Journey to Womanhood: The Stories We Wish We Knew

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Journey to Womanhood is a podcast exploring the raw, real, and inspiring stories of women’s early experiences. Through candid interviews with women from all walks of life, we’re breaking the silence and diving into the conversations that often go unspoken—your first period, self-discovery, pleasure, body image struggles, and first intimate experiences. We unpack the moments that shaped us and reflect on how things could have been more empowering—creating space for growth, healing, and deeper connection. Whether you’re a teen or young woman finding your way, or an adult revisiting the past, this podcast offers wisdom, solidarity, and a safe space to learn and grow. 💫 Let’s break the cycle of shame and confusion and shape a future where every woman feels empowered in her body and experiences. 🔗 Learn more about girls’ circles at: https://journeytowomanhood.org

  1. Daisy

    FEB 14

    Daisy

    In this episode of Journey to Womanhood, Daisy shares a positive story of growing up with trust, openness, and body confidence. Raised in a shame-free home where menstruation, sexuality, and nakedness were spoken about naturally, Daisy experienced early foundations of love, freedom, and self-acceptance. Her school environment reinforced this, with strong peer support and celebration of difference. Daisy reflects on positive early experiences of intimacy, as well as a “grey area” moment, consensual, yet not fully aligned with her heart,  and how even with good boundaries, maintaining them during intimacy can be challenging. This was the first time she experienced shame, offering an important insight for young people and parents alike. She also shares her experience of falling deeply in love with a woman in a long-term same-sex relationship, questioning her sexuality and exploring how emotional connection can feel the same across genders, while sexual experiences can differ. Daisy speaks movingly about her father’s unconditional, non-judgemental love and how it helped her grow into her strength. While her journey included moments of vulnerability and self-consciousness, it is ultimately one of self-acceptance, healing, and learning,  a powerful reminder of how openness, respect, and love shape healthy relationships with our bodies and ourselves.

    53 min

  2. JAN 31

    Libby

    In this episode, we explore how a girl’s understanding of her body is shaped early on, including the impact of never seeing her mother’s period blood, and how openness around menstruation can build confidence and body acceptance. We reflect on how mothers can prepare their daughters without shame or fear, and the importance of honesty in those early years. Our guest shares her struggles with being told to “sit more ladylike” and how subtle messages like these can place heavy expectations on girls. She speaks passionately about letting girls simply be, free from overthinking or adult fears. In a vulnerable and powerful way, she opens up about her sexual journey, how it began disconnected from love, and we explore what can block deeper intimacy. She also shares the shame she carried around pornography and how experiences like these can shape a girl’s self-image and sense of worth into womanhood. We talk about the complex desire to be desired, and how the absence of male attention can trigger feelings of unworthiness. Finally, we touch on the deep vulnerability of young people when exposed to unkind or unloving experiences, and how these moments can leave a lasting imprint. This is a heartfelt conversation about shame, longing, resilience, and the power of being truly seen, inviting us all to reflect on how early experiences shape the women we become.

    1h 16m
  3. Sian's journey

    12/14/2025

    Sian's journey

    In this episode, I speak with Sian, who shares her experience of growing up without any preparation or conversation around her menstrual cycle. There was no guidance, no explanation, and no sense of celebration, only silence. For a young girl, this meant confusion, fear, and learning to hide something natural. Although Sian comes from a Ghanaian family, where a girl’s first bleed is traditionally honoured as a rite of passage, this cultural acknowledgement was absent. Instead, menstruation became something unspoken,  a silence passed through generations of women, carrying shame rather than reverence. Raised as a young Black girl in a predominantly white environment, Sian also learned to make herself less visible. We explore how this shaped her sense of identity and worth, including the difficulty of being seen, receiving compliments, or believing she was enough. Our conversation gently unfolds into how early shame impacted her relationship with her body, pleasure, and intimacy. Sian reflects on patterns of self-abandonment, where love was sought through giving herself away rather than being rooted in self-connection. In trying not to be abandoned, she repeatedly abandoned herself. Now, as an adult woman, Sian is in a process of healing, learning to feel safe, to receive love, and to choose herself. She shares what it has meant to step into a loving partnership for the first time, one grounded in compassion, safety, and self-honouring. Sian shared the following letter: “I’ve had to unlearn the idea that I have to earn love. That I need to prove I’m enough to deserve it. For so long, I bent myself to fit into people’s worlds — just to feel accepted. Now, I’m learning to listen to my own voice. To say no. To rest. To choose me, even if it disappoints others. Loving myself has become less about confidence and more about compassion. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being honest with myself. And that honesty feels like peace.”

