Cases & Cocktails

The Eggleston Law Firm

Cases & Cocktails is your go-to weekly podcast for raw, real, and revealing conversations about family law. Hosted by Bryan & Janice Eggleston of The Eggleston Law Firm, this video and audio podcast brings you expert insights, firsthand experiences, and the untold stories behind high-stakes family law cases. From judges and attorneys to former clients and industry experts, Cases & Cocktails invites a diverse lineup of guests to break down complex legal battles, parental alienation, child custody disputes, and high-conflict divorces—all over a cocktail (or two). Whether you’re facing a legal challenge, working in the legal field, or just fascinated by the drama and dynamics of family law, this podcast serves up valuable insights with a personal touch. 🎙️ New episodes drop every week! Tune in, pour yourself a drink, and join the conversation.

  1. 10H AGO

    Mediation vs. Litigation: Choosing the Right Path to Final Resolution - Ep 61

    In Episode 61 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston dive into one of the most important—and often misunderstood—topics in family law: how cases actually get resolved. Over a tart Raspberry Margarita made with tequila blanco, lime juice, raspberries, and Squirt, the conversation breaks down the realities of mediation, litigation, and why preparation matters far more than people realize.  Ep 61 - audio There Are Only Two Ways to Finish a Case Bryan opens the episode by reminding listeners of a fundamental truth in Texas family law: there are only two ways to finalize a divorce or custody case—by agreement or by court order. An agreement requires the parties themselves to reach common ground. Attorneys can advise, negotiate, and guide, but they cannot force resolution. When agreement isn’t possible, the only remaining option is litigation, whether through a judge, jury, arbitration, or private judge. Why Mediation Is Still Worth It Most counties require mediation before trial, but Bryan and Janice explain that mediation serves a larger purpose than just checking a box. Even when settlement feels unlikely, mediation can clarify issues, reveal the other side’s priorities, and narrow disputes. Bryan emphasizes that preparation for mediation mirrors preparation for trial. Property spreadsheets, documentation, and clear positions are essential. “I don’t want to negotiate something away that I didn’t know existed,” he explains. Janice adds that mediation can feel overwhelming for clients because of the emotional pressure to make decisions quickly. That’s why the firm prepares clients in advance—by walking through potential offers before mediation day—so decisions aren’t made out of panic or exhaustion. Control vs. Chaos One of mediation’s biggest advantages is control. Parties can craft detailed, customized agreements that courts simply don’t have time to create. Trial outcomes, by contrast, can be unpredictable—and sometimes leave both sides unhappy when a judge orders something neither party requested. Mediation also allows clients to prioritize what matters most, even if they don’t get everything they want. As Bryan notes, walking away slightly unhappy often means both sides gained something—and avoided far greater risk. When Mediation Goes Wrong The episode also features candid “mediation horror stories,” including a session in which a client arrived with a toddler in tow and another in which opposing counsel abruptly left late in the evening, ending productive negotiations midstream. Bryan is clear: if attorneys or parties have hard stops, those need to be disclosed upfront. Mediation works best when everyone fully commits to the process. The Takeaway Episode 61 reinforces a critical lesson for anyone in family litigation: mediation and litigation are parallel paths, not shortcuts. Preparation, realism, and understanding the tradeoffs between control and cost are key to making the right choice. As Bryan puts it, mediation isn’t about selling anything—it’s about giving clients informed options and the ability to choose their own outcome whenever possible.

    22 min
  2. Community Property, Prenups, and Big Life Moments: Understanding the Rules Before Divorce - Ep 60

    JAN 31

    Community Property, Prenups, and Big Life Moments: Understanding the Rules Before Divorce - Ep 60

