Love Psycho

Juan L Rivera

Love Psycho is a bold and witty podcast that explores the wild, messy, and fascinating world of love, dating, and human behavior. With humor and insight, it dives into the psychology behind relationships, obsession, and everything in between.

  1. 1D AGO

    Avoidant Attachment featuring Healing with Charlie

    Send us Fan Mail In Episode 2 of Love Psycho, we explore one of the most confusing and emotionally charged dynamics in dating—avoidant attachment. Why do some people pull away when things start to feel real?  Why does intimacy feel overwhelming instead of safe?  And why do we keep getting attached to people who can’t fully show up? Juan sits down with Healing With Charlie to break down the psychology behind avoidant behavior—and how it impacts love, sex, and emotional connection. 🎧 What We Cover  What avoidant attachment really looks like in modern dating  Why avoidants crave connection—but resist it at the same time  The anxious + avoidant cycle (and why it’s so addictive)  Emotional unavailability vs. emotional self-protection  How avoidants experience love, sex, and vulnerability  Why they pull away after moments of closeness  Can avoidants change? What healing actually requires  How to deal with an avoidant partner without losing yourself  When to stay… and when to walk away 👤 About the Guest Healing With Charlie is a content creator focused on helping people navigate breakups, no-contact, and attachment styles with clarity and self-respect. With an audience of over 150,000, Charlie is known for turning complex emotional patterns—especially anxious and avoidant dynamics—into practical, actionable advice. His work empowers people to heal, rebuild confidence, and approach relationships from a more secure and grounded place. 🌐 Connect with Healing With Charlie  Website: https://www.healingwithcharlie.co/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@healingwithcharlie  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@healingwithcharlie 💭 Why This Episode Matters If you’ve ever felt confused by someone who is hot and cold…  emotionally distant…  or gives you just enough to keep you attached… This episode will give you clarity. Because understanding attachment isn’t about labeling people—  it’s about understanding patterns so you can finally break them. 📲 Follow & Connect Follow the podcast on Instagram: @lovepsychopodcast 🔥 Call to Action If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it—and don’t forget to rate and review Love Psycho. Because the more aware you are of your patterns…  the less power they have over you.

    1h 8m
  2. 05/30/2025

    Ep.17: Pyschoanalysis of Sex and The City! Season 1 Finale

    Send us Fan Mail Season Finale with NYC-Based Psychotherapist Emine Tahiraj In our season finale, we’re going deep into the cosmos of cosmos 🍸 and complex female friendships as we psychoanalyze the iconic HBO series Sex and the City. Juan sits down with NYC-based psychotherapist Emine Tahiraj to dissect the emotional, psychological, and cultural layers of Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte, and Samantha—and the men who orbit their world. Together, they explore: The attachment styles of each character (Carrie’s anxious much?)How therapy is portrayed (and avoided) in the seriesWhy Mr. Big is basically a walking trauma bondWhether you're a Charlotte with a Miranda moon or a full-blown Samantha rising, this episode will give you a new lens on a show that shaped a generation. 💭 Spoiler alert: You might never look at “I couldn’t help but wonder…” the same way again. Guest Bio: Emine Tahiraj, LMHC Emine is a licensed psychotherapist based in New York City, specializing in relationships, identity, and trauma. She brings a thoughtful, no-BS approach to therapy and cultural commentary—and happens to know a thing or two about emotional baggage in Manolos. Email: etahirajtherapy@gmail.com Instagram: @mindtheorypsychoanalysis Website: https://www.eminetahiraj.com/  Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/emine-tahiraj-new-york-ny/781154  💌 Follow us on Instagram: @lovepsychopodcast  📩 Got a topic for next season? Email us at lovepsychopodcast@gmail.com  🎧 Subscribe, rate, and share to keep the love (and psychoanalysis) going.

