Bantering across Borders

Tony and Sarah

Part travel-guide, part friendship diary, this podcast series is your passport to adventure and connection. Two best friends with over 100 countries between them share hilarious stories, practical tips and the moments that brought them closer through their journeys.  Designed for those who dream of exploring the world but prefer to start off their journeys from the sofa, this podcast encourages you to do your research, take the leap, embrace the unexpected and go out and see the world. Whether you’re planning your next trip, or missing your best friend, this show is for anyone who loves travel and values the power of shared experiences. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders #BanteringAcrossBorders #RoadTrip #Travel #Banter #Friendship #NewExperiences #newpodcast #friendship goals #Travelstories #travelling #traveltipsandtricks #conversationstarters #dubaiblogger #saudivlog #middleeasttravel #africatravel #asiatravel #europetravel #hiddengems

  1. Oct 30

    Kazakhstan: The Mighty Almaty

    Send us Fan Mail Kazakhstan: The Trip We Barely Remember (But Somehow Loved Anyway)  Some trips leave an unforgettable mark on your soul. Others? You mostly remember fragments, questionable tour guides, and the fact that you had a really good laugh.  In this episode of Bantering Across Borders, we look back on our whirlwind trip to Almaty, taken in 2018 and revisited through the foggy lens of memory in December 2025. Despite spending much of this episode trying to piece together what actually happened, one thing is clear: we had a surprisingly brilliant time.  We reflect on our short adventure through Kazakhstan, including visits to the ancient petroglyphs at Tamgaly, the stunning scenery around Big Almaty Lake, and exploring Almaty itself.  Along the way, we discuss why this particular trip has become oddly blurry in our memories and compare Kazakhstan to the other “Stans” we’ve visited.  Despite the patchy recollections, one thing shines through: travel isn’t always about perfect itineraries or unforgettable landmarks — sometimes it’s simply about the people you experience it with.  As always, expect honesty, laughter, travel mishaps and a healthy amount of banter.  In this episode:  00:00 – Coming up 01:37 – Introduction to the series and episode 02:27 – Heading off to Almaty, Kazakhstan 04:05 – Lasting impressions: what do we actually remember? 06:00 – A quick introduction to Kazakhstan 10:25 – Touring Kazakhstan Day 1: the petroglyphs at Tamgaly Petroglyphs 16:15 – Visiting Big Almaty Lake and exploring Almaty 23:40 – Why don’t we remember much about this trip? 24:40 – Comparing the “Stans” 28:20 – The friendship question 31:39 – Wrapping up Kazakhstan 32:31 – Uncovering Sarah’s quirks 34:00 – Next episode preview  A note on timing: This episode reflects on a trip taken in 2018, recorded as part of our retrospective travel conversations in December 2025. Some details may be hazy (on our part!), but the memories — however fuzzy — still make for a good story.  Follow Bantering Across Borders for funny, honest travel stories from two British expats exploring the world — often venturing beyond the obvious tourist trail, occasionally with questionable guides and unreliable memories.  If you enjoy the episode, please hit like, subscribe, and join us for future adventures   Follow us here:  📸 Instagram: instagram.com/banteringacrossborders  ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders  Listen on Apple  podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bantering-across-borders/id1801127870  Listen on Spotify  open.spotify.com/show/37QWZkt5yhXFMA7K5N5otC  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content!  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    Kazakhstan: The Mighty Almaty
  2. Oct 15

    Palestine: A journey that changed us

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when a trip changes not just how you see the world — but how you see yourself?  In the first episode of Series 3, we reflect on a journey we took through Palestine in December 2018 — a trip to the Holy Land that became something far more profound than either of us expected. Now, in December 2025, we look back on that experience and explore how it changed our perspectives, challenged our assumptions, and continues to stay with us years later.  From the stark realities of life in Hebron to the spiritual intensity of Bethlehem and Jerusalem, we revisit the moments that left the deepest impact — emotionally, culturally and spiritually.  We talk candidly about what it was really like travelling through Palestine as tourists, witnessing everyday Palestinian life, and experiencing places of huge historical and spiritual significance — including walking the Via Dolorosa and visiting the traditional site of Jesus’ birth at the Church of the Nativity.  More than a travel story, this episode explores how travel can reshape the way we see the world — and ourselves. As always, expect honesty, humour, unexpected moments, and plenty of banter along the way.  In this episode:  00:00 – Coming up 00:57 – Introduction to the new series 02:10 – Palestine: Why did we decide to visit the Holy Land? 05:05 – An overview of Palestine 06:56 – Getting there: travelling to Palestine in 2018 09:57 – Visiting Hebron and witnessing everyday Palestinian life 21:35 – Exploring Bethlehem and the traditional birthplace of Jesus 32:00 – Visiting Jerusalem, walking the Via Dolorosa, and experiencing the Holy City 41:22 – Onwards to Jordan 43:40 – How did this trip change us? Reflections on worldview, faith and spirituality 48:15 – Next episode preview  A note on timing: This episode reflects on a trip taken in December 2018, recorded as part of our retrospective conversations in December 2025. The places, practicalities and political context may have changed since our visit, but the impact of the experience remains.  Follow Bantering Across Borders for funny, honest travel stories from two British expats exploring the world — often heading far beyond the obvious tourist trail.    If you enjoy the episode, please hit like, subscribe, and join us for future adventures   Listen now and banter with us across the world!  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss the next stop on our bantering journey!  Follow us here:  📸 Instagram: instagram.com/banteringacrossborders  ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders  Listen on Apple  podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bantering-across-borders/id1801127870  Listen on Spotify  open.spotify.com/show/37QWZkt5yhXFMA7K5N5otC  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content!  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    Palestine: A journey that changed us
  3. 11/27/2025

