Father & Friend: Interviews With Everyday Dads

Tim Anderson
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"The only dad you'll ever know is the one you grew up with… but what if we could change that?" In this series, dive deep into the stories of everyday dads who are redefining fatherhood. Listen to the interviews of regular men—dads just like you—who are stepping beyond the standard role and intentionally engaging their families in meaningful ways. Fatherhood isn’t just about providing or a biological consequence; it’s about presence, purpose, and making a lasting impact with their most important lifetime responsibility. Through real conversations, personal stories, and actionable insights, we explore how modern fathers are breaking generational cycles, building strong relationships, and leaving a legacy that truly matters. Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned father, or just someone who wants to understand the power of engaged parenting, this series will challenge and inspire you to step up and make fatherhood more than just a title—it’s a calling. 🎧 Listen. Learn. Live For The Good Of Your Family #Fatherhood #DadLife #IntentionalParenting #DadsMatter #ParentingPodcast #FathersWhoLead #RealDads #FamilyFirst #BreakingTheCycle #BePresentReal Fathers. You can also connect with us at: fatherandfriend.com facebook.com/livingfortheirgood https://www.youtube.com/@fatherandfriend

  1. Fatherhood on Auto-Pilot: How One Pilot Dad Learned to Put Family First

    APR 10

    Fatherhood on Auto-Pilot: How One Pilot Dad Learned to Put Family First

    What happens when career ambition collides head-on with family life? In this episode, Tim sits down with Connor — a first-time dad, commercial pilot, and former aspiring Air Force aviator — for an honest conversation about the choices that define us as fathers. Connor shares what it was like to grow up as the oldest of four boys in a military family, watching his stoic, often-deployed dad lead by example. He opens up about his own years-long pursuit of becoming an Air Force National Guard pilot — and the pivotal moment when his wife's pregnancy helped him finally see how far his priorities had drifted from what mattered most. From missing church every Sunday during airline training to leaving home just days after his son Cooper was born, Connor reflects on the cost of unchecked ambition — and the unexpected peace he found in letting it go. The conversation also dives into the lost art of rites of passage, the book The Intentional Father by Jon Tyson, and Connor's plans to walk his son through meaningful milestones — from the first shave to learning to fly. In this episode: Growing up in a military household and learning to lead by exampleWhy the Air National Guard dream nearly cost Connor his familyLife as a reserve pilot and navigating an unpredictable schedule with a newbornThe power of rites of passage and why modern boys are missing themExtracurriculars, sports, and finding the balance between pushing and allowing kids to chooseWhat being truly present looks like with a 4-month-oldFather and Friend is a podcast for dads who want to show up, love deeply, and make a lasting impact on their families. Visit fatherandfriend.com to connect.

    44 min
  2. HELP — I’m Raising Five Kids (A Christian Dad’s Honest Confession)

    MAR 27

    HELP — I’m Raising Five Kids (A Christian Dad’s Honest Confession)

    Consistency, Sacrifice, and Raising Kids on Purpose (with Ben, Dad of Five) In this Father and Friend episode, Ben (husband to Kelly and father of five) shares how growing up with an engaged, hardworking dad shaped his approach to family life. He describes his father’s steady presence, strong church involvement, and willingness to work multiple jobs and even give up flying to provide, teaching Ben the value of duty and sacrificing personal desires for those you love. Ben explains how he tries to build a special relationship with his only son in a girl-heavy environment and outlines key practices in his home: consistency through daily rhythms and routines, balanced discipline with his wife, and leveraging strengths like teaching/coaching and organization. He discusses homeschooling support, teaching life skills (money, sexuality, drugs/alcohol), prioritizing marriage, and parenting as preparing kids to leave and thrive for generations. 00:00 Father and Friend - Consistent Faithful Fatherhood with Ben 00:10 Introduction 01:34 Growing Up with an Engaged Father 07:48 Lessons from Dad's Sacrifice 14:32 Three Pillars of Fatherhood 15:00 Consistency and Family Rhythms 19:05 Teaching and Coaching 22:06 Teaching Children About Life 28:41 Organization and Structure 47:32 Putting Marriage First 53:17 Maintaining Connection Through Baby Years 01:03:13 Final Thoughts 01:03:35 Thinking Generationally

