Baggage Claim

Greg and Jess
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Baggage Claim is a space for blended families, marriage, and friendship.  Here, we dive into real-life conversations about the ups and downs of relationships, from navigating second marriages to unpacking the baggage we all bring. Hosted by Greg and Jessica, who both have rich experiences with love, loss, and family, this community is about sharing stories, learning together, and growing stronger as couples and individuals. Grab a drink and join us as we unpack, laugh, and claim our baggage—one conversation at a time 

  1. Oct 20

    Unmet Holiday Plans Do Not Have To Ruin Your Relationships

    Send us Fan Mail Holiday season can turn grown adults into anxious kids again, especially in a blended family. One text about timing changes, one “we can’t make it”, one tradition that suddenly doesn’t fit anymore, and your brain can sprint straight into hurt, resentment, and worst-case stories. We sit down at our kitchen table and get honest about the part nobody wants to admit: the most stressful piece of the holidays is often the expectation we’re carrying. We swap favorite Thanksgiving traditions, Christmas Eve routines, and the little rituals that made our families feel like family. Then we dig into what happens when those traditions change as kids get older, move out, get married, or start building their own homes. If you’ve ever felt like you’re getting the “crumbs” of time or like you’re losing the version of the holidays you pictured, you’re not alone. We also talk practical blended family holiday survival skills: being proactive with schedules, communicating needs clearly, staying flexible without becoming a pushover, and choosing what to do with the “brick” you get handed when things don’t go your way. And for anyone walking into a first holiday without someone you love, we share how to honor them without letting absence steal the joy the season can still hold. If this helps, subscribe to Baggage Claim, share it with a friend in a blended family, and leave a review so more people can find these conversations. What holiday expectation are you trying to let go of this year? Support the show

  2. Sep 29

    What If The Moment You Want Is Here

    Send us Fan Mail Our studio is a construction zone, so we’re back where this whole thing started: the kitchen table, surrounded by cables, boxes, and real life. What starts as a casual catch-up turns into something deeper after Greg shares a vulnerable moment from a concert a reality check that hit hard: life can change overnight, and we don’t want to sleepwalk through the good parts. If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, distracted, or like your marriage is stuck on the back burner, this conversation will feel familiar. We talk honestly about the pressure of renovating a podcast studio while working full-time jobs, helping family, and trying to keep a home from feeling upside down. Jess shares how clutter and constant disruption affect her, Greg admits how his “sprint” mode can pull him away, and we unpack what that tension looks like in a real marriage. This is relationship advice for busy couples who want better communication, not perfect schedules, and it’s especially relatable for blended families trying to find a rhythm that actually fits. You’ll hear the small practices that help us reconnect when we start drifting, like the simple “I miss you” text, quick dates to reset, and learning to read each other’s signals with kindness. We also zoom out to why we keep building this podcast as a marriage and blended family resource, even when it’s more passion than profit. If you want more honest conversations like this, subscribe, share the episode with a friend, and leave a review so more couples can find it. Support the show

  3. Sep 22

    You Don’t Have To Be Sick To Get Better

    Send us Fan Mail Most couples will train for a job, a sport, or a skill but treat marriage like it should “just work.” We’re flipping that script from our kitchen table while our studio is literally torn apart, because the message matters more than the setup: you don’t have to be sick to get better.  We talk about coaching in real life, from running and nutrition coaching to music and performance feedback to classroom observations. Then we bring it home to relationships, where the stigma is strongest. Why do we wait until the distance feels unbearable before we ask for help? How many unhealthy communication habits do we practice for years just because nobody is there to say, “Have you noticed you always do that?” We also unpack why vulnerability and pride make coaching feel like failure, even when it’s actually a sign of maturity.  We define what we mean by marriage coaching: practical, hands-on, future-focused growth with clear next steps and accountability. We also draw a clear line between coaching and counseling or therapy. Counseling can be life-changing and essential for trauma, mental health needs, or safety concerns. Coaching is about building skills, creating healthier patterns, and getting 1% better with intention.  If you want to grow before a crisis forces your hand, listen now, share it with a friend who needs it, and subscribe for what’s coming next. After you listen, leave a review and join our wait list at unpacktogether.com so we can build this next step together. Support the show

  4. Sep 15

    The Marriage Fix That Starts With You

    Send us Fan Mail If you have ever thought, “We’re doing the date nights, we’re saying the right phrases, we’re trying to communicate, so why does nothing change?” this conversation is for you. We keep seeing couples attempt marriage repair with tools they cannot actually access yet, and it is not because they are lazy or broken. It is because there is an order to healthy relationship growth, and skipping steps quietly sets you up to repeat the same fight with a different headline. We unpack our simple framework for marriages and blended families: You, Us, Family. First, we slow down and look at the “you” work, learning your triggers, naming your default reactions, and tracing where they come from without blaming your spouse. That self-awareness creates emotional safety and reduces the resentment that often hides under “small” arguments about socks, dishes, and schedules. Then we move into the “us” work: staying connected through changing seasons, using realistic date nights, and choosing small habits like 15 minutes of uninterrupted talk to rebuild closeness. Finally, we talk about family culture and leadership at home. Every household has a culture, whether you define it or not, and blended family pressure only amplifies what is already unresolved. We’ll ask the questions that can sting but also unlock change: What does your house feel like right now, and what is your family known for? If you want to go deeper with us, join the wait list at unpacktogether.com for our pilot cohort. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more couples can find practical marriage help. Support the show

