The Sultry & Sacred بالعربي Podcast

Cinderella and Karim

إحنا مين؟ إحنا إتنين بني آدمين ومعالجين نفسيين، ومعانا شوية خبرات وقصص.   مش جايين نتفلسف ولا نلبس طقم حكمة؛ جايين نشارك اللي عشناه، وتجاربنا، اللي نجح منها، واللي ما نجحش.   هتسمعوا عن العلاقات، الرغبة والاختيارات اللي بتشكّل حياتنا.   المساحة دي للصدق، للضحك، واللعب والجد والحب، وللحاجات اللي ساعات بنهمس بيها وبتسكن جوانا.   كل حلقة تجربة: نسأل، نجاوب، وندخل مواضيع بنتجنبها لأسباب بنعرفها وأحيانًا لأسباب مانعرفهاش.   هنا، في sultry&sacred بالعربي، بنتعلّم مع بعض خطوة بخطوة.   اسمعونا، شاركونا، وتعالوا نعيد اكتشاف متعة الحياة والحرية سوا!

Episodes

  1. 04/24/2025

    Toxic Masculinity in Arabic Part II

    Summary In this episode, the conversation delves into the complexities of masculine and feminine energies, exploring the historical and societal shifts that have influenced male identity and relationships. The discussion highlights the clash between these energies, the evolution of male identity, and the impact of toxic masculinity. The importance of rites of passage and community support for men is emphasized, alongside the influence of contemporary figures like Andrew Tate on societal perceptions of masculinity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of trust, gender dynamics, and the challenges of masculinity in modern relationships. They explore the roots of toxic masculinity, the importance of emotional control, and the need for discernment in navigating interpersonal connections. The discussion emphasizes the significance of awareness and the necessity for societal change to foster healthier relationships. كريم معالج نفسي متخصص في العلاج السلوكي المعرفي وتحليل المعاملات (CBT & Transactional Analysis)، Meditation facilitator   ومُعالج لهوية الجندر والجنس،not conversion therapy وبيشتغل في المجال الروحي بقلب مفتوح بقاله أكتر من 10 سنين. وممارس لدمج الطاقات الذكورية والأنثوية في النفس والعلاقات. وشريكي في مشروع walks with the Netjeru  . Summary In this episode, the conversation delves into the complexities of masculine and feminine energies, exploring the historical and societal shifts that have influenced male identity and relationships. The discussion highlights the clash between these energies, the evolution of male identity, and the impact of toxic masculinity. The importance of rites of passage and community support for men is emphasized, alongside the influence of contemporary figures like Andrew Tate on societal perceptions of masculinity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of trust, gender dynamics, and the challenges of masculinity in modern relationships. They explore the roots of toxic masculinity, the importance of emotional control, and the need for discernment in navigating interpersonal connections. The discussion emphasizes the significance of awareness and the necessity for societal change to foster healthier relationships. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Masculine and Feminine Energies 03:46 Exploring the Clash of Energies 10:34 The Evolution of Male Identity 20:27 Understanding Toxic Masculinity 26:08 The Role of Rites of Passage 39:33 The Impact of Societal Changes 46:47 The Influence of Figures like Andrew Tate 01:03:04 The Foundation of Trust 01:04:10 Understanding Gender Dynamics 01:05:18 The Complexity of Masculinity 01:06:12 Cultural Influences on Relationships 01:08:07 Power and Protection in Relationships 01:10:06 Toxic Masculinity and Its Roots 01:12:17 Emotional Control and Expression 01:14:30 The Balance of Anger and Peace 01:17:40 Power Dynamics in Relationships 01:20:59 Misconceptions About Anger 01:23:40 Trust and Control in Relationships 01:26:06 The Role of Awareness in Relationships 01:29:39 The Need for Change in Societal Norms 01:32:23 The Illusion of Fixing Others 01:36:21 The Journey of Self-Discovery 01:40:21 Rethinking Masculinity 01:43:45 Returning to Our Spiritual Roots 01:49:35 The Importance of Discernment

