Delia Quigley: STORIES

Delia Quigley

Every woman has a story to tell. Every story holds her wisdom. In STORIES, host Delia Quigley explores the moments, memories, and experiences that shape who we are as women. From deeply personal reflections to conversations with inspiring voices, each episode invites you to discover the truths within a life’s narrative. At the heart of these stories is the wisdom of our Five Bodies—physical, energy, mental, wisdom, and divine—because the way we live, feel, think, and sense shapes every chapter of our journey. Whether you’re navigating change, seeking clarity, or simply curious about the threads that connect us all, these stories will guide you toward greater self-understanding, compassion, and alignment. Because when we share our stories, we awaken the wisdom within.

  1. New Year Rituals: The Personal Practices of Wize Women

    6D AGO

    New Year Rituals: The Personal Practices of Wize Women

    Doors don’t open themselves; we open them with the way we arrive. I wanted the New Year to feel less like a sprint and more like a crossing, so I explored the rituals that make time feel sacred and change feel possible—without the pressure cooker of perfect resolutions. I start with a sensory memory: chili that slow-cooked all night, cornbread stacked high, a fire rumbling while friends drift in from the cold. From there, I name what a ritual really is—purposeful action done with presence—and why it beats a rule-bound resolution every time. You’ll hear from my circle of Wize Women, whose practices range from throwing the I Ching to choosing a word after meditation, from clearing closets and calendars to writing down every win so the mind stops leading with failure. I hold space for humor too: a neighbor who calls the police, a guest in a green silk gown, and a mischievous nun who breaks the tension with a one-liner that sends everyone into laughter. The throughline is alignment. Most goals start in the head and stall. I explain how to engage the five bodies—physical, energy, emotional, mental, intellectual, and Divine—so intention is grounded, fueled, felt, focused, and meaningful. That’s where real change takes root. You’ll hear practical ways to review your year without shame, release what no longer fits, and step forward with a word, a breath, or a bowl of Hoppin’ John as your quiet ceremony. Along the way, I share how this very podcast grew from a year of steady writing into a home on Substack, and how a single intention to teach again sparked an invite to a live platform within days. And here's the LINK to the live, free class I'm teaching on January 9, 12:00 PM EST. Come for the warmth, stay for the tools, and leave with a simple plan to cross your threshold inspired. If this conversation helps you reimagine your New Year, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review—then tell me: what ritual will you carry into the year ahead? Support the show

    26 min
  2. 2025 Episode Recap: Conversation with a Wize Woman

    12/09/2025

    2025 Episode Recap: Conversation with a Wize Woman

    A year of conversations distilled into one clear invitation: choose balance you can feel, not perfection you can’t keep. We look back with our friend and returning voice, Debra Fernandez, to explore the real passage from warrior years into wize woman seasons—and why strength often looks like peace, boundaries, and steady daily rituals rather than constant fight. We unpack the language that shapes identity. What if “warrior” doesn’t mean conflict, but the courage to live aligned? What if wisdom is action you can sustain? From there, we move into intuition as a first signal—the felt knowing that arrives before analysis—and a minimalist approach to prayer that many of us already practice without naming it: thank you and help. Mindfulness ties it together by training simple awareness of breath, body, and thought, creating space to respond rather than react. Then we get practical. Food as medicine sits at the center of better energy, clearer mood, and steadier sleep. We trace how meat-heavy, salt-forward, ultra-processed patterns pull us toward extremes, and how macrobiotic balance offers a useful middle path—think whole grains like brown rice, beans, vegetables, minerals, and fewer industrial sugars. We talk menopause numbers, protein needs, gut health, and the sanity of cutting refined sugar and ultra-processed foods first. We widen the lens to chronic disease trends, the “media diet” that trains our nervous system, and the responsibility of personal choice within a community. Compassion becomes the operating system: care for yourself in a way that lightens the load for others. If you’re ready to feed your body and your brain better, honor intuition, and adopt small practices that actually stick, this conversation gives you a clear starting point. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a steady middle, and leave a review to tell us one change you’ll make this week. Support the show

