Amra 's Armchair Anecdotes

Amra Pajalic

Welcome to Amra’s Armchair Anecdotes! I’m Amra Pajalić— writer, teacher, and storyteller. Pull up a chair, and let’s dive into  stories about writing, life, and lessons learned—sharing wisdom  from my armchair to yours.

  1. Sep 27

    38-Whose Story Got Left Off the Charts? Reclaiming the History of R&B Groups

    Amani Roberts, author of 'The Quiet Storm', discusses the untold stories of R&B groups and the impact of media on their disappearance. He shares insights on the decline of black-owned media, the digital divide, and the challenges faced by artists in the music industry. Amani's book is a cultural manifesto that aims to correct the record on R&B groups and their forgotten stories. The conversation covers Amani Roberts' book, which includes personal stories, opinions, and historical facts about R&B groups. It also delves into the challenges of traditional publishing, the impact of R&B music, and the future of R&B groups. Takeaways Untold stories of R&B groupsImpact of media on the disappearance of R&B groups Self-publishing and hybrid publishing offer opportunities for authors to own their intellectual property and reach success without traditional gatekeepers.R&B music has a significant impact on all music genres and raising awareness about its history can lead to more credit, sampling, and proper songwriting credits for R&B artists. Chapters 00:00 The Untold Stories of R&B Groups04:54 The Decline of Black-Owned Media12:28 The Digital Divide in Music20:34 Challenges Faced by Artists in the Music Industry22:07 A Cultural Manifesto: 'The Quiet Storm'23:39 A Personal Journey Through R&B25:01 Challenges of Traditional Publishing27:29 The Impact of R&B Music32:15 The Future of R&B Groups38:25 The Power of Self-Publishing About Amani Roberts Amani Roberts, M.A. spent years behind the turntables before he spent years in the archives — and both taught him the same lesson: someone always decides which stories get remembered. His book, The Quiet Storm, is his attempt to correct the record on R&B groups — The Isley Brothers, The Temptations, TLC, Destiny’s Child, Boyz II Men — acts that dominated the charts for six decades and then vanished almost overnight once the industry, the media, and the algorithms moved on. Amani holds a master’s in Music Business from Berklee College of Music and a degree from Howard University, and his writing on music, culture, and creativity has appeared in Forbes, People, and The LA Times. His other books, DJs Mean Business and Resilient & Brilliant, circle a version of the same idea: that creativity and history live in places the mainstream doesn’t always think to look. He co-hosts the podcast Adventures in Business and has spoken to audiences at Marriott, Meeting Professionals International, and beyond about music, memory, and reinvention. Website: https://www.amaniexperience.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amaniexperience

  2. Sep 13

    37-Persistence, Patience, Practice, Passion: Elisabeth Storrs on the Writer's Life

    Elisabeth Storrs, a former lawyer and acclaimed historical fiction writer, discusses her transition from law to writing, the challenges of balancing writing with family responsibilities, and the persistence and passion that kept her project alive for a decade. She also explores the challenges of publishing World War II fiction and the impact of Nazi research ideology. The conversation delves into the psychology of eugenics and genocide, highlighting the modern-day relevance of understanding historical atrocities. It also explores the challenges in publishing historical fiction and the power of digital books. Additionally, it discusses the Historical Novel Society, the judging criteria for historical fiction prizes, and the importance of community in writing. Takeaways Balancing family responsibilities with writing requires dedication and regular practice.Historical accuracy in fiction requires a balance between research and storytelling. Understanding the psychology of eugenics and genocideThe power of digital books in publishing Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Elisabeth Storrs and Her Novels02:01 Transition from Law to Writing03:20 Balancing Writing and Family Responsibilities04:41 Efficiency and Growth in Writing06:18 Inspiration and Creation of a Project10:43 Exploring Women's Stories in Historical Fiction12:58 Balancing Historical Accuracy and Storytelling15:37 Practical Tips for Organizing Research18:07 Persistence and Passion in Writing20:12 Challenges in Publishing World War II Fiction25:03 The Ideology and Impact of Nazi Research27:34 The Psychology of Eugenics and Genocide29:13 Understanding Modern-Day Genocide30:22 Challenges in Publishing Historical Fiction35:12 The Power of Digital Books38:43 The Historical Novel Society and Literary Prizes46:28 Judging Criteria for Historical Fiction Prizes47:55 The Importance of Community in Writing About Elisabeth Storrs Elisabeth Storrs former lawyer who spent over fifteen years researching and writing her acclaimed A Tale of Ancient Rome trilogy. Her latest novel, Fables & Lies: A World War II Novelis set in 1940s Berlin, follows Freyja Bremer, a museum assistant who marries an SS scholar to protect her family, only to fall for an archaeologist who exposes the lies underpinning the Nazi regime. Inspired by the true, little-known story of the curators who risked their lives to save Priam's Treasure and the Aryan myth manufactured by Himmler's Ahnenerbe institute. Beyond her own novels, Elisabeth is a driving force in Australian historical fiction: she co-founded the Historical Novel Society Australasia and established the ARA Historical Novel Prize, the richest literary prize of its kind in Australia and New Zealand, and is a longtime contributor to the History Girls blog. She lives in Sydney with her husband. Website: https://elisabethstorrs.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisabethstorrsauthor/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elisabeth.storrs/

