Wize Woman STORIES

Delia Quigley

Every woman has a story to tell. Every story holds her wisdom. In Wize Woman STORIES, host Delia Quigley explores the moments, memories, and experiences that shape who we are as women. From deeply personal reflections to conversations with inspiring voices, each episode invites you to discover the truths within a life’s narrative. At the heart of these stories is the wisdom of our Five Bodies—physical, energy, mental, wisdom, and divine—because the way we live, feel, think, and sense shapes every chapter of our journey. Whether you’re navigating change, seeking clarity, or simply curious about the threads that connect us all, these stories will guide you toward greater self-understanding, compassion, and alignment. Because when we share our stories, we awaken the wisdom within.

  1. The Food Fairy: From Survival to Serving a Community

    1D AGO

    The Food Fairy: From Survival to Serving a Community

    She arrives in Carrboro, North Carolina, with three kids, $11,000 in debt, and no clean roadmap, then builds a personal chef business that grows into Food Fairy, a service that nourishes families across the Triangle. Talking with Terri McClernon, we follow the thread that runs through every chapter of her life: food as connection, creativity, and a way to survive, even when the numbers don’t add up and the ground shifts under your feet.  We go back to her 1950s kitchen-table roots and her early pull toward cooking, then forward into the vegetarian movement and Back to the Land years, where she learns self-reliance the hard way. Terri shares how a simple marketing flyer and one client’s comment gave her the name “Food Fairy,” and how community support, mentoring, and timely loans helped her keep the doors open without losing her integrity. If you care about women entrepreneurs, personal chef services, local food culture, and building a mission-driven small business, you’ll find practical detail here, not platitudes.  The hardest moments bring the biggest lessons: the market crash that wiped out most of her clients, COVID shutting down in-home cooking, the pressure of payroll, and the disciplined use of PPP to keep her team employed. We also talk about her next evolution, building a commercial kitchen, and launching a nonprofit vision that includes gleaning farm vegetables and making soup to give away. Terry reflects on aging, meditation, stress, and the steadier inner peace that comes from surviving the hills and valleys.  Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs courage, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. Support the show

    31 min
  2. What's Running You? The Story of the Mindful Mandala Cards

    MAR 25

    What's Running You? The Story of the Mindful Mandala Cards

    A black snake keeps showing up at my window, and instead of turning away, I start paying attention. That single choice becomes the start of a creative trail I never planned, one that runs through a hip injury, a hidden stone house, and four years of living close to nature's raw sounds and seasons. What begins as fear slowly turns into curiosity, and curiosity turns into layered photographs that reveal mandalas, circles that mirror the cycles we live through in our bodies, relationships, and inner lives. As the mandalas take shape, I realize they aren’t just art. They become a mindfulness practice and a self-inquiry tool that helps make the invisible visible, especially the emotions that quietly “run” us. I share the framework that emerged from the work: challenges that hold our darker emotions, tools that represent our higher capacities like compassion and kindness, and actions that bridge the gap between where we are and where we want to be. We talk about the mind as a system, the familiar loop of thought to emotion to reaction, and the moment where we can choose something different. You’ll also hear what happened when I brought the mandalas into a gallery and invited people to ask one honest question. The stories that followed, daily returns, tears in front of forgiveness, and real shifts in long-held pain, made the next step obvious: create something people could hold and return to. That became the Mindful Mandala Cards, a practical guided reflection deck designed for emotional healing, mental clarity, and everyday mindfulness, even through the delays and uncertainty of COVID-era production. If this story sparks something in you, subscribe so you don’t miss the next one, share it with a friend who needs a gentler way through hard emotions, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show. What feeling are you ready to understand instead of outrun? Support the show

    18 min
  3. Your Wisdom Body: A Path of Unscripted Spiritual Practice

    MAR 3

    Your Wisdom Body: A Path of Unscripted Spiritual Practice

    What if wisdom isn’t something you chase, but something that catches you when you slow down enough to notice? We sit with Anita Peterhansel—yogi, counselor, island elder—whose life moved without plans or credentials, yet landed in a steady, luminous clarity. From Amsterdam’s peep shows to Ibiza’s beaches, she practiced in unlikely places, listened harder than she spoke, and let purpose announce itself in real conversations and daily movement. We trace the arc from intelligence to awareness: how facts and strategies can carry you far, then suddenly feel thin in midlife. Anita helps us name the wisdom body as the layer that turns stories into insight—why we chose certain partners, postponed old dreams, or underestimated our strength. She describes life as a series of invitations: jump or don’t, learn either way. During COVID, people began to call—friends and friends-of-friends in distress—and her “sharing” emerged. No funnels, no branding, just presence that relieved suffering enough for people to come back. The feedback loop became her proof. Anita’s practice is refreshingly human. She never had a formal yoga teacher; the body taught her. She walks for hours, swims, dances, and adapts movement to season and energy, using motion to quiet the loud mind and dial up intuition. She feeds a deep spiritual hunger with books and long listens, using teachings as soul food rather than trophies. We explore practical tools for a fast, noisy world: five minutes of stillness before the phone, a walk that resets your nervous system, a single story you can retire today. Like Ayurveda, once you feel a bit better, the system remembers how to heal itself. If you’re navigating midlife questions, craving meaning beyond productivity, or beginning a practice without a map, this conversation offers grounded guidance. You’ll learn how small, repeatable actions invite big inner shifts; how to spot the narratives that create pain; and how to turn your life into a quiet monastery wherever you live. Subscribe, share with a friend who could use gentle clarity, and leave a review with the one practice you’ll try this week. Support the show

