The Centre for Healing Podcast

Ryan Hassan and Melissa Hiemann
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Welcome to The Centre for Healing Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. Brought to you by The Centre for Healing, this podcast features expert insights, transformative stories, and practical tools for overcoming trauma, fostering resilience, and embracing holistic healing. Whether you’re on your own healing journey or supporting others in theirs, each episode is designed to inspire growth, spark self-discovery, and empower you to live a balanced, thriving life. Tune in and join the conversation as we explore the many paths to true healing and wholeness.

  1. What Children Really Need: Attachment, Daycare & Divorce with Erica Komisar

    21h ago

    What Children Really Need: Attachment, Daycare & Divorce with Erica Komisar

    Show Notes SummaryPodcast Title: What Children Really Need: Attachment, Daycare & Divorce with Erica KomisarIn this powerful episode of The Centre for Healing Podcast, Melissa Hiemann is joined by Erica Komisar, psychoanalyst, author, and thought leader in the fields of parenting, attachment theory, child development, and divorce. Together, Melissa and Erica explore what children truly need from their parents in today’s increasingly dysregulated world. This conversation looks beyond surface-level parenting strategies and opens up a deeper discussion around attachment, emotional presence, nervous system regulation, daycare, divorce, and the impact of a parent’s unresolved trauma on their children. Melissa also shares reflections from the trauma-aware parenting work she and Tara have created through The Centre for Healing, highlighting the importance of helping parents understand not only their child’s behaviour, but also their own nervous system, attachment wounds, and emotional patterns. This episode is especially relevant for parents, therapists, practitioners, educators, and anyone wanting to understand how early relationships shape emotional wellbeing across a lifetime. In this episode, we explore: Erica’s number one piece of advice for parents today Why attachment is foundational to healthy emotional development How daycare can impact a child’s developing nervous system and attachment needs How single mothers can navigate secure attachment while also needing childcare and support What parents can do if childcare is necessary The relationship between physiology, brain chemistry, emotional regulation, and attachment How parents with developmental trauma can begin to regulate and connect with their children The emotional impact of divorce on children Why parent education before having children may be essential The modern cultural pressures affecting parents and children How trauma-aware parenting can help break intergenerational cycles About Erica Komisar Erica Komisar is a psychoanalyst, author, and parent guidance expert known for her work in attachment, child development, parenting, and divorce. Her work supports parents in understanding the emotional needs of children and the vital role of secure attachment in lifelong mental health. Resources Mentioned Erica Komisar: @ericakomisar https://www.instagram.com/ericakomisar/Erica’s nonprofit: Attachment Circles - https://www.attachmentcircles.org/Erica’s new book: The Parents Guide to Divorce https://www.ericakomisar.com/the-parents-guide-to-divorce The Centre for Healing’s trauma-aware parenting course explores attachment, nervous system regulation, emotional safety, and how parents can begin healing intergenerational trauma while creating deeper connection with their children. Explore the course here - https://www.thecentreforhealing.com/trauma-aware-parenting

    42 min
  2. Shadow Work Class - Somatic Therapy Lens

    Jun 17

    Shadow Work Class - Somatic Therapy Lens

    Shadow work isn’t about fixing yourself—it’s about meeting every part of yourself with curiosity and compassion. In this conversation, we explore shadow work through the integrated lenses of Buddhist philosophy, Jungian psychology, Toltec teachings, and somatic therapy. The shadow is understood as the repressed, denied, or disowned aspects of the self—emotions, traits, fears, and survival patterns that often operate unconsciously. Somatic therapy brings these insights into the body, emphasizing nervous system responses, felt sense awareness, and gradual capacity building for holding difficult experiences. Through allowing, curiosity, and embodied presence, shadow material can be integrated rather than suppressed.   Learn more about the Embodied Processing Practitioner Training here:https://www.thecentreforhealing.com/embodied-processing

