The Highly Sensitive Woman | Confidence | Set Boundaries | Self-acceptance | Find Your Purpose | Self-esteem

Allyssya Gossett
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Do you want to overcome self-doubt and set boundaries so you can have the meaningful connections you crave? Do you find yourself Googling how to build confidence, find internal peace, and eliminate feeling overwhelmed? Do you regularly feel like you’re broken and have resentment toward others when you accommodate their needs and ignore what you want... again? My name is Allyssya and I’m a Highly Sensitive Woman. For decades, I lacked the confidence to be myself. I too wished I didn’t worry so much about what everyone else thought of me and constantly felt anxiety from fear of disappointing others. I wanted to set boundaries, feel understood by the people in my life, and experience inner peace. But I kept telling myself I should be like everyone else and how I was made was the problem. Then I learned that there are other highly sensitive women in the world, and I didn’t feel so broken. I also discovered that expressing my thoughts, needs, and desires was empowering, and it helped me overcome self-doubt. In this podcast, you’ll find your voice to be yourself and set boundaries, even when your emotions are heightened, so you can live with bold confidence and internal peace. Grab your cozy blanket and get comfy, it’s time to connect with someone just like you!

  1. 1D AGO

    50 | Why Clarity on Your Needs and Preferences Changes Every Relationship You Have

    In this reflective post–Valentine’s Day episode, I explore how getting clear on your needs, preferences, and emotional desires can transform every relationship in your life - romantic, familial, and friendships alike. Through personal stories and gentle self-inquiry, this conversation highlights the difference between vague traits and lived experiences, the power of identifying non-negotiable needs, and how clarity strengthens self-assurance. When you know what you truly want and believe you’re worthy of it, rejection feels less personal, communication becomes easier, and you show up more authentically as yourself. This episode is a reminder that clarity isn’t about control or perfection, it’s an evolving act of self-kindness. The goal isn’t to find the perfect relationship. The goal is to know yourself well enough that whatever relationships you’re in feel honest, safe, and aligned with who you are.   ➡️ If this episode resonated with you, consider leaving a review? Your words help other highly sensitive women find the show and feel less alone. 🩵   ➡️ Share your wins and aha moments on this week’s post on: Facebook: Life Coaching with Allyssya or Instagram: @lifecoach_allyssya   Ready to begin the journey of getting clear on your needs and preferences?  ➡️ Let’s discover what’s getting in the way and create a plan that feels right for you. Message me at info@allyssya.coach.

    15 min

  2. FEB 12

    49 | From Chronic Stress & Survival Mode to Self-Trust & Subconscious Healing - with Ashlea Dillard - Part 2

    In Part 2 of this conversation with Ashlea Dillard, firefighter-paramedic turned Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Clinical & Transpersonal Hypnotherapist, we move from understanding stress and survival mode into what healing actually looks like.   Ashlea shares how people-pleasing often develops as a coping strategy, why so many women struggle to prioritize themselves without guilt, and what it truly means to advocate for your own needs. We also explore the role of the subconscious mind in shaping beliefs and behaviors, and how hypnotherapy can help create meaningful, lasting shifts.   This episode is about permission — permission to take up space, to listen to your inner voice, and to choose yourself without apology.   In Part 2 We Discuss:   🩵 Destigmatizing "showing up for yourself” 🩵 The subconscious mind and how belief patterns are formed 🩵 How hypnotherapy supports emotional healing and behavioral change 🩵 What sensitivity as a strength looks like in day-to-day life Connect with Ashlea Dillard Sit Around the Fire Podcast sitaroundthefire.org   ➡️ Share your wins and aha moments on this week’s post on: Facebook: Life Coaching with Allyssya or Instagram: @lifecoach_allyssya   Ready to begin the journey of giving yourself permission?  ➡️ Let’s discover what’s getting in the way and create a plan that feels right for you. Message me at info@allyssya.coach.

