The Restored Podcast

Frank & Darcie Montgomery

We are living proof that God can and will restore any life, any marriage, any family that submits to His will.  Join us as we share our testimony of how God can take a situation and restore it to His purpose.

  1. 07/08/2025

    Our Response to Tragedy Should Be Love, Support, and Prayer

    Send us Fan Mail Devastating flash floods have swept through our home state, claiming over 100 lives and leaving countless families shattered in their wake. The sudden nature of these waters – rising 20 feet in a single hour during the night – created a catastrophic situation that has affected entire communities, particularly at Camp Mystic, where many young lives were tragically lost. When faced with such overwhelming tragedy, both believers and non-believers inevitably ask the same question: Why? Why would this happen? Why would God allow it? While we don't claim to have perfect answers, we explore this profound question through the lens of faith. We discuss how we live in a fallen world where natural disasters occur, yet maintain that even amid devastating circumstances, there remains hope beyond our earthly suffering. For the Christian families affected, particularly those from Camp Mystic, their faith provides the comforting knowledge that this life isn't the end of their story. The response to disaster reveals human nature at both its finest and its worst. Many rush to help, while others unfortunately exploit tragedy through scams or division. We emphasize the importance of discernment when donating to relief efforts and suggest trusted channels like local churches. Most importantly, we remind listeners that prayer remains the most powerful response available to everyone, regardless of financial means. We pray for comfort for grieving families, guidance for exhausted first responders, and wisdom for all involved in rebuilding lives and communities. Even in our darkest moments, like the young girls from Camp Mystic singing worship songs during evacuation, we can find the strength to maintain faith and praise. How might your prayers make a difference in someone's life today?

  2. 06/30/2025

    Beyond Feelings: What We've Learned After Two Decades Together

    Send us Fan Mail The feeling that draws us to someone isn't the same force that keeps us there. Frank and Darcie Montgomery celebrate their 19th anniversary by dismantling one of marriage's most dangerous myths: that butterfly-inducing infatuation is the same as love. Drawing from nearly two decades of experience—including multiple separations, child support court, and profound heartbreak—the couple shares how they transformed their first 13 years of self-centered decision-making into a thriving partnership built on deliberate choices rather than fleeting emotions. "Even when I'm not feeling it, I choose to love you," Frank explains, challenging our culture's dopamine-chasing approach to relationships. Perhaps most powerful is Darcie's revelation about commitment despite coming from generations of divorce. "I refused to believe the unhealed version of you was the real version," she tells Frank through tears, describing how she "went to battle on her knees" for their marriage when walking away seemed easier. Their journey reveals how selfless love creates a beautiful paradox—when both partners wake up asking "How can I serve my spouse today?" both ultimately get their needs met without demanding their own way. The conversation expands to explore marriage as ministry, the transformative power of praying together, and why learning to appreciate small everyday moments matters more than elaborate date nights. Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, their hard-earned wisdom offers a roadmap for moving beyond feelings to forge an unbreakable bond. What relationship lesson resonated most with you? Share your thoughts and connect with Frank and Darcie on Facebook or email your story to therestoredcast@gmail.com.

  3. 06/25/2025

    The Church's Call to Political Engagement

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when Christians step away from politics? The void doesn't remain empty—it gets filled with worldviews and policies that often contradict biblical values. Frank and Darcie Montgomery tackle this crucial topic head-on, challenging the widespread notion that faith and politics should remain separate. Drawing from both Scripture and American history, the hosts explore how our nation was founded on godly principles, with references to the Divine woven throughout our founding documents, national anthem, Pledge of Allegiance, and currency. They make a compelling case that the current spiritual revival we're witnessing—from campus awakenings to policy shifts—correlates directly with leadership that acknowledges God publicly. The conversation provides practical guidance for believers wondering how to engage civically without compromising their faith. Prayer for all leaders (regardless of party affiliation) forms the foundation, but the Montgomerys push listeners to do more: vote your values, research candidates thoroughly, attend local government meetings, and even consider running for office yourself. They address the reluctance many Christians feel about political involvement, emphasizing that we're not electing pastors but leaders whose policies align with biblical principles. With upcoming election cycles on the horizon, this timely episode serves as both encouragement and challenge. God is in control, working through His people when they engage rather than retreat. The spiritual and moral restoration of America depends not just on who sits in positions of power, but on ordinary believers who pray fervently, vote wisely, and engage consistently in the civic process, bringing godly values into every sphere of influence, including government.

