Yes I Am Selfish

KHADIJAH JAMILLAAH

Yes, I am selfish is a podcast dedicated to self-development, concept + love, and centering around expanding the consciousness within. Through inner and transformative reflections around universal laws, manifestation, mindset and timeline shifts, the subconscious mind + the deprogramming of it and so many more mystical topics evolving around spiritual alchemy. We uncover the truths that shape our reality and identifying where you need to be more selfish, authentic + unapologetic to create the life you desire. The raw revelations of this 3D reality we call life, that so many are uncomfortable to speak on. This podcast is your voice of reason. So, join the collective as we break through limiting beliefs, embrace transformation, and tap into the fullness of our souls. 🌟 Support Yes I Am Selfish Podcast  Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

  1. DEC 6

    Egoic Selfishness vs Spiritual Selfishness

    LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 Selfishness isn’t always bad. In this episode of Yes I Am Selfish, we dive into the difference between egoic selfishness—the kind that keeps you stuck and spiritual selfishness—the kind that elevates your life, protects your energy, and aligns you with your soul. Learn how to set boundaries, follow your intuition, and even ghost spiritually without guilt. Abraham-Hicks says it best: you must be selfish to live fully. Let’s unpack what that really means. https://life-longlearner.com/how-to-measure-consciousness-using-the-map-of-consciousness-3-of-7/ Support the show Thank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

    30 min
  2. OCT 19

    The Alchemist Within: Transmuting Pain Into Gold

    LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 In this episode, Khadijah speaks straight from spirit — guided by intuition, not structure. This is a message she sat with for a week, until the divine timing finally said “now.” She explores what it truly means to be an alchemist — not the one who turns metals into gold, but the one who turns pain into power. Through raw honesty and reflection, Khadijah shares how life’s pressure can either break you or refine you into a diamond — and how she chooses the latter every time. This episode reminds you that everything you’ve been through has shaped who you are, and that every setback holds a lesson wrapped in divine timing. You’ll hear reflections on: Transmuting pain, betrayal, and disappointment into spiritual strength.Seeing others as mirrors and teachers in your evolution.Remembering that faith in yourself is faith in God.Understanding why your journey always brings you back home — to you.It’s a conversation about authenticity, reflection, and self-alchemy — for anyone walking through their transformation and choosing not to give up on themselves. So pause the movie, grab your tea, and let’s talk about what it means to become gold. ✨💎 Support the show Thank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

    19 min
  3. SEP 28

    THE 3D IS YOUR SERVANT

    LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 ✨ The moment you step into your imagination and know the law is already working in your favor, the matrix will try to pull you back—through doubt, fear, comparison, and conformity. After recording this episode, the matrix tried to get me to conform. I allowed myself to feel those emotions, process them, and then release them—so they never became my identity, so I didn’t internalize or intellectualize them. That’s the difference: you experience the wave without letting it define you. The 3D is nothing more than old memories. Persistence is your power. Your childlike imagination is your proof. What you decree within, must show without. Don’t give up before the harvest. 🌱👁️ Support the show Thank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

    17 min
  4. MAY 21

    The Most Selfless Thing You Can Do Is Become Selfish

    LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 In this raw and transformative final episode, I explore the paradox of selfishness as a sacred act of healing. We’ve been conditioned to put others first, to pour from an empty cup, and to sacrifice our own needs in the name of love, family, or duty. But what if the most selfless thing you can do is choose you? This episode is a closing chapter and an initiation. I dive into what it really means to reclaim your time, your energy, and your vision without guilt. I also reflect on how choosing radical self-prioritization became the catalyst for my deepest healing, especially around financial wounds, family patterns, and emotional shutdowns. If you’ve ever felt torn between being a good person and being a whole person, this one’s for you. 🔗 ✨FREE BIRTH CHART✨: https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php 🔗 MY PERSONAL LINKS 🦋  https://beacons.ai/khadijahjai Support the show Thank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

    48 min
  5. MAY 11

    Healing Without a Guide: The Weight of Reparenting Alone

    LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 This episode is real, raw, and honest. I’m talking about what it feels like to reparent yourself. especially when you didn’t grow up with the love, guidance, or support you should’ve had. A lot of us, especially millennials, are waking up to the truth: we can’t keep carrying childhood wounds into our adult lives and calling it normal. We’re breaking generational cycles, but doing it alone isn’t easy. It’s painful, it’s heavy, and it forces you to face things you never asked for. But choosing to become the parent you never had… that’s powerful. That’s healing without a guide. And even if nobody claps for you, what you’re doing matters. This episode is for the ones doing the work, reparenting themselves, grieving while still showing up, and choosing to heal anyway. 🤍 🔗 : BOOK A NATAL READING WITH ME ✨ 🔗 : SELF CONCEPT MASTERY ACADEMY [ how my journey began ] https://beacons.ai/khadijahjai Support the show Thank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

    31 min

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Yes, I am selfish is a podcast dedicated to self-development, concept + love, and centering around expanding the consciousness within. Through inner and transformative reflections around universal laws, manifestation, mindset and timeline shifts, the subconscious mind + the deprogramming of it and so many more mystical topics evolving around spiritual alchemy. We uncover the truths that shape our reality and identifying where you need to be more selfish, authentic + unapologetic to create the life you desire. The raw revelations of this 3D reality we call life, that so many are uncomfortable to speak on. This podcast is your voice of reason. So, join the collective as we break through limiting beliefs, embrace transformation, and tap into the fullness of our souls. 🌟 Support Yes I Am Selfish Podcast  Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.