Work From Bed Friday

Amy Hoffmann & Tommy Borden
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A committed couple of 30+ years in conversation about marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media that have ignited their marriage, sex, and connection. Every Friday. From bed.

  1. 5D AGO

    Deep Thoughts and Hot Hockey: All About Love Chapter 8 and Heated Rivalry Episode 3

    Who knew that watching hot hockey romances in Heated Rivalry would be a fitting companion for Chapter 8 of All About Love by bell hooks?? So many parallels! Also, some welcome spice for the deep dives into love and community. Amy & Tommy discuss the cultural primacy of the nuclear family and its erosion of our ability to love. It's not as contradictory as it seems: we place so much importance on finding and keeping romantic love, often at the expense of the community and friendships where we practice, learn, teach, and spread love. Also, Bad Bunny. Heated Rivalry Game Changer by Rachel Reid YouTube: Conor Storrie and Hudson Williams All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks Bad Bunny's Superbowl messaging Original Music: Song: Monkey Dance Artist: Ian and The Deep Sheets Album: Ball Simon Send a text Don't miss the good stuff! Click here to get on the list for our monthly newsletter (or subscribe directly on Substack) which includes book reviews, date night ideas, and more juicy tidbits from the bed and beyond! Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

    50 min

  2. FEB 6

    Love and Greed: All About Love Chapter 7 and Heated Rivalry Episode 2

    It's another love sandwich: spicy analysis of the viral hockey lovestory/softporn series, "Heated Rivalry" on one slice, a reader lovenote on the other slice, and the meat?  Deep talk about Chapter 7 of All About Love by bell hooks: greed and the ways in which love cannot thrive or even exist in a world driven by greed. Whoa. Amy & Tommy knock the dated examples while being legit blown away by the resonance with our present moment. Listen, enjoy and chime in! Mentioned in this episode: Episode 2 of "Heated Rivalry" Heated Rivalry by Rachel Reid All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks Journey of the Heart: The Path of Conscious Love by John Welwood Original Music: Song: USA #1 Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth Album: USA #1 Send us a text Don't miss the good stuff! Click here to get on the list for our monthly newsletter (or subscribe directly on Substack) which includes book reviews, date night ideas, and more juicy tidbits from the bed and beyond! Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

    39 min

  3. JAN 30

    A Love Ethic: All About Love Chapter 6 and Heated Rivalry Episode 1

    As our country navigates this this very difficult moment, the words of bell hooks resonate in their prescience. She understood the road that we were, and are traveling. How do we practice a love ethic as a society? How can we stand strong in a love ethic while disinformation, disregard for basic human rights, and a general lack of love abound?  It helps to talk about it. And also to watch a viral hockey love story. Join us! Mentioned in this episode: "Heated Rivalry" "Heated Wizardry" New Yorker Article on "Heated Rivalry" All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks "Sinners" Altars in the Street by Melody Ermachild Chavis  Original Music: Song: Presto Artist: Muistardeaux Collective Album: Abstractio's Prestige Send us a text Don't miss the good stuff! Click here to get on the list for our monthly newsletter (or subscribe directly on Substack) which includes book reviews, date night ideas, and more juicy tidbits from the bed and beyond! Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

    41 min

  4. JAN 23

    Spiritual Love and "Heated Rivalry": All About Love Chapter 5

    Tommy and Amy kick off Episode 6 of Season 2 with a tease: a quick peek into what they are reading and which books may make an upcoming episode!  After that Titillating Tidbit, they move on to the meat of the episode: Chapter 5 of All About Love by bell hooks. The discussion on spirituality and love take us from the woods of the Pacific Northwest to the Sombrero Galaxy. Come along for the ride!  And then watch the trailer for "Heated Rivalry." A discussion is coming soon! Mentioned in this Episode: I Love Dick by Chris Krauss All Fours by Miranda July Eve's Hollywood by Eve Babitz The Idiot by Elif Batuman All About Love by bell hooks St. Teresa of Avila Heated Rivalry trailer New Yorker review of Heated Rivalry Original Music: Song: Malden Artist: Muistardeaux Collective Album: Abstractio's Prestige Send a text Don't miss the good stuff! Click here to get on the list for our monthly newsletter (or subscribe directly on Substack) which includes book reviews, date night ideas, and more juicy tidbits from the bed and beyond! Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

