Thrive After 45™

Denise Drinkwalter, a Midlife Renewal Coach supporting women in reclaiming sovereignty, purpose, and self-trust after 45.
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Thrive After 45™ is a leadership, identity, and personal transformation podcast for women navigating midlife. Hosted by Denise Drinkwalter — Heart Whisperer, Midlife Mirror & Mentor — the show features intimate conversations that explore identity shifts, self-trust, emotional healing, and personal sovereignty after 45. Each episode offers grounded wisdom and lived experience to support women in reclaiming their voice, purpose, and inner authority during midlife transitions in life, relationships, and work.

  1. 2D AGO

    The Secret to Solving Your Midlife Identity Crisis - with Dr. Salma Samaha

    Dr. Samaha is one of those people who just radiates light. She’s a former academic who decided to retire early at 53 to follow a mission that was pulling at her heart.  She’s navigated over 30 years of transitions, some by choice and many by chance, including relocating from Lebanon to Canada and moving through everything from divorce to empty nesting.  She’s truly a "momentum master" who figured out how to stop just surviving change and start actually loving the life she was designing. We really got into the heart of what it means to grow stronger rather than just older. Salma shared her "Same Roots, New Fruits" philosophy, which is such a refreshing way to look at midlife. It’s not about starting from zero or having a crisis; it’s about using the deep roots you already have to grow something fresh and vibrant. One of my favorite parts of our talk was her "outdoor anchor" concept. It is so simple but so deep. She talked about how even just looking at the sky or catching a sunset can reset your entire nervous system and remind you that endings can be just as beautiful as beginnings. If you’ve been feeling like you’re just drifting or stuck in a bit of a midlife rut, you need to hear Salma’s energy. She’s living proof that you can wake up every morning feeling genuinely excited for the day, no matter what chapter you're in. Connect with Dr. Salma Samaha: LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-salma-samaha/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsalmasamaha/ Thank you for spending time with me today on the Thrive After 45™ podcast! If this episode spoke to you, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss one. And if you loved it, I’d be so grateful if you left a review - it helps more amazing women like you find this show! Your journey doesn’t stop here - let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me at denisedrinkwalter.com, and follow @thethriveafter45podcast for daily insp, tips, and support. Remember, midlife isn’t the end - it’s just the beginning of a new, exciting chapter! Keep thriving, keep shining, and I’ll see you next time!

    33 min

  2. JAN 29

    The #1 Lie Women Believe About Divorce - with Kimberly Lorah

    After over 25 years with her partner, Kimberly’s world was completely upended by a divorce she never saw coming. She describes that season as "temporary insanity," and honestly... Who hasn't felt that way when life pulls the rug out from under you?  But instead of letting that be the end of her story, she used that rock bottom as a launchpad. Kimberly took her 20 years of experience as a therapist and her own lived heartbreak to become a certified divorce coach. She founded Blossom Coaching because she realized there was a massive gap in support for women who feel untethered and lost in the middle of a life transition.  We talk about the "red flags" we often paint green just to keep the peace, the struggle of losing your identity when a long-term marriage ends, and the incredible gift of finding your own voice again. She’s living proof that your life is not over just because a chapter ended. In fact, she’s happier now at 55 than she’s ever been, and she’s helping other women realize that they can be "better than okay" too.  If you’ve been feeling lonely, stuck, or like you’re just "chugging along" in a life that doesn't feel true to you, Kimberly’s wisdom is the hug and the nudge you’ve been looking for. We dive into: Navigating the "temporary insanity" of major life changesWhy we ignore our intuition and how to start trusting it againRebuilding an identity that belongs entirely to youThe power of finding a community that actually gets itThis episode is such a reminder that even the hardest endings are just making space for a brand new, more authentic beginning. Connect with Kimberly: Website: https://kimberlylorahcoaching.com/Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/blossomcoachingllc/                                 https://www.facebook.com/kimberlylorahcoaching Thank you for spending time with me today on the Thrive After 45™ podcast! If this episode spoke to you, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss one. And if you loved it, I’d be so grateful if you left a review - it helps more amazing women like you find this show! Your journey doesn’t stop here - let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me at denisedrinkwalter.com, and follow @thethriveafter45podcast for daily insp, tips, and support. Remember, midlife isn’t the end - it’s just the beginning of a new, exciting chapter! Keep thriving, keep shining, and I’ll see you next time!