    1h 2m
  3. 05/23/2025

    Ep.16: Relaciones Abiertas, Poliamor y Autoconocimiento Sexual con Yahira Reyes

    Send us Fan Mail  Relaciones Abiertas, Poliamor y Autoconocimiento Sexual con Yahira Reyes (@misexologapr) Podcast: Love Psycho En este episodio candente y lleno de insights, converso con la sexóloga puertorriqueña Yahira Reyes (@misexologapr) sobre temas que siguen generando curiosidad, mitos y, a veces, miedo: relaciones abiertas, poliamor y el autoconocimiento sexual. 💬 ¿Se puede amar a más de una persona a la vez?  💬 ¿Cómo saber si una relación abierta es para ti?  💬 ¿Qué papel juega el autoconocimiento en nuestra vida sexual? Yahira comparte su perspectiva profesional y humana sobre cómo construir vínculos más auténticos, cómo comunicar deseos y límites, y por qué es tan importante conocerse antes de compartirnos con otros. 🔑 Temas que tocamos: Qué es y qué no es el poliamorRelaciones abiertas vs infidelidadLa importancia de la honestidad emocionalMitos comunes sobre la no-monogamiaAutoconocimiento sexual y crecimiento personalHerramientas para comenzar a explorar tus deseosEste episodio es para ti si:  👉 Te interesa aprender sobre nuevas formas de relacionarte  👉 Estás explorando tu identidad y tus deseos  👉 Quieres tener conversaciones más honestas sobre sexo y amor 🎧 Dale play y prepárate para cuestionarte, reírte y aprender. 📲 Sigue a Yahira Reyes en Instagram: @misexologapr 📩 ¿Preguntas o temas que quieres que toquemos? Escríbeme a lovepsychopodcast@gmail.com LinkTree de MiSexolgaPR- Click here #LovePsychoPodcast #RelacionesAbiertas #Poliamor #Sexologia #PuertoRico #AutoconocimientoSexual #YahiraReyes #PodcastLatino #NoMonogamiaÉtica

    1h 5m
  4. 05/16/2025

    Ep. 15: Fit to Love: Attraction, Confidence & the Body with Edward Carrington

    Send us Fan Mail 🎙️ Love Psycho — Episode Title: "Fit to Love: Attraction, Confidence & the Body with Edward Carrington" Guest: Edward Carrington, Equinox Trainer 🧠 Episode Theme: What does fitness really have to do with love? In this episode of Love Psycho, host Juan dives deep into the connection between physical health, body image, and emotional intimacy with Equinox trainer Edward Carrington. From gym floors to romantic first impressions, Edward shares how fitness shapes not only our physiques but also our confidence, communication, and the way we approach relationships. Whether you're navigating a glow-up, battling body dysmorphia, or simply curious about how to bring more self-love into your dating life—this conversation gets real. 🎧 In This Episode, We Cover: How working out can reshape more than just your bodyThe link between confidence and romantic chemistryOvercoming shame and societal pressures about appearanceEdward’s take on “attracting what you reflect”Fitness as a form of emotional regulation and self-respectAdvice for anyone trying to date while working on themselves📲 Connect with Edward Carrington: Instagram: @erc143 Trainer at Equinox, Daily Burn, and The DB Method App 💘 Follow & Subscribe: If this episode made you think (or sweat), be sure to subscribe, rate, and share Love Psycho. New episodes drop weekly—deep dives, sharp laughs, and honest talks about love in all its forms.

    57 min
  5. 04/19/2025

    Ep. 12: When Love Triggers Trauma

    Send us Fan Mail  🧠💘 with Psychologist Michael Snipe, Jr., MFT of Equity Therapy Episode Summary: Sometimes love doesn’t feel like butterflies — it feels like panic. In this powerful episode of Love Psycho, host Juan sits down with therapist and relationship expert Michael Snipe, Jr. (he/they) from Equity Therapy to explore what happens when romantic connection collides with unresolved trauma. Why do some relationships feel like emotional rollercoasters? Why do we find ourselves stuck in patterns that feel both familiar and painful? And how do we begin to tell the difference between real love and trauma reenactment? Michael brings their warm, grounded insight to help us unpack the psychology behind trauma responses in love — and what healing actually looks like in a relationship. In this episode, we explore: What it really means to be triggered in loveThe difference between trauma bonds and genuine intimacyHow attachment styles and nervous system dysregulation play into romantic dynamicsWhy intensity is not the same as connectionGrounding tools to help navigate emotional landmines in relationshipsAbout our guest: Michael Snipe, Jr. (he/they) is a licensed marriage and family therapist with a trauma-informed, queer-affirming lens. Through their work at Equity Therapy, Michael helps individuals and couples navigate identity, relationships, and the lingering effects of trauma — all while centering liberation, self-compassion, and emotional safety. Listener Takeaways: How to recognize when your trauma is being activated in loveTools to ground yourself and break free of harmful patternsTips for building emotionally safe relationships, even while healingResources & Mentions: Michael’s practice: https://www.equitytherapy.com/Follow Michael on Instagram: @msjr11Recommended reading: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der KolkCrisis Text Line – text HOME to 741741 (free, 24/7 mental health support)

    39 min

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Love Psycho is a bold and witty podcast that explores the wild, messy, and fascinating world of love, dating, and human behavior. With humor and insight, it dives into the psychology behind relationships, obsession, and everything in between.