    1h 3m
  2. 04/17/2025

    Toxic Masculinity in Arabic Part I

    In this episode, the conversation delves into the complexities of masculine and feminine energies, exploring the historical and societal shifts that have influenced male identity and relationships. The discussion highlights the clash between these energies, the evolution of male identity, and the impact of toxic masculinity. The importance of rites of passage and community support for men is emphasized, alongside the influence of contemporary figures like Andrew Tate on societal perceptions of masculinity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of trust, gender dynamics, and the challenges of masculinity in modern relationships. They explore the roots of toxic masculinity, the importance of emotional control, and the need for discernment in navigating interpersonal connections. The discussion emphasizes the significance of awareness and the necessity for societal change to foster healthier relationships.   كريم معالج نفسي متخصص في العلاج السلوكي المعرفي وتحليل المعاملات (CBT & Transactional Analysis)، Meditation facilitator   ومُعالج لهوية الجندر والجنس،not conversion therapy وبيشتغل في المجال الروحي بقلب مفتوح بقاله أكتر من 10 سنين. وممارس لدمج الطاقات الذكورية والأنثوية في النفس والعلاقات. وشريكي في مشروع walks with the Netjeru  . Takeaways The clash between masculine and feminine energies is a significant issue in relationships. Historical models of male and female roles are no longer applicable today. Toxic masculinity stems from societal pressures and expectations placed on men. Rites of passage are crucial for men to connect with their identities. The evolution of male identity is influenced by societal changes and expectations. Men often feel the need to control situations to feel safe. Community support for men is essential for healthy emotional expression. Figures like Andrew Tate reflect societal issues regarding masculinity. The reward system in society often promotes unhealthy behaviors in men. Self-awareness is key to understanding and evolving gender dynamics. Trust is the foundation of all relationships. Men and women both possess strength and vulnerability. Toxic masculinity arises from societal misunderstandings. Emotional control is a powerful tool in relationships. Healthy expression of anger is essential for communication. Trust issues often lead to controlling behaviors. Societal norms need to evolve for healthier dynamics. The illusion of fixing others can be detrimental. Self-discovery is a continuous journey for everyone. Discernment is key in understanding emotions and actions. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Masculine and Feminine Energies 03:46 Exploring the Clash of Energies 10:34 The Evolution of Male Identity 20:27 Understanding Toxic Masculinity 26:08 The Role of Rites of Passage 39:33 The Impact of Societal Changes 46:47 The Influence of Figures like Andrew Tate 01:03:04 The Foundation of Trust 01:04:10 Understanding Gender Dynamics 01:05:18 The Complexity of Masculinity 01:06:12 Cultural Influences on Relationships 01:08:07 Power and Protection in Relationships 01:10:06 Toxic Masculinity and Its Roots 01:12:17 Emotional Control and Expression 01:14:30 The Balance of Anger and Peace 01:17:40 Power Dynamics in Relationships 01:20:59 Misconceptions About Anger 01:23:40 Trust and Control in Relationships 01:26:06 The Role of Awareness in Relationships 01:29:39 The Need for Change in Societal Norms 01:32:23 The Illusion of Fixing Others 01:36:21 The Journey of Self-Discovery 01:40:21 Rethinking Masculinity 01:43:45 Returning to Our Spiritual Roots 01:49:35 The Importance of Discernment

    47 min
  3. 03/13/2025

    Attachment Styles in the Bedroom

    In this conversation, Venus and Cinderella explore the intricate relationship between attachment styles and their impact on love, intimacy, and sexuality. They discuss how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, the role of therapy and self-love in healing, and the significance of plant medicine in personal growth. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of conscious connections and the need to address shame in order to foster healthier relationships. Throughout the discussion, they share personal insights and practical advice for navigating the complexities of attachment in romantic and sexual contexts. Takeaways Attachment styles influence how we connect with others. Childhood experiences shape our adult relationships. Healing is possible; attachment styles are not fixed. Self-love is crucial for healthy relationships. Plant medicine can aid in emotional healing. Conscious relationships require mutual investment. Shame can manifest differently in anxious and avoidant individuals. Communication is key in navigating triggers in relationships. Understanding attachment styles can improve sexual intimacy. Relationships are mirrors reflecting our inner work. Titles Exploring Attachment Styles in Relationships The Connection Between Attachment and Sexuality Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Attachment Styles 02:23 Understanding Attachment Styles 05:02 The Impact of Attachment on Relationships 10:10 Attachment Styles and Sexuality 15:28 Navigating Anxious and Avoidant Dynamics 17:15 Healing Through Self-Reflection 23:29 The Role of Gender and Energy in Attachment 28:01 Ghosting and Communication in Relationships 30:56 The Interplay of Sex and Self-Relationship 33:21 Understanding Shame in Relationships 35:59 The Impact of Attachment Styles 40:00 The Importance of Being Intentionally Single 43:33 Shame and Societal Expectations 47:20 Triggers and Self-Reflection in Relationships 49:51 Navigating Attachment Styles in Relationships 52:58 From Attachment-Driven Love to Conscious Connection 56:23 The Role of Plant Medicine in Healing

    1h 1m

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إحنا مين؟ إحنا إتنين بني آدمين ومعالجين نفسيين، ومعانا شوية خبرات وقصص.   مش جايين نتفلسف ولا نلبس طقم حكمة؛ جايين نشارك اللي عشناه، وتجاربنا، اللي نجح منها، واللي ما نجحش.   هتسمعوا عن العلاقات، الرغبة والاختيارات اللي بتشكّل حياتنا.   المساحة دي للصدق، للضحك، واللعب والجد والحب، وللحاجات اللي ساعات بنهمس بيها وبتسكن جوانا.   كل حلقة تجربة: نسأل، نجاوب، وندخل مواضيع بنتجنبها لأسباب بنعرفها وأحيانًا لأسباب مانعرفهاش.   هنا، في sultry&sacred بالعربي، بنتعلّم مع بعض خطوة بخطوة.   اسمعونا، شاركونا، وتعالوا نعيد اكتشاف متعة الحياة والحرية سوا!