Visions of Love: Redefining Relationships, Restoring Connection

Tonya and Lamont
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For Lovers www.lovercoaching.com/love Welcome to Visions of Love in Relationships, where Lamont and Tonya Johnson guide Married Couples on the journey from conflict to connection.  In a culture full of broken models of love, we believe relationships can be reimagined and rebuilt on truth, trust, and intentional growth. Here, we challenge outdated blueprints, unpack the real struggles couples face, and share practical tools for healthier communication, deeper intimacy, and lasting commitment. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, this podcast equips you with:  Biblical wisdom and modern strategies for love that thrives.  Honest conversations about the hard topics most people avoid.  Tools to break generational cycles and create your own blueprint for love.  Encouragement to not just survive in your relationship—but to thrive. This is more than a podcast. It’s a movement to restore faith, hope, and vision back into relationships. If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns and start building a love that lasts, you’re in the right place.

  1. 1D AGO

    How We Made It to 20 Years of Marriage (The One Thing That Changed Everything)

    How We Made It to 20 Years of Marriage (The One Thing That Changed Everything) It was just our 20-year anniversary, and we don’t take that lightly. Twenty years of love. Twenty years of lessons. Twenty years of choosing each other. In this episode, we share what really helped us make it to 20 years, and it wasn’t perfection, chemistry, or luck. It was one powerful decision: The willingness to grow. Growth in communication. Growth in maturity. Growth in healing. Growth in how we love each other. Most relationships don’t fail because of one big moment. They struggle because one or both partners stop growing. If you’re dating, engaged, newly married, or years in, this conversation will challenge and encourage you. Because lasting love isn’t about staying the same. It’s about growing forward together. ❤️ Your marriage can thrive. It just requires growth. #MarriageGoals #BlackLove #HealthyRelationships #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGrowth #ChristianMarriage #LoveAndMarriage #CouplesGoals #LongLastingLove #MarriageMatters

    28 min

  2. JAN 20

    The Debt You Don’t See: When Money Breaks Trust

    💔 When Money Breaks Trust Financial infidelity isn't just about the numbers; it’s about the silence and the secrets that slowly erode the foundation of your relationship. Most couples don’t fall out of love—they fall out of alignment, and hidden debt is one of the fastest ways to lose that connection. In this video, we dive deep into the "unseen debt" that impacts marriages and partnerships. We discuss how to break the cycle of miscommunication, address the emotional weight of financial secrets, and start the journey of rebuilding the trust you’ve been praying for. ✨ A Final Thought Love doesn’t fail—people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that together. Join the Conversation: What is the biggest challenge you've faced regarding money and trust? Share your thoughts in the comments below!💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle? If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone. Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment. We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again. That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for. ************************************************************************************** 💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect 📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk. → https://lovercoaching.com 🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections” Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process. → https://lovercoaching.com/love 📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples” Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection. → https://amzn.to/4nzNu80 🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go. ✨ Remember Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that. *********************************************************************************** Subscribe and click the notification bell for updates on our latest episodes. Comment below Share your thoughts! *********************************************************************************** Follow Us: - Instagram: tnlvisions - Facebook: TNL.JVISIONS The Momentum Method The Secret to Building Connection Fast with Your Guy Free PDF instant - https://tinyurl.com/3an6mpht Please note that these video is based on our opinion and experience! ******************************************************************************* #relationship #love #relationshipgoals #relationships #couple #couplegoals #marriage #couples #dating #life #quotes #relationshipadvice #boyfriend #romance #follow #instagood #girlfriend

    24 min

  3. JAN 9

    Is Independence Killing Your Marriage? 💔 Marriage Secrets Revealed #marriage

    💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle? If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone. Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment. We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again. That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for. ************************************************************************************** 💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect 📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk. → https://lovercoaching.com 🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections” Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process. → https://lovercoaching.com/love 📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples” Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection. → https://amzn.to/4nzNu80 🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go. ✨ Remember Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that. *********************************************************************************** Subscribe and click the notification bell for updates on our latest episodes. Comment below Share your thoughts! *********************************************************************************** Follow Us: - Instagram: tnlvisions - Facebook: TNL.JVISIONS The Momentum Method The Secret to Building Connection Fast with Your Guy Free PDF instant - https://tinyurl.com/3an6mpht Please note that these video is based on our opinion and experience! ******************************************************************************* #relationship #love #relationshipgoals #relationships #couple #couplegoals #marriage #couples #dating #life #quotes #relationshipadvice #boyfriend #romance #follow #instagood #girlfriend

