Desire Dialogues

Sex Coach Lauren Nicole | LNG coaching
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🎙️ Welcome to Desire Dialogues I'm your host and passionate love guru S.ex Coach Lauren with LNG coaching. Stay in the loop with for new episodes at https://www.facebook.com/share/1BWpnXg1Zc/ Expect transparent chats, like coffee talks with your bestie. Dive into adult sex education without the jargon understand the body's pleasure anatomy in grandma-friendly terms. Get ready for candid, truth-dropping conversations. From seduction to intimacy, we'll elevate your love life from "meh" to "marvelous"! Discover your Sensual Archetype https://coachlaurengoyette.systeme.io/optin-e886c102

  1. Sep 3

    Why Shame Can Actually Intensify Sexual Desire | Fantasy, Taboo & Sexual Shame

    Can shame actually make a sexual desire feel stronger? In this episode, Sex, Love & Relationship Coach Lauren Goyette explores the complicated relationship between sexual shame, fantasy, taboo, curiosity, secrecy, and desire. Why does telling yourself “I shouldn't want this” sometimes make the thought even harder to ignore? Does having a fantasy mean you actually want to experience it in real life? And what happens when we stop asking “What's wrong with me?” and start getting curious about what our desires might actually mean? In this episode, we explore: ✨ The difference between guilt and shame ✨ Why trying not to think about something can keep it psychologically active ✨ Why fantasy doesn't automatically equal intention ✨ The role of taboo, secrecy, novelty, and emotional intensity ✨ Why intensity doesn't always mean preference ✨ Questions to ask instead of “Is this normal?” ✨ How curiosity can create more self-awareness than shame Your sexuality isn't a morality test. Your fantasies aren't a character assessment. And having a thought doesn't mean you have to act on it. Let's get curious instead of judgmental. ❤️ Explore The Pleasure Collective A space for sexuality, relationships, self-discovery, conversations, and continued learning. 🌟 Join The Pleasure Collective: https://www.laurengoyette.com/pc 🔥 Take Our Relationship to the Next Level Explore my coaching, resources, podcast, social media, and more: 🌟 All My Links: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette Subscribe for more conversations about sex, love, relationships, communication, desire, intimacy, and being unapologetically curious about yourself. --- ## Hashtags #Sexuality #SexualShame #SexualDesire #SexPositive #SexEducation #SexualWellness #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Fantasy #SexualFantasy #Kink #Intimacy #SelfDiscovery #Pleasure #ModernRelationships #SexCoach #RelationshipCoach #LaurenGoyette

  2. Aug 24

    Are You Avoidant… or Are You Just Not Interested? Attachment Styles

    Attachment styles have become very popular in modern dating conversations. Someone pulls away? Avoidant. Someone needs space? Avoidant. Someone doesn't text back? Emotionally unavailable. Someone breaks up with you? Time to send their behavior to the group chat for a full psychological evaluation. 😂 But what if the answer isn't always attachment style? In this episode, we're talking about the difference between avoidance, disinterest, incompatibility, overwhelm, inconsistent behavior, and genuine difficulty with emotional intimacy. We'll explore: ✨ What attachment theory can and can't tell us ✨ Why pulling away doesn't automatically mean someone is avoidant ✨ The anxious/avoidant cycle and why context matters ✨ When "they're avoidant" becomes a way to hold onto hope ✨ Why understanding someone's behavior doesn't mean you have to accept it ✨ How to separate what you know from what you're assuming ✨ Why confusion is sometimes information ✨ Communication scripts for asking for clarity ✨ How to stop doing unpaid emotional detective work 😂 ✨ And the question that might matter more than figuring out WHY they're doing it: Is this relationship experience actually working for me? Because you don't need to diagnose another person to pay attention to how their behavior affects you. And you don't need to completely understand WHY someone can't give you what you need in order to decide that you need something different. Let's talk about it. ✨ Ready to explore your sexuality, relationships, and intimacy on a deeper level? Join The Pleasure Collective: (https://www.laurengoyette.com/pc Take your relationship to the next level + explore all my links: Lauren's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #AnxiousAttachment #DatingAdvice #ModernDating #RelationshipAdvice #RelationshipCoach #EmotionalIntimacy #EmotionalAvailability #Communication #HealthyRelationships #DatingPatterns #RelationshipPatterns #SelfAwareness #EmotionalWellbeing #LoveAndRelationships #SexLoveAndRelationships #PleasureCollective #LaurenGoyette