    In Episode 60 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston welcome Natalie Dominic, an attorney at The Eggleston Law Firm, for an educational and lighthearted conversation about community property, separate property, and why understanding these concepts before divorce—or even marriage—can save families significant stress later.  Ep 60 - Audio Over a cleverly named “Split Assets Sour”—a tequila cherry limeade—the episode blends legal education with personal milestones, laughter, and real-world examples that clients face every day. What Is Community Property in Texas? Natalie explains that Texas law starts with a rebuttable presumption: any property acquired during marriage is presumed to be community property. That means it is generally subject to division in divorce—regardless of whose name is on the account, title, or credit card. Separate property, by contrast, must be proven. Assets owned before marriage, or acquired by gift or inheritance during marriage, can remain separate—but only if the spouse claiming it can clearly document when and how it was acquired. Without proof, even separate property can be treated as community. Why Documentation Matters One of the most common struggles in divorce cases, Natalie notes, is that couples are often married for 10, 15, or 20 years before divorcing. By that point, tracking down bank statements or account balances from the date of marriage can be extremely difficult—sometimes impossible. That lack of documentation can be costly. If a spouse cannot prove the separate portion of an asset, the court may presume the entire asset is community property and divide it accordingly. Separate Property That Grows During Marriage The episode also tackles a frequent source of confusion: retirement accounts. Natalie walks through a common scenario—an IRA that existed before marriage but increased significantly during the marriage. While the original balance may remain separate property if proven, any growth, interest, or income earned during the marriage is typically community property and subject to division. This reality often surprises clients who assume that accounts in their name alone remain untouched in divorce. Credit Cards, Fairness, and Reality Another misconception Natalie addresses is debt. Clients often believe that if a credit card is in only one spouse’s name, it belongs solely to that person. In reality, if the debt was incurred during the marriage, it is generally considered community—regardless of whose name appears on the statement. Bryan and Janice also acknowledge that while the law aims for a “just and right” division, that does not always feel fair on a personal level. Divorce property division follows legal rules—not individual moral judgments. Prenups, Transparency, and Planning Ahead The conversation turns personal as Natalie shares her recent engagement, prompting a broader discussion about prenuptial agreements. While prenups often carry stigma, the group emphasizes that they are fundamentally about transparency—understanding what each person brings into a marriage and setting expectations upfront. A prenup doesn’t have to mean keeping everything separate forever. In many cases, it simply identifies separate property and clarifies how future assets will be treated, reducing conflict if divorce ever occurs. The Takeaway Episode 60 reminds listeners that community property rules affect nearly every divorce case in Texas—and misunderstanding them can have serious consequences. Whether through documentation, prenups, or simply informed decision-making, clarity and preparation are powerful tools for protecting yourself and your family.

    26 min
  3. Divorce, Taxes, and Starting the Year Right: A Conversation with CPA Michael Boatwright - Ep 59

    JAN 24

    Divorce, Taxes, and Starting the Year Right: A Conversation with CPA Michael Boatwright - Ep 59

    In Episode 59 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston welcome back one of the show’s most-requested guests—Michael Boatwright, CPA and founder of Boatwright CPA. Known for making taxes surprisingly engaging (and occasionally terrifying), Michael joins the conversation to break down what divorced or newly separated individuals need to know as they head into a new tax year.  Ep 59 - audio Over a bold Hot Honey Peach Margarita, the group dives into filing status pitfalls, dependency disputes, and the financial reality shifts that often follow divorce. Why December 31 Matters More Than You Think Michael explains one of the most misunderstood tax rules: your filing status is determined by your marital status on December 31. If a divorce is finalized before the end of the year, a person may file as single (or head of household, if qualified) for the entire year. If not, they are still considered married—even if separated. This rule alone explains why so many clients rush to finalize divorces before year-end. But Michael cautions that while filing jointly is often financially better overall, many divorcing couples choose filing status for non-tax reasons—usually emotional ones. The Risk of Joint Returns After Divorce Filing jointly requires both spouses to sign and accept joint and several liability, meaning either party can be held responsible for the full tax bill—even years later if the IRS audits the return. Michael stresses that this risk must be fully understood before signing, especially when trust between spouses has already broken down. For CPAs, this creates ethical challenges. Once a couple is divorcing, advising one spouse over the other creates a conflict of interest, often requiring accountants to step back and work directly with attorneys instead. Dependency Claims and IRS Disputes One of the most common post-divorce tax conflicts involves claiming children as dependents. Michael explains that IRS rules rely on facts and circumstances, not just court orders. The parent with the most overnight stays during the year is typically considered the custodial parent for tax purposes—regardless of what the decree says. When one parent improperly claims a child early in the year, the other parent may be forced to file on paper, submit Form 8332, and wait for the IRS to correct the issue. While the IRS will eventually award the credit to the correct parent, the delay can be stressful and financially disruptive. New Reality, New Financial Strategy Divorce often turns a two-income household into one, cuts retirement savings in half, and disrupts credit. Michael emphasizes the importance of updating W-4 withholding immediately after divorce. Employers will not adjust tax withholding unless instructed, which can lead to unpleasant surprises at filing time. He also encourages clients to approach the new year with realism. Budgets change. Cash flow changes. And planning must adapt accordingly. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s avoiding avoidable mistakes. The Takeaway Episode 59 highlights a critical truth: divorce doesn’t end with the final decree. Taxes, finances, and planning decisions made in the months that follow can have long-lasting consequences. With clear guidance and early action, many post-divorce tax disasters can be avoided. As Michael puts it plainly: “There’s always an option—but some options land you in jail.”