    16 min

  4. JAN 2

    ❤️‍🔥From Settling to Standards: Healing The Why, How, and The What Now

    ❤️‍🔥From Settling to Standards: Healing The Why, How, and The What Now The standard you set is the love you live with. But why is it so hard to raise that standard—and even harder to say it out loud? In this episode, Tonya breaks down: ✔️ Why we accept less than we deserve ✔️ The hidden cost of lowering your standards in love & marriage ✔️ How childhood patterns and past trauma shape what we tolerate ✔️ How to communicate your standards without nagging or guilt ✔️ What to do if you’re already married and the standard has been low for years If you’ve ever been afraid of sounding demanding, struggled with resentment, or felt stuck on the “trauma train,” this conversation is for you. This isn’t about control. This is about clarity. This is about alignment. And most importantly, this is about God-centered relationships built with purpose—not survival. 👉 Ready to do the internal work? Join our 30-Day Alignment Challenge and learn how to heal the root, raise your standards, and communicate them with confidence and grace. 🔗 Link below 💬 Drop a comment and tell us: What standard are you learning to stop lowering? 📌 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who needs this reminder. 💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle? If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone. Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment. We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again. That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for. ************************************************************************************** 💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect 📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk. → https://lovercoaching.com 🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections” Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process. → https://lovercoaching.com/love 📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples” Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection. → https://amzn.to/4nzNu80 🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go. ✨ Remember Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that. *********************************************************************************** Subscribe and click the notification bell for updates on our latest episodes. Comment below Share your thoughts! *********************************************************************************** Follow Us: - Instagram: tnlvisions - Facebook: TNL.JVISIONS The Momentum Method The Secret to Building Connection Fast with Your Guy Free PDF instant - https://tinyurl.com/3an6mpht Please note that these video is based on our opinion and experience! ******************************************************************************* #relationship #love #relationshipgoals #relationships #couple #couplegoals #marriage #couples #dating #life #quotes #relationshipadvice #boyfriend #romance #follow #instagood #girlfriend #RelationshipStandards #StopSettling #HealthyRelationships #MarriageGrowth #EmotionalHealing #FaithBasedRelationships #GodCenteredMarriage #BoundariesInLove #SelfWorthJourney #RelationshipAdviceForWomen #ChristianMarriage #HealingFromTrauma #CommunicationSkills #StandardsNotSettling #RelationshipStandards #StopSettling #HealthyRelationships #MarriageGrowth #EmotionalHealing #FaithBasedRelationships #GodCenteredMarriage #BoundariesInLove #SelfWorthJourney #RelationshipAdviceForWomen #ChristianMarriage #HealingFromTrauma #CommunicationSkills #StandardsNotSettling #TonyaJohnson

    7 min

  5. 12/24/2025

    Beyond the Receipts 3 Steps to Financial Unity

    Beyond the Receipts 3 Steps to Financial Unity When The holidays are over… but the credit card statements are just getting started. If you’ve been avoiding your bank app, feeling tension around money, or realizing that holiday “joy spending” will follow you straight into January—this episode is for you. In today’s episode of Visions of Love & Marriage: Beyond the Vows, we’re having some real, grace-filled conversations about what comes after the holidays. Because financial stress doesn’t just affect your wallet—it affects your peace, your communication, and your connection as a couple. We’re walking you through a Post-Holiday Financial Reset with 3 practical, faith-based steps to help you: ✔ Face the numbers without shame ✔ Reset from holiday wants back to real needs ✔ Create a shared financial vision for the new year ✔ Protect your marriage while you rebuild This is not about blame. This is not about perfection. This is about alignment, unity, and stewardship. ✨ PLUS — If you’re ready to start the year with clarity instead of overwhelm, we invite you to join our 30-Day Alignment Challenge. For 30 days, we’ll help you align: • Your finances • Your communication • Your habits • Your faith • Your vision as a couple Because when alignment is right, progress follows. 👉 Join the 30-Day Alignment Challenge (link below) 👉 Like this video if it spoke to you 👉 Subscribe for weekly marriage, money, and faith conversations 👉 Comment below and tell us one money win you’re believing for this year Remember—your value isn’t in what you spent. It’s in the covenant you’re building. As always, keep building, keep loving, and keep choosing each other. God bless. — Tonya & Lamont Johnson Visions of Love & Marriage: Beyond the Vows #MarriageAndMoney #FaithAndFinances #ChristianMarriage #MarriageReset #FinancialPeace #MoneyTalksInMarriage #BeyondTheVows #MarriageGoals #CouplesAndMoney #NewYearReset #FinancialStewardship #HealthyMarriage #KingdomMarriage #DebtFreeJourney #AlignmentChallenge💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle? If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone. Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment. We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again. That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for. ************************************************************************************** 💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect 📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk. → https://lovercoaching.com 🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections” Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process. → https://lovercoaching.com/love 📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples” Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection. → https://amzn.to/4nzNu80 🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go. ✨ Remember Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that. *********************************************************************************** Subscribe and click the notification bell for updates on our latest episodes. Comment below Share your thoughts! *********************************************************************************** Follow Us: - Instagram: tnlvisions - Facebook: TNL.JVISIONS The Momentum Method The Secret to Building Connection Fast with Your Guy Free PDF instant - https://tinyurl.com/3an6mpht Please note that these video is based on our opinion and experience! ******************************************************************************* #relationship #love #relationshipgoals #relationships #couple #couplegoals #marriage #couples #dating #life #quotes #relationshipadvice #boyfriend #romance #follow #instagood #girlfriend