    55 min
  3. Healing through Matrescence with Rebecca Barnes

    May 20

    Healing through Matrescence with Rebecca Barnes

    SHOWNOTES In this deeply insightful episode, Ryan Hasson sits down with Rebecca Barnes from the UK to explore the profound transformation of motherhood through the lens of matrescence, trauma-informed care, and embodied healing. Rebecca shares her personal and professional journey — from working in residential childcare supporting traumatised children to becoming a certified Trauma-Informed, Seasons of Matrescence™ Educator & Guide, and Embodied Processing Practitioner. Together, Ryan and Rebecca unpack the emotional, physical, psychological, and spiritual shifts that occur in motherhood, and why so many mothers feel unsupported during this life-changing transition. This conversation offers a compassionate and honest look at grief, identity loss, nervous system regulation, societal pressures, and the importance of creating spaces where mothers can truly be seen, supported, and understood. About Rebecca Barnes Rebecca is the founder of Becoming the Mother. She is a certified Trauma-Informed, Seasons of Matrescence™ Educator & Guide, and Embodied Processing Practitioner. Above all, Rebecca considers her most sacred and important role to be being the mother to her four beautiful children. Rebecca spent many years working in residential childcare supporting children with histories of trauma. Alongside her extensive study of matrescence, trauma, and nervous system regulation, she also brings lived experience through multiple matrescence transformations of her own. What You’ll Learn in This Episode What matrescence is and why understanding it changes the way we view motherhood Rebecca’s journey from hairdresser to embodied processing practitioner The “Seasons of Matrescence” framework and how mothers move through emotional seasons Why grief, rage, sadness, and fear are normal parts of motherhood How unresolved trauma impacts parenting, relationships, and identity The systemic gaps in support for mothers and families Why compassion is more healing than judgment when working with parents and children How embodied processing supports nervous system regulation and emotional healing The importance of practitioners doing their own healing work  Key Takeaways Motherhood is not just a role — it is a full developmental transformation. Many emotions experienced in motherhood are normal responses, not signs that something is “wrong.” Healing happens when emotions are safely processed instead of suppressed. Nervous system regulation and embodied practices can support deeper emotional healing. Supporting mothers early and compassionately has ripple effects for future generations. Practitioners who do their own healing work are better equipped to support others. Resources & Links Website: https://becomingthemother.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becomingthemother/ Book a call with Rebecca: https://calendly.com/rebecca-becomingthemother/30min

    1h 4m
  4. 10 Causes of Suffering

    May 13

    10 Causes of Suffering

    Why You Suffer There are 2 forms of suffering in this existence of being human; Necessary & Un-necessary We find the vast majority of people are stuck in unnecessary suffering.So let's talk about it... Presented by the creators of Embodied Processing, Ryan Hassan & Matt Kay. Join us to discuss:  - What is Suffering - Suffering and Trauma - Dissatisfaction/Deficiency - Craving and Aversion - Stored Suffering - NS states - Inner conflicts - Relationship to Suffering - Suffering vs Pain - Veils/Beliefs - Inner Unification and Resolution Whether you’re working with clients now or are on a personal journey of healing (or both), this class is sure to add value to your life. When we understand the body, the nervous system & its adaptations we can remove shame and create true transformation in our lives. We look forward to seeing you in the class. More info on the Somatic Therapy EP here: https://www.thecentreforhealing.com/embodied-processing

    51 min
  5. Exploring Adult Child & Parent Dynamics

    May 7

    Exploring Adult Child & Parent Dynamics

    In this wide ranging discussion Daniel Maté speaks with Ryan Hassan & Matt Kay (creators of Embodied Processing) about the interesting dynamics between adult children and their parents. Daniel goes in depth around the challenges and healing he has had with his father Gabor Maté. Also the need to move away from the term 'boundaries' and more into an attitude of working out what environment we need to create in order for us to thrive as humans. It's a relationship dynamic that isn't discussed very much in this context. We hope you enjoy the discussion and can take some value for your own life. Here are recordings of 2 Hello Again workshops facilitated by Daniel & Gabor Maté:Hello Again 2016Hello Again 2022 Get in touch with Daniel:Walk with Daniel - https://www.walkwithdaniel.com/ Daniel Maté website - https://www.danielmate.com/ Lyrics to Go on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyRD8upUhMmCsiQvkFYKQlQ Daniel Maté instagram - https://www.instagram.com/danielbmate/ Daniel Maté twitter - https://twitter.com/danielbmate

    57 min
  6. Interview with co-author of The Myth of Normal, Daniel Maté

    Apr 29

    Interview with co-author of The Myth of Normal, Daniel Maté

    Interview with co-author of The Myth of Normal, Daniel Maté Ryan & Matt, co-creators of Embodied Processing had the pleasure of recording a conversation with Daniel Maté.Daniel is co-author with his father Gabor of the new groundbreaking book The Myth of Normal; Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture. In this wide ranging discussion Daniel talks openly about:- Bringing such an important book to life- How the book has been received & how his life has changed since- What healing actually can look like on an individual & collective level- His own healing process (involving a Mexican immigration jail)- The strains & healing in the relationship with his father Gabor- Whether we should be hopeful or pessimistic about our future as a society We hope you enjoy the chat as much as we did! Get in touch with Daniel & Gabor:Walk with Daniel - https://www.walkwithdaniel.com/ Daniel Maté website - https://www.danielmate.com/ Lyrics to Go on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyRD8upUhMmCsiQvkFYKQlQ Daniel Maté instagram - https://www.instagram.com/danielbmate/ Daniel Maté twitter - https://twitter.com/danielbmate Gabor Maté website - https://drgabormate.com/ Gabor Maté twitter - https://twitter.com/DrGaborMate

