Living Inspired with Autism

Antoinette

Antoinette Freedgood is a certified life coach empowering parents of autistic children.Using empathy, personal experience, and proven strategies, she helps families confidently navigate autism, celebrating strengths and fostering growth, resilience, and positive change for both children and parents.  Book a FREE 1-hour consult HERE 

  1. Aug 3

    When autism no longer controls you

    Send us Fan Mail What if the obstacle you are facing did not have to disappear before you could experience more freedom? In this episode of Living Inspired with Autism, Antoinette explores what it means to become the parent and person for whom an obstacle no longer holds the same power. This does not mean pretending that interrupted sleep, unpredictable plans, limited time, judgement or uncertainty are not difficult. These experiences are real. But they do not have to decide what you are capable of, whether you move forward or how you experience your life. You will discover the difference between wanting supportive circumstances and needing everything to be perfect before you allow yourself to function. Antoinette shares how you can work with tiredness, uncomfortable emotions, changing plans and small pockets of time without abandoning yourself or placing your life on hold. You will also be guided through a simple but powerful exercise to uncover what you believe must change before you can move forward. Your circumstances may not change immediately, but you can. And when you change, the obstacle begins to lose its hold on you. To explore the obstacle currently shaping your life, book a coaching consultation using the link below. Consult Call - Click HERE One-on-One Coaching - Click HERE The Autism Parent-focused Blueprint - Click HERE Explore a variety of tailored resources for parents of autistic children on my website: www.lliautism.net Follow me on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube @livelifeinspiredautism for more insights and support. Feel free to email me at antoinette@lliautism.net

  2. Jul 24

    Learn the skill of feeling unsafe

    Send us Fan Mail What if the goal was not to feel safe all the time, but to trust yourself when life feels uncertain? As parents of autistic children, uncertainty can become part of everyday life. You may be thinking about your child’s development, school, behaviour, future, available support or whether you have the capacity to keep managing everything in front of you. In this episode of Living Inspired with Autism, Antoinette explores one of the most powerful emotional skills we can develop: learning how to experience the feeling of being unsafe without allowing it to control our decisions. This is not about ignoring genuine danger or pretending everything is fine. It is about recognising the difference between discomfort and danger, staying present when your nervous system becomes activated and building the emotional capacity to move through uncertainty with greater calm and self-trust. You will discover why certainty does not always create emotional safety, how fear can quietly influence your choices and why difficult emotions do not need to disappear before you take your next step. Your child does not need you to have every answer. They need someone who can remain present, grounded and steady when the waves arrive. You do not need to know exactly what the future holds. You need a deeper relationship with yourself and the quiet confidence that you will know what to do when the moment comes. Listen now and begin learning how to stop waiting for life to feel completely safe before creating a life that feels meaningful, expansive and deeply yours. Consult Call - Click HERE One-on-One Coaching - Click HERE The Autism Parent-focused Blueprint - Click HERE Explore a variety of tailored resources for parents of autistic children on my website: www.lliautism.net Follow me on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube @livelifeinspiredautism for more insights and support. Feel free to email me at antoinette@lliautism.net

  3. Jul 10

    Change

    Send us Fan Mail Change can be exciting, positive and something you have chosen, while still leaving you feeling completely exhausted. In this episode, I share what our recent house move has taught me about having compassion for yourself in the messy middle of change. We talk about why transitions take so much energy, even when they bring wonderful opportunities. For autistic children, change can mean adjusting to new sounds, smells, routines, expectations and environments. As parents, we are often trying to manage the practical side of life while also helping our children feel safe, supported and regulated. I also explore the pressure we place on ourselves to adjust quickly, get everything done and return to normal as soon as possible. Feeling tired, disconnected, overwhelmed or slower than usual does not mean you are failing. It may simply mean that your mind, body and nervous system are processing something new. In this episode, I share practical ways to lower the pressure without giving up on what matters. You will learn how to rebuild momentum through small wins, recognise what genuinely needs your attention and ask yourself what would support you today. You do not need to force your way through change or have everything under control. You are allowed to settle, adjust and begin again with more patience, calm and compassion. Consult Call - Click HERE One-on-One Coaching - Click HERE The Autism Parent-focused Blueprint - Click HERE Explore a variety of tailored resources for parents of autistic children on my website: www.lliautism.net Follow me on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube @livelifeinspiredautism for more insights and support. Feel free to email me at antoinette@lliautism.net

  4. Jun 8

    How to create emotions on purpose. Part 5

    Send us Fan Mail Most of us believe that emotions simply happen to us. We think our child’s behaviour makes us frustrated, a family member’s comment upsets us, or a situation at school causes our stress. But your emotions are created by your thoughts about a circumstance, not only by the circumstance itself. In the final episode of the emotional skills series, we explore how to create emotions on purpose. This does not mean forcing positivity, suppressing difficult feelings or pretending everything is easy. Half of life includes uncomfortable emotions. Emotional maturity is about noticing what you are feeling, understanding the thoughts creating it, and intentionally deciding how you want to respond. When your child is dysregulated, plans change unexpectedly or you feel exhausted and overstimulated, your brain may automatically create frustration, panic, anger or helplessness. But you can pause and ask: What emotion do I want to create here? Maybe it is calm, patience, compassion or steadiness. Your emotional state becomes the atmosphere of your home. Your child can feel tension, urgency and resentment, but they can also feel your calm, groundedness, safety and presence. In this episode, you will learn how to: • Recognise the thoughts creating your emotions • Interrupt automatic emotional patterns • Decide how you want to feel and show up • Create thoughts that support calm, patience and courage • Lead yourself emotionally instead of trying to control your child • Move from emotional autopilot into intentional emotional leadership Chronic worry does not make you more prepared. It makes you tired. The goal is not to feel happy all the time. The goal is to become emotionally capable. As we close this series, remember that emotional strength means learning to identify your emotions, allow them, move through them, tolerate discomfort and intentionally create emotions that support the life you want. You are not powerless over your emotional experience. You can create calm in chaos, courage in uncertainty and steadiness in difficult moments. To sign up for The FREE Masterclass - HERE Consult Call - Click HERE One-on-One Coaching - Click HERE The Autism Parent-focused Blueprint - Click HERE Explore a variety of tailored resources for parents of autistic children on my website: www.lliautism.net Follow me on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube @livelifeinspiredautism for more insights and support. Feel free to email me at antoinette@lliautism.net

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Antoinette Freedgood is a certified life coach empowering parents of autistic children.Using empathy, personal experience, and proven strategies, she helps families confidently navigate autism, celebrating strengths and fostering growth, resilience, and positive change for both children and parents.  Book a FREE 1-hour consult HERE 

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