  5. Sep 8

    The Invisible Rule Book

    Send us Fan Mail Something is running your marriage that you never agreed to and it is not your spouse. We call it the invisible rule book: the unspoken rules written into you by childhood, past relationships, and the environments that taught you what conflict, love, money, and safety are “supposed” to look like. When those rules go unnamed, you end up fighting about surface stuff and wondering why nothing ever really changes. We break down how this hidden operating system shows up in real life: the urge to defend yourself, the fear behind “we need to talk,” the difference between needing to process versus needing to resolve right now, and why self-reflection feels like self-criticism for so many people. Greg, Jess, and Michael unpack the emotional intelligence it takes to step back, see your patterns clearly, and stop repeating the same argument cycle. Aaron also joins with a blended family perspective that highlights a truth many couples miss: the kids bring rule books too, and guilt parenting can quietly shape expectations for years. You’ll walk away with practical tools for healthier marriage communication and blended family leadership, including prompts to revisit your last conflict, name the real root, and journal or voice-note your emotions before they hijack the moment. We also share a behind-the-scenes invitation to our Baggage Claim Blueprint founder group and why we want real couples to help us “kick the tires” on the process. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more blended families and marriages can find the show. What invisible rule do you think has been running your home? Support the show

  6. Sep 1

    What If Your Marriage Needs A New Dictionary

    Send us Fan Mail A simple question can either bring you closer or blow up your night. We’re digging into the difference between curiosity and surveillance, because “I’m just asking” can sound like care to one person and feel like an interrogation to the other. And if you’ve ever found yourself thinking, Why is my partner so defensive? or Why do I feel attacked when they’re being normal?, you’re not alone. We talk through how trust, jealousy, and old wounds shape the way we hear each other. Sometimes the guardedness isn’t about the current relationship at all, it’s a trauma response from a past one where questions were used as ammunition. We share real stories from our own relationship, including the moments where we had to admit, out loud, what was really happening inside us and then choose transparency anyway. Michael and our guest Wes jump in with honest perspective on vulnerability, communication, and what it looks like to slow down and actually understand your spouse’s heart. Then we zoom out to the patterns that keep couples stuck, like the pursuer-distancer cycle (demand-withdrawal) where one partner presses for connection and the other retreats to stay safe. We also add the blended family layer: co-parenting communication often has to be short, factual, and documented, and that style can accidentally bleed into marriage if you don’t compartmentalize. We end with a practical challenge: don’t try to change everything, start with one small 1% shift and build from there. If this helped, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review. What’s a “curious” question that still hits you like surveillance? Support the show

  7. Aug 25

    Lost In Translation

    Send us Fan Mail One sentence can start a fight, even when nobody meant harm. We’ve both said it and we’ve both heard it the wrong way: “You never talk to me,” “I just need a minute,” “I don’t know how.” What if the problem isn’t your marriage or your blended family, but the fact that you’re speaking different languages with the same words?  We (Greg and Jess) dig into the idea that communication is more than what you say. It’s how you say it, when you say it, and what your partner’s past tells them your words “must” mean. We unpack how the home you grew up in shapes your default conflict style, using the Family Communication Patterns Theory (conversation orientation vs conformity orientation) to explain why one person asks questions to feel close while the other goes quiet to feel safe.  Along the way, Michael and our guest Wes jump in with stories that make the point unforgettable, including a Romania mission trip moment that went very sideways and a hilarious card translation fail. We also share a practical relationship exercise: trade dictionaries by describing the rules of your childhood home when you’re not in the middle of an argument.  This is part one of a two-parter, and we’ll pick up the remaining points next time. Subscribe to Baggage Claim, share this with a friend who keeps getting stuck in the same fight, and leave us a review so more couples can find the conversation. Support the show

  8. Aug 18

    Seasons Of A Blended Family

    Send us Fan Mail The hardest part about marriage is not the hard season, it is the moment you realize you did not prepare for it. We are Greg and Jess, and we built our relationship inside a blended family with four kids, two households, and a whole lot of moving parts. That has taught us one big lesson: every couple hits highs and lows, but stepfamily life adds extra layers that can make the lows feel louder and the transitions feel sudden. We break down the seasons we have lived through, starting with the honeymoon phase that does not look like a clean slate when you are merging homes and custody schedules. We talk honestly about the insider versus outsider dynamic, why “just us” time still matters, and how simple date nights, short trips, and brand-new family traditions can help everyone feel like they belong. Then we move into the tired and busy years where schedules, sports, school, and finances can push the marriage into the background, and we share the kinds of limits that protected our time and our connection. The teen years bring their own rapids, especially when curfews, phones, step-parent authority, and two-household rules collide. We explain why boundaries only work when you actually hold them, and why you may need to renegotiate roles as kids grow. Finally, we talk about the empty nest season and how it can expose whether a marriage was built on shared parenting logistics or a real partnership, plus the blended-family realities of adult kids, holidays, and new traditions. If you want blended family advice that is practical, honest, and proactive, press play. Subscribe for more, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with the season you are in right now. Support the show

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Baggage Claim is a space for blended families, marriage, and friendship.  Here, we dive into real-life conversations about the ups and downs of relationships, from navigating second marriages to unpacking the baggage we all bring. Hosted by Greg and Jessica, who both have rich experiences with love, loss, and family, this community is about sharing stories, learning together, and growing stronger as couples and individuals. Grab a drink and join us as we unpack, laugh, and claim our baggage—one conversation at a time 

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  • Creator
    Greg and Jess
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    82
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Baggage Claim
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    Baggage Claim