    23 min

  6. 12/19/2025

    The Standard You Set is the Value You Accept

    www.lovercoaching.com/30daychallenge The Standard You Set is the Value You Accept We talk a lot about standards… But what if the standards you tolerate are quietly revealing how you see yourself? In this episode of Take It From Tonya, I’m unpacking a truth most people avoid: The standard you set is the value you accept. This isn’t about being picky. It’s not about controlling people. It’s about self-respect. If you’ve been tolerating things that drain you, diminish you, or delay your growth—this conversation is for you. We’re talking about: • Why low standards aren’t a people problem—they’re a self-perception problem • How tolerating disrespect slowly erodes your confidence • The connection between boundaries, self-worth, and peace • Simple, practical ways to raise your standard without guilt This episode isn’t here to shame you. It’s here to wake you up. Because once you see yourself differently… You’ll stop accepting what no longer fits. 🎧 Listen all the way through and ask yourself one honest question: What am I tolerating that no longer aligns with who I’m becoming? ✨ If this resonated, make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs permission to raise their bar. As always… Take it from Tonya. #MindsetShift💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle? If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone. Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment. We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again. That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for. ************************************************************************************** 💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect 📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk. → https://lovercoaching.com 🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections” Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process. → https://lovercoaching.com/love 📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples” Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection. → https://amzn.to/4nzNu80 🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go. ✨ Remember Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that. *********************************************************************************** Subscribe and click the notification bell for updates on our latest episodes. Comment below Share your thoughts! *********************************************************************************** Follow Us: - Instagram: tnlvisions - Facebook: TNL.JVISIONS The Momentum Method The Secret to Building Connection Fast with Your Guy Free PDF instant - https://tinyurl.com/3an6mpht Please note that these video is based on our opinion and experience! ******************************************************************************* #relationship #love #relationshipgoals #relationships #couple #couplegoals #marriage #couples #dating #life #quotes #relationshipadvice #boyfriend #romance #follow #instagood #girlfriend #TakeItFromTonya #KnowYourWorth #RaiseYourStandards #SelfRespectMatters #HealthyBoundaries #EmotionalGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #RelationshipClarity #HealingJourney #ConfidenceBuilding #FaithAndGrowth