    30 min

  3. FEB 5

    48 | From Chronic Stress & Survival Mode to Self-Trust & Subconscious Healing - with Ashlea Dillard - Part 1

    What happens when a highly sensitive woman builds a career in one of the most high-stress, male-dominated professions and begins to realize her body is paying the price? In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, I’m joined by Ashlea Dillard, firefighter-paramedic turned Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Clinical & Transpersonal Hypnotherapist. We explore what it was like for her to navigate emotional depth in a culture that often rewards emotional suppression, and how years of emergency response impacted her nervous system, energy, and hormones. This episode dives into the physiological side of sensitivity and why chronic stress can leave women exhausted, disconnected from rest, and questioning their capacity. Ashlea shares powerful stories from her time on the job, including moments where her sensitivity became her greatest strength rather than something to hide. If you’ve ever felt “too emotional,” chronically tired, or stuck in survival mode, this conversation will help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface. In Part 1 We Discuss: 🩵 Being a highly sensitive woman in a male-dominated profession 🩵 Chronic stress and survival mode 🩵 Emotional suppression and the enormous physical energy it requires 🩵 Early warning signs your body is asking for change Stay Tuned for Part 2 In the second half of this conversation, we explore people-pleasing, self-advocacy, and how hypnotherapy works with the subconscious mind to create lasting change.   ➡️ Share your wins and aha moments on this week’s post on: Facebook: Life Coaching with Allyssya or Instagram: @lifecoach_allyssya   Ready to begin your journey of self-trust?  ➡️ Let’s discover what’s getting in the way and create a plan that feels right for you. Message me at info@allyssya.coach.

    26 min

  4. JAN 29

    47 | Enough “Should's” Already! Letting Go of Goals That Aren’t Yours

    Feeling frustrated with yourself for not wanting what you’re “supposed” to want leaves you feeling drained and unsure of yourself. Recently, I had a moment that stopped me in my tracks: realizing a fitness goal I was pushing myself toward wasn’t actually my goal, it was a suggestion from a fitness app that I quietly adopted and then judged myself for not meeting.   This pattern may feel familiar. As Highly Sensitive Women, we are deeply attuned to expectations, praise, and unspoken standards, and over time it can pull us out of connection with what we genuinely want and leave us seeking external reassurance instead of trusting ourselves.   You’ll walk away with insights on:   🩵 Why highly sensitive women often take on goals that aren’t theirs 🩵 Signs a goal may be rooted in expectation rather than desire 🩵 Gentle questions to help you tell the difference 🩵 What to do when you can’t tell what you want, yet 🩵 How self-assurance helps you move forward   This conversation isn’t about doing less or giving up, it’s about choosing differently. Choosing from clarity instead of pressure. From self-trust instead of “shoulds.”   ✨ Free Coaching Invitation If you’re realizing how often you’ve carried goals that weren’t yours and you’re ready for support with clarity, follow-through, or both, I’m offering 4 free coaching sessions to 7 new clients.   These sessions are a space to:   Untangle external expectations Reconnect with what actually matters to you Learn how to move forward in a way that feels steady, supportive, and self-led   You can learn more by sending a message to info@allyssya.coach.    You don’t need better goals. You need permission to choose.

    15 min

  5. JAN 22

    46 | Less Friction, More Flow: Listening to Your Intuition in Money and in Life - with Erin Gray

    Many highly sensitive women carry an unspoken tension around money - feelings of overwhelm, guilt, or inner conflict that don’t seem to respond to traditional financial advice. I’m joined by Erin Gray, host of the Your Money, Your Rules podcast, for a deep and compassionate conversation about sensitivity, intuition, and money. Erin shares her personal journey of reclaiming her sensitivity as a strength, how it shapes the way she makes financial decisions, and why highly sensitive women often need a very different approach to money than what we’ve been taught. We explore how guilt, conditioning, and internalized “shoulds” can quietly disconnect us from our intuition, why small, consistent steps are essential for building self-trust, and how honoring your nervous system can profoundly shift your relationship with money. This conversation is an invitation to slow down, tune inward, and begin making financial decisions with less friction and greater alignment. Together, we reflect on: ✨ How honoring intuition and nervous system regulation support better money choices ✨ Your money story through language, beliefs, and curiosity ✨ Why imagination and feeling matter just as much as strategy ✨ Reframing sensitivity as a financial and energetic advantage Connect with Erin: Listen to Erin’s podcast: Your Money, Your Rules Want to go deeper? Learn more about coaching with me and take advantage of 4 free sessions by sending a message to info@allyssya.coach.