  4. 06/16/2025

    Present, Not Perfect: What Kids Really Need from Dad

    Send us Fan Mail The absence of fathers in American homes has reached epidemic proportions, with one in four children growing up without a dad—three times the global average. Behind these statistics lie troubling outcomes: 90% of runaway children, 75% of teenage murderers, and 71% of high school dropouts come from fatherless homes. These aren't just numbers; they represent a generational crisis affecting communities nationwide. Frank and Darcie Montgomery dive into this critical topic with personal vulnerability, sharing their own experiences with fathers. Frank reflects on losing his dad just before their son was born, yet carrying forward the invaluable lessons of work ethic and faith his father instilled. Darcie opens up about navigating relationships with three father figures throughout her life—her biological father, with whom reconciliation came only recently; her stepdad who raised her; and her mom's current husband. Their stories highlight how fathers shape us, for better or worse, and how healing can occur even after years of disconnection. At the heart of effective fatherhood lies presence—not just physical proximity, but genuine emotional availability. "Your children are always watching," Frank emphasizes, noting that kids learn more from what we do than what we say. This presence requires balancing grace with discipline, creating an environment where children feel safe to make mistakes without fear of rejection, yet understand boundaries and consequences. Perhaps most profoundly, fathers teach their children how relationships should function. How a father treats his wife becomes the template for how sons will treat women and what daughters will expect from men in their lives. Whether you're a father, stepfather, spiritual father, or someone who simply recognizes the critical importance of male leadership in children's lives, this conversation offers practical wisdom for strengthening families and communities. Ready to become the father your children need? Listen now and discover how transformative intentional fatherhood can be for the next generation.

  5. 06/09/2025

    Unashamed: Living Boldly for Christ

    Send us Fan Mail What does it mean to be truly unashamed of the gospel in today's culture? Drawing inspiration from the bold legacy of Duck Dynasty's Phil Robertson, Frank and Darcie Montgomery dive deep into the crisis of Christian courage facing believers today. We're living in a peculiar moment for American Christians – technically free to practice our faith, yet increasingly self-censoring out of fear. While believers in places like Australia, China, and the Middle East face genuine persecution including imprisonment and death for their faith, many of us remain silent about our beliefs at work, school, or in casual conversations. Why? Because we're afraid of being labeled, rejected, or misunderstood. The episode explores a powerful truth shared by Australian pastor Andrew Sedra: "Our job is to speak truth. God's job is to protect." Through an extraordinary testimony of divine protection from would-be kidnappers in Egypt, we witness how God supernaturally shields those who boldly proclaim His word – even turning potential murderers into devoted followers of Christ. Frank and Darcie challenge listeners to examine whether their tolerance of cultural shifts is rooted in love or fear. Has the church become too comfortable with sin in the name of acceptance? Have we allowed the enemy to reshape our understanding of family, gender, and human dignity without speaking biblical truth in response? Being salt and light isn't just for Sunday mornings. It means carrying our faith to coffee shops, workplaces, grocery stores – wherever we go. You might be the only person who will ever show someone Jesus. Will you remain silent or speak truth in love? Join the Restored Nation in recommitting to boldness without fear. Connect with us on Facebook at The Restored Podcast or email therestoredcast@gmail.com. Share your stories of stepping out in faith – we'd love to hear how God is using you as salt and light in your world.

  6. 05/19/2025

    Jesus Wept, So Why Can't We?

    Send us Fan Mail The inevitable transition from active parenting to empty-nesting stirs up a complex cocktail of emotions that many of us struggle to process. Frank and Darcie Montgomery open up about their painful yet beautiful journey as they prepare for their only son Hayden's high school graduation just days away. Their raw honesty captures the bittersweet reality of watching 18 years of daily hugs and shared moments transform into a new, uncertain chapter. Through tears and vulnerable conversation, the Montgomerys challenge the harmful cultural narrative that strong people—especially men—must suppress their emotions. Looking to Jesus as the perfect model, they remind us that the Son of God himself wept openly, expressed righteous anger, and showed the full spectrum of human feelings throughout his ministry. This powerful biblical perspective affirms that our emotions aren't weakness but God-given signals that deserve acknowledgment and expression. The couple explores the physical and psychological toll of bottling up emotions versus the healing that comes with healthy expression. They distinguish between feeling emotions and being controlled by them, offering practical wisdom for taking your feelings to God for transformation. As they navigate their own identity crisis of "who am I beyond being a parent?" they preview next week's deeper dive into finding our true identity in Christ rather than in temporary seasons or roles. Whether you're facing an empty nest, career transition, or any major life change, this episode offers both comfort and courage for the emotional journey ahead. Send us your stories of restoration or prayer requests at therestoredcast@gmail.com—all prayer requests remain confidential and will be lifted up by Darcie, a passionate intercessor who will stand with you in prayer.

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We are living proof that God can and will restore any life, any marriage, any family that submits to His will.  Join us as we share our testimony of how God can take a situation and restore it to His purpose.