  3. Aug 30

    36-Inspiration Finds Us Working: Forget the Rules, Write the Next Book

    Jim Shomos spent twenty years breaking format as a screenwriter and producer—his 2005 series Forget the Rules was the world's first to broadcast every episode across TV, web and mobile at once—before pivoting to indie fiction. He and Amra trace that reinvention: how a screenplay that couldn't get financed became his debut novel Up Here, why he chose indie publishing after COVID lockdown made the decision for him, and what changed when he swapped studio notes and gatekeepers for total creative control. They dig into the discipline behind the craft—Jim's answer to "what's your greatest talent" isn't story or voice, it's showing up—along with the pull of romance versus thrillers, where AI actually earns its keep for an indie author (and where it doesn't), and how grief and upheaval reshaped both their writing lives. A candid look at what it costs, and what it's worth, to keep chipping away at the work. Takeaways Creative FreedomCollaboration in Creative Projects DisciplineContinuous learning Chapters 00:00 Meet Jim Shomos01:28 The Birth of Forget the Rules04:31 Total Creative Control vs. Studio Notes08:53 From Copywriter to Screenwriter: Craft, Mentors, and Emotional Truth15:54 Gatekeepers and a Subjective Industry18:27 Streaming Economics and Vanishing Residuals20:36 When Editors Pull You in Different Directions23:41 Can AI Write an Original Story?27:37 Canva, AI Narration, and Indie Marketing Tools29:45 Grief, Sabbatical, and Stepping Back31:02 Becoming a Romance Writer, and a Lifelong Thriller Reader33:11 The Idea Behind Up Here34:32 25 Years of Pitching One Script36:18 Craft, Discipline, and the Myth of Inspiration39:13 "Real Writing Is Rewriting"41:45 Parenthood, Upheaval, and Getting the Work Done44:06 Why Reading Makes You a Better Writer45:21 Deciding on the Next Project: Kidnap47:33 COVID and the Decision to Go Indie48:13 Finding a Publishing Community: BusyBird and Romance Writers of Australia51:23 Hybrid vs. Traditional Publishing, and Spotting the Scams55:04 Staying Current on Marketing56:10 Choosing to Write the Next Book57:02 Protecting Your IP as an Indie Author58:15 Walking Away from Producing59:11 Legacy, Mortality, and What Matters Now1:00:13 Where to Find Jim Jim Shomos Jim Shomos spent over twenty years as a screenwriter and producer before reinventing himself as an indie novelist. Jim Shomos created ‘forget the rules’—the world's first comedy-drama series to broadcast every episode on TV, web and mobile at once—picked up wins and nominations at Cannes and the Australian Writers' Guild, and was once ranked in Australia's Film & TV Power-50. A few years ago, he turned that screenwriting instinct toward the page. Today he's the indie-published author of three contemporary romance novels, and  Up Here, Three Women in November, and More Text Than Sex.   Website: https://jimshomos.com/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jim_shomos/

  4. Aug 16

    35-When Pre-Orders Drop, So Does the Series

    Fiona Tarr discusses her transition from writing fantasy to crime fiction, the process of building a community of readers, and the strategies for exploiting her intellectual property. She shares insights into genre planning, community engagement, and the challenges and opportunities of self-publishing. The conversation covers the challenges and strategies of being an indie author, including the balance between writing and business, the use of Kickstarter and special editions, engagement with library events and public lending rights, challenges with Kindle Unlimited and wide distribution, navigating industry challenges, advice for emerging indie authors, and series completion and reader engagement. Takeaways Genre TransitionBuilding a CommunityExploiting Intellectual Property Adapting to the evolving industryUnderstanding the market and reader preferences Chapters 00:00 Transition from Fantasy to Crime03:52 Building a Community of Readers07:21 Exploiting Intellectual Property41:47 Series Completion and Reader Engagement About Fiona Tarr Fiona Tarr is a number-one bestselling Amazon author who has built a devoted, worldwide readership from her home in Noosa, Queensland. In 2023 she launched the Opal Fields series, following Constable Jenny Williams through a remote opal-mining town inspired by Coober Pedy, and it changed everything. She has written full-time ever since. Since then, Fiona has built two ongoing crime series — Opal Fields and Dawn Grave — alongside the Foxy Mysteries spin-off, racking up tens of thousands of reader ratings. Website & Social Handles•      Website: fionatarr.com •      Instagram: @fionatarr •      Facebook: Fiona Tarr – Author (facebook.com/fionatarr.atime2write) •      YouTube: Fiona Tarr on YouTube

