The same God who demands our love, commands us to love our brothers and sisters. Good morning everybody. Thank you very much for being here. Those that don’t know me, my name is Steve Ansell, and I’m part of the preaching team through the summer this year. Now, if you’ve been coming in the last few weeks, you know that we’re going through the book of First John. And today we’ve gotten to chapter four and we have two verses, verse 20 and 21. And if you see, the title is You’ve Got to Love Both. So you might be sitting there and going, love, I think we’ve done love a few times already this summer. And you’d be right. I will say that as I was preparing for this, I was impressed and really challenged by the fact that John talks about love over and over and over again. And then as I was looking at some of the ways in which he had quoted, I saw that Jesus spoke about love over and over and over again. So I think as I was then challenging myself. If Jesus and John thought this was an important topic. Well, clearly it’s an important topic and we’re going to happily look into what he has to say, John has to say about it today. So here’s the scripture that we’re going to be looking at. It’s First John chapter four, verses 20 and 21, and it says, if anyone says, I love God and hates his brother, he is a liar. For he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen cannot love God, whom he has not seen. And this is the commandment we have from him. Whoever loves God must also love his brother. So I was thinking a little bit about this. The whole thing about loving both God and my brother, God and others around me, others in the church, others that I have intersection with. I thought of an illustration that I thought was very helpful to me. I hope it is to you too. When I was a kid I had, I guess it was a toy. Probably wasn’t really a toy, but I enjoyed it a lot. I had a set of magnets, not just kind of wimpy little magnets. I had really good magnets. These ones were super powerful and they would stick to each other. That if you, as a little kid, pulling them apart was actually quite hard. And putting them down, if I took the negative pole and put it with a negative pole, you know how those repel each other, I could push that magnet around the kitchen table. There was really clear evidence of a significant force that was going on. You couldn’t see it, but you definitely knew it was there. So if you wanted to see the power and the force, if you took some iron filings and you just sprinkled them around, you’d get that. You could see the magnetic field and the positive and negative poles. You could see how, again, the magnetism was kind of moving between the poles. If you turned a positive pole and put it next to a positive pole, you could see what’s on the right, and that’s the forces repelling each other. So two things that I wanted us to take away from that. The first is that sometimes it isn’t clearly evident, but that magnetic field is definitely there. You can see evidence of it all around. So as we’re going to be challenging ourselves, people will know that we love God by the love we show to them, and it will be evident by the love field, if you like, that’s around us. But probably even more important is the fact that you cannot have a magnetic field without a positive and a negative pole. If you only have a positive pole, all you have is a block of iron. It’s nothing. Magnets have to have a positive and a negative charge. So John is going to tell us that if we want to be followers of Christ, we have to love God and we have to love others. A positive charge and a negative charge. Love for God. Love for others. Without the one, the other doesn’t exist. So here’s the proposition that we’re going to talk about today. The same God who we love commands us to love our brothers and sisters. You have to love both. Like two poles. Positive and negative of a magnet. One without the other doesn’t exist. Let’s open with a word of prayer before we get into the Scripture. Heavenly Father, we want to thank you so much that you loved us so much that you sent Jesus. You gave up your son who died for us. Thank you Lord, by Your Holy Spirit that we can have that love of Jesus in our lives. And I pray that as I’ve been challenged, that others that are hearing this today will be challenged to have the love of Jesus emulate from us, ooze out from us because of the love that you, Father, are putting in our hearts and how this is demonstrated around us. May we be like a magnet. May we have both a positive and a negative pole. May we love God and may we love others. If you’ve been with us through the summer, you’ll know that John was writing this letter to a church that had some issues, and he was addressing some of the things that were lies or falsehoods in the church. And over the last number of weeks, you’ll know that Pastor Kyle and then Pastor John and others have been addressing some of these lies. So the first lie we wanted to just reflect on is the lie that says, I can walk with God, but live in disobedience. And this is a lie that Pastor Kyle actually preached about twice. It’s a moral lie, if you like. The first time he preached about it was First John, chapter one, verse six, and it says, if we say we have fellowship with him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. And then we had a second sermon on this Frst John, chapter two, verse four, which again says, whoever says, I know him, but does not keep his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. So the lie that he was being challenged there is, I can say, I’m following God. I can say I walk with God, I can say God is my Father, but I can still misbehave and live in disobedience. The second lie that we went, and this was actually, the lie that says, I can know the Father and deny the Son. So what does that mean? Well, I can say God is my Father. I can say I believe in God, but I allow myself to ignore the claims that Jesus has on my life. And this is a sermon that Pastor James Lowe preached about. It comes from First John chapter two, verses 22 to 23. It says, who is the liar, but he who denies that Jesus is the Christ. This is the Antichrist, he who denies the Father and the Son. Saying that I follow God. God is someone that I want to be in a relationship with. But Jesus claims on my life I can ignore. Now we get to the third lie. And this is the lie that says I can love God without loving other believers. And again, this is a relational lie. And we’re going to look at it in the context of written to other Christians, because John is writing this to the church. So this applies to the people sitting around us in the pew. It applies clearly more beyond that, but I think the challenge is often if we say we love God without loving other believers, that’s a lie. So let’s go back for a minute to the scripture. If anyone says, I love God and hates his brother, he is a liar. For he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen cannot love God, whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him. Whoever loves God must also love his brother. So three points I hope you’ll be able to take away from today. These are the things that I was challenged by. Loving God has to be authentic. We need to look into our hearts and to say, is it real? Number two, loving God needs to be visible just like that magnetic field. Other people around us need to know it’s there. Need to make sure it’s obvious. And then finally, number three, knowing God must be obedient. So let’s jump right in. Point number one, loving God must be authentic. Well, where do I get that? That’s right in the first part of the scripture here, it says, anyone who says, I love God and hates his brother, he is a liar. So the obvious main point here is our claim to love God is a lie if we don’t love others. Now, I don’t know about you, but there are a few words in that sentence that really bother me. The first one is what does hate mean? I mean, that seems like a really strong word, right in the Bible. Well, Pastor Kyle, actually a number of weeks ago gave us some instruction about this. John has really used this word, and when he uses it, he’s talking about an ongoing attitude, a choice, a choice of rejection, of hostility, of refusal to love. It’s not just merely a moment of irritation or disagreement. It’s when I actually choose to say, I will hold something against you. I will disagree with you and so I won’t love you. Well, I was thinking, now that you put it that way, if I look at my own life, I can see that I do that too. I don’t know about you, but if you look at your heart and your life, do you see people where you kind of hold a spirit of disagreement and a spirit of unwillingness to really kind of want the best for them? As I was thinking back, I remember a time when I was a kid. I don’t know about you, but when I was growing up, sometimes exams and homework all seemed to collide on the same day when I was in high school, and it was a particularly busy time and there was exams coming up on Monday, there was homework that was not yet done. My brothers and I all felt like it was all coming together, and Sunday we seemed to be at church for a very long time. And I needed a little time to get my homework and studying done, So we asked my dad if it would be okay if we went to Sunday school, but during the church service, could we use one of the classrooms to do some of the homework and the studying that we needed to get done? And he relented and said that would be fine. So we were up in the classroom, my two brothers and myself. But we worked out that if you opened the window of the classroom, you could get out onto the roof of the church. So needless to say, not a lot of homework and studying was going on, but a lot of exploring was happening. The thing we didn’t realize, though,