MFM Podcast

MFM Podcast

Welcome to the MFM Podcast—where a former NBA player, a filmmaker, and a journalist have unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally real conversations about dating, relationships, careers, mental health, pop culture, and everything in between—because life at 35+ isn’t what we expected. If you’ve been cheated on, finally figured out who you are, still have no idea who you are, sick of swiping left, have no idea what you wanna be when you grow up, or your hip hurts when you get out of bed in the morning... you have found your people. Join us every week as we drop a new episode! ➡️ theMFMPodcast.com

  1. 06/14/2025

    Therapy, Early Onset Obsession, and S.O.D: The Brutal Truth About Modern Dating | Diddy & Shannon Sharpe | MFM Podcast

    Shav is back from China—and so is the chaos. In this unfiltered episode, Dan, Michele, and Shav dive into the raw realities of modern dating, retroactive jealousy, social media thirst traps, and why most relationships are doomed from the start. We break down why nice guys finish last, the viral “early onset obsession” theory, and why therapy might not be helping the way we think it is. Plus: wild Diddy party stories, the Shannon Sharpe scandal, and why men secretly rate women by how long until they get... disgusted. 🎧 Tap in and subscribe for real talk on love, dating, attraction, breakups, psychology, and why things get weird after the honeymoon phase. Topics:🎙 Why women stop therapy when they’re in love🎙 The obsession-disgust cycle nobody talks about🎙 What guys really think about Instagram thirst traps🎙 Retroactive jealousy explained🎙 Diddy, Shannon Sharpe, and navigating receipts in the age of OnlyFans🎙 Dating apps, fake influencers, and girlfriend-guy energy exposed 00:00:00 – Welcome Back, Shav!00:00:42 – Dating App Observations00:01:30 – Therapy Talk00:06:24 – Social Media and Relationships00:17:10 – Retroactive Jealousy00:29:09 – Reflecting on Past Dating Mistakes00:29:18 – A Recent Date Experience00:29:26 – Discussing Ghosting and Dating Etiquette00:30:32 – The Bad Boy Attraction Phenomenon00:31:01 – Understanding Women’s Dating Advice00:34:25 – Signs of Early Onset Obsession (EOO)00:38:36 – The Concept of Standard Onset Disgust (SOD)00:43:23 – The Girlfriend Guy and Gym Dynamics00:47:30 – Shannon Sharpe Controversy00:53:20 – Diddy and Party Stories #MFMPodcast #DatingOver30 #TherapyTalk #RelationshipTruths #DatingRedFlags #SOD #ModernLove #PodcastClips #RealTalk #DiddyTrial #ShannonSharpeDrama

    54 min
  2. 06/01/2025

    Dating Myths, Alpha Energy, Nice Guys & The Truth About Attraction in Relationships | MFM Podcast

    Are women really not attracted to nice guys? In this episode of the MFM Podcast, Dan, Michele, and Shav reunite to break down the real psychology behind attraction, dating, and why so many men and women misunderstand each other. We dive into:🎙 Why “nice guys” often finish last — and how alpha energy flips the script🎙 The dating myths women believe (and why they unknowingly chase the wrong men)🎙 What men get wrong about showing interest — and why chasing kills attraction🎙 Why women stay stuck in toxic cycles and compare new partners to their exes🎙 The brutal truth about hypergamy, status, and why women want to “level up” in relationships🎙 Do men actually prefer to date younger women?🎙 How Michele’s bad Bumble date led to meeting Shav and Dan ⏰ Timestamps: 0:01:00 – Does a man have to be more into a woman or vice versa?0:07:05 – Are women turned off by men who are too into them?0:07:42 – What happened when Dan dated Michele’s friend (and took Michele’s advice)0:09:29 – Michele explains what women do when a man isn’t an alpha male0:10:38 – Reacting to spicy TikTok comments0:21:00 – Do women go through a period where they want to be alone?0:29:58 – Situationships and the current state of dating0:37:26 – Do women cause men to treat them badly by rewarding toxic behavior?0:39:59 – Shav compares attraction to golf (yes, golf!)0:49:14 – Do men only like younger women?

