is often a normal part of relationship development. The challenge isn't how often couples have sex, it's whether both partners feel desired, emotionally safe, connected, and able to communicate openly about their needs. In this episode, you'll learn: The three stages of sexual connection in long-term relationships…from the honeymoon phase to companionship and commitment Why passion naturally evolves over time and what most couples misunderstand about intimacy The difference between passionate love and companionship love What research says about healthy sexual relationships and relationship satisfaction Why resentment, stress, mental overload, and emotional disconnection can dramatically affect desire How hormones, aging, postpartum changes, sleep deprivation, medications, and physical health impact libido Why spontaneous sex becomes less common in long-term relationships The five practical shifts that help couples rebuild intimacy and desire How to have productive conversations about sex without blame, shame, or defensiveness Ways to strengthen emotional and physical connection outside the bedroom Why scheduling intimacy can actually improve your relationship If you're feeling stuck in a sexless relationship, struggling with mismatched desire, wondering how to bring back romance, or simply wanting a healthier and more connected partnership, this conversation offers practical, compassionate, and evidence-informed guidance. The good news? A slowing sex life doesn't mean your relationship is broken. Successful long-term couples understand that intimacy isn't something that simply happens, it is something they intentionally choose to nurture, protect, and rebuild throughout every stage of their relationship. Whether you're dating, newly partnered, married, navigating parenthood, or decades into a committed relationship, you'll walk away with a deeper understanding of what healthy intimacy looks like and actionable strategies to reignite connection, desire, and closeness. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me: https://link.optimafunnels.com/widget/bookings/tmom-clarity-call0b27p0 Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DatingD%C3%A9j%C3%A0vuPodcast

  5. May 29

    5 Mindset Shifts That Will Transform Your First Dates

    Do your first dates feel more like auditions than genuine connections? In this episode of Dating Deja Vu, Christina Hathaway breaks down the five mindset shifts that can completely change the way you approach dating. Instead of obsessing over whether someone likes you, you'll learn how to stay present, trust yourself, and determine whether they're actually a good fit for you. If you've ever caught yourself overthinking every word, imagining a future together before the appetizers arrive, or trying to be the "perfect" date, this episode is for you. In This Episode: Why curiosity creates better connections than interview-style questionsHow future-tripping sabotages chemistry before it has a chance to growThe importance of authenticity over perfection on first datesWhy your life should already feel full before someone new enters itHow setting a soft time limit can help you leave with clarity instead of confusionThe difference between seeking validation and genuinely getting to know someoneHow to recognize when you're repeating old dating patternsWhy healthy dating starts with changing how you show up—not finding a different personThe goal of a first date isn't to get picked. It's to discover whether you genuinely enjoy the person sitting across from you. When you shift from performance to presence, dating becomes less stressful, more authentic, and far more effective. - Let's connect: Schedule a clarity call with me: https://link.optimafunnels.com/widget/bookings/tmom-clarity-call0b27p0 Send me your questions: https://bit.ly/43FWH70 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingdejavupod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DatingD%C3%A9j%C3%A0vuPodcast

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It might be déjà vu but it also might be you! Join Christina Hathaway, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, as she dives deep into the complexities of relationships and personal growth. Each episode offers practical insights, expert advice, and heartfelt discussions on topics like communication, intimacy, family dynamics, and self-discovery. Whether you're navigating challenges in your marriage, strengthening friendships, or working on your relationship with yourself, Christina provides a compassionate and relatable perspective to help you thrive in all areas of your life!