    38 min

  6. JAN 15

    45 | Imperfect Still Counts: Escaping All-or-Nothing Thinking

    If you’ve ever thought, "If I can’t do it the right way, I won’t do it at all," this episode is for you. Today, I’m unpacking how all-or-nothing thinking quietly keeps us stuck — not because we don’t care, but because we care so much that anything less than ideal feels like failure. I share a recent experience at the gym where my workout didn’t look impressive on paper (no sweat, barely elevated heart rate, only twenty minutes from the moment I walked in the door until I walked out) yet ended up being one of the most important workouts I’ve done recently. Not because of what it did for my body, but because of what it did for my relationship with myself. This episode invites you to consider: 🩵 Why all-or-nothing thinking feels justified (and even responsible) 🩵 How unrealistic expectations stall momentum in personal habits 🩵 The way rigid standards spill over into our relationships with others 🩵 Why keeping small promises builds more trust than doing things “right” 🩵 How redefining what counts can create real, sustainable change I also share a few gentle experiments you can try this week to help you stay engaged even when things don’t look the way you hoped they would. Because real change happens when we keep showing up, even imperfectly. If you’re ready to start making progress through continued presence, I’m offering 4 free sessions for 7 new clients through the end of January 2026. Email info@allyssya.coach to schedule a complimentary consultation.

    13 min

  7. JAN 8

    44 | Stuck, Overwhelmed, or Drained? Your Home May Be Part of the Story - with Lisa Morton

    Your home is more than a place you return to at the end of the day. It’s an energetic partner in your well-being. In this episode, I sit down with Lisa Morton to explore how our spaces impact our nervous systems, emotions, and ability to move forward in life. Lisa shares her personal journey as a highly sensitive woman, how she intuitively used her bedroom to self-soothe as a child, and how those early instincts eventually shaped her life’s work. We discuss Feng Shui, energetic space clearing, clutter, stagnation, and why small shifts, not massive overhauls, can create profound change. This episode is a gentle invitation to reconnect with your home as a source of safety, support, and healing. This conversation offers insight into: The powerful connection between your home, your nervous system, and your emotional well-being How feeling stuck or depleted can show up in your space and how to gently shift it A simple, approachable understanding of Feng Shui and energetic space clearing Why clutter holds emotional and energetic weight, not just physical objects How small, loving actions in your home can ripple outward and support real change Lisa Morton is a designer, Feng Shui master teacher, Reiki master, and the creator of the Intuitive Home Method. For more than 20 years, she’s helped clients around the world transform homes, businesses, and even luxury private aircraft interiors. She’s the host of the Feng Shui Living podcast and author of Aligned At Home. Connect with Lisa: Website: purelivingwithlisamorton.com Instagram: @purelivingwithlisaaorton Podcast: Feng Shui Living Book: Aligned At Home If you’re ready to start creating ripples in your life, I’m offering 4 free sessions for 7 new clients through the end of January 2026. Email info@allyssya.coach to schedule a complimentary consultation.

    32 min

  8. JAN 1

    43 | New Year, Same You: Choose Self-Acceptance and Let Change Follow

    A new year often arrives with an unspoken message: be better, do more, change faster. For highly sensitive women, that pressure can feel especially heavy. I am offering a different invitation. Instead of trying to reinvent yourself, I explore what becomes possible when you choose self-acceptance and allow change to follow naturally. Inspired by the French quote “I accept the great adventure of being me,” this conversation reframes self-acceptance as an active, courageous choice rather than resignation or giving up. I talk about why sensitivity isn’t the problem, how self-criticism quietly blocks change, and what shifts when you stop fighting who you are. In this episode, I explore: 🩵 Why “new year, new you” doesn’t work, especially for sensitive women 🩵 How self-acceptance creates sustainable change without forcing or fixing 🩵 What it really means to accept the great adventure of being you ✨A Special Invitation To support women who feel ready to practice this work in real life, I’m offering 4 free sessions for 7 new clients, available through the end of the month. This is for you if you’re ready to stop managing yourself and start living from self-trust, integration, and acceptance. Send a message to info@allyssya.coach to schedule your complimentary consultation.

    11 min
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Do you want to overcome self-doubt and set boundaries so you can have the meaningful connections you crave? Do you find yourself Googling how to build confidence, find internal peace, and eliminate feeling overwhelmed? Do you regularly feel like you’re broken and have resentment toward others when you accommodate their needs and ignore what you want... again? My name is Allyssya and I’m a Highly Sensitive Woman. For decades, I lacked the confidence to be myself. I too wished I didn’t worry so much about what everyone else thought of me and constantly felt anxiety from fear of disappointing others. I wanted to set boundaries, feel understood by the people in my life, and experience inner peace. But I kept telling myself I should be like everyone else and how I was made was the problem. Then I learned that there are other highly sensitive women in the world, and I didn’t feel so broken. I also discovered that expressing my thoughts, needs, and desires was empowering, and it helped me overcome self-doubt. In this podcast, you’ll find your voice to be yourself and set boundaries, even when your emotions are heightened, so you can live with bold confidence and internal peace. Grab your cozy blanket and get comfy, it’s time to connect with someone just like you!

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