    34 min

  3. JAN 22

    How to Stop Shaming Yourself & Reclaim Your Power - with Emma Lyons

    Emma Lyons and I are diving deep into something we all carry but rarely talk about: Shame. Emma spent 15 years in human rights law before burning out and realizing she had to dismantle her own trauma patterns from the ground up.  Now, she’s an Inner Power Guide helping women like us stop the self-sabotage and actually heal our nervous systems.  We talk about how those things we think are just "personality traits"—like being shy or afraid to speak up - are often just survival responses our bodies are holding onto from way back. We get into the "inner critic" (which Emma calls the inner narcissist) and how it keeps us under a kind of house arrest, preventing us from receiving the goodness we deserve.  Emma shares her "BREAK" method to help us snap out of those shame spirals in real time so we can finally start living authentically and, as she puts it, shamelessly.  It’s such an eye-opening look at how breaking these cycles doesn’t just change our own lives, but ripples out to everyone around us. You’ll hear us chat about: Why mindset work is only half the battle and how our bodies store fearReclaiming the word "shameless" as a badge of honor and authenticityHow shame acts as a tool for control and how to stop passing it onEmma’s simple, powerful steps to shake off inherited trauma for goodThis episode is a total permission slip to stop hiding and start taking up the space you were always meant to fill.  I can't wait for you to hear it! Connect with Emma Lyons: https://traumamatrix.substack.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/emma-lyons-traumamatrix/ https://www.facebook.com/trauma.matrix https://www.youtube.com/@trauma.matrix https://www.tiktok.com/@trauma.matrix Access your FREE gift here:  5 signs it's time to break up with your inner narcissist https://tinyurl.com/NotTodayNarc Thank you for spending time with me today on the Thrive After 45™ podcast! If this episode spoke to you, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss one. And if you loved it, I’d be so grateful if you left a review - it helps more amazing women like you find this show! Your journey doesn’t stop here - let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me at denisedrinkwalter.com, and follow @thethriveafter45podcast for daily insp, tips, and support. Remember, midlife isn’t the end - it’s just the beginning of a new, exciting chapter! Keep thriving, keep shining, and I’ll see you next time!

    38 min

  4. JAN 15

    Why You're Stuck In A Cycle (And the One Step To Break It) with John James Santangelo

    John James Santangelo is an expert in NLP and has spent over thirty years helping people get their sparkle back, but he does it in such a grounded and no nonsense way.  We really dug into the idea that none of us are actually broken. We just have these old mental programs from childhood that keep us playing small and feeling stuck in the same cycles. In this episode of Thrive After 45™, John explains why happiness is something we do rather than something we just wait for. He shared this great metaphor about being your own travel agent and finally deciding on a destination instead of just complaining about where you have already been.  It is such a powerful shift from the way most of us look at our lives in midlife. We also touched on why we stay stuck because we are so worried about what other people think of us. John’s advice on how to stop holding all our stress in like an overstuffed closet was a huge lightbulb moment for me.  He even walked me through a simple way to override negative self talk using just three little words and a whole lot of heart. If you have been feeling a bit lost in your own identity lately, this chat is going to feel like a warm hug and a much needed nudge to take the wheel again.  Grab your coffee and join us for this one. You can find more about John here: Website: www.LANLP.com New Book - www.ControlYourEmotions.com Thank you for spending time with me today on the Thrive After 45™ podcast! If this episode spoke to you, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss one. And if you loved it, I’d be so grateful if you left a review - it helps more amazing women like you find this show! Your journey doesn’t stop here - let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me at denisedrinkwalter.com, and follow @thethriveafter45podcast for daily insp, tips, and support. Remember, midlife isn’t the end - it’s just the beginning of a new, exciting chapter! Keep thriving, keep shining, and I’ll see you next time!

    34 min

  5. JAN 8

    The Secret Why You're Failing... And It's NOT Your Fault - with Dr. Alain Salas

    Have you ever felt burned out while chasing a dream?  Dr. Alain Salas, the "Mind Clearing Doctor," was living the ultimate success - a thriving practice, sailing in the South of France - but inside, he was overwhelmed and exhausted.  This led to a personal collapse that hit his health (getting sick with an early stage of colon cancer!), his marriage (divorce), and his business.  Talk about everything crashing down at once! Instead of staying defeated, he went inward, and what he discovered became his powerful three-step system for clearing limiting beliefs and creating success without the burnout. We dive deep into the mind-body connection, why having a personal "mission in life" is the only true way to avoid feeling lost, and why failure isn't really a thing - it's just a lesson you haven't learned yet.  We also talk about a core concept he uses: the alignment of your Thought (the how), your Emotion/Heart (the why), and your Action (the what). This is the part that blew my mind: Dr. Salas explains that our conscious mind (where we focus all our effort to solve problems) is only 5–10% of our power, while the subconscious mind is a massive 90–95%!  If you’re struggling to reach a goal, you’re trying to move a mountain with a tiny fraction of your mind. This conversation is a must-listen if you're ready to stop using only 5% of your power and finally understand how to get that full alignment.  You'll hear us talk about: How his personal collapse led to his life-altering Mind Clearing system.Why understanding your life's mission eliminates the feeling of "no motivation."The difference between "victim mode" and being a "creator" of your reality.His three simple steps (delete, download, manifest) for transforming limiting beliefs into empowering ones.A beautiful visual of what "awakening" feels like when you finally clear the clouds in your sky.Find Dr. Alain Salas and his work here: Website: http://www.themindclearing.com/ Thank you for spending time with me today on the Thrive After 45™ podcast! If this episode spoke to you, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss one. And if you loved it, I’d be so grateful if you left a review - it helps more amazing women like you find this show! Your journey doesn’t stop here - let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me at denisedrinkwalter.com, and follow @thethriveafter45podcast for daily insp, tips, and support. Remember, midlife isn’t the end - it’s just the beginning of a new, exciting chapter! Keep thriving, keep shining, and I’ll see you next time!

    27 min

  6. JAN 1

    Your "Second Brain" Can't Lie To You - with Anna Quigley

    Anna Quigley is basically the "Intuitive Yoda" for women in midlife looking to figure out their next chapter