The Secret Life of TK Dutes

Philo's Future Media
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The Secret Life of TK Dutes is the story of what it means to become when the system won’t let you be. One woman sets out into the world, looking for ways to get ahead as an Artist. Producer. Daughter, Sister. Partner. Together with those who bear witness, TK throws away the scripts and looks for answers, in airports, dentists offices, across borders. Each episode is a new world, pioneering the art of loose autobiography to build the picture of a life in a community of voices. What happens when you stop doing what is expected of you and start doing YOU? A better life can be a hustle. It doesn’t have to be a secret.

Episodes

  1. Bonus Ep: God Quest - A Studio Visit with Élan Cadiz

    FEB 12 · BONUS

    Bonus Ep: God Quest - A Studio Visit with Élan Cadiz

    In this God quest (not-so-mini) bonus episode of The Secret Life of TK Dutes, TK pulls up to artist Élan Cadiz’s Harlem studio for a loose, unfiltered conversation about art, family, and what it means to embody an object. What starts as curiosity- sparked by episode 2 with Nicole Crowder, has TK following the thread to deeper reflection on comfort, lineage, and the expectation of being used as a tool. Élan breaks down her project An American Family Album, where family members are rendered as chairs- revealing how we see ourselves and what we carry. TK shares why following the “God quest,” even without a plan, has become essential to her healing from burnout. Pull up a chair it's time for art therapy. Follow Élan Cadiz: https://www.instagram.com/elancadizLearn more about An American Family Album: https://www.elancadiz.com/an-american-family-albumRead the Vogue feature: https://www.vogue.com/article/artist-turning-family-into-chairs 📚 Élan's Library 📚   Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto Author: Tricia Hersey Link: https://thenapministry.com/rest-is-resistance  Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty Author: Dorothy Roberts Link: https://thenewpress.com/books/killing-black-body The Prophet Author: Kahlil Gibran Link: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/317488/the-prophet-by-kahlil-gibran/  How I Became a Ghost Author: Tim Tingle Link: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/228584/how-i-became-a-ghost-by-tim-tingle/ Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches Author: Audre Lorde Link: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/193060/sister-outsider-by-audre-lorde/ ------------ Special thanks to Amy of Velma Jean Flowers for calling the Secret Life Lifeline and for lifting up Sara Ahmed’s Living a Feminist Life this episode. Your reflection helped shape this conversation. 📞 You can call or text The Secret Life Line like Amy did at (929) 551-4363, or leave a voice note at philosfuturemedia@gmail.com. ⭐ If you want to help us become an award-winning podcast, rate + review the show wherever you listen and consider becoming a Patreon member at 👉🏾 https://www.patreon.com/SecretLifeofTKYour support helps us enter award categories so they can put some respect on our names. This bonus episode was produced by Tre’ Jones Hosted and Executive Produced by Keisha TK Dutes of Philo's Future MediaPost-production audio by Manny Faces. Next time we meet, we take a moment for grief in Episode 3 — coming soon. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    46 min
  2. Ep 2: An Invitation to Sit ft. Nicole Crowder

    JAN 6

    Ep 2: An Invitation to Sit ft. Nicole Crowder

    Burnout doesn’t always announce itself.Sometimes it just asks you to sit down. In this episode of The Secret Life of TK Dutes, a late-night scroll turns into a flight to Minneapolis, an upholstery class, and a quiet reckoning with rest and healing. TK meets furniture designer/curator/editor Nicole Crowder, and what starts as a conversation about chairs becomes one about creative burnout, self-trust, and leaving hustle culture without making a scene about it. They talk about making things with your hands, about why comfort feels political, about how Black women creatives have always known how to make home out of whatever’s available. About chairs as witnesses. About the right to rest. No big reveal - just the slow realization that burnout recovery might look less like escape and more like listening. After the episode, TK sits with producer Tre’ Jones to briefly unpack what this episode shifted inside of them. The full post-episode reflection lives on Patreon. This episode doesn’t rush.It pulls up a chair and waits. Welcome back to The Secret Life of TK Dutes.Episode 2: An Invitation to Sit. Special thanks: Nicole Crowder, Tre' Jones (Producer), Manny Faces (Engineer), Faybeo’n Mickens (Marketing), Pat Mesiti-Miller (Theme Music),  Gabrielle Smith (Art) 👉🏾 Follow Nicole Crowder on IG @nicolecrowderupholstery | nicolecrowderupholstery.com 👉🏾 Follow TK on IG: @tastykeish | @philosfuturemedia👉🏾 Go behind the scenes on Patreon: patreon.com/c/SecretLifeofTK ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    1h 19m
  3. Minisode: Make It. Break It. Reset It.