    1h 13m

  3. MAR 6

    What Kind of Leader Are You Going To Be? | Interview With Brent | Father and Friend #interview

    In this conversation, Tim and Brent Howell discuss the profound impact of divorce on fatherhood and marriage, exploring Brent's personal journey from being a child of divorce to becoming a father of five. They delve into the misconceptions surrounding marriage, the importance of faith, and the lies that often lead to marital strife. Brent emphasizes the need for spiritual leadership in the family, the significance of honoring one's spouse, and the necessity of training children with both truth and grace. The discussion also highlights the mission of Covenant Army, which aims to equip couples to strengthen their marriages and combat the challenges they face. Connect with Brent and Lucy ⁨@CovenantArmyPodcast⁩ or at https://covenantarmy.org/ TAKEAWAYS *Divorce can have a lasting impact on families and children. *Understanding the true nature of marriage is crucial for success. *Faith plays a significant role in navigating marriage and fatherhood. *Identifying and combating lies in relationships is essential. *Selfishness is often at the core of marital issues. *Apologizing and humility can lead to healing in relationships. *The myth of the Brady Bunch family often misrepresents reality. *Every marriage faces daily battles that require attention and effort. *Leading spiritually as a father sets a strong example for children. #FatherAndFriend #LivingForTheirGood #MarriageMatters #FaithAndFamily #SpiritualLeadership #BiblicalMarriage #BreakTheCycle #IntentionalFatherhood #FightForYourFamily #generationalimpact ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

    1h 8m

  4. FEB 27

    You Are Not Alone | Interview with Mike Eads | Father and Friend #interview

    In this episode of Father and Friend, Tim engages in a fantastic conversation with Mike Eads, a seasoned military leader and author of the book "Awaken." Mike shares his journey as a father and the profound impact of his faith on his life. The discussion delves into the significance of discipline and how leadership starts with dad, the challenges of maintaining family bonds amidst military life, and the necessity of brotherhood among men. Mike also shares practical advice on how to instill discipline in children, the importance of prayer, and the value of memorizing scripture as a means of spiritual growth and connection within the family. Mike knows from experience that men should not do life alone. Connect with Mike: https://ironlionforge.com Check out his book, "Awaken": https://a.co/d/3zhUpFp #fatherhoodjourney #legacybuilding #faithandfamily #militarylife #BrotherhoodInChrist #DisciplineAndPurpose #IronLionForge #SpiritualLeadership #fatherandfriend #livingfortheirgood ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

    59 min

  5. FEB 20

    Long Distance Dads | Interview With Danny | Father and Friend #interview

    In this conversation, Tim and Danny Andreas explore the challenges and strategies of long-distance fatherhood. Danny shares his personal journey as a father living apart from his daughter, emphasizing the importance of emotional connection, honesty, and creative ways to maintain a strong bond. He discusses the impact of legal challenges on fathers, the significance of positive reinforcement in parenting, and the development of a platform designed to enhance virtual parenting experiences. Throughout the discussion, Danny offers valuable insights and encouragement for fathers facing similar situations, highlighting the importance of resilience and never giving up on their children. Connect With Danny: https://distancedads.com/ @distancedads #LongDistanceParenting #fatherhoodjourney #positivereinforcement #parenting #DistanceDads #PositiveParenting #ParentingTips #fatherandfriend #livingfortheirgood ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

    47 min

  6. FEB 13

    Pray, Play, and Grow Together | Interview With Peter | Father and Friend #interview

