Your Life, Love, and Relationship Coach, Joey Francess

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Welcome to the wonderful world of life. Sometimes we need help, a different perspective, new ideas, guidelines to follow... Thats what I'm here for. Specializing in the world of Dating and Relationships. You could just listen for the entertainment, maybe learn something new or write in and get tailored help to your specific situation. The world of dating is an ever evolving landscape. With technology changing the game, new and forward ideas while some people holding on to the ways we use to do things. Come with an open mind and leave with clarity. I will do my best to help!

  1. 20H AGO

    Episode 50 The Red Flags Hidden in Plain Conversation: 25 Lines That Reveal Who Someone Really Is

    Most red flags don’t show up in dramatic moments — they show up in conversation. In the small, casual sentences people drop without thinking. In the language that exposes their emotional limits long before their behavior does. This episode breaks down 25 lines that reveal who someone really is: the phrases that signal avoidance, immaturity, manipulation, and a refusal to grow. Not the obvious red flags — the subtle ones. The ones people overlook because they want the relationship to work. You’ll learn how to hear the psychology behind the words, how to recognize patterns before they become problems, and how to stop excusing language that quietly erodes your self‑trust. If you’ve ever wondered why you missed the signs, this episode shows you exactly where they were hiding. For more information or to contact me. JoeyFrancess.com #RedFlags#EmotionalIntelligence#ToxicPatterns#RelationshipPsychology#EmotionalManipulation#DatingAwareness#CommunicationPatterns#Accountability#SelfTrust#HealingJourney#ModernRelationships#PsychologyOfLanguage#KnowTheSigns#EmotionalMaturity#BoundariesMatter

    41 min

  2. FEB 13

    Episode 49 Be Careful What You Ask For: Why Wanting a Relationship Can Ruin Your Love Life

    Most people tell me they want a relationship.And almost every time, that’s where things start going wrong. In this episode, I’m talking about why wanting “a boyfriend,” “a girlfriend,” or “a relationship” is often way too vague — and how that lack of clarity leads people to ignore red flags, compromise their values, and end up in situations that feel off, empty, or unfinished. I break down why I don’t believe in manifestation the way it’s usually taught, and why focus matters far more when it comes to dating and relationships. The things you focus on shape what you notice, what you tolerate, and ultimately who you choose. In this episode, I talk about: Why wanting a relationship isn’t the same as wanting the right person How vague goals lead to wasted time and emotional burnout Why people settle when they want love badly enough The difference between chemistry and compatibility How to define your non-negotiables using what I call the Blueprint Why “be careful what you wish for” applies directly to modern dating If you’ve ever looked at your life and thought, “I got what I wanted… so why does this still feel wrong?” — this conversation is for you. This isn’t about lowering your standards.It’s about getting honest, getting clear, and choosing intentionally — so you stop repeating the same patterns and start building something that actually aligns with who you are. If you want to learn more, work with me, or check out my books, you can find everything at joeyfrancess.com. dating advice, relationship advice, modern dating, dating coach, relationship coach, healthy relationships, why relationships fail, dating mistakes, red flags in dating, non negotiables in dating, choosing the right partner, finding the right partner, dating intentionally, clarity in dating, relationship standards, emotional compatibility, chemistry vs compatibility, dating mindset, setting boundaries, love advice, relationship clarity, why dating is hard, how to avoid the wrong relationship, dating in your 20s, dating in your 30s, dating in your 40s

