ROOTED IN YOUR CONFIDENCE

Samantha Kaye
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Rooted In Your Confidence is the podcast for women in male-dominated industries who are ready to own their space, trust their voice, and show up unapologetically. Hosted by Samantha Kaye Harris—consultant, speaker, and certified life coach with over 25 years of experience leading in a male-dominated field—this podcast tackles the real challenges women face, from being talked over to the pressure to prove themselves. Each episode offers honest conversations, practical strategies, and mindset shifts to help women break free from self-doubt and stand in their power. No fluff, just real talk and actionable steps. If you’re ready to stop shrinking and start leading with confidence, follow and subscribe.

  1. APR 1

    What Your Body Might Be Carrying When You Swallow Your Words at Work | With Chanlee Sutoyo

    What happens when your body starts carrying everything your voice never got to say? In this episode of Rooted in Your Confidence, Samantha Kaye Harris sits down with Chanlee Sutoyo, former government trial attorney and creator of Rage on the Page, to talk about emotional suppression, chronic pain, and the healing power of journaling. For more than a decade, Chanlee lived with unexplained chronic pain. Doctors ran tests. MRIs came back mostly normal. Treatments helped temporarily, but nothing truly solved the problem. Then she discovered something that changed everything. Her body wasn’t broken. It was holding years of swallowed words. Through a journaling practice she calls rage journaling, Chanlee began writing the truth she had been holding inside. Anger. Grief. Disappointment. The promotion she never received. The pressure of working in a high-stakes legal environment. Within weeks, something shifted. In this conversation, Samantha and Chanlee explore what happens when women finally give themselves permission to tell the truth — especially women working in male-dominated industries like construction, trades, aviation, and transportation. Because confidence doesn’t come from pretending everything is fine. It comes from releasing what you’ve been carrying. In this episode we talk about: • Why emotional suppression can show up as physical pain  • What it feels like to work in high-pressure environments where composure is expected every day  • The connection between people-pleasing, perfectionism, and chronic stress  • What “rage journaling” is and how it helps women release suppressed emotions  • How writing the truth can help women reconnect with their voice and confidence  • Why healing is a leadership conversation, not just a wellness one If you’ve ever swallowed your words at work just to survive the environment, this conversation will resonate with you. Learn More about Rage Journaling Circles http://rageonthe.page Book a Discovery Call  calendly.com/csutoyo/meet https://www.linkedin.com/in/chanlee-sutoyo/ https://www.youtube.com/@RageOnThePage 🔗 Resources & Links: Read the Book Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces Pre-order here: https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/your-truth-changes-everything-3074 Take the Confidence Quiz https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/survey/osR2QGkypYzh7WuK0GNS Book a Session with Me https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/bookings/chat-and-connect-with-samantha-kay Visit My Website www.samanthakayeharris.com Join My Free Community https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/3-steps-to-hold-your-own-job Don’t forget to: Follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode Share this podcast with a woman who needs to hear it Leave a review to help more women find this space #RootedInYourConfidence #ConfidenceDisruption #ConfidenceAtWork #WomenInMaleDominatedIndustries #WomenInLeadership #WomenInTrades #WomenInConstruction #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalWomen #OrganizationalChange

    38 min

  2. MAR 25

    It’s Not Confidence… It’s What You Do When You’re Disrupted

    You didn’t lose confidence. You got disrupted. In this episode, Samantha Kaye Harris breaks down what happens in the moment your voice disappears and why it has nothing to do with confidence. She introduces DisrupTif’s™ those subtle moments where something shifts, and you disconnect from yourself without even realizing it. From being interrupted… to second-guessing your words… to taking on other people’s energy… This is how your voice gets lost in real time. You’ll learn how to recognize these moments, understand the 4 types of DisrupTif’s™, and use your Brag Bag™ to come back to yourself when it matters most. Pay attention this week… You’ll start to see it everywhere. 🔗 Resources & Links: Read the Book Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces Pre-order here: https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/your-truth-changes-everything-3074 Take the Confidence Quiz https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/survey/osR2QGkypYzh7WuK0GNS Book a Session with Me https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/bookings/chat-and-connect-with-samantha-kay Visit My Website www.samanthakayeharris.com Join My Free Community https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/3-steps-to-hold-your-own-job Don’t forget to: Follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode Share this podcast with a woman who needs to hear it Leave a review to help more women find this space #RootedInYourConfidence #ConfidenceDisruption #ConfidenceAtWork #WomenInMaleDominatedIndustries #WomenInLeadership #WomenInTrades #WomenInConstruction #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalWomen #OrganizationalChange

    18 min

  3. MAR 18

    Women in Trades: Be More of Yourself, Not Less

    You do not have to become less feminine to survive in a male-dominated industry. You have to become more of yourself. In this episode of Rooted in Your Confidence, Samantha Kaye Harris talks with carpenter and W.E.I.R.D. Learning founder Kito Shani Morris about women in trades, carpentry, confidence, and the power of hands-on learning. Kito shares how she found her way into male-dominated spaces, why she believes trying matters more than perfection, and how teaching practical skills helps women, children, and communities build real confidence. This conversation goes beyond tools and training. It is about identity, permission, authenticity, and trusting your own power. This episode is for women in construction, women in trades, and any woman working in male-dominated industries who is tired of shrinking and ready to stand fully in who she is. 🔗 Resources & Links: Read the Book Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces Pre-order here: https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/your-truth-changes-everything-3074 Take the Confidence Quiz https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/survey/osR2QGkypYzh7WuK0GNS Book a Session with Me https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/bookings/chat-and-connect-with-samantha-kay Visit My Website www.samanthakayeharris.com Join My Free Community https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/3-steps-to-hold-your-own-job Don’t forget to: Follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode Share this podcast with a woman who needs to hear it Leave a review to help more women find this space #RootedInYourConfidence #ConfidenceDisruption #ConfidenceAtWork #WomenInMaleDominatedIndustries #WomenInLeadership #WomenInTrades #WomenInConstruction #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalWomen #OrganizationalChange

    38 min

  4. MAR 11

    Damned If You Do, Damned If You Don’t: The Reality for Women in the Trades

    In this episode of Rooted in Your Confidence, Samantha Kaye Harris speaks directly to women working in male-dominated industries, especially the trades. There’s a reality many women know too well. If you stay quiet, you’re easygoing. If you speak up, suddenly you’re “too much.” Women in these environments aren’t just doing the job. They’re managing the environment around the job every single day. Deciding when to speak, when to stay quiet, when to laugh something off, and when to stand their ground. Those constant calculations shape careers more than anyone realizes. In this episode, Samantha shares: • Why women in the trades often feel damned if they do and damned if they don’t • The hidden emotional labor women carry just to stay in the environment • How fear and isolation become survival strategies • Why community and support can change everything • What companies must understand if they truly want to retain women She also shares personal experiences from her own 25+ years working in male-dominated spaces and why she wrote her book Your Truth Changes Everything. Because confidence isn’t just about speaking up. It’s about staying connected to yourself in environments that try to disconnect you from who you are. This episode is for the women doing the work and managing everything around it. Social Media Caption (LinkedIn / Instagram) Women in the trades know something most people don’t talk about. Sometimes you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t. If you stay quiet, you’re the easygoing one. If you speak up, suddenly you’re the problem. But here’s the part people miss. Women in male-dominated industries aren’t just doing the job. They are managing the environment around the job every single day. • Do I laugh it off? • Do I say something? • Do I stay quiet? • Do I fit in or stand out? Those decisions shape careers more than anyone realizes. In this new episode of Rooted in Your Confidence, I talk honestly about: • The daily calculations women make just to stay in the trades • Why isolation becomes a survival strategy • What happens when you stop laughing at things that aren’t funny • And what companies need to understand if they truly want women to stay I also share a personal story that perfectly shows what happens when a woman simply asks a 🔗 Resources & Links: Read the Book Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces Pre-order here: https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/your-truth-changes-everything-3074 Take the Confidence Quiz https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/survey/osR2QGkypYzh7WuK0GNS Book a Session with Me https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/bookings/chat-and-connect-with-samantha-kay Visit My Website www.samanthakayeharris.com Join My Free Community https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/3-steps-to-hold-your-own-job Don’t forget to: Follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode Share this podcast with a woman who needs to hear it Leave a review to help more women find this space #RootedInYourConfidence #ConfidenceDisruption #ConfidenceAtWork #WomenInMaleDominatedIndustries #WomenInLeadership #WomenInTrades #WomenInConstruction #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalWomen #OrganizationalChange

    10 min

  5. MAR 4

    What happens when your confidence gets shaken… and you try to buy it back?