    12/17/2025 · BONUS

    Minisode: Make It. Break It. Reset It.

    In this mini-episode of The Secret Life of TK Dutes, TK shares a story time about how creativity and community helped her find her way back to herself. Burned out, depressed, and desperate to get off the laptop, TK started making functional art just to keep her hands busy. What began as an exercise in avoidance turned into an unexpected metaphor for her own life and marked a turning point. The episode also features listener call-ins about healing, reflection, and rebuilding. 📞 Call The Secret Life Line: (929) 551-4363 🎙️ Or send a voice note to philosfuturemedia[at]gmail[dot]com Produced by Keisha “TK” Dutes Post-production audio by C. More minisodes and behind-the-scenes moments to come. **Coming Soon: Episode 2: An Invitation to Sit** ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    19 min
  4. Press Play, Then Call Me

    11/21/2025 · BONUS

    Press Play, Then Call Me

    Hey friends, The way y’all have been pulling up about Episode 1, The Hustle Don’t Love You Back, has been… phewww. Thank you for trusting me with your journeys through burnout.  But now I wanna hear from you, about your healing journey.  The part where you started finding your way back to yourself. The small stuff. The weird stuff. The stuff that feels like a shortcut to peace. Maybe it’s art. Maybe it’s therapy. Maybe it’s your cousin telling you to sit down somewhere. Maybe it’s that one moment in the day where everything gets still for no reason. Call me and drop a short reflection. Start with: “My name is ___, and one thing that’s helping me heal is ___.” I would love to share some of these on The Secret Life of TK Dutes, so we can all learn from each other — how we’re healing, creating, and trying to imagine a life that feels like ours again. Leave your message at 929-551-4363 or send a voice note to philosfuturemedia@gmail.com. Can’t wait to hear what your healing sounds like — the soundtrack, the vibe, the whole mood. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    4 min
  5. Ep 1: The Hustle Don’t Love You Back (Part 2) ft. Dr. Nicole Rawls

    10/31/2025

    Ep 1: The Hustle Don’t Love You Back (Part 2) ft. Dr. Nicole Rawls

    The crash already happened.Now we’re sitting in the smoke, asking what’s left to build with. TK and Dr. Nicole Rawls talk about what comes after the heartbreak—the moment you realize the grind doesn’t owe you anything, but maybe your spirit still does. They dig into anger that turns into clarity, grief that becomes blueprint. Because legacy isn’t the titles or the plaques. It’s the stories that survive you. It’s how you decide to live when the old script stops working. Producer Kristen Bennett slides back in, helping TK unpack the glass cliffs, the white lies, the “good jobs” that drain the life out of you. Together, they ask the real question: if the hustle don’t love you back, what will you love instead? This part is about aftercare. About turning heartbreak into inheritance. About looking at the wreck and saying, ok—now what? Welcome back to The Secret Life of TK Dutes. Special thanks: Dr. Nicole Rawls, Kristen Bennett (Producer), Manny Faces (Engineer), Faybeo’n Mickens (Marketing), Pat Mesiti-Miller (Theme Music),  Gabrielle Smith (Art),  👉🏾 Follow TK on IG: @tastykeish | @philosfuturemedia👉🏾 Go behind the scenes on Patreon: patreon.com/c/SecretLifeofTK Click here to view the episode transcript. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    1h 9m
  6. Ep 1: The Hustle Don't Love You Back (Part 1) ft. Dr. Nicole Rawls