    31 min
  4. Hot Takes, Hip-Hop, and Why the 90s Still Win the Music Debate - Ep 58

    JAN 17

    Hot Takes, Hip-Hop, and Why the 90s Still Win the Music Debate - Ep 58

    In Episode 58 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston are joined by producer Josh Sharon for a spirited—and unexpectedly viral—conversation that has nothing to do with divorce and everything to do with music, culture, and hot sports opinions. What began as an off-the-cuff comment in a prior episode exploded online, prompting Bryan to double down (and then triple down) on his stance: the 1990s were the apex of music as a whole, and hip-hop is the most influential genre in history.  Over a fresh Strawberry Paloma, the trio unpacks why this opinion struck such a nerve—and why Bryan refuses to walk it back. Why the Comment Went Viral The original clip—just over a minute long—generated 59 days of watch time, a statistic that stunned everyone involved. Janice jokes that Bryan didn’t realize what he’d unleashed because he doesn’t use social media. Josh, who was front-row for the chaos, heard comments ranging from thoughtful debate to outright threats of bodily harm over music preferences. Despite the reaction, Bryan maintains the point wasn’t about dismissing other eras or genres, but about collective cultural impact. “Not the best individual artist,” he explains, “but the best moment where all genres peaked at the same time.” The Case for the 90s The discussion spans rock, R&B, hip-hop, and pop. Bryan argues that while other decades produced legendary artists, no other era matched the 1990s in cross-genre dominance. Rock was still powerful, R&B groups thrived, pop icons ruled the airwaves, and hip-hop went global. Josh and Janice agree—with caveats. While acknowledging that the 1980s had unbeatable moments and the early 2000s produced strong individual artists, they struggle to name a genre that is stronger today than it was in the 90s. Why Hip-Hop Changed Everything Bryan’s strongest argument centers on hip-hop’s global reach. From clubs in Poland to tour buses in Morocco, he’s witnessed people who don’t speak English recite lyrics from 90s hip-hop classics. That level of cultural penetration, he argues, hasn’t been matched by any other genre. The group also discusses how music consumption has changed—from albums and music videos to singles, ringtones, and streaming—and how that shift has altered creativity. In the 90s, artists built full albums and visual worlds. Today, success is often driven by hooks and algorithms rather than storytelling. Music Videos, MTV, and Cultural Moments One controversial online take suggested music videos “ruined” music. Bryan rejects that outright, pointing to iconic visuals like Thriller, Smooth Criminal, and Wu-Tang Clan’s Triumph as proof that videos elevated music rather than diminished it. MTV, TRL, and shared cultural moments created a communal experience that simply doesn’t exist in the same way today. The Takeaway Episode 58 is a reminder that music is one of the few things that still sparks passionate, cross-cultural conversation. While the debate over decades may never be settled, Bryan’s larger point stands: music once demanded time, attention, and investment—and something has been lost in the convenience of modern consumption. As Bryan puts it, “If we can’t debate music civilly, how do we expect to debate anything else?”