    49 min
  4. Heidi

    10/21/2025

    Heidi

    This week, I sit down with my sister and discover parts of her journey to womanhood that I never knew. From the surprise of starting her period at school to how she’s now guiding her daughter with openness and honesty, she shares with such vulnerability and strength. We dive into the innocence of early discoveries, the shame that can come from how we’re taught to view our bodies, and the impact of growing up with early exposure to sexuality. Together, we explore how these experiences shape intimacy, confidence, and the choices women make for themselves. It’s a raw, honest, and inspiring conversation about reclaiming innocence, redefining pleasure, and creating a new path for future generations.

    53 min
  5. Lila's journey

    06/24/2025

    Lila's journey

    In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Lila shares her story as a woman of mixed Portuguese and Cuban heritage, offering insight into her unique path to reclaiming the feminine. She reminds us that education around womanhood, particularly menstrual and body literacy, is just as vital for boys as it is for girls. Lila reflects on a childhood marked by neglect and abuse, and how, in the absence of nurturing care, she has learned to mother herself. Through reframing the menstrual cycle as something empowering and nourishing, she has been able to access a healing quality of the feminine that she never received growing up. She speaks of hormones not as chaotic or inconvenient, but as catalysts for a new phase of empowerment. Her words highlight the profound human need for a mother’s love. She explores the lifelong journey of searching for the love we didn’t receive in childhood, sometimes finding glimpses of it in romantic relationships, but ultimately learning to give ourselves the inner loving mother and father we lacked. Lila also speaks candidly about the shame and fear that accompanied her early experiences of pleasure- feelings shaped by religious messaging and a lack of privacy. Growing up in a predominantly white Portuguese community, she faced internal conflict around identity. Her story of reclaiming and celebrating her African roots, both physically and spiritually, is a moving and important message for any young person of mixed race struggling with visibility and belonging. Her journey toward self-acceptance stands as a powerful reminder that true belonging begins within.

    1h 8m
  6. Petra

    04/07/2025

    Petra

    In this interview, Petra reflects on her evolving body awareness over the years and wonders if this process could have been accelerated with the right education at an earlier age. She opens up about an early sexual experience and discusses the subconscious impact it has had on her. Petra also delves into her exploration of the "inner masculine," and how intimacy can be influenced when there is a lack of this inner strength to guide decisions and take action when needed. The conversation also touches on the challenges of parenting a teenager, particularly dealing with the continuous "no" to everything- a struggle many parents can relate to. Petra also shares the painful experience of seeing her teenager look outward for answers, rather than recognising that everything they are searching for is already within them.

    50 min
  7. Ana S

    04/06/2025

    Ana S

    In this touching interview, Anas discusses the unique challenges of navigating the two worlds of menopause and coming of age, which at times can feel like two opposing journeys. She opens up about her own early experiences with loss and health struggles, which significantly shaped her personal path into womanhood. Ana also reflects on how these experiences have influenced her concerns for her children’s futures. A key takeaway from the conversation is the importance of having a strong, loving, and supportive woman in a teenager's life as they transition into adulthood. Ana emphasizes the critical role of a trusted figure who can offer advice, be a safe space for sharing, and provide emotional support. In the absence of such a role model, she encourages us to actively seek out the support networks that will empower and guide young women through these transformative years.

    48 min

  8. 03/18/2025

    Linda

    In this episode, we sit down with Linda to explore her journey into womanhood. She reflects on how her faith shaped her experience of sexuality—both positively and negatively—and how, despite floating through her teenage years with a sense of ease, she now recognizes what was missing: a deeper connection to her body. We also discuss how media and societal expectations for women have evolved over time. While Linda’s generation may not have been as directly impacted by social media and beauty standards, she shares how she now feels pulled into society’s expectations of what it means to be a beautiful, powerful woman—and questions whether that truly leads to happiness. For younger listeners, this episode offers a powerful opportunity to pause and reflect on your own relationship with your body. If unrealistic media standards and outside pressures didn’t exist, how would you feel about yourself?Imagine how much easier it would be to grow up without constantly comparing yourself to filtered images or expectations of perfection. What would it be like to simply be at home in your body, without judgment? This conversation is a reminder that self-acceptance is a journey—and that true embodiment isn’t about meeting an outside standard but learning to trust, love, and live fully in your own body.

    45 min
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Journey to Womanhood is a podcast exploring the raw, real, and inspiring stories of women’s early experiences. Through candid interviews with women from all walks of life, we’re breaking the silence and diving into the conversations that often go unspoken—your first period, self-discovery, pleasure, body image struggles, and first intimate experiences. We unpack the moments that shaped us and reflect on how things could have been more empowering—creating space for growth, healing, and deeper connection. Whether you’re a teen or young woman finding your way, or an adult revisiting the past, this podcast offers wisdom, solidarity, and a safe space to learn and grow. 💫 Let’s break the cycle of shame and confusion and shape a future where every woman feels empowered in her body and experiences. 🔗 Learn more about girls’ circles at: https://journeytowomanhood.org

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