    In this conversation with Tim, Peter shares his journey from a homeschooling family to a successful career in startups and government. He reflects on the impact of his childhood experiences, particularly the influence of his mother and the Bible, on his personal and professional development. Peter discusses his work in the blue economy and the challenges of integrating faith with business. He emphasizes the importance of family values, particularly in parenting, and shares insights on how to balance work and family life. The three key takeaways are to pray, play, and grow with your family. The conversation also highlights his latest project, Bible Belles, aimed at providing positive messaging for young girls. Connect With Peter: https://www.fruxd.com/ Connect With The Bible Belles Project: https://shop.biblebelles.com/ 00:00 Intro 03:22 The Impact of Military Experience 09:01 Transitioning to the Startup World 11:01 Exploring the Blue Economy 15:44 Bible Bells: A New Venture 20:19 Fatherhood and Personal Growth 23:45 The Journey of Independence in Parenting 24:46 The Importance of Prayer in Family Life 26:45 Playing Together: Building Bonds 28:35 Growing Together: Family Experiences and Learning 30:04 Navigating Education Choices for Children 34:26 Cultural Integration and Parenting Values 37:50 Final Reflections on Parenting and Humility #fatherandfriend #livingfortheirgood #Fatherhood #PresentFathers #Leadership #WaterIndustry #BusinessCulture #StartupLife #SocialMediaImpact #podcastreels #PeterRobbins #parenting #childhood #memories #BibleBelles #blueeconomy #startups #familyvalues #culturalintegration #personalgrowth #faithbasededucation ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

    41 min

  7. FEB 6

    Breaking The Chains Of The Past | Interview With Daryl | Father and Friend #interview

    In this conversation, Daryl shares his journey as a father of six, reflecting on his upbringing, the impact of his father's hypocrisy, and the abuse and trauma he faced in childhood. He discusses the turning point in his life that led him back to faith after running for 25 years, the importance of creating an open and honest family environment, and his desire to empower the next generation of men through mentorship and discipleship. If you've ever felt like you've had too much trauma growing up to be a great dad, be encouraged by Daryl's story. God can change anyone who asks! 00:00 Daryl's Journey as a Father 07:25 Overcoming Childhood Trauma and Finding Faith 14:32 The Turning Point: A Life-Altering Experience 20:09 Building a Strong Family Foundation 26:27 Creating an Open and Honest Family Environment 33:50 Empowering the Next Generation of Men #fatherandfriend #livingfortheirgood #FatherhoodJourney #HealingGenerations #FaithAndFamily #BreakingCycles #Mentorship #Discipleship #RaisingMen #legacybuilding ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

    40 min

  8. JAN 30

    Dads Need Buddies Too | Interview With Klem | Father and Friend #interview

    In this episode of Father and Friend, host Tim Anderson sits down with Klem, founder of Christian DadBud, to talk about fatherhood, faith, and the importance of being present, leading, and providing for your family. Klem shares his personal journey, cultural insights from the Philippines, and practical ways Christian dads can grow in intentional fatherhood. What does it really mean to be a present father? Klem opens up about his upbringing in the Philippines, how tough-love fatherhood has shifted over the years, and how becoming a Christian reshaped his view of parenting. He shares the three guiding principles that anchor his family life: 1. Being Present 2. Leading 3. Providing The episode also dives into the impact of fatherlessness, cultural perspectives on dads in the Philippines, and how Christian parents can build healthier rhythms for family life. If you’re a dad seeking encouragement, wisdom, or practical tips on leading your family with faith, this episode will speak directly to you. Connect With Klem on Facebook or Substack For More Fatherhood Encouragement: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566472820071 https://thechristiandadbud.substack.com/ ----------------------------------------------------- 📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith. Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media: https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend @fatherandfriend #Fatherhood #EmotionalResilience #Parenting #FamilyValues

    40 min
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"The only dad you'll ever know is the one you grew up with… but what if we could change that?" In this series, dive deep into the stories of everyday dads who are redefining fatherhood. Listen to the interviews of regular men—dads just like you—who are stepping beyond the standard role and intentionally engaging their families in meaningful ways. Fatherhood isn’t just about providing or a biological consequence; it’s about presence, purpose, and making a lasting impact with their most important lifetime responsibility. Through real conversations, personal stories, and actionable insights, we explore how modern fathers are breaking generational cycles, building strong relationships, and leaving a legacy that truly matters. Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned father, or just someone who wants to understand the power of engaged parenting, this series will challenge and inspire you to step up and make fatherhood more than just a title—it’s a calling. 🎧 Listen. Learn. Live For The Good Of Your Family #Fatherhood #DadLife #IntentionalParenting #DadsMatter #ParentingPodcast #FathersWhoLead #RealDads #FamilyFirst #BreakingTheCycle #BePresentReal Fathers. You can also connect with us at: fatherandfriend.com facebook.com/livingfortheirgood https://www.youtube.com/@fatherandfriend

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