    33 min
  4. Your Mental Body: From Monkey Brain To Mindful Living

    FEB 17

    Your Mental Body: From Monkey Brain To Mindful Living

    What if your thoughts aren’t you—but weather moving through a wider sky? We dive into that gap between thinking and awareness with Jacky Fernandez, a mental health counselor and Zen teacher who bridges clinical tools and contemplative practice. Together we unpack how rumination fuels depression, worry feeds anxiety, and why fighting your mind rarely works. Instead, Jacky lays out simple, humane ways to begin: feet on the floor, breath in the belly, listening to birds, and mindful walking for restless bodies. From trauma and addiction recovery to years of Zen training, Jacky’s path shows how small, steady choices shape the mind’s climate. We talk about modern distraction—phones, social feeds, and outrage cycles—that pour other people’s thoughts into our heads. Then we get practical: exercise before extra meds, watch how alcohol and sugar hijack mood, and use retreat lessons at home by stacking supportive conditions. Clarity isn’t just calm; it’s energy returning when mental noise drops. A highlight is our deep look at self‑compassion. Jacky shares midbrain‑first practices that actually soothe: hand on heart, warmth, a shawl, tea, softening the jaw, and gentle touch. These gestures teach safety from the body up, so the mind can follow. We also explore koans and single‑point focus to slip past overthinking and touch direct insight, using the image “each branch of coral embraces the bright moon” as a guide to hold everyday mess and luminous clarity at once. You’ll leave with a grounded playbook: meet yourself where you are, curate the conditions you can control, and practice short, repeatable moments of presence. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s stuck in worry or rumination, and leave a review telling us one small practice you’ll try this week. Support the show

    36 min
  5. Your Energy Body: Light Body Activation

    FEB 3

    Your Energy Body: Light Body Activation

    What if sustainable energy isn’t something you chug but something you sense? We sit down with healer and teacher Lynn Goodman to rethink vitality from the inside out—through breath, slow motion, and the subtle intelligence running through your body. Instead of pushing harder, Lynn shows how to feel chakras as real sensations, set clear boundaries in busy spaces, and stabilize your system so screens and noise don’t hijack your mind. Lynn’s path from reflexology and Shin Tai bodywork to Light Body Activation offers a grounded framework for working with the energy body without mystification. She explains how a quiet nasal breath drops you into parasympathetic calm, while slow, precise movement lights up proprioception and reveals the “outer body” as a semi-permeable field you can strengthen or soften on purpose. We explore why bright digital inputs can overstimulate kundalini channels—and how simple practices rebuild resilience so you can think clearly, rest deeply, and feel more at home in your skin. We also dive into conflict repair and telepathic listening. Lynn walks us through a practical heart-centered reset that dissolves power struggles in minutes by adjusting the solar plexus and awakening the higher heart. From there, she opens a thoughtful window into telepathy as imagery-based, high-frequency communication that favors clarity over control. The conversation crescendos with “world work”: broadcasting coherent heart energy into the global information grid, and aligning with the soul body for wiser choices and a steadier life. If you’re curious about sensing your energy body, creating healthy boundaries, and cultivating calm without caffeine, this conversation is a gentle masterclass. Explore Lynn and Saul’s guided processes and classes at Shintai International to take the work deeper. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a review—what practice will you try first? Support the show