    52 min
  5. A Fresh Start for 2026: Planning Ahead After Divorce - Ep 57

    JAN 3

    A Fresh Start for 2026: Planning Ahead After Divorce - Ep 57

    In Episode 57 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston kick off the new year with a practical, encouraging conversation about reflection, planning, and proactive decision-making after divorce. Over a light and celebratory Fresh Start Spritzer—made with prosecco, elderflower liqueur, lemon juice, and Topo Chico—they focus on how January can set the tone for a healthier, more organized year for parents and children alike.  Why January Matters After Divorce The Egglestons explain that once the holidays end, many parents finally have the mental space to reflect. The chaos slows, kids return to school, and reality sets in. For parents who are newly divorced—or still navigating litigation—this quiet period is an ideal time to look back at what worked, what didn’t, and what needs to change moving forward. Rather than waiting until the next holiday season to address problems, Bryan encourages parents to start early. “If you didn’t like how the holidays went,” he explains, “don’t wait until November to try to fix it.” Courts move slowly, and proactive planning often makes the difference between meaningful change and frustration. Custody Modifications: Start Early, Not Late January is also a strategic time to consider whether existing custody orders still reflect a child’s best interests. Circumstances change—parents remarry, families relocate, kids’ needs evolve, and school or activity schedules shift. Bryan and Janice emphasize that modifications don’t have to be dramatic. Sometimes small changes—like adjusting a weekday exchange or revising summer schedules—can significantly improve stability for children. And when parents can reach agreement, modifications can often be resolved without court battles. Waiting until the last minute, however, can make parents appear reactive rather than thoughtful. Courts are more receptive when changes are requested well in advance and clearly tied to a child’s needs. Financial and Legal Checkups Beyond custody, the Egglestons remind listeners that the beginning of the year is a smart time to revisit finances. Divorce often changes tax filing status, income, and expenses, making early meetings with CPAs or financial advisors especially important. They also highlight one commonly overlooked task: updating wills and estate plans. Many people forget to revise beneficiaries, guardianship designations, and trusts after divorce. January offers a clean slate to make sure everything aligns with current circumstances and protects children appropriately. Small Steps Still Count Janice acknowledges that tackling custody, finances, and estate planning all at once can feel overwhelming—especially for single parents. The key, she says, is not doing everything at once, but simply getting things moving. Scheduling appointments, setting reminders, and creating a loose plan can ease stress and prevent last-minute crises later in the year. The Takeaway Episode 57 is a reminder that a “fresh start” doesn’t require drastic resolutions. Thoughtful reflection, early planning, and small proactive steps can create stability for parents—and security for children—throughout the year ahead. As Bryan sums it up: planning early isn’t about control, it’s about giving yourself and your kids the best chance to succeed.

    16 min
  6. A New Year, Small Changes, and the Power of Being 1% Better Every Day - Ep 56