    7 min

  7. 12/17/2025

    Wants vs. Needs – The Holiday Heart Check

    Wants vs. Needs – The Holiday Heart Check The holidays are beautiful… but they can also expose tension in relationships. Why? Because this is the season where wants start masquerading as needs. In this episode of Visions of Love, we’re breaking down one of the most common (and misunderstood) sources of relationship conflict—especially during the holidays. We talk about: • The difference between wants and needs in marriage • Why unmet wants often get mistaken for disrespect • How external pressure creates internal conflict • Biblical clarity on love, respect, and covenant needs • Simple filters to help couples protect their peace and unity This conversation isn’t about guilt or perfection. It’s about discernment. When you learn to honor needs without letting wants take control, your relationship stops feeling strained—and starts feeling aligned. ✨ If this episode resonates, like, subscribe, and share it with a couple who needs clarity this season. 📌 Ready to realign your relationship? Join our 30-Day Alignment Challenge for just $3: 👉 lovercoaching.com/30daychallengeThe holidays are beautiful… but they can also expose tension in relationships. Why? Because this is the season where wants start masquerading as needs. In this episode of Visions of Love, we’re breaking down one of the most common (and misunderstood) sources of relationship conflict—especially during the holidays. We talk about: • The difference between wants and needs in marriage • Why unmet wants often get mistaken for disrespect • How external pressure creates internal conflict • Biblical clarity on love, respect, and covenant needs • Simple filters to help couples protect their peace and unity This conversation isn’t about guilt or perfection. It’s about discernment. When you learn to honor needs without letting wants take control, your relationship stops feeling strained—and starts feeling aligned. ✨ If this episode resonates, like, subscribe, and share it with a couple who needs clarity this season. 📌 Ready to realign your relationship? Join our 30-Day Alignment Challenge for just $3: 👉 lovercoaching.com/30daychallenge #VisionsOfLove #MarriageClarity #WantsVsNeeds #HolidayRelationships #HealthyMarriage #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #RelationshipBoundaries #MarriageGrowth #EmotionalIntimacy #CouplesCommunication #MarriagePurpose💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle? If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone. Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment. We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again. That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for. ************************************************************************************** 💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect 📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk. → https://lovercoaching.com 🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections” Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process. → https://lovercoaching.com/love 📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples” Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection. → https://amzn.to/4nzNu80 🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go. ✨ Remember Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that. *********************************************************************************** Subscribe and click the notification bell for updates on our latest episodes. Comment below Share your thoughts! *********************************************************************************** Follow Us: - Instagram: tnlvisions - Facebook: TNL.JVISIONS The Momentum Method The Secret to Building Connection Fast with Your Guy Free PDF instant - https://tinyurl.com/3an6mpht Please note that these video is based on our opinion and experience! ******************************************************************************* #relationship #love #relationshipgoals #relationships #couple #couplegoals #marriage #couples #dating #life #quotes #relationshipadvice #boyfriend #romance #follow #instagood #girlfriend

    18 min

  8. 12/11/2025

    7 Daily Habits to date yourself

    💔 Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle? If it feels like you’re doing everything you can to keep love alive — but the connection keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone. Most couples don’t fall out of love… they fall out of alignment. We get it — the frustration, the miscommunication, the emotional distance that makes you wonder if things will ever feel the same again. That’s exactly why we created tools to help you break the cycle and start rebuilding the connection you’ve been praying for. ************************************************************************************** 💞 Tools & Resources For Lovers to Help You Reconnect 📞 Book a FREE 20-Minute Coaching Call If your relationship feels heavy, don’t wait until it breaks — let’s talk. → https://lovercoaching.com 🎓 Take Our Free Mini Course — “From Conflicts To Connections” Learn how to keep love special, reduce conflict, and rekindle connection — without losing yourself in the process. → https://lovercoaching.com/love 📖 Grab Our Book – “Effective Communication Skills for Couples” Practical, biblical, and deeply real — everything you need to go from conflict to connection. → https://amzn.to/4nzNu80 🎧 Prefer to Listen? https://amzn.to/43abLKJ Get the full experience on Audible — perfect for couples who want to grow together on the go. ✨ Remember Love doesn’t fail — people just stop learning how to love well. Let’s change that. *********************************************************************************** Subscribe and click the notification bell for updates on our latest episodes. Comment below Share your thoughts! *********************************************************************************** Follow Us: - Instagram: tnlvisions - Facebook: TNL.JVISIONS The Momentum Method The Secret to Building Connection Fast with Your Guy Free PDF instant - https://tinyurl.com/3an6mpht Please note that these video is based on our opinion and experience! ******************************************************************************* #relationship #love #relationshipgoals #relationships #couple #couplegoals #marriage #couples #dating #life #quotes #relationshipadvice #boyfriend #romance #follow #instagood #girlfriend

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For Lovers www.lovercoaching.com/love Welcome to Visions of Love in Relationships, where Lamont and Tonya Johnson guide Married Couples on the journey from conflict to connection.  In a culture full of broken models of love, we believe relationships can be reimagined and rebuilt on truth, trust, and intentional growth. Here, we challenge outdated blueprints, unpack the real struggles couples face, and share practical tools for healthier communication, deeper intimacy, and lasting commitment. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, this podcast equips you with:  Biblical wisdom and modern strategies for love that thrives.  Honest conversations about the hard topics most people avoid.  Tools to break generational cycles and create your own blueprint for love.  Encouragement to not just survive in your relationship—but to thrive. This is more than a podcast. It’s a movement to restore faith, hope, and vision back into relationships. If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns and start building a love that lasts, you’re in the right place.

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