Placemarker 4 Perversion Podcast

Audry Lu Black
  • 5.0 (5)
  • Sexuality
  • Updated Semimonthly

Welcome to Placemarker4Perversion, hosted by Mistress Audry Lu Black. Join me as we leave behind the mundane and draw back the velvet curtain to learn new things and explore the philosophical depths of kink. This inclusive space dismantles rigid expectations, welcoming seasoned sensualists, the “just curious”, and tenderfoot trembling on the threshold. You'll find a sanctuary here. Even after 25 years of wielding the lash and enjoying sculpting consensual behavioral modification techniques, Mistress Audry Lu Black knows the pursuit of understanding is an unending dance—and her kink. What can want teach us? How are lust and longing powerful tools for self-actualization? From Plato to pegging, fisting to Freud. We’ll learn together from experts, philosophers, voices you have never heard, and guardians of ethical play. Join us to explore power, vulnerability, and consent, where the human mind meets ethical kink - one knot, one caress, one whispered word at a time.

  1. 6d ago

    Service She Actually Wants with Maid Rosie

    In this engaging conversation, Maid Rosie shares his journey into the world of kink and service submission with Mistress Audry Lu Black. They discuss the significance of his maid persona and the role of uniforms in service roles. The dialogue explores the evolution of identity within the kink community and the dynamics of trust and safety in dominance and submission. Maid Rosie emphasizes the joy of dressing up and the unique experiences that come with being a service submissive. Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    Service She Actually Wants with Maid Rosie

  2. Jul 15

    Forbidden Grieving with Sydney the Fat Troublemakr

    In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Sydney the Fat Troublemakr delve into the complexities of grief within polyamorous relationships, particularly focusing on the often unacknowledged and deferred grief that arises from losing a partner. They discuss the societal expectations surrounding grief, the lack of resources available for those navigating loss in polyamorous contexts, and the importance of creating systems to ensure that loved ones are informed in the event of a tragedy. The conversation emphasizes the need for open discussions about planning for the unexpected. They discuss the importance of memory and legacy, and the unique challenges faced when navigating grief with metamours. They also highlight the significance of believing in grievers' experiences and the importance of creating tangible memories of lost loved ones. This episode’s content warnings include: discussions about death, grief, loss and family trauma Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    Forbidden Grieving with Sydney the Fat Troublemakr

  3. Jul 1

    Fiery Book Talk: Real Erotica from a Real Domme with BJ Frazier

    In this dialogue, B.J. Frazier and Mistress Audry Lu Black explore the intricate relationship between writing and kink. They discuss the nuances of writing erotic literature and the tools available for effective communication in BDSM. The conversation concludes with reflections on the dynamics of domination and submission, highlighting the importance of understanding motivations and desires in both writing and relationships. The resources discussed today are the BDSM checklists and fun quizzes found at B.J. Frazier’s website https://www.bjfrazier.com B.J. has a special offer just for our listeners. She’s offering 25% off any book or audiobook on her site, bjfrazier.com. Just enter the Coupon Code P4P25 at checkout now through July 8. Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria, and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    Fiery Book Talk: Real Erotica from a Real Domme with BJ Frazier

  4. Jun 15

    Hard Wood with Hellbent Hardware

    In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black interviews Bran Hellbent, a skilled carpenter and woodworker with a lifetime of experience. They explore the aesthetics, functionality, and craftsmanship behind BDSM tools, emphasizing the importance of quality and personalization. They explore the design process and safety considerations. Bran details the pieces he has designed to create adaptable items for kinksters with disabilities. They also touch on the impact of mainstreaming BDSM and the value of investing in well-crafted equipment. They share insights on navigating the kink community and the joy of creating and using unique BDSM instruments. Content Warning: Blood play Fetlife: @BranHellbent Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    Hard Wood with Hellbent Hardware

  5. Jun 1

    Therapy for the Sex Positive and Kink Informed with Dr. Sam and Dr. G

    Therapy for the Sex-Positive and Kink-Informed In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black sits down with Dr. Sam and Dr. G to talk about sex-positive, kink-informed therapy. They compare finding a therapist to the dynamics of dating: finding the right fit and continuing to explore the relationship. They discuss what red flags to look for, including consent and ethical boundaries. Resources: https://planetmidori.com/ RACK – (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) is a prominent safety and ethical framework primarily used in the BDSM and kink communities. It posits that because no sexual activity is completely risk-free, participants must be fully informed, take personal responsibility for those risks, and negotiate continuous consent. Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Poppy, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