  3. Aug 14

    Feeling Disconnected From Your Partner? When Touch & Attention Disappear

    When Affection Disappears in a Relationship | The Silent Disconnect You aren't fighting. Nothing *major* happened. But somewhere along the way... The kisses got shorter. The cuddling disappeared. You stopped checking in. You sit beside each other while staring at separate screens. And suddenly you're wondering: When did we become so disconnected? In this episode of Desire Dialogues we're talking about The Silent Disconnect: the slow loss of touch, attention, affection, and everyday connection that can happen in long-term relationships. We're getting into: ✨ Why disconnection can happen so gradually you barely notice it ✨ What happens when affection and attention stop being part of everyday life ✨ How small resentments can create emotional distance ✨ Why feeling seen and wanted matters for desire ✨ Why rebuilding intimacy doesn't have to start in the bedroom ✨ How tiny rituals of connection can begin closing the gap And I'm giving you a simple challenge: Choose ONE intentional moment of connection every day. A real kiss goodbye. A hand on their back while you're cooking. A genuine compliment. A 20-second hug. Two uninterrupted minutes asking, "How are you actually doing?" Because rebuilding intimacy doesn't always require some giant romantic gesture. Sometimes it starts with noticing each other again. 🌿 Want to understand what helps YOU feel connected and desired? Take my free Sensual Archetype Quiz for a shortcut into understanding some of the conditions, experiences, and types of connection that help desire come alive for you. You'll find the quiz, The Pleasure Collective, private coaching, and all my resources here: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette 🎙️ Desire Dialogues with Lauren Goyette: Conversations about sex, desire, relationships, intimacy, communication, and learning what the hell actually works for YOU #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationshipConnection #Affection #LongTermRelationships #Intimacy #CouplesCommunication #DesireDialogues

  4. Aug 7

    What happens when one person wants sex more often than the other?

    One partner starts feeling rejected. The other starts feeling pressured. Before long, you're stuck in a cycle where the more one person pursues, the more the other pulls away. In this episode of Desire Dialogues with sex coach Lauren, we're talking about mismatched desire and why having different desire levels doesn't automatically mean you're sexually incompatible. We get into: ✨ The chaser/avoider cycle ✨ Why sexual rejection can feel so personal ✨ How pressure can make desire even harder to access ✨ How resentment starts building on BOTH sides ✨ Why desire naturally changes with stress, hormones, relationships, and different seasons of life ✨ How to create connection without making every intimate moment lead to sex And I'm giving you one simple question to try with your partner: "What kind of connection feels good for you tonight?" Because intimacy doesn't have to be a yes/no question about sex. Sometimes creating more room for connection is exactly what allows desire to breathe again. 🌿 Want to understand your own desire better? 🤔 Take my free Sensual Archetype Experience to discover some of the conditions, experiences, and types of connection that may help desire come alive for you. You can find the quiz, The Pleasure Collective, private coaching, and all my other resources here: [Lauren's Linktree](https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette 🎙️ Desire Dialogues with Lauren Goyette Conversations about sex, desire, relationships, intimacy, communication, and understanding yourself a little f*****g better. #MismatchedLibido #SexDrive #MismatchedDesire #RelationshipAdvice #Intimacy #SexualDesire #CouplesCommunication #DesireDialogues

  5. Aug 1

    How to Say What You Need Without Your Partner Getting Defensive

    Ever try to tell your partner what you need and somehow end up in a completely different argument? You aren't necessarily bad at communicating. You may be stuck in a communication trap.. In this episode of Desire Dialogues, we're talking about why seemingly simple conversations can trigger defensiveness, how blame, mind reading, avoidance, and old relationship patterns get in the way, and what happens to intimacy when needs repeatedly go unheard. You'll also learn my Clear + Safe Request formula for expressing what you need without immediately putting your partner on defense: ✨ State what happened without judgment ✨ Share how you feel ✨ Make a clear request Because good communication isn't about saying everything perfectly. It's about creating enough safety for both people to actually hear each other. 🌿 Ready to explore your relationships, pleasure, desire, and intimacy more deeply? Find my free resources, Sensual Archetype Quiz, Pleasure Collective, coaching, podcast, and more here: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette Sex. Desire. Relationships. Communication. And the conversations we probably should have learned how to have a long time ago. #RelationshipAdvice #CommunicationSkills #CouplesCommunication #Relationships #Intimacy #RelationshipCoach #HealthyRelationships #DesireDialoguespodcast