  5. Aug 2

    34-Start Messy, Start Anyway (How an Instagram Live Grew Into a Whole Community)

    The conversation with Mirela Cufurovic covers her projects, including Tea Time with Mirela and the Australian Muslim Review, as well as the challenges and opportunities in the publishing industry. Mirela's work focuses on amplifying diverse voices, fostering genuine connections, and addressing the limitations of traditional publishing. She also discusses the impact of her projects on professional development and the need for greater representation in literature and history. The conversation covers a wide range of topics including the challenges of applying for grants and funding, the manipulation in the publishing industry, the impact of self-publishing, the importance of intention and passion in creative projects, and the issue of burnout and sustaining creativity. The discussion also delves into the value of genuine connection, the joy of connecting with like-minded individuals, and the significance of trusting oneself. Takeaways Amplifying diverse voicesChallenges in traditional publishing Challenges of applying for grants and fundingImpact of self-publishingImportance of intention and passion in creative projectsIssue of burnout and sustaining creativityValue of genuine connection and trust in oneself Chapters 00:00 Limitations of Traditional Publishing42:00 Value of Genuine Connection and Trust in Oneself Connect with Mirela Cufurovic Mirela Cufurovic is a historian, writer, interviewer, and founder of Tea Time with Mirela, an Instagram interview series with female authors in Australia. Through long-form discussions with writers, academics, artists, and community voices, she has built a platform that values nuance, intellectual curiosity, and genuine dialogue in an online space often driven by speed and simplification. ​ She is also the founder of The Australian Muslim Review on Substack, an independent publication dedicated to amplifying Muslim voices, ideas, literature, history, and cultural commentary beyond the narrow frameworks often presented in mainstream media. Her work explores the importance of storytelling, historical memory, representation, and community-led media spaces. Personal - https://mirelacufurovic.substack.com TAMR - https://theaustralianmuslimreview.substack.com Tea Time with Mirela - https://mirelacufurovic.substack.com/podcast

  6. Jul 5

    32-How a Viral Comedy Character Sold Out Her Debut Novel (Without Bookstore Gatekeepers)

    The conversation delves into the multifaceted artistic journey of Jelena Curic, exploring her experiences as a writer, comedian, singer, and cultural representative. From the creation of the character Teta Yela to the challenges of cultural representation in writing, the discussion highlights the complexities of artistic identity and the pursuit of creative freedom. Jelena's journey reflects the triumphs and struggles of navigating the publishing industry and embracing a multifaceted approach to artistry. The conversation covers diverse podcast content, midlife challenges, coping with anxiety and vulnerability, embracing confidence and authenticity, creative risks and content creation, and navigating online identities. It delves into the multifaceted nature of storytelling, the complexities of midlife relationships, and the emotional impact of menopause. It also explores the importance of authenticity, confidence, and creative expression, as well as the challenges of managing multiple online identities and promoting writing and books. Takeaways Multifaceted artistry: Embracing diverse creative expressionsCultural representation: Navigating challenges in writing and storytelling Diverse storytelling in podcastsNavigating midlife challengesEmbracing authenticity and confidenceNavigating online identities and content creation Chapters 00:00 Introducing Jelena Churich: The Multifaceted Artist08:29 Navigating the Publishing Industry: Struggles and Triumphs20:01 Artistic Identity and Creative Freedom27:26 Embracing Multifaceted Artistry: Breaking the Mold35:19 Coping with Anxiety and Vulnerability45:05 Navigating Online Identities Guest bio: Jelena Curic wears a few hats — literary novelist, crime writer, comedian, and, by her own admission, the resident diva of her local Croatian community, singing most weekends whether or not anyone asked her to. You may already know her online as Teta Jela, the aunty who says the things the rest of us only think. Her name is Jelena Curic. Jelena's debut novel, Sing to Me, was published by WestWords in 2025. It follows Pero — a Croatian immigrant in 1980s Western Sydney, a flawed and fascinating man who, when Tito dies and his mother's health fails, returns home to confront family secrets, a father who won't speak to him, and the long shadow of a war-torn past. It's a story about silence, forgiveness, and the song the soul forgets it knows. She came up through the WestWords Academy and Accelerator and was shortlisted for the Born Writers Award two years running — and today she's here to talk about everything she learned getting that book into the world. You can find Jelena at jelenacuric.com, follow Jelena the writer in her Teta Jela on Instagram @jelena.curic_writer

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Welcome to Amra’s Armchair Anecdotes! I’m Amra Pajalić— writer, teacher, and storyteller. Pull up a chair, and let’s dive into  stories about writing, life, and lessons learned—sharing wisdom  from my armchair to yours.

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