    12/27/2025

    A New Year, Small Changes, and the Power of Being 1% Better Every Day - Ep 56

    In Episode 56 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston welcome the new year with reflection, humor, and a candid conversation about growth—both personally and professionally. Over a festive holiday cocktail fittingly named “Eggnog & Eggleston”—made with bourbon, eggnog, cinnamon, and nutmeg—the couple looks back on 2025. It discusses how small, intentional changes can make a meaningful difference over time.  Reflecting on a Year of Impact As the conversation opens, Bryan reflects on one of the most unexpected and rewarding aspects of 2025: hearing from people who said the podcast helped them—even if they were never clients of the firm. From parents navigating divorce to individuals feeling isolated in their struggles, listeners expressed gratitude simply for hearing stories that reminded them they weren’t alone. Janice echoes that sentiment, noting how powerful it is when guests are willing to share personal experiences. “It gives people solace,” she explains. “Sometimes hearing someone else say it out loud is exactly what someone needs.” For the Egglestons, this realization reinforced why the podcast matters—not just as an extension of their law practice, but as a way to support families beyond the courtroom. Why Big Resolutions Often Fail Instead of traditional New Year’s resolutions, Bryan and Janice discuss the idea of incremental improvement. Both agree that setting drastic goals—especially during stressful life transitions like divorce or custody disputes—often leads to burnout and disappointment. “Trying to be radically different on January 1 sets people up for failure,” Bryan explains. “It’s the small changes that stick.” They relate this philosophy directly to family law clients. Parents emerging from divorce are often overwhelmed, adjusting to new routines, new emotions, and new responsibilities. Expecting perfection—whether as a parent, co-parent, or individual—is unrealistic. What matters, they say, is doing a little better today than yesterday. Grace, Growth, and Parenting Through Change Janice emphasizes the importance of giving yourself grace, especially when life feels chaotic. “Sometimes it’s just about getting through the day,” she says. “Tomorrow can be a little better.” The couple explains that this mindset benefits not only parents, but children as well. When parents focus on steady improvement rather than perfection, kids experience more stability and less pressure during already difficult transitions. Looking Ahead to 2026 As the episode wraps up, the Egglestons talk about goals for the year ahead—continuing the podcast, growing its reach, and staying grounded in why they do this work. Bryan shares a personal goal of focusing on different areas of life each week: being a better husband, father, friend, and lawyer—without trying to fix everything at once. The episode closes with laughter, lighthearted banter, and optimism for the year ahead. The Takeaway Episode 56 is a reminder that progress doesn’t require perfection. Whether you’re navigating divorce, parenting challenges, or personal change, being 1% better every day is enough. Reflection, grace, and small steps forward can add up to meaningful growth over time. Need Guidance During a Time of Change? The Eggleston Law Firm in Spicewood, Texas, helps families navigate divorce, custody, and co-parenting challenges with clarity, strategy, and compassion. 📞 Learn more at www.lonestarlawfirm.com

    18 min
  7. Giving Back, Holiday Traditions, and the Power of Community - Ep 55

    12/20/2025

    Giving Back, Holiday Traditions, and the Power of Community - Ep 55

    In Episode 55 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston step away from legal topics and lean fully into the spirit of the season—gratitude, generosity, and community. Over a festive Peppermint White Chocolate Cocktail, the couple reflects on holiday traditions, parenting memories, and the incredible impact of a Central Texas initiative that quietly changes lives every year.  Ep 55 - Audio The Holidays Beyond Gifts As Bryan and Janice joke about Christmas movies, candy canes, and last-minute shopping stress, the conversation quickly turns more meaningful. They share that, as a family, they’ve never focused on exchanging gifts with each other. Instead, the holidays have always been about the kids—and about giving back. That mindset leads directly into a heartfelt spotlight on the Stop & Live, Stop & Give Christmas Drive, a community-driven toy and essentials program founded and organized by their producer, Josh, alongside Janice. Now in its 11th year, the drive partners with Communities In Schools and Central Texas school districts to identify children who need help the most. What the Kids Ask For Might Surprise You Rather than extravagant wish lists, many children ask for the basics: SocksJacketsToothbrushesWinter clothingOf course, toys are included—but the real focus is dignity, warmth, and stability. School counselors work directly with students to complete lists in a way that protects their privacy and self-esteem, while sponsors step in to cover the cost. This year alone, the drive is sponsoring 108 children, with each child averaging $100–$150 in support. As the episode unfolds, Bryan commits to sponsoring 10 additional children on the spot, bringing the total even higher. Why It Matters Josh explains that collecting donations is only half the challenge—distribution is the hard part. Coordinating between 15–20 campuses, organizing gifts, and ensuring every child receives exactly what they need requires months of planning and trusted community partnerships. Janice quietly oversees the final checks, redistributing items as needed to ensure no child falls through the cracks. The gifts arrive at the office, fill every corner, and are eventually delivered back through the schools—often without the organizers ever seeing the final moment. And that’s intentional. “I don’t need to see it,” Janice explains. “It’s a lot of feeling. What matters is that it gets done.” A Different Kind of Holiday Tradition For Bryan, the toy drive has become one of the few things that makes the holidays meaningful. While obligatory gift-buying stresses him out, giving with purpose doesn’t. Helping kids who would otherwise go without has become a tradition that grounds the season in something real. The episode closes with humor, movie debates, and holiday well-wishes—but the message is clear: community impact doesn’t require fanfare, only consistency and care. The Takeaway Episode 55 is a reminder that the holidays are about far more than presents. Through small acts repeated year after year, real lives are changed—and kids are reminded they matter. Want to Support the Stop & Live, Stop & Give Christmas Drive? Community sponsorships make this work possible. If you’re interested in helping future drives reach even more children, involvement is always welcome. Need Legal Guidance During the Holidays? The Eggleston Law Firm in Spicewood, Texas, helps families navigate custody, co-parenting, and high-conflict family law issues with compassion and clarity.