    45 min

  5. JAN 16

    Self-Love: Chapter 4 of All About Love

    Amy & Tommy start with Portland’s stand up comedy scene and end with pubic hair. Sandwiched in between is a discussion of self love and self esteem. Also, they would like to contradict themselves—things ARE really bad in the world. Just get out there and love yourself, your people, and your community! Mentioned in this episode: All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks Portland's Chill & Fill Andie Main, comedian Ally J Ward, comedian The Pubic Hair Guide for Men Stasia Savasuk's Style School Martha Graham quote Full Bush in a Bikini article on Dazed A Bad Moms Christmas Original Music: Song: Dave (Certain Details) [Taylor's Version] Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth Album: It Don't Rewind Send a text Don't miss the good stuff! Click here to get on the list for our monthly newsletter (or subscribe directly on Substack) which includes book reviews, date night ideas, and more juicy tidbits from the bed and beyond! Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

    49 min

  6. JAN 9

    Love, Lies, and the Patriarchy : Chapter 3 of All About Love

    Chapter 3 of All About Love by bell hooks is THE chapter that precipitated Amy and Tommy's famous "breakthrough" as detailed in Season 1, Episode 1. What do they think of it now? Listen for lots of opinions, a peek at a new tradition for New Year's Day, and some Miranda July-style crowdsourcing on hormone replacement therapy.  All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton Jupiter Hotel Beth Kempton's Calm Christmas Podcast The End of Manhood by John Stoltenberg Good Inside by Dr. Becky Kennedy Brene Brown on honesty ErectKyle Dysfunction The Lazy Genius Podcast Original Music: Song: Drift 1 Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth Album: It Don't Rewind Send a text Don't miss the good stuff! Click here to get on the list for our monthly newsletter (or subscribe directly on Substack) which includes book reviews, date night ideas, and more juicy tidbits from the bed and beyond! Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

    46 min

  7. JAN 2

    Love is Love. And mustaches: Chapter 2 of All About Love

    Amy and Tommy dig into Chapter 2 of All About Love by bell hooks, following her discourse on justice and advocacy for the rights of children. It seems far from a theory of love, but perhaps that's the point. Whatever the case, Amy and Tommy gamely engage in a lively conversation about the chapter, flanked by a discussion of the holiday classic movie, Love Actually, and on the other end, pubic hair. Because, important topics. And crowdsourcing.  Enjoy! Mentioned in this Episode: All About Love by bell hooks Love Actually Merry Little Ex-mas Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton George Clooney's mustache George Harrison's mustache Original Music: Song: Heath's Brother Artist: Muistardeaux Collective Album: Mont Roc Send us a text Don't miss the good stuff! Click here to get on the list for our monthly newsletter (or subscribe directly on Substack) which includes book reviews, date night ideas, and more juicy tidbits from the bed and beyond! Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

    39 min

  8. 12/26/2025

    Love and Cathexis: Chapter 1 of All About Love

    It turns out that Chapter 1 of All About Love by bell hooks brings up more questions than it answers: what actually IS cathexis? Do you have to have cathexis before you have/practice love? Are we throwing around the word love too cavalierly??  Lots to unpack here, but don't worry, we come back to our favorite topic (Does size matter?) in our "Let's Make it a Threesome" segment! Mentioned in this Episode: Sexy Lace Robe from Amazon Lingerie store in Santa Cruz, CA  Kimberly Ann Johnson, somatic practioner All About Love by bell hooks M. Scott Peck The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck, M.D. Erich Fromm Gilderoy Lockheart on fame and celebrity Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, by John Gray, Ph.D. Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton, Ph.D. Original Music: Song: Domino Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth Album: It Don't Rewind Send us a text Don't miss the good stuff! Click here to get on the list for our monthly newsletter (or subscribe directly on Substack) which includes book reviews, date night ideas, and more juicy tidbits from the bed and beyond! Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.

    44 min
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A committed couple of 30+ years in conversation about marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media that have ignited their marriage, sex, and connection. Every Friday. From bed.

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  • Creator
    Amy Hoffmann & Tommy Borden
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    48
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Work From Bed Friday
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