  6. Jul 31

    What Your Sexual Fantasies Really Mean (And What They DON'T) | Sex Ed for Adults Part 17

    Have you ever worried about your sexual fantasies? Maybe you've wondered: 💭 Am I weird? 💭 Would I actually want this in real life? 💭 Does this mean something is wrong with me? 💭 Does this mean I'm unhappy in my relationship? 🎁 FREE GUIDE:Where Did My Desire Go?https://www.laurengoyette.com/2e56221d 🔗 Connect with Lauren:https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette Instagram: @laurengoyette_ #SexEdForAdults #SexualFantasy #SexPositive #DesireDialogues #RelationshipAdvice #Intimacy #SexEducation #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalConnection #PleasureIsYourBirthright #FemaleDesire #LowLibido #MentalHealth #SelfCompassion #CuriosityOverJudgment

  7. Jul 24

    Why Arousal Is a Process, Not a Switch and Why Your Body Needs More Than 5 Minutes to Get Turned On | Sex Ed for Adults Part 16

    Why does arousal seem to take so long? Have you ever wondered: ✨ Why am I not turned on yet? ✨ Why does it take me longer than it used to? ✨ Why do I love my partner but struggle to get in the mood? ✨ What's wrong with me? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of Sex Ed for Adults, we're exploring one of the biggest misconceptions about desire and arousal: the idea that our bodies should work like light switches. Because what if arousal isn't something that's simply "on" or "off"? What if it unfolds? In this episode, we'll talk about: 💚 Why arousal is a process, not a switch 💚 Why stress, mental load, hormones, and life circumstances matter 💚 Dr. Emily Nagoski's concept of accelerators and brakes 💚 Why physical and mental arousal don't always match 💚 Why foreplay is much bigger than a few minutes before sex 💚 How pressure and performance anxiety interfere with pleasure 💚 A better question to ask than, "What's wrong with me?" Because most people aren't broken. They're exhausted, distracted, overwhelmed, or expecting their bodies to behave like machines instead of something living and responsive. And bodies are often much wiser than we give them credit for. FREE GUIDE: Where Did My Desire Go? If you've been wondering where your desire went—or feeling confused about changes in your libido and intimacy—download my free guide: 👉 https://www.laurengoyette.com/2e56221d 🔗 Connect with Me Linktree: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette #Arousal #FemaleDesire #Libido #SexPositive #Pleasure #SexCoach #RelationshipCoach

  8. Jul 17

    Why Pleasure Isn't Selfish (And Why So Many Women Feel Guilty About Wanting More) | Sex Ed for Adults Part 16

    Have you ever felt guilty for wanting more? More pleasure. More rest. More affection. More intimacy. More time. More support. In this episode of Sex Ed for Adults, relationship coach and sexuality educator Lauren Goyette explores why pleasure isn't selfish—and why so many adults struggle to receive, express their needs, and take up space in their relationships. We'll talk about: 💚 The messages many of us received about putting others first 💚 Why receiving can feel uncomfortable 💚 The hidden cost of chronic self-sacrifice 💚 Why pleasure is valuable information 💚 Why intimacy requires allowing yourself to be known Because you don't have to disappear to deserve love. And you don't have to abandon yourself to be a good partner. 🎁 FREE GUIDE: Where Did My Desire Go? https://www.laurengoyette.com/2e56221d 🔗 Connect with Lauren: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette Instagram: @laurengoyette_ #PleasureIsYourBirthright #SexEdForAdults #RelationshipAdvice #Intimacy #SelfWorth #Women'sWellness #PeoplePleaser #EmotionalConnection #DesireDialogues #SexPositive #SelfCare #PersonalGrowth

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🎙️ Welcome to Desire Dialogues I'm your host and passionate love guru S.ex Coach Lauren with LNG coaching. Stay in the loop with for new episodes at https://www.facebook.com/share/1BWpnXg1Zc/ Expect transparent chats, like coffee talks with your bestie. Dive into adult sex education without the jargon understand the body's pleasure anatomy in grandma-friendly terms. Get ready for candid, truth-dropping conversations. From seduction to intimacy, we'll elevate your love life from "meh" to "marvelous"! Discover your Sensual Archetype https://coachlaurengoyette.systeme.io/optin-e886c102

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  • Creator
    Sex Coach Lauren Nicole | LNG coaching
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    147
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Sex Coach Lauren Nicole | LNG coaching
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    Desire Dialogues