How do you nurture independent, confident daughters while creating a deep, lasting relationship as a father? That's the question at the heart of the Dad and Daughter Connection, hosted by Dr. Christopher Lewis—and in a recent episode, guest Art Eddy, host of the Art of Fatherhood podcast, shares relatable, hard-earned wisdom every dad (and parent) can appreciate. Cherishing the Small Moments One central theme is the value of everyday experiences—the dinners, shared jokes, and simple activities that reveal how "the small things make the big impact" in your relationship. Art Eddy recounts favorite moments: attending chorus performances, bonding at Bruins games, and even just sharing movie nights or video games at home. These aren't grand gestures, but they're where connection is built. Letting Go and Fostering Independence A recurring challenge, as discussed by both Dr. Christopher Lewis and Art Eddy, is finding the right balance between protecting your kids and gradually letting go. With both dads preparing for daughters to leave for college, they reflect on that poignant "crossroads"—learning to trust the foundation you've laid, and accepting that your children need space to stretch, fail, and grow. Art Eddy shares a particularly touching story about watching his daughter walk a college campus by herself for the first time, a real-life metaphor for this parental transition. The Power of Listening and Honest Conversation Listening—truly hearing your daughter, not just advising her—is another core message. Art Eddy emphasizes "two ears, one mouth—listen more, talk less," offering support when asked, and encouraging self-reflection instead of top-down instruction. This nurtures strong communication and respect, especially as children become teens and young adults. Imperfectly Present Both speakers candidly share their own mistakes, whether it's not asking for help, occasional impatience, or the struggle of balancing technology and quality time. The takeaway? No one is perfect, and being present—putting the phone down, engaging authentically—is what matters most. Fatherhood Is for Every Dad Finally, Art Eddy speaks passionately about celebrating diverse stories, real fatherhood from all walks of life, and creating positive, supportive communities for dads. If you're a dad (or parent) looking for practical wisdom, honest conversation, and plenty of heart—and maybe a few laughs—the Dad and Daughter Connection is for you. Listen in, and start building those small moments that make the biggest difference. If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X. TRANSCRIPT Art Eddy [00:00:02]: Welcome to the dad and Daughter Connection, the podcast for dads who want to Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:05]: build stronger bonds and raise confident, independent daughters. If you're looking to build a stronger bond with your daughter and help her grow into a confident, independent woman, you're in the right place. I'm Dr. Christopher Lewis, and the dad and Daughter Connection is the podcast where we dive into real stories, expert advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the incredible journey of fatherhood. In every episode, we'll bring you conversations that inspire, challenge, and equip you to show up as the dad your daughter needs. So let's get started, because being a great dad isn't just about being there. It's about truly connecting. Welcome back to the dad and Daughter Connection, where every week I love that you show up. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:56]: You're showing up not only to learn, to grow, to be able to be that dad that you want to be, but you're showing up for your daughters. Because every week you have an opportunity to be able to learn something new, to be able to meet new people, people that have gone through what you're going through, people that have something that they can share with you to help you to be that dad that you want to be. That's why this podcast exists. This podcast is here to be able to help you build those strong connections with your daughters who one day at a time. Because it's not always going to be roses, it's not always going to be easy, but showing up, being there, and being willing to put in the work, you're going to have a ton of dividends in the end. That's why every week, I love being able to bring you different people with different experiences, people that can give you some of their own experiences as being either dads, two daughters, or other people with resources that can help you to be that dad. Today we've got another great guest, Art. Eddie is with us. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:55]: Art and I have known each other for a long time. He is a father of two daughters. He's also the host of the Art of Fatherhood podcast. Great podcast. If you haven't listened to it, definitely check it out and we'll be talking about that. But as I said, he's a father of two daughters. So we're gonna learn a little bit more about his own parenting journey, and I'm really excited to have him here. Art, thanks so much for being here. Art Eddy [00:02:17]: Chris, appreciate being on the show. Love the work that you're doing. It's always good to catch up. Even before we started recording, we had like a 30 minute, like, awes podcast of just a reunion podcast. It was so good, man. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:29]: It really was. And we didn't record it. We probably shouldn't have recorded it. Art Eddy [00:02:33]: Yeah. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:35]: But it was still fun. Art Eddy [00:02:36]: Yeah. No, it's good, though, because, like, I miss these connections. I miss, like, you know, I mean, we were just talking about how fast time flies with our, you know, your daughter is in college. My daughter, my oldest. Your oldest is in college. My oldest is going to be going to college in the fall of this year. And it's just like, where'd the time go, man? Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:55]: Oh, the time just flies by. I mean, my youngest is going to college this fall, too, so our daughters are my youngest. Your oldest are both the same age, so we'll be going through that together as well. And things change, I tell you. I. I'm. I'm a little nervous about the empty nesting type of thing going on to see kind of what that dynamic brings. It's definitely going to be a lot quieter in the house, and I don't really know what to expect yet. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:03:23]: So it's gonna be a different situation at home, you know, and your relationship with your significant other is gonna change in different ways because you don't have the kids around to be a part. And the things that you focus your time in also change because for so many years, as you know, I mean, we put all this time and effort into raising our kids to being there for their activities and their. And the things that are important to them. And then as they go away, then we have to, we have to do other things. And, you know, we're focusing back on each other and going back to the beginning and, and really. And it's just different. So it's going to be interesting. Art Eddy [00:04:01]: No, 100%. Like, things, like, all right, how do you do things? Like, my wife and I got a little taste of it a couple weekends ago. Like, my daughters were hanging out with, like, some of their friends together, and they had like a sleepover like a Friday night. And they had something all the way through, like, Saturday. And it was just like, like Saturday night. And my wife, like, this is what it's going to be like, huh? We had, we went to go see a movie. We had like a nice breakfast together on Saturday morning. I was like, this is cool. Art Eddy [00:04:27]: But we also miss, like, it was funny. Like, one of the things, like, I love hanging out with my daughters, but, like, one of the college visits, they separated the, the parents and the kids. The kids were doing like these different, like, one on one interviews with some of the admins and we had the adults, like, getting in this one room to kind of talk and, like, this one, like, couple song. They're like, I can't wait. You know, this is my last kid. And then, like, I get to, like, take care of their room and change it into, like, their gym. We're so excited. And it was like, yeah, I can't wait. Art Eddy [00:04:55]: I'm like, what? I was like, oh, my gosh. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:05:00]: I can't say that I. I can't wait. I mean, I. I am going to miss having them around. Art Eddy [00:05:05]: Yeah. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:05:05]: I mean, there are days. I think we both know that there are days. Art Eddy [00:05:09]: Yes. But I had one day yesterday, actually, where I had to go search everywhere for a broken. For a. To replace a broken dryer knob that was like, I didn't want to, like, pay or, like, get some sketchy thing from, like, a secondary source. So like, I found here in, like, North Carolina, a place that, like, sold that stuff. But I had to, like, take time out of my day, then fix it. I was like, ah. I didn't like this. Art Eddy [00:05:33]: My day just got totally upside down. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:05:36]: I know that you're really engaged with your daughters, and you have had some amazing moments with them throughout their lives. As you think about some of those moments and some of those moments that have been most meaningful for you, what's one of the most meaningful moments that you would say that you've shared with your daughters and what made it so special? Art Eddy [00:05:54]: Yeah, for me, I would probably say, you know, as a collective, when