    31 min
  6. Your Physical Body: Somatic Healing & Finding Yourself

    JAN 20

    Your Physical Body: Somatic Healing & Finding Yourself

    Pain, tightness, and fatigue often seem like isolated problems, but what if they’re messages from deeper stories your body is holding? We sit down with somatic therapist and former professional dancer Marcia Ward to explore how fascia, breath, and intention can quietly reshape not only how you move, but how you see, choose, and feel. Marcia traces her journey from rigorous ballet technique—where beauty can mask strain—to structural integration, a method that reorganizes connective tissue so the body aligns with gravity and returns to fluid, effortless motion. Together we unpack the five bodies—physical, energy, mental, wisdom, and divine—and how change in one layer ripples through the rest. Marcia shares vivid examples of clients who release old wrapping, then rediscover creativity, clarity, or the courage to make life shifts. We talk about aging with curiosity, building strength without re-tightening fascia, and replacing ego-driven goals with a listening practice she calls the “Department of the Interior.” You’ll hear practical ways to begin: somatic movement classes, structural integration (Rolfing, Soma), and simple developmental patterns that reset coordination in minutes. If you’ve pushed through pain in yoga, sports, or daily life, this conversation offers a gentler path. Learn how intention organizes the nervous system, why hydration and fascial health matter, and how breath anchors the subtle bodies. The result isn’t perfection; it’s a grounded ease that feels like coming home. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a review telling us one pattern you’re ready to unwrap. Support the show

    39 min
  7. New Year Rituals: The Personal Practices of Wize Women

    JAN 6

    New Year Rituals: The Personal Practices of Wize Women

    Doors don’t open themselves; we open them with the way we arrive. I wanted the New Year to feel less like a sprint and more like a crossing, so I explored the rituals that make time feel sacred and change feel possible—without the pressure cooker of perfect resolutions. I start with a sensory memory: chili that slow-cooked all night, cornbread stacked high, a fire rumbling while friends drift in from the cold. From there, I name what a ritual really is—purposeful action done with presence—and why it beats a rule-bound resolution every time. You’ll hear from my circle of Wize Women, whose practices range from throwing the I Ching to choosing a word after meditation, from clearing closets and calendars to writing down every win so the mind stops leading with failure. I hold space for humor too: a neighbor who calls the police, a guest in a green silk gown, and a mischievous nun who breaks the tension with a one-liner that sends everyone into laughter. The throughline is alignment. Most goals start in the head and stall. I explain how to engage the five bodies—physical, energy, emotional, mental, intellectual, and Divine—so intention is grounded, fueled, felt, focused, and meaningful. That’s where real change takes root. You’ll hear practical ways to review your year without shame, release what no longer fits, and step forward with a word, a breath, or a bowl of Hoppin’ John as your quiet ceremony. Along the way, I share how this very podcast grew from a year of steady writing into a home on Substack, and how a single intention to teach again sparked an invite to a live platform within days. And here's the LINK to the live, free class I'm teaching on January 9, 12:00 PM EST. Come for the warmth, stay for the tools, and leave with a simple plan to cross your threshold inspired. If this conversation helps you reimagine your New Year, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review—then tell me: what ritual will you carry into the year ahead? Support the show

    26 min
  8. 2025 Episode Recap: Conversation with a Wize Woman

    12/09/2025

    2025 Episode Recap: Conversation with a Wize Woman

    A year of conversations distilled into one clear invitation: choose balance you can feel, not perfection you can’t keep. We look back with our friend and returning voice, Debra Fernandez, to explore the real passage from warrior years into wize woman seasons—and why strength often looks like peace, boundaries, and steady daily rituals rather than constant fight. We unpack the language that shapes identity. What if “warrior” doesn’t mean conflict, but the courage to live aligned? What if wisdom is action you can sustain? From there, we move into intuition as a first signal—the felt knowing that arrives before analysis—and a minimalist approach to prayer that many of us already practice without naming it: thank you and help. Mindfulness ties it together by training simple awareness of breath, body, and thought, creating space to respond rather than react. Then we get practical. Food as medicine sits at the center of better energy, clearer mood, and steadier sleep. We trace how meat-heavy, salt-forward, ultra-processed patterns pull us toward extremes, and how macrobiotic balance offers a useful middle path—think whole grains like brown rice, beans, vegetables, minerals, and fewer industrial sugars. We talk menopause numbers, protein needs, gut health, and the sanity of cutting refined sugar and ultra-processed foods first. We widen the lens to chronic disease trends, the “media diet” that trains our nervous system, and the responsibility of personal choice within a community. Compassion becomes the operating system: care for yourself in a way that lightens the load for others. If you’re ready to feed your body and your brain better, honor intuition, and adopt small practices that actually stick, this conversation gives you a clear starting point. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a steady middle, and leave a review to tell us one change you’ll make this week. Support the show

    39 min
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About

Every woman has a story to tell. Every story holds her wisdom. In Wize Woman STORIES, host Delia Quigley explores the moments, memories, and experiences that shape who we are as women. From deeply personal reflections to conversations with inspiring voices, each episode invites you to discover the truths within a life’s narrative. At the heart of these stories is the wisdom of our Five Bodies—physical, energy, mental, wisdom, and divine—because the way we live, feel, think, and sense shapes every chapter of our journey. Whether you’re navigating change, seeking clarity, or simply curious about the threads that connect us all, these stories will guide you toward greater self-understanding, compassion, and alignment. Because when we share our stories, we awaken the wisdom within.