Bantering across Borders

Tony and Sarah

Part travel-guide, part friendship diary, this podcast series is your passport to adventure and connection. Two best friends with over 100 countries between them share hilarious stories, practical tips and the moments that brought them closer through their journeys.  Designed for those who dream of exploring the world but prefer to start off their journeys from the sofa, this podcast encourages you to do your research, take the leap, embrace the unexpected and go out and see the world. Whether you’re planning your next trip, or missing your best friend, this show is for anyone who loves travel and values the power of shared experiences. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders #BanteringAcrossBorders #RoadTrip #Travel #Banter #Friendship #NewExperiences #newpodcast #friendship goals #Travelstories #travelling #traveltipsandtricks #conversationstarters #dubaiblogger #saudivlog #middleeasttravel #africatravel #asiatravel #europetravel #hiddengems

Episodes

  1. 11/27/2025

    Iraqi Kurdistan – Beyond The Headlines.

    Send us a text In the final episode of Series 2, we head to one of the most surprising, humbling, and fascinating destinations we've ever visited: Iraqi Kurdistan.  Growing up during the Gulf War, “Iraq” was a word that came wrapped in fear and conflict on the news, so stepping foot there as two middle-aged expats armed with just a couple of curious minds, felt surreal. And magical. And completely unexpected.  Join us as we wander through ancient monasteries, share dinners with locals, and walk barefoot through the sacred Yazidi village of Lalish — one of the most moving travel experiences we've ever had. We also climb up to the atmospheric Citadel of Erbil, reflect on the kindness of everyone we met, and marvel at how different reality is from the headlines we grew up hearing.  Stay with us till the end as answer our season-ending question: What do we wish for each other as life takes us on different paths?  This is an episode about challenging assumptions, embracing curiosity, and discovering the humanity and beauty of a place too often misunderstood.  If you enjoy the episode, please hit like, subscribe, and join us for future adventures in Series 3!   Our guides  Here are the two companies we used for our trip to Kurdistan - escape travels who organised everything and then our tour guide Haval who runs many trips across the country.  Escape Travels   https://www.escape-travels.com/  https://www.instagram.com/escape_travels?igsh=MXNycDZzaTgzbGR0Mw==  Haval - tour guide Kurdistan.   https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g659505-d14863085-Reviews-Iraqi_Kurdistan_Guide-Erbil_Erbil_Province.html  https://iraqikurdistanguide.com/  https://www.instagram.com/iraqi_kurdistan_guide?igsh=NmZpcmJpZ3kxd3k1&utm_source=qr    Why this episode matters  Kurdistan challenged every preconception we had. It reminded us why we travel: to replace headlines with human stories, to be humbled by unexpected beauty, and to meet people who open their homes, their holy sites, and their hearts.    🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    35 min
  2. Building a life abroad – lessons learned

    11/13/2025

    Building a life abroad – lessons learned

    Send us a text Thinking about moving overseas or already living the expat life? In this episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony share their personal journeys of building a life abroad—the highs, the lows, and everything in between. From making friends and handling culture shock to the practical realities of expat living, they explore the benefits, disadvantages, and lessons learned along the way.  Episode notes  Bantering Across Borders – Episode: Building a Life Abroad  In this special episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony step away from their usual trip-by-trip storytelling to reflect on what it really means to build a life abroad. From the funny to the frustrating, they share their personal journeys, lessons learned, and the realities of life as British expats.  Expect honest banter, practical advice, and a peek behind the curtain of expat life—everything from making friends in new places, to battling culture shock, to redefining what “home” actually means. Whether you’re already an expat, considering a move, or just curious about life overseas, this episode has something for you.  Join us as we swap stories, laugh at our misadventures, and share what we’ve learned along the way.  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    37 min
  3. Sudan’s Hidden Gems – From Khartoum to the Pyramids

