Live Life Lubricated: Living a Life of Shameless Embodiment.

Katy Rayne
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This is your permission slip to be too much—too sexy, too ambitious, too damn confident. I help women stop shrinking and reconnect to their sensual, expressive self without shame.I’ve lived the tension of wanting to be seen as powerful but not “too much.”Through fashion, identity, and real conversations, I show women how to trust themselves again.This isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about returning to who you’ve always been.  Start your transformation today! Join The Naughty Fae Book Club: About Our ClubCHOKEHOLD: kateandamber.com

  1. APR 2

    The Female Gaze, Was Never Soft — It Was Suppressed

    We’ve been told…that the female gaze is soft. Emotional. Romantic. That women don’t really desire the way men do. That we’re not visual. That we’re not hungry. But here’s the truth…that was never real. It was created by men, for men. Support the show This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship. This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.  XXX0, Katy

    21 min

  2. FEB 16

    NETFLIX'S MINX: Feminism, Erotica, and Power in Print

    In this episode, we explore the seductive power of the Minx TV series — a bold, fictional reimagining of how women’s sexuality and feminist ideals found an unexpected home inside a 1970s erotic magazine. We’ll get into what made Minx so revolutionary, how it challenges the male gaze, and why it still speaks volumes about women’s pleasure, freedom, and visibility today. From glossy centerfolds to glossy websites — we’re breaking down how owning your sensual expression IS business strategy.  Support the show This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship. This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.  XXX0, Katy

    12 min

  3. FEB 12

    ASTROLOGY EDITION: Aquarius; The Electric Femme

    Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, planet of electricity, upheaval, and radical breakthroughs. But in her shadow, she can be misunderstood, emotionally detached, or stuck in her head. So today—we’re mapping the Aquarian Pleasure Blueprint, one rebellious, sensual spark at a time.  Support the show This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship. This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.  XXX0, Katy

    16 min

  4. FEB 2

    BUSINESS EDITION: Reclaim Your Time, The Anti-Hustle Workflow

    In this no-fluff episode, we’re talking about building a business that doesn’t fall apart the second you go on vacation. Specifically: photographers, listen up. Do your clients really need a phone call to book a session—or have we just internalized outdated sales tactics designed for control, not empowerment? I’m breaking down a more liberated approach to client workflows—where your website becomes your best employee, your booking process puts power in the client’s hands, and you stop babysitting your business just to feel successful. Spoiler: you can still make bank without being glued to your inbox. Support the show This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship. This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.  XXX0, Katy

    18 min

  5. JAN 26

    ASTROLOGY EDITION: Capricorn: The Powerhouse in Pearls — Turning Discipline Into Desire

    You’re not “too intense,” you’re just not wasting time. This episode is for the women who build empires in silence and want permission to feel powerful AND pleasured. Capricorn energy is more than just goals, grit, and spreadsheets. In this episode of Live Life Lubricated: Astrology Edition, we’re mapping your core desires, unearthing your turn-ons, confronting your pleasure blocks, and rewriting the script on what it means to be successful and sensually fulfilled. If you're a Capricorn Sun, Moon, Rising—or if you’ve ever been called “too ambitious,” “too cold,” or “too intimidating”—this one’s your permission slip to be ALL of you. Plus, we’ll guide you through a Cosmic Pleasure Map using your Venus, Mars, and Rising signs to unlock your unique path to luxury, sensuality, and success on your terms. Support the show This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship. This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.  XXX0, Katy

    17 min

  6. JAN 20

    Rihanna’s Reinvention: From Pop Queen to Billionaire Boss

    She went from chart-topping pop icon to a billionaire mogul, not because she bowed to the industry—but because she pivoted like a damn queen. No new albums in years. No tours. But suddenly she’s leading one of the most inclusive, powerful beauty and lingerie brands on the planet. Was this reinvention to prioritize motherhood? To escape toxic executive ties? To build a life that matched her values instead of sacrificing them to the music machine? We may never know for sure—but today, I’m breaking down Rihanna’s power move, what it teaches us about feminine agency, and why you don’t have to stay married to the version of yourself the world got comfortable with. So sit down, pour something sparkly, and let’s dissect how to reinvent your life—Rihanna-style. Support the show This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship. This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.  XXX0, Katy

    18 min

  7. 12/19/2025

    ASTROLOGY EDITION: Sagittarius: The Limitless Temptress Who Won’t Be Tamed

    If you’re a Sagittarius Sun, Moon, Rising—or just tired of playing it safe when your soul is craving wild expansion—this episode is your permission slip to live loudly, dress audaciously, and run toward your desires with no seatbelt. We’re mapping your real cravings, unmasking what turns you on, and flipping the script on every lie you’ve ever been told about being ‘too bold,’ ‘too brash,’ or just… too much. Grab your drink, your passport, or your journal—and let’s step into your Lubricated Era, Sag-style. Support the show This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship. This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.  XXX0, Katy

    29 min

  8. 11/18/2025

    ASTROLOGY EDITION: Scorpio; Unleashing Your Inner Temptress & Creating Your Cosmic Pleasure Map

    Step aside, beige behavior—Scorpio has entered the chat. In this sultry kickoff to our Astrology Edition of Live Life Lubricated, we’re diving deep into the psyche, power, and pleasure of the zodiac’s fiercest femme fatale. Whether you’re a Scorpio Sun, Moon, Rising—or just craving a little more mystery and magnetism—you’re about to awaken a part of you that’s been dying to take the stage (in leather, of course). We’re mapping your desires, unmasking your turn-ons, and flipping the script on what the world told you was “too much.” From pleasure rituals and seductive style cues to uncovering the cosmic combo that defines your Delicious Era, this episode is your unapologetic permission slip to show up, shine, and seduce on your terms. Bring your velvet, your bold lip, and your shadow self—we’re not playing small anymore. 💋 Because “too intense” is code for “undeniably powerful.” Find Your Birth Chart, the key to your pleasure map.  Your FREE Birth Chart | The AstroTwins Support the show This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship. This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.  XXX0, Katy

    29 min
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This is your permission slip to be too much—too sexy, too ambitious, too damn confident. I help women stop shrinking and reconnect to their sensual, expressive self without shame.I’ve lived the tension of wanting to be seen as powerful but not “too much.”Through fashion, identity, and real conversations, I show women how to trust themselves again.This isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about returning to who you’ve always been.  Start your transformation today! Join The Naughty Fae Book Club: About Our ClubCHOKEHOLD: kateandamber.com

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