    53 min
  3. 05/19/2025

    Jealousy, Trust, Cheating, and Location Sharing: Are Modern Relationships Built to Fail? | MFM Podcast

    Would you go through your partner’s phone? What about share your location? Or give them your passwords? This week on the MFM Podcast, Dan, Michele, and Shav go all in on the tangled mess of modern love. From checking phones and stalking locations, to trust, infidelity, obsession, and emotional survival—we're asking the uncomfortable questions: 🎙️ Is jealousy ever a green flag? 🎙️ Do women really need emotional backup plans? 🎙️ Is looking through a phone ever justified? 🎙️ Are women like the CIA with relationship surveillance? 🎙️Who cheats more—and who just hides it better Plus learn about the "Calculator app," and spy-level iPhone tricks! This episode is unfiltered, unpolished, and undeniably real. Whether you're single, healing, or knee-deep in relationship drama—this is the one you’ll replay and send to your group chat. ⏰ Timestamps: 0:00 – Is Dan the jealous type? Michele comes in hot 5:10 – Why Michele went through her ex’s phone 8:00 – iPhone snooping hacks every woman should know 12:02 – The D-pic debate: Is there ever a reason to send one? 16:45 – Sharing location: Safety move or low-key stalking? 18:30 – Shav tells a wild story that makes Michele scream 20:34 – Burner phones: Is this really a thing? 21:10 – Do women ever actually admit to cheating? 22:10 – Shav drops a bombshell that has Michele calling "D" 24:02 – Shav flips the script and puts Michele on the spot 25:50 – Would Dan cheat on his dream girl? 27:50 – Do all men secretly want to cheat? 30:15 – Dan admits he’s the one who always loses interest first

    34 min
  4. 05/03/2025

    Dating Hot Takes, Gym Selfies, Blocking Games, Body Count Debates, BBL Regrets & the Taxi Cab Theory | MFM Podcast (Audio Only)

    On this episode of the MFM Podcast, Dan, Michele, and Shav go all in on the dating hot takes lighting up our comments section. From shirtless gym selfies to BBL regrets, we’re calling out the double standards people pretend don’t exist—especially when it comes to attraction, dating culture, and the ever-controversial “body count” debate. Michele breaks down the Taxi Cab Theory—why men only commit when the “light turns on”—while Dan brings up being blocked by a woman he recently dated (yes, really). And let’s just say… some of y’all are deep in your feelings in the TikTok comments, and we’re absolutely responding. If you’re here for raw opinions, honest debates, and unfiltered takes on dating, attraction, and everything in between—this one delivers. 👉 Subscribe for more brutally honest episodes, and follow us on TikTok and Instagram @theMFMPodcast. What You’ll Hear in This Episode:🎙️ Are shirtless gym selfies empowering—or the ultimate ick?🎙️ Why BBLs might finally be going out of style (thank God)🎙️ The Body Count Debate: Why it still matters to men (and who’s lying)🎙️ The Taxi Cab Theory: Why timing matters more than compatibility🎙️ Who really lines up their next person before the breakup—men or women?🎙️ The truth about gym culture, thirst traps, and “no makeup” makeup🎙️ Why being comfortable single is actually the biggest green flag🎙️ And... do grown adults actually block people? ⏰ Timestamps:0:00 – Intro + we jump right into the chaos0:20 – Dan talks about his insane day and why the cops showed up4:40 – We dive into the comments – gym selfies9:20 – BBLs – are we still doing these?11:45 – Recording yourself in the gym or anywhere else18:15 – Can women actually be happy single?19:06 – Do women line up their next guy before leaving their current?21:34 – The “Taxi Cab Theory” of dating explained31:19 – Body count: does it matter more than people admit?42:30 – Sex drives fading in a relationship53:25 – The part Michele thinks we edited out55:06 – Is blocking childish? Find out why Dan got blocked1:02:00 – Is fighting healthy in a relationship?

    1h 5m

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Welcome to the MFM Podcast—where a former NBA player, a filmmaker, and a journalist have unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally real conversations about dating, relationships, careers, mental health, pop culture, and everything in between—because life at 35+ isn’t what we expected. If you’ve been cheated on, finally figured out who you are, still have no idea who you are, sick of swiping left, have no idea what you wanna be when you grow up, or your hip hurts when you get out of bed in the morning... you have found your people. Join us every week as we drop a new episode! ➡️ theMFMPodcast.com