    In this episode of Rooted in Your Confidence, Samantha Kaye Harris sits down with financial strategist Shannon Brome-Ward to talk about the powerful connection between confidence, money, and the environments women work in. Many women working in high-pressure or male-dominated workplaces are making good money, yet still feel uncertain about speaking up, negotiating, or making financial decisions. When confidence gets disrupted at work, it often shows up in our finances too. Samantha and Shannon explore how women can begin shifting that pattern by becoming more intentional with their money and building financial security that supports their confidence. In this conversation, they discuss: • Why relying on one paycheck can make women feel stuck  • How financial knowledge can strengthen confidence  • Why women often hesitate to negotiate their compensation  • The importance of creating an exit strategy even if you plan to stay • How learning to invest and build assets creates options and freedom Shannon also shares a powerful story about coaching a woman through a salary negotiation that led to a $1 million compensation package, showing how preparation and confidence can change the outcome. This episode is a reminder that confidence doesn’t come from external approval. Sometimes it grows from the stability and knowledge we build for ourselves. When women understand their money and their options, they show up differently. 🔗 Resources & Links: Read the Book Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces Pre-order here: https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/your-truth-changes-everything-3074 Take the Confidence Quiz https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/survey/osR2QGkypYzh7WuK0GNS Book a Session with Me https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/bookings/chat-and-connect-with-samantha-kay Visit My Website www.samanthakayeharris.com Join My Free Community https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/3-steps-to-hold-your-own-job Don’t forget to: Follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode Share this podcast with a woman who needs to hear it Leave a review to help more women find this space #RootedInYourConfidence #ConfidenceDisruption #ConfidenceAtWork #WomenInMaleDominatedIndustries #WomenInLeadership #WomenInTrades #WomenInConstruction #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalWomen #OrganizationalChange

    51 min

  6. FEB 25

    When Correction Is Stronger Than Escalation | Leadership Strategy for Women in Male-Dominated Industries

    In male-dominated industries, especially the trades, women are constantly told to “go to HR,” “file the complaint,” and “document everything.” And yes protection matters. But what happens when HR leaves… and you don’t? In this powerful episode of Rooted in Your Confidence, Samantha Kaye Harris breaks down the hard truth about workplace strategy for women working on job sites, in the field, and in environments where hierarchy, ego, reputation, and alliances shape daily reality. This conversation explores: The difference between reaction and strategyWhen escalation is necessary and when correction is strongerHow to protect your long-term authority and leverageThe double bind women face: complicit, dramatic, aggressive, weakWhy retention for women in the trades is more than policyHow to respond to bias, disrespect, and being tested without shrinking or explodingThe power of slowing down and leading without spectacleSamantha shares a real story from her own leadership experience in a male-dominated environment, walking through how she chose strategic correction over formal escalation — not from fear, but from awareness. This episode is for: Women in the tradesWomen supervisors navigating site dynamicsHR leaders and union reps who want to understand retention realitiesAny woman trying to protect her credibility, influence, and earning powerBecause confidence alone is not enough. Awareness of the room matters. Timing matters. Leverage matters. And leadership is knowing the difference. If you’re navigating bias, hypocrisy, authority challenges, or workplace politics in a male-dominated industry, this episode will give you language, clarity, and strategic insight. And if this resonates, grab a copy of Your Truth Changes Everything to deepen your self-trust and leadership foundation. Share this episode with a woman who’s navigating site dynamics right now. Self-trust changes how you lead. And when your truth is silent, your decisions are too. 🔗 Resources & Links: Read the Book Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces Pre-order here: https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/your-truth-changes-everything-3074 Take the Confidence Quiz https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/survey/osR2QGkypYzh7WuK0GNS Book a Session with Me https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/bookings/chat-and-connect-with-samantha-kay Visit My Website www.samanthakayeharris.com Join My Free Community https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/3-steps-to-hold-your-own-job Don’t forget to: Follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode Share this podcast with a woman who needs to hear it Leave a review to help more women find this space #RootedInYourConfidence #ConfidenceDisruption #ConfidenceAtWork #WomenInMaleDominatedIndustries #WomenInLeadership #WomenInTrades #WomenInConstruction #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalWomen #OrganizationalChange

    12 min

  7. FEB 18

    Seen as the Doer, Not the Leader? Let’s Talk Leadership Identity

    In this episode of Rooted in Your Confidence, we dig into leadership identity, systemic blind spots, and why many organizations are failing to develop leaders beyond technical skill. I’m joined by leadership strategist Shayna Davis to talk about what companies often miss when it comes to trust, visibility, and development — especially for women navigating environments where they are the only one or one of a few. We explore: • Why being labeled the “doer” keeps women from being seen as strategists  • The leadership identity gap most companies ignore  • How outdated training models fail both employees and organizations  • Why companies must rethink leadership development if they want to retain top talent  • What systemic shifts are required for real growth And I’m clear about this: women are not falling short because they lack preparation. Many are overqualified, over-prepared, and still overlooked. Leadership development must evolve not just at the individual level, but at the organizational level. This conversation echoes the message in my book, Your Truth Changes Everything  that confidence disruption doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens in environments that were never designed with us in mind. And when we understand both the system and ourselves, we move differently. If you care about self-trust, visibility, and how systems shape opportunity, this episode will expand your perspective. Because being rooted in your confidence doesn’t mean doing more.  It means understanding where you stand and where the system must shift. 🔗 Resources & Links: Read the Book Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces Pre-order here: https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/your-truth-changes-everything-3074 Take the Confidence Quiz https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/survey/osR2QGkypYzh7WuK0GNS Book a Session with Me https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/bookings/chat-and-connect-with-samantha-kay Visit My Website www.samanthakayeharris.com Join My Free Community https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/3-steps-to-hold-your-own-job Don’t forget to: Follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode Share this podcast with a woman who needs to hear it Leave a review to help more women find this space #RootedInYourConfidence #ConfidenceDisruption #ConfidenceAtWork #WomenInMaleDominatedIndustries #WomenInLeadership #WomenInTrades #WomenInConstruction #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalWomen #OrganizationalChange

    44 min

  8. FEB 13

    Confidence Disruption at Work: Rebuilding Self-Trust in Male-Dominated Industries *Special Edition*

    In this episode of Rooted in Your Confidence, Samantha Kaye Harris discusses confidence disruption how repeated experiences in male-dominated workplaces wear down women’s self-trust over time. Drawing from nearly 30 years of lived experience, Samantha shares what happens when women are questioned, interrupted, overlooked, or expected to over-prove their competence at work—and how those moments quietly erode confidence. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why confidence disruption happens at workHow women rebuild self-trust without leaving their careersWhat it means to stop shrinking and start using your voiceThe role of boundaries in confidence and leadershipWhy imposter syndrome is often misunderstoodSamantha also introduces key ideas from her book,  Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces. This episode is for women in the trades, tech, construction, logistics, and other male-dominated fields who want to stay, lead, and trust themselves again. You belong in the room. 🔗 Resources & Links: Read the Book Your Truth Changes Everything: How Women Rebuild Self-Trust, Speak Up, and Get Paid in Male-Dominated Workplaces Pre-order here: https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/your-truth-changes-everything-3074 Take the Confidence Quiz https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/survey/osR2QGkypYzh7WuK0GNS Book a Session with Me https://links.theskhsolutions.com/widget/bookings/chat-and-connect-with-samantha-kay Visit My Website www.samanthakayeharris.com Join My Free Community https://rooted.theskhsolutions.com/3-steps-to-hold-your-own-job Don’t forget to: Follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode Share this podcast with a woman who needs to hear it Leave a review to help more women find this space #RootedInYourConfidence #ConfidenceDisruption #ConfidenceAtWork #WomenInMaleDominatedIndustries #WomenInLeadership #WomenInTrades #WomenInConstruction #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalWomen #OrganizationalChange

    46 min
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Rooted In Your Confidence is the podcast for women in male-dominated industries who are ready to own their space, trust their voice, and show up unapologetically. Hosted by Samantha Kaye Harris—consultant, speaker, and certified life coach with over 25 years of experience leading in a male-dominated field—this podcast tackles the real challenges women face, from being talked over to the pressure to prove themselves. Each episode offers honest conversations, practical strategies, and mindset shifts to help women break free from self-doubt and stand in their power. No fluff, just real talk and actionable steps. If you’re ready to stop shrinking and start leading with confidence, follow and subscribe.

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  • Creator
    Samantha Kaye
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    57
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 ROOTED IN YOUR CONFIDENCE
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