    39 min
  3. Men-O-Pause: Know Your Numbers, Know Yourself

    11/18/2025

    Men-O-Pause: Know Your Numbers, Know Yourself

    Menopause isn’t a diagnosis to endure; it’s a transition you can understand and navigate with confidence. We sit down with functional medicine nutritionist Erin Parekh to unpack the real biology behind hot flashes, weight changes, and brain fog—and why replacing guesswork with lab data is the fastest path to relief. From defining perimenopause to clarifying what “menopause is one day” actually means, we connect the measurable shifts in hormones to the lived experience women feel every day. Erin shares a practical framework that starts with foundations: stabilize blood sugar, build and protect muscle, and support digestion so your body can clear hormones efficiently. We dig into the estrobolome and why constipation, low fiber, and narrow diets can recirculate estrogen and fuel symptoms. You’ll learn how to build plant diversity into your week, leverage fermented foods over one-size probiotic pills, and use component cooking to assemble nourishing meals in minutes. We also talk frankly about alcohol, sugar, and refined carbohydrates, including how a short stint with a continuous glucose monitor can uncover personal triggers that standard advice misses. When it comes to interventions, we sort signal from noise. Thoughtful HRT—paired estrogen and progesterone, with conservative testosterone when appropriate—can protect bones and brain health when used alongside strong lifestyle habits. For those who prefer alternatives or need added support, we cover herbal options like black cohosh, vitex, and ashwagandha, and evidence-backed supplements such as vitamin D, fish oil, CoQ10, and creatine for muscle and cognition. The theme throughout is clarity: know your numbers, choose targeted tools, and give your body what it needs so midlife feels steadier, stronger, and more you. If this conversation helped you feel more grounded, subscribe, share the episode with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find science-based support through menopause. Support the show

    30 min
  4. Be Yourself: Everyone Else Is Taken

    10/21/2025

    Be Yourself: Everyone Else Is Taken

    Creativity doesn’t begin with applause; it starts with the quiet decision to be honest. Delia sits down again with longtime friend and collaborator Deborah Fernandez to examine the intimate terrain where limits, talent, and truth meet. Through stories from decades in dance, teaching, and visual art, we explore why “good or bad” is the wrong question and how authenticity can turn constraint into fuel. Deb shares the pivotal moment a student felt truly seen—and how that recognition unlocked an unusual choreographic path. We dig into the tension between audience expectations and artistic courage, teasing apart commerce from compromise without dismissing the value of craft. From Cy Twombly’s polarizing scribbles to Coppola’s self-financed audacity and Fosse’s iconic style forged from physical limits, the conversation maps how boundaries can sharpen voice rather than stifle it. We also wade into AI as a creative tool: what counts as authorship, why process still matters, and how friction can be part of meaning. Aging and curiosity take center stage too, as we talk about vigilance, practice, and why many people rediscover aliveness through simple making—paint, clay, or song—well beyond their careers. The throughline is clear: intention directs the work, constraints shape it, and honesty gives it life. If you’ve felt stuck at the blank page, this episode offers a way forward—set a small constraint, get present, and ask what wants to emerge through the boundary. If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs creative courage, and leave a review to help more listeners find us. Your stories and reflections keep this conversation alive. Support the show

    30 min
  5. Life As A Creative Act: Three Women, Three Journeys, One Passion

    10/07/2025

    Life As A Creative Act: Three Women, Three Journeys, One Passion

    What if creativity isn’t something you have or don’t—but a way you move through the world? We open that door with three artists whose lives stretch from stage and circus to studio and garden, and with stories that show how passion, talent, and skill braid into a durable creative life. You’ll hear how a choreographer treats stuck moments as puzzles to flip and reframe, why a former performer fell in love with pastel during a trance-like afternoon of nine cherries, and how a painter chases beauty, connection, and freedom without letting perfection steal the joy. Along the way, we step into a vivid Tampa memory where a spontaneous Navy dock photoshoot becomes a lesson in reading the room, working the moment, and capturing the shot without losing the story. We talk about saying no to one dream to build another—from touring with a dance troupe to creating a yoga and cooking school—and how the same creative spark can design classes, gardens, and spaces that change how people feel. Mentorship threads through it all: the kind that names difference as a strength and invites a student to follow a path before it has a name. We honor the elders who built their own studios, learned new crafts, and taught, by example, that a creative life is the biggest canvas you’ll ever work on. These conversations land on a clear truth: creativity is a mindset you can practice anywhere—art studio, kitchen, classroom, or conversation. Replace “Is it good or bad?” with “Is it authentic?” Trade perfection for persistence. Use curiosity to unstick problems. And remember that voice isn’t found by waiting; it’s grown by making. If this resonates, tap follow, share this with a friend who needs a nudge, and leave a quick review—what’s one place you’ll apply creativity today? Support the show

    36 min
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About

Every woman has a story to tell. Every story holds her wisdom. In STORIES, host Delia Quigley explores the moments, memories, and experiences that shape who we are as women. From deeply personal reflections to conversations with inspiring voices, each episode invites you to discover the truths within a life’s narrative. At the heart of these stories is the wisdom of our Five Bodies—physical, energy, mental, wisdom, and divine—because the way we live, feel, think, and sense shapes every chapter of our journey. Whether you’re navigating change, seeking clarity, or simply curious about the threads that connect us all, these stories will guide you toward greater self-understanding, compassion, and alignment. Because when we share our stories, we awaken the wisdom within.