    25 min
  8. Holiday Parenting, New Traditions & Managing Stress After Divorce - Ep 54

    12/13/2025

    Holiday Parenting, New Traditions & Managing Stress After Divorce - Ep 54

    In Episode 54 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston share a festive, honest conversation about co-parenting during the holidays, navigating shifting traditions, and helping families find peace and joy after a difficult year. Over a sparkling Holiday Peach Punch—made with Tito’s vodka, peach nectar, lemon juice, and bubbly mineral water—they reflect on Christmas schedules, emotional challenges, and the surprising magic that comes with creating something new.   The Holiday Season After Separation The Egglestons acknowledge what many parents feel but rarely say aloud: sharing holidays for the first time is hard. Christmas morning, once a familiar moment, suddenly looks different. Parents fear missing memories. Children sense the shift. And the anxiety around the Standard Possession Order only adds to the pressure. Bryan breaks down how Christmas possession works in Texas—alternating halves of the holiday break, switching at noon on December 28—but reminds listeners that the order is simply a framework. Families can agree on any arrangement that works for them. “Not everyone celebrates Christmas,” Janice adds. “And not every family wants the same traditions.” Letting Go of the “Day” and Embracing the Moments Many parents struggle with the idea that holidays or birthdays must be celebrated on the exact date. Bryan explains how freeing it can be to detach from the calendar:  “Kids remember the experience, not the date on the clock.” From Christmas celebrations on New Year’s Eve to weekend birthday parties, the Egglestons encourage parents to focus on quality over quantity. And when both households embrace flexibility, children often benefit from twice the joy—not half of it. Co-Parenting Tip: Helping Kids Give Gifts One of the biggest steps toward healthy co-parenting, they explain, is helping children pick out gifts for the other parent. It may feel emotionally challenging during litigation, but it communicates security, permission, and emotional safety to the child. “It normalizes love across households,” Bryan says. “Kids can’t shop alone—they need us to help them show they care about both parents.” This small gesture, they note, can dramatically reduce tension and strengthen the child’s sense of stability. New Traditions, New Joy The Egglestons share personal stories about how their own extended families adapted holiday traditions over the years—celebrating on different days, traveling instead of staying home, and choosing experiences over presents. Janice reflects on a recent client meeting where a mother, once fearful of losing time with her children, now beams as she describes new holiday rituals and improving co-parenting dynamics. “Seeing that transformation is one of the most rewarding parts of this work,” she says. A Lighthearted Look at Holiday Chaos As always, the episode includes humor—assembling toys late at night, trampoline disasters in the living room, Elf on the Shelf antics, and even the great debate over whether the 1990s were the greatest era of music. (Bryan insists they were.) Beneath the laughter is an important truth: holidays after divorce don’t have to be painful—they can be reimagined. Families heal, joy returns, and children thrive when parents lead with flexibility and love. The Takeaway Episode 54 offers encouragement to any parent navigating their first (or fifth) holiday season after separation. Traditions may change, schedules may shift, but meaningful memories come from connection—not perfection. As Bryan concludes, “Enjoy the holidays—however you enjoy them. Make them yours.”

    29 min

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Cases & Cocktails is your go-to weekly podcast for raw, real, and revealing conversations about family law. Hosted by Bryan & Janice Eggleston of The Eggleston Law Firm, this video and audio podcast brings you expert insights, firsthand experiences, and the untold stories behind high-stakes family law cases. From judges and attorneys to former clients and industry experts, Cases & Cocktails invites a diverse lineup of guests to break down complex legal battles, parental alienation, child custody disputes, and high-conflict divorces—all over a cocktail (or two). Whether you’re facing a legal challenge, working in the legal field, or just fascinated by the drama and dynamics of family law, this podcast serves up valuable insights with a personal touch. 🎙️ New episodes drop every week! Tune in, pour yourself a drink, and join the conversation.