    Therapy for the Sex Positive and Kink Informed with Dr. Sam and Dr. G

  6. May 15

    Leather-Clad Consent with Kol

    In this conversation, AudryLu Black and Kol discuss the importance of community-owned education in the BDSM and leather communities. They explore the role of consent classes, the significance of non-verbal communication, and the impact of online communities. The discussion also touches on the rich history and values of the leather community. They emphasize the need for inclusivity, community support, and the importance of navigating personal boundaries in BDSM practices. Featured toy/resource: Whiteboard and dry-erase marker FRIES Model – Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific Leather Archives Documentary https://vimeo.com/1012894808 Leather Archives and Museum Article https://www.them.us/story/the-registry-chicago-leather-museum Leather History Timeline from The Leather Archives & Museum https://leatherarchives.org/history How the Leatherdykes helped change feminism https://ncsfreedom.org/2017/05/07/how-the-leatherdykes-helped-change-feminism/ On Leather Values from the Carter/Johnson Library https://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/about-leather Leather as Radical Kinship - A Leather Title Holder’s Story on PBS NPR Connecticut https://www.ctpublic.org/news/2024-06-26/connecticut-leather-lgbtq-pride Leather Underground Magazine https://www.houstonlgbthistory.org/Houston80s/Assorted%20Pubs/Club%20Scene-Los%20Angeles%20794-Niebur/ClubScene12-83.compressed.pdf Leather Values Demystified https://theflamestribune.com/article-categories/education.html Education Portland Leather Alliance Linktree https://linktr.ee/portland_leather Consent, Negotiation, and Dungeon Etiquette for Neurodivergent folks https://fetlife.com/groups/179987 The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom https://ncsfreedom.org/ PLA https://www.portlandleather.org/ THRIVE virtual BDSM and Mental Health Conference https://thrivevirtualcon.com/ Credits: Producers Maypop, Mimic, Siren, Sunflower, Poppy and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

    Leather-Clad Consent with Kol

  7. May 1

    From Power Lifting to Power Exchange: Training with Goddess Aroya Lessons

    Mistress AudryLu Black and Goddess Aroya Lessons examine the intersections of BDSM practice, podcasting, and personal evolution. Their discussion navigates pop culture's influence on identity and relationship dynamics within power exchange. They explore the balance between training and domination and the value of being correctable in leadership. The conversation extends to positioning in dominance and the liberation of authentic self-expression, while addressing community safety practices, and their 'Build to Serve' bootcamp integrating fitness with BDSM elements. A munch is a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in kink, BDSM, fetishes, or alternative relationship lifestyles. Shoe cleaner, tactile brush for sensation play. Build to Serve Bootcamp is a space intentionally created to help submissives build structure, discipline, devotion, and a deeper understanding of service. It focuses on mindset, obedience, presentation, consistency, and practical tools that support personal growth within power exchange. Elevate and Dommenate podcast: Goddess Aroya Lessons and Orpheus Black dive into the captivating world of alternative dominance. From exploring intentional dom-sub relationships to helping newbies navigate the pro/lifestyle Dom(me) world, this podcast is your invitation to an empowering and unapologetically bold journey with these remarkable Doms. https://open.spotify.com/episode/5pxDCyLJiqWE24v9rYy2u9?si=77304216fbe44e47 Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

    From Power Lifting to Power Exchange: Training with Goddess Aroya Lessons

  8. Apr 15

    The Power of Furship with Sharkey & Zander

    In this episode, Mistress AudryLu Black, Sharkey, and Zander peel back the curtain of the furry community. They trace the intimate pathways of entry, where conventions become spaces for profound connection and belonging. The conversation navigates the complex architecture of identity, where fursonas emerge not as escapism but as expressions of self. What begins as an exploration of subculture becomes something more: a masterclass in how to build a world where the self can be seen, touched, and celebrated in its most authentic form. They also discuss the vibrant world of the furry art community and how artists find commissions. Sharkey and Zander share resources and recommendations for aspiring artists and enthusiasts. Today’s resources include the written works of: Kyell Gold http://www.kyellgold.com/ TJ Minde https://furrywritersguild.com/writers/tj-minde/ The Echo Project https://echoproject.itch.io/ Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    The Power of Furship with Sharkey & Zander
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Welcome to Placemarker4Perversion, hosted by Mistress Audry Lu Black. Join me as we leave behind the mundane and draw back the velvet curtain to learn new things and explore the philosophical depths of kink. This inclusive space dismantles rigid expectations, welcoming seasoned sensualists, the “just curious”, and tenderfoot trembling on the threshold. You'll find a sanctuary here. Even after 25 years of wielding the lash and enjoying sculpting consensual behavioral modification techniques, Mistress Audry Lu Black knows the pursuit of understanding is an unending dance—and her kink. What can want teach us? How are lust and longing powerful tools for self-actualization? From Plato to pegging, fisting to Freud. We’ll learn together from experts, philosophers, voices you have never heard, and guardians of ethical play. Join us to explore power, vulnerability, and consent, where the human mind meets ethical kink - one knot, one caress, one whispered word at a time.

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