    04/22/2025

    Sudan’s Hidden Gems – From Khartoum to the Pyramids

    Send us a text Ready to hear about ancient pyramids, and unexpected sandstorms? In this episode, we take you deep into Sudan, as we road trip from Khartoum to the pyramids in Meroe.    Expect history, humour, and a bit of mayhem. This is not a travel guide—it’s a real-life travel tale packed with laughs, surprises, and heartfelt moments    In this episode, we cover:   The real story behind Sudan’s pyramids  What’s inside the National Museum of Sudan  Surviving a sandstorm while camping in the desert   What it’s really like to travel in Sudan as a foreigner If you’re curious about off-the-beaten-path travel, and love a good laugh, this episode is for you.     Perfect for listeners who love:    Travel podcasts with personality   African travel stories   Underrated destinations   Funny and authentic storytelling   British humour and expat adventures   Real travel, not Instagram gloss Mentioned in this episode:  Escape Travels – Get your exclusive discount on your next adventure. Visit https://www.escape-travels.com and listen in for the promo code!     Don’t forget to listen to the rest of the series and join us as we share our travel tales from Saudi, South Korea, Azerbaijan, and Kuwait.  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    42 min
  4. Azerbaijan – It’s More Modern Than You Think

    04/15/2025

    Azerbaijan – It’s More Modern Than You Think

    Send us a text In this episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony—British expats and best friends—take you on a three-day journey through the stunning and surprising country of Azerbaijan.  From staying overnight with locals in Xinaliq, one of the highest and most remote villages in the Caucasus Mountains, to exploring the ultra-modern skyline and unexpected gems of Baku, this episode is full of laughs, cultural insights, and memorable travel moments.   Find out why Tony unexpectedly fell in love with a carpet museum, why Sarah ended up in a heated dinner table debate, and what it's really like to travel as part of a group tour for the first time. As always, their signature banter brings a mix of storytelling, personal reflection, and friendship-fuelled travel inspiration.  If you're curious about off-the-beaten-path travel, meaningful shared experiences, and the quirky dynamics of long-time friends exploring the world together, you’re in the right place.  In This Episode You’ll Discover:  - What makes Xinaliq one of the world’s most unique mountain villages    - How Baku’s modern architecture and culture defy expectations    - Why Tony is obsessed with Azerbaijan’s Carpet Museum    - The ups and downs of joining a group trip as independent travellers    - How travel continues to strengthen their friendship  Perfect for listeners who love  ✓ Travel podcasts    ✓ Exploring lesser-known countries    ✓ Authentic friendship dynamics    ✓ British expat stories    ✓ Travel guides with personality  Planning your next adventure?  Check out our friends at Escape Travels and use the discount code mentioned in the episode to save on your next adventure: https://www.escape-travels.com  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    38 min
  5. Kuwait’s serene charm

    04/08/2025

    Kuwait’s serene charm

    Send us a text Welcome back to Bantering Across Borders! Join Tony and Sarah as they take a trip down memory lane to share their recollections about a weekend jaunt to Kuwait. Listen in as they go from anticipating Kuwait to being boring to finding unexpected adventure and lots of charm in this serene country. Discover why they get stuck on a once military strategic island, and what they thought about the cultural activities on offer in this Gulf state.  They also dive deeper into their own personal stories, thoughts and feelings, covering topics such as faith, destiny and their definitive soundtrack for life.  Tune in for some more hilarious banter as the two best friends unpack their friendship and reveal why travel continues to bond them.  🎧 Planning a trip to Kuwait? Tony and Sarah will share everything you need to know. Discover Kuwait  – it’ll definitely surprise you. Hit play now! 🗺️ Check out our friends at escape travels and use the discount code in the podcast to secure a place on one of their next trips https://www.escape-travels.com/  #TravelVlog #Kuwait #KuwaitTowers #TravelTips #FriendshipGoals #HiddenGems #TravelStories #Podcast #newpodcast #MiddleEastTravel #roadtrip #failakaIsland #kuwaitcity #Dubaiblogger #saudivlog #icebreaking #conversationstarters #TimeLeft #adventure #adventuretrips #stories #expatlife #travelling  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content! Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    46 min

About

Part travel-guide, part friendship diary, this podcast series is your passport to adventure and connection. Two best friends with over 100 countries between them share hilarious stories, practical tips and the moments that brought them closer through their journeys.  Designed for those who dream of exploring the world but prefer to start off their journeys from the sofa, this podcast encourages you to do your research, take the leap, embrace the unexpected and go out and see the world. Whether you’re planning your next trip, or missing your best friend, this show is for anyone who loves travel and values the power of shared experiences. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders #BanteringAcrossBorders #RoadTrip #Travel #Banter #Friendship #NewExperiences #newpodcast #friendship goals #Travelstories #travelling #traveltipsandtricks #conversationstarters #dubaiblogger #saudivlog #middleeasttravel #africatravel #asiatravel #europetravel #hiddengems