Belle Meade welcomes Fr. Carter Griffin for a conversation about chastity as the power to love well rather than a list of restrictions. Fr. Carter is a priest of the Archdiocese of Washington, a former Navy line officer, and the author of Reclaimed: Win the War of Freedom, Self-Mastery, and Holy Purity. Fr. Carter recounts his conversion at Princeton, the four years at sea that shaped how he understands discipline and fatherhood, and the dissertation that grew into Why Celibacy? He then walks through the practical battle plan behind his new book: honest limits on screens, real boundaries, friendship, and a daily habit of prayer. What We Talk About: Why chastity is the virtue that enables us to love well as body and soul—and why angels have no need of itWhere to begin when someone feels stuck: screen usage, boundaries around the near occasions of sin, building real friendships, and three Hail Marys at nightWhy Fr. Griffin could not disagree more with the counsel that occasional falls will always be part of the pictureHow a doctoral dissertation on the theology of celibacy became Why Celibacy?, and the part the Amazon Synod played in bringing it to a popular audienceThe Gerasene demoniac as an image of what chastity restores: clothed, in his right mind, and no longer harming himselfResources Mentioned: Reclaimed: Win the War of Freedom, Self-Mastery, and Holy Purity by Fr. Carter GriffinWhy Celibacy?: Reclaiming the Fatherhood of the Priest by Fr. Carter GriffinForming Families, Forming Saints by Fr. Carter GriffinCovenant EyesPaloma&FigChapters: 00:00: Intro00:31: Meet Fr. Carter Griffin and Reclaimed04:38: Raised Presbyterian, Reading His Way into the Church08:29: The Navy, Discipline, and a First Taste of Fatherhood15:51: How Why Celibacy? Began as a Dissertation in Rome20:15: What Chastity Actually Means23:42: Freedom From and Freedom For26:51: Signs of Hope in a Pornography-Soaked Culture32:38: Where to Start: Screens, Boundaries, and Friendship39:26: Why a Field Manual for a Real Battle47:20: What It Means to Be a Herald of Freedom54:28: One Field Order: Never SurrenderProduced by Saint Kolbe Studios Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow Paloma & Fig on Facebook, Instagram & LinkedIn. Learn more at www.palomaandfig.com. Join in the conversation by joining our Facebook group, A Resounding Yes!