    Iraqi Kurdistan – Beyond The Headlines.

    Send us Fan Mail In the final episode of Series 2, we head to one of the most surprising, humbling, and fascinating destinations we've ever visited: Iraqi Kurdistan.  Growing up during the Gulf War, “Iraq” was a word that came wrapped in fear and conflict on the news, so stepping foot there as two middle-aged expats armed with just a couple of curious minds, felt surreal. And magical. And completely unexpected.  Join us as we wander through ancient monasteries, share dinners with locals, and walk barefoot through the sacred Yazidi village of Lalish — one of the most moving travel experiences we've ever had. We also climb up to the atmospheric Citadel of Erbil, reflect on the kindness of everyone we met, and marvel at how different reality is from the headlines we grew up hearing.  Stay with us till the end as answer our season-ending question: What do we wish for each other as life takes us on different paths?  This is an episode about challenging assumptions, embracing curiosity, and discovering the humanity and beauty of a place too often misunderstood.  If you enjoy the episode, please hit like, subscribe, and join us for future adventures in Series 3!   Our guides  Here are the two companies we used for our trip to Kurdistan - escape travels who organised everything and then our tour guide Haval who runs many trips across the country.  Escape Travels   https://www.escape-travels.com/  https://www.instagram.com/escape_travels?igsh=MXNycDZzaTgzbGR0Mw==  Haval - tour guide Kurdistan.   https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g659505-d14863085-Reviews-Iraqi_Kurdistan_Guide-Erbil_Erbil_Province.html  https://iraqikurdistanguide.com/  https://www.instagram.com/iraqi_kurdistan_guide?igsh=NmZpcmJpZ3kxd3k1&utm_source=qr    Why this episode matters  Kurdistan challenged every preconception we had. It reminded us why we travel: to replace headlines with human stories, to be humbled by unexpected beauty, and to meet people who open their homes, their holy sites, and their hearts.    🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content!  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    Iraqi Kurdistan – Beyond The Headlines.
  4. 11/13/2025

    Building a life abroad – lessons learned

    Send us Fan Mail Thinking about moving overseas or already living the expat life? In this episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony share their personal journeys of building a life abroad—the highs, the lows, and everything in between. From making friends and handling culture shock to the practical realities of expat living, they explore the benefits, disadvantages, and lessons learned along the way.  Episode notes  Bantering Across Borders – Episode: Building a Life Abroad  In this special episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony step away from their usual trip-by-trip storytelling to reflect on what it really means to build a life abroad. From the funny to the frustrating, they share their personal journeys, lessons learned, and the realities of life as British expats.  Expect honest banter, practical advice, and a peek behind the curtain of expat life—everything from making friends in new places, to battling culture shock, to redefining what “home” actually means. Whether you’re already an expat, considering a move, or just curious about life overseas, this episode has something for you.  Join us as we swap stories, laugh at our misadventures, and share what we’ve learned along the way.  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content!  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    Building a life abroad – lessons learned

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Part travel-guide, part friendship diary, this podcast series is your passport to adventure and connection. Two best friends with over 100 countries between them share hilarious stories, practical tips and the moments that brought them closer through their journeys.  Designed for those who dream of exploring the world but prefer to start off their journeys from the sofa, this podcast encourages you to do your research, take the leap, embrace the unexpected and go out and see the world. Whether you’re planning your next trip, or missing your best friend, this show is for anyone who loves travel and values the power of shared experiences. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders #BanteringAcrossBorders #RoadTrip #Travel #Banter #Friendship #NewExperiences #newpodcast #friendship goals #Travelstories #travelling #traveltipsandtricks #conversationstarters #dubaiblogger #saudivlog #middleeasttravel #africatravel #asiatravel #europetravel #hiddengems