    34 min

  3. FEB 6

    Episode 48 Chemistry and Clarity: What a First Date Is Really For

    Most people are overcomplicating first dates — and it’s ruining their chances at real connection. In this episode, we break down why a first date should be simple, why coffee is enough, and why the right person won’t care about the price tag. We talk about expectations, pressure, money, and the disconnect between how men and women approach that first meeting. If you’re tired of wasting time, tired of feeling judged, or tired of dating feeling like a performance, this episode will shift the way you show up — and save you a lot of emotional (and financial) energy. This is dating with intention.This is connection without the performance.This is how you let the right story reveal itself. For more, visit joeyfrancess.com. dating advice, first date tips, modern dating, relationship podcast, men’s dating advice, women’s dating advice, coffee date debate, dating expectations, emotional intelligence dating, Joey Frances, Joey Frances podcast, dating clarity, dating mindset, relationship clarity, dating red flags, dating green flags, how to date better, dating psychology, connection over performance, intentional dating, healthy relationships, dating coach, relationship coach, joeyfrancess.com

    34 min

  4. JAN 30

    Episode 47 The Gentleman’s Revolution: Why Good Men Are Walking Away

    In this episode, I want to talk to you about something that’s happening quietly, but everywhere: more and more good men are choosing peace over partnership. And it’s not because they’re afraid of love — it’s because they’re tired of sacrificing their sanity, their standards, and their self‑respect. I’m breaking down the real reasons behind this shift. Why men are becoming more intentional. Why they’re raising their standards. Why they’re walking away from transactional relationships. And why the future of dating is going to look very different from what we’re seeing right now. If you’re a man who’s been overlooked, drained, breadcrumbed, or taken for granted, this episode is going to make a lot of things click for you. And if you’re a woman who wants to understand what’s actually going on with men today, this will give you the clarity you’ve been missing. Thank you so much for being here. If you want to reach me or check out my books, you can visit joeyfrancess.com or email me at joeyfrancess@gmail.com. men walking away, modern dating, male loneliness epidemic, men choosing peace, dating advice for men, emotional intelligence for men, why men are single, men raising standards, relationship podcast, Joey Frances, dating coach, self respect for men, men and relationships, peace over chaos, gentleman’s revolution, men’s mental health, dating standards, modern masculinity, why good men walk away, healthy relationships, self worth for men, dating in 2025, relationship boundaries, choosing yourself, men’s empowerment

    30 min

  5. JAN 23

    Episode 46 This isn't your life

    You already know the truth — you’ve just been avoiding it.This episode is a wake‑up call for anyone living a life that doesn’t feel like theirs.If you’ve been shrinking, settling, or pretending “it’s fine,” this is the moment everything changes. No fluff.No comfort.No sugar‑coating. Just the truth you’ve been running from — delivered straight to your chest. This is the episode you listen to when you’re finally ready to stop lying to yourself and start choosing the life you were meant to live. If it hits you… it was supposed to. For more information on my books and services, JoeyFrancess.com Message me your question or story! relationship advice, emotional intelligence, self growth, wake up call, personal development, dating podcast, Joey Frances, Giuseppe, healing journey, self worth, relationship truth, stop settling, mental clarity, life alignment, self respect, toxic patterns, emotional awakening, podcast motivation, A24 style podcast, cinematic podcast, self improvement, modern relationships, breakup clarity, choosing yourself, inner truth

    32 min

  6. JAN 16

    Episode 45 Stop Blaming Dating—It’s You Who Keeps Choosing Wrong

    You keep saying you’re tired of dating—but the truth is, you’re not tired of dating. You’re tired of choosing wrong.In this episode, Stop Blaming Dating—It’s You Who Keeps Choosing Wrong, we dive deep into the real reason dating feels exhausting. It’s not the apps. It’s not the endless swiping. It’s not even rejection. It’s the cycle of settling for people who are “tolerable” when you’re too drained to hold out for what you actually want. I’ll break down how dating fatigue distorts your judgment, why anxious attachment and scarcity mindset trick you into lowering your standards, and how self‑abandonment shows up disguised as relief. You’ll hear the story of someone who shifted from exhaustion to empowerment by dating more—but intentionally—and how that reset changed everything.By the end, you’ll know how to spot the signs of dating fatigue in yourself, how to stop negotiating against your own non‑negotiables, and how to reframe dating as data instead of disappointment. Because dating isn’t meant to drain you. It’s meant to refine you. So if you’re ready to stop blaming dating and start reclaiming your choices, press play. For more information on my books and services, JoeyFrancess.com Message me your question or story! dating fatigue, why dating is exhausting, settling in relationships, anxious attachment dating, self-abandonment in love, intentional dating, clarity in relationships, stop settling for less, dating advice podcast, relationship coaching, how to stop choosing wrong partners, dating mindset reset, healing from dating fatigue, abundance vs scarcity in dating, emotionally intelligent dating, dating is not the problem, stop blaming dating, why you keep choosing wrong, tolerable but wrong relationships, dating fatigue isn’t real