    1h 44m
  7. How to Safely Add Alternative Methods to Your Practice Without Risking Your Licensure – with Dr. Tina Vitolo

    Apr 8

    How to Safely Add Alternative Methods to Your Practice Without Risking Your Licensure – with Dr. Tina Vitolo

    Episode Summary In this powerful and paradigm-shifting conversation, Melissa Hiemann sits down with Dr. Tina Vitolo—licensed clinical social worker, rebel educator, and founder of The Black Sheep Therapist—to explore how therapists can ethically integrate spiritual, somatic, and alternative healing modalities into clinical practice. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite “fit” within traditional mental health systems… this episode will feel like a deep exhale. Tina shares her journey of challenging outdated frameworks in the therapy world and reveals how practitioners can move beyond fear, confusion, and rigid rules—without losing their license or integrity. Together, Melissa and Tina explore what it really means to be an embodied practitioner, how innovation happens in healing, and why the future of mental health lies in integration—not separation. What We Cover in This Episode: What it means to be a “Black Sheep Therapist” and why it’s a gift The hidden limitations within traditional mental health systems The truth about “evidence-based practice” (and what therapists often misunderstand) Whether you can legally and ethically integrate modalities like: Astrology Somatic work Energy healing Breathwork Why therapists fear losing their license—and what’s actually true How to use informed consent, language, and transparency as protection The difference between therapy vs. separate coaching/healing businesses How to integrate alternative modalities within a clinical container The importance of embodiment vs. just learning techniques Why innovation in healing is essential for better client outcomes    Key Takeaways You are licensed—not the modality you use Ethical practice is about transparency, competency, and client choice Evidence-based practice is broader than most therapists think Integration (not separation) is the future of healing Your lived experience and embodiment matter just as much as your training   About Dr. Tina Vitolo Dr. Tina Vitolo is a licensed clinical social worker, rebel educator, and founder of The Black Sheep Therapist—a global community for clinicians who feel called to practice outside the traditional mold. With nearly 20 years of experience in mental health, Tina helps therapists ethically integrate spiritual, somatic, and complementary practices into their work—without fear. She is the creator of the Innovative Practitioner Accelerator (IPA) and author of The Black Sheep Therapist: Integrating Spiritual and Energy-Based Modalities into Clinical Practice.   Connect with Dr. Tina Website: https://www.theblacksheepguide.com Facebook Community: Black Sheep Therapists: Embracing Unconventional Practices in Mental Health https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1G4FWJ6oxo/ Instagram & TikTok: @theblacksheeptherapist  Special Offer: Tina is offering a free ebook download of her book from April 13–15. https://theblacksheepguide.com/book-optin-page

    1h 9m
  8. New Book Release! Root-Cause Therapy: A Method for True, Lasting Change with Melissa Hiemann

    Mar 28

    New Book Release! Root-Cause Therapy: A Method for True, Lasting Change with Melissa Hiemann

    EPISODE SUMMARY In this solo episode, Melissa Hiemann — co-founder of The Centre for Healing and author of Root-Cause Therapy: A Method for True, Lasting Change — shares the story behind her new book, the methodology that took 12 years to develop, and why she believes true, lasting healing can only happen when we address the root, not the symptoms. From her own personal journey through narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, and substance use, to opening a clinic and training practitioners across the world, Melissa unpacks what makes Root-Cause Therapy different from conventional talk therapy and coaching — and why so many people stay stuck even after years of working on themselves. Whether you're on your own healing journey, already in practice, or curious about training in RCT, this episode is for you. ABOUT MELISSA HIEMANN Melissa Hiemann is a trauma-informed healer, certified practitioner trainer, and co-founder of The Centre for Healing — a globally recognised training organisation dedicated to bringing root-cause healing to practitioners and clients worldwide. Melissa is the creator of Root-Cause Therapy and the author of two books, including her latest, *Root-Cause Therapy: A Method for True, Lasting Change*. She is also the co-creator of the Trauma-Informed Manifestation Course and a Trauma-Aware Parenting Course. The Centre for Healing celebrated its 10-year anniversary in 2026. LINKS & RESOURCES  📖 Get the book: thecentreforhealing.com/rctbook 🌐 Find an RCT Practitioner near you: thecentreforhealing.com/directory🎓 Explore RCT Practitioner Training: thecentreforhealing.com/ 🎙️ Leave a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts

    25 min
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Welcome to The Centre for Healing Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. Brought to you by The Centre for Healing, this podcast features expert insights, transformative stories, and practical tools for overcoming trauma, fostering resilience, and embracing holistic healing. Whether you’re on your own healing journey or supporting others in theirs, each episode is designed to inspire growth, spark self-discovery, and empower you to live a balanced, thriving life. Tune in and join the conversation as we explore the many paths to true healing and wholeness.

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