A little bit of Everything

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Welcome to A Little Bit of Everything, a self-discovery podcast for young women navigating life, friendships, relationships, and emotional growth. This is a space for the girls who are figuring it out in real time. The key word? Trying. I don’t have life all figured out and that’s exactly the point. This podcast is about navigating your 20s, unpacking identity, processing emotions, and sharing honest conversations that might resonate with one, two, or even three of you. If you’re learning, unlearning, relearning , and sometimes spiraling, you’re in the right place. Love, Nenye ✨

  1. 5d ago

    I Owe Some People An Apology

    In the last two episodes, I said I was going to talk about giving your friends grace, apologising when you’re wrong and what it means to accept an apology. So… here we are. This episode is probably one of the more personal ones I’ve done because I had to sit down and acknowledge some friendships where I was wrong. I talked about friendship, betrayal, pride, miscommunication and the things that happen when you don’t give someone the grace they genuinely deserve. I shared the stories of friendships that meant a lot to me, how some of them started, the good memories we had, how things eventually fell apart and, most importantly, the parts where I know I could have done better. I apologised to people I hurt, including for times I allowed my own perspective to make someone else look bad, made people feel insignificant, failed to communicate properly or let pride stop me from reaching out. And these weren’t just apologies for the sake of this episode. I had already reached out to the people I was apologising to. We also talked about something I think we sometimes get wrong about apologies: you can accept someone’s apology and still decide that you don’t want the friendship anymore. An apology doesn’t erase the hurt, and accepting one doesn’t mean you have to continue a relationship you no longer want. Sometimes you need to give your friends grace. Sometimes you need to say sorry. And sometimes you need to accept that your actions had consequences, even if hurting someone was never your intention. Basically, this is me choosing accountability over pride and reminding myself that being a girls’ girl starts with how you treat the girls who are already your friends. And yes, I also apologised to the children watching because there was a lot of cussing in this episode. Maybe we all need to learn how to say “I’m sorry” a little better.

  2. Sep 23

    Guys, we need to talk

    In this episode, we’re switching things up and getting into bro code because apparently, the boys have their own set of rules too and they asked for this. We talked about why dating your bro’s sister can quickly become a whole situation, why your bro’s ex is usually a no-go, but bro’s still don’t listen to this and why you shouldn’t pursue a girl your bro is already interested in or someone he introduced you to because he likes her. We also got into competition between friends because according to me, guys don’t necessarily compete out of jealousy. They compete out of pride and their fragile ego. And of course, we talked about looking out for your bro when he’s about to make a terrible decision, especially when money is involved, and checking up on him when he’s going through something. Because apparently, guys have their own language for showing they care. Sometimes there’s no “Are you okay? Do you want to talk about it?” There’s just “Omo, you’re looking finished” and somehow… that’s the emotional support. Basically, bro code is a little different, but the principle is the same, look out for your people always.

  3. Sep 16

    Girl Code 102: Be a Girl’s Girl

    In this episode, we’re continuing the conversation on girl code, but this time, we’re talking about the ways we’re supposed to actually show up for each other. We started with the five-month wedding story because apparently someone can get married and decide to tell all her friends five months later at her birthday party. And yes, I had thoughts, cause I always do. I talked about looking out for your girl when she’s drunk, making sure she gets home safely, telling her when her wig is lifting or when her outfit is not giving. Because if I’m about to walk out looking crazy, you are supposed to tell me. But girl code goes beyond your friends. If you see another girl struggling with her dress, a period stain or being harassed, help her if you can. Don’t turn another woman’s embarrassing moment into entertainment, and definitely don’t record it and circulate it. We also got into the deeper side of friendship not weaponising your friend’s insecurities or the friendship itself during arguments, not keeping people around simply because you’re scared of being alone, and remembering to apologize when you have hurt your friend and accepting an apology when apologized to. Basically, girl code isn’t just about what you don’t do to your girls. It’s also about how and when you show up for them.

  4. Sep 9

    Girl Code 101

    In this episode, I got into some of the girl codes I think we should actually take seriously from not dating, flirting with, or secretly entertaining your friend’s ex, to telling your friend when her man is cheating (with receipts, please). I also talked about keeping your friend’s secrets, not embarrassing her in public, avoiding unhealthy competition, not stealing your friend’s shine, and knowing when to stay away from a guy your friend likes. And then there’s the friendship part of girl code like what happens when someone openly hates your friend, or when your friend group starts falling apart and everybody just sits there watching instead of trying to fix it. Basically, there are some things you just don’t do to your girls. And trust me, we have plenty more to say about that. This is only Part 1, because apparently girl code has a lot of rules.

  5. Sep 2

    I’m Starting to Lose My Mind

    This week, I had quite a lot to say. From the chaos that is Ogbete Market, to putting my girls on to some affordable hair plug, UBA and Kuda’s supposed beef, Airtel and Google doing their own thing, and why I will never shame anyone’s hustle. I also talked about punctuality, Nigerian politics, a 16-year-old final-year law student (yes, you read that right), and wished my amazing nail tech a happy birthday. Basically, just sit down and listen to me do what I love(talk).

  6. Aug 26

    First Born Daughters Were Never Meant to be parents

    First born daughters are often expected to be the example, the second mother, the responsible one and sometimes even the parent. But who takes care of the first born daughter? In this episode, I’m talking about sibling expectations, perfection, sacrifices, growing up too fast and learning that being the eldest doesn’t mean you have to carry everyone.

  7. Aug 19

    A Little Bit Of Ihe Niile

    In this episode, I talked about my friend nicknaming my podcast `A Little Bit of ihe niile'. We then moved over to the fact that my friend and amazing nail tech decided it was best to send me a car that can be equated to the front of a tricycle after my cry for a car last week. I also went on a little rant about Skynet Transportation, their terrible customer service and the complete lack of accountability that comes with using them. And somehow, in the middle of all of this, I discovered that I have been spelling Michael wrong for years. Honestly, I don’t know how we got here either. But that’s the beauty of A Little Bit of Everything(ihe niile).

  8. Aug 12

    Apparently I need a car

    This week, I talked about public transport and the very uncomfortable experience that had me thinking, “Apparently, I need a car.” The funny part? I don’t even know how to drive.😂 I also talked about groundnuts, dusty keke rides and how the little things we do can show what we actually care about and choose to prioritise. And, of course, friendship. Because if you want a friendship to last, you have to actually want to be someone’s friend. There will be misunderstandings, difficult moments and times when things get messy, but wanting the friendship is what makes you willing to work through them. Another week, another collection of random stories, opinions and lessons. Welcome back to A Little Bit of Everything. ❤️

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Welcome to A Little Bit of Everything, a self-discovery podcast for young women navigating life, friendships, relationships, and emotional growth. This is a space for the girls who are figuring it out in real time. The key word? Trying. I don’t have life all figured out and that’s exactly the point. This podcast is about navigating your 20s, unpacking identity, processing emotions, and sharing honest conversations that might resonate with one, two, or even three of you. If you’re learning, unlearning, relearning , and sometimes spiraling, you’re in the right place. Love, Nenye ✨

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  • Creator
    Nenye,the Girl's Girl
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    89
  • Rating
    Explicit
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