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    Clear Is Kind: Feedback, Curiosity, and Leading People Well with Shmuel Saklad (Table Service 301)

    Jordan Hooker talks with Shmuel Saklad, Senior Manager in B&H Photo's Enterprise Accounts Department, about what kindness looks like in leadership. Shmuel argues that kindness isn't softness or silence. It's clarity, honesty, and curiosity applied with empathy, and avoiding hard conversations ends up hurting both the leader and the person being led. What we coverWhy "clear is kind" matters more than letting things slide to be niceHow leaders mistake avoidance for kindness, and the excuses they use to justify itShmuel's feedback progression: confirm expectations were clear, diagnose whether the gap is knowledge, skill, or capability, coach with repetition, then get more direct if the issue continuesHow unclear expectations create conflict, and how unchecked accountability erodes morale, engagement, and trustThe fear of hypocrisy when giving feedback, and the challenge of moving from peer to managerWhy to act, not react, and wait until you can respond thoughtfullyHow to build a culture where your team feels safe giving feedback upwardKey moments01:58 Kindness is not avoidance03:27 Why "clear is kind"07:49 First question before any feedback: were expectations actually clear?08:47 Diagnosing knowledge, skill, or capability12:29 Why leaders avoid feedback15:24 The fear of being a hypocrite19:48 Advice for moving from peer to manager22:07 Why leaders shouldn't react in the moment25:34 Becoming a leader people feel safe giving feedback to27:50 Closing thought: be curious, not judgmentalQuotes"Clear is kind.""Act, don't react.""Be curious, not judgmental."Resources mentionedBrené Brown and Kim Scott (Radical Candor) ConnectShmuel Saklad: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shmuel-saklad/Jordan Hooker: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordanhooker/Previous episode with ShmuelSeason 2, Episode 8: Building the Next Generation of Support Leaders with Shmuel Saklad

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