    24 min

  7. JAN 9

    Episode 44 Healing vs. Hiding: The Emotional Availability Problem

    If you’ve been telling yourself you’re “healing,” I want you to pause for a moment—because this episode is about the uncomfortable line between doing the work and avoiding it. In this conversation, I break down how emotional availability has turned into a buzzword in modern dating, and how a lot of people have started confusing avoidance with growth. We talk about emotional laziness—what it actually looks like, why it’s so common, and how it quietly damages connection. I walk you through: What emotional availability really is (and what it isn’t) Why healing doesn’t mean disappearing, disengaging, or withholding effort How emotional laziness shows up in dating—even when it sounds reasonable Why having “capacity” without action doesn’t count How to tell if you—or the person you’re dating—are healing… or hiding This episode isn’t about shaming you. It’s about helping you get honest with yourself and take responsibility for how you show up in relationships. You don’t need to rush.You don’t need to be perfect.But if you want real connection, you do need to show up—consistently, clearly, and honestly. Move slowly if you need to.But move honestly. For more information on my books and services, JoeyFrancess.com Message me your question or story! emotional availability, healing vs hiding, emotional laziness, modern dating, dating advice, relationship advice, emotional maturity, avoidant attachment, healing while dating, self awareness, emotional growth, relationship patterns, communication in relationships, dating boundaries, personal development, accountability, healthy relationships, dating podcast

    29 min

  8. JAN 1

    Episode 43 Entitlement Is Killing Modern Dating — Start the Year With Better Energy

    Entitlement is killing modern dating — and nobody wants to talk about it honestly. In this first episode of the new year, I’m calling out the transactional mindset that has taken over dating on both sides.Men who think money buys access.Women who believe their value is tied to expensive dates.And everyone wondering why dating feels empty, exhausting, and broken. Dating was never meant to be a business deal.It was never meant to be an exchange of money for intimacy or status for attention. Real dating is an exchange of energy, time, curiosity, and intention. In this episode, we break down: Why entitlement is poisoning modern dating How transactional thinking leads to resentment, cheating, and disappointment Why coffee dates aren’t “cheap” — they’re intentional How leading with money, looks, or demands attracts the wrong partners The difference between pure intention and performative dating How to reset your dating energy and start the year clean If you want real connection, stability, and something that actually lasts — this episode is your wake-up call. This year isn’t about dating harder.It’s about dating better. Drop the entitlement.Drop the transactions.Start leading with intention. For more information on my books and services, JoeyFrancess.com Message me your question or story! dating, modern dating, dating advice, relationship advice, dating podcast, dating mindset, entitlement in dating, men and dating, women and dating, dating standards, dating expectations, dating energy, intentional dating, healthy relationships, relationship coach, dating coach, emotional maturity, modern relationships, dating culture, self awareness, personal growth, love and relationships

    53 min
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Welcome to the wonderful world of life. Sometimes we need help, a different perspective, new ideas, guidelines to follow... Thats what I'm here for. Specializing in the world of Dating and Relationships. You could just listen for the entertainment, maybe learn something new or write in and get tailored help to your specific situation. The world of dating is an ever evolving landscape. With technology changing the game, new and forward ideas while some people holding on to the ways we use to do things. Come with an open mind and leave with clarity. I will do my best to help!

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