    10/31/2025

    Ep 1: The Hustle Don't Love You Back (Part 1) ft. Dr. Nicole Rawls

    TK thought the hustle was love. Awards, gigs, bylines, late nights, early mornings. Running until the body says “nope.” Turns out the hustle was heartbreak. Opportunities dressed as disappointment. Depression dressed as grind.  This episode drifts through the wreckage: voice notes from the highs, reflections about the lows. And then the crash- burnout, body revolt, the quiet question: was any of this worth it? With producer Kristen Bennett pressing play on TK’s story, and anthropologist, astrologer, and artist- Dr. Nicole Rawls whispering truth like a mirror you didn’t want to look in, Part 1 sits in that moment when you realize: the hustle don’t love you back. Welcome to The Secret Life of TK Dutes. Special thanks: Dr. Nicole Rawls, Kristen Bennett (Producer), Manny Faces (Engineer), Faybeo’n Mickens (Marketing), Pat Mesiti-Miller (Theme Music),  Gabrielle Smith (Art), and Melissa Danielle (Friend). 👉🏾 Follow TK on IG: @tastykeish | @philosfuturemedia👉🏾 Go behind the scenes on Patreon: patreon.com/c/SecretLifeofTK Click here to view the episode transcript. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    54 min

  7. 09/15/2025

    It's Official- The Trailer, I mean...

    Healing isn’t a 5-step plan- it’s messy, nonlinear, sometimes funny, sometimes devastating. That’s The Secret Life of TK Dutes. A podcast about surviving with creativity, community, and a little chaos. The Secret Life of TK drops in your feed Fall 2025.For BTS and more content, become part of the journey on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/SecretLifeofTK Official Trailer Produced by Keisha "TK" Dutes Sound Design & Mix by Manny Faces for Philo's Future Media.  ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    2 min
  8. S1 Overview: The Soundtrack Before the Breakthrough

    07/30/2025

    S1 Overview: The Soundtrack Before the Breakthrough

    You ever try to outrun your body?Yeah, me too. But this ain’t that.This is the moment to stop pretending you’re fine. My name is TK Dutes and I'm healing- right here, right now, out loud. The Secret Life of TK is a beautiful, nonlinear ride with me- just another high masking, multi hyphenate artist/professional navigating burnout, grief, joy, and the creative hustle that keeps us going when everything else feels heavy.  Each episode comes with a fresh vibe- different producers, different sounds, different flavors. Like a mixtape made by the people living their own versions of the story. I'm talking it out with artists, healers, and friends- going on adventures, sharing stories, and figuring out what to do when your body starts telling the truth before you do.  This is the soundtrack before the breakthrough. Come get free. The Secret Life of TK drops in your feed Fall 2025. Become part of the journey on Patreon.https://www.patreon.com/SecretLifeofTK Thank you to the voices in the preview: Dr. Nicole Rawls, Nicole Crowder, DJ CherishTheLuv, Dr. Jonathan Schwartzman, Tah Whitty, Cuco & Dash Harris.  Preview Produced by Keisha "TK" Dutes &  Manny Faces for Philo's Future Media. Preview Artwork by Gabrielle Smith.  Eternal gratitude to the producers and friends helping to make this happen. All will soon be revealed. ;) ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    9 min
  9. Missed Call

    02/15/2025

    Missed Call

    no one leaves messages anymore ¯\_(ツ)_/¯follow TK, subscribe for the vibes. lets see where this healing thing goes. The Secret Life of TK ~ a life and a podcast in progress by Philo's Future Media. https://www.patreon.com/c/SecretLifeofTKhttps://www.instagram.com/tastykeishhttps://www.instagram.com/philosfuturemedia ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

    1 min

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The Secret Life of TK Dutes is the story of what it means to become when the system won’t let you be. One woman sets out into the world, looking for ways to get ahead as an Artist. Producer. Daughter, Sister. Partner. Together with those who bear witness, TK throws away the scripts and looks for answers, in airports, dentists offices, across borders. Each episode is a new world, pioneering the art of loose autobiography to build the picture of a life in a community of voices. What happens when you stop doing what is expected of you and start doing YOU? A better life can be a hustle. It doesn’t have to be a secret.

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  • Creator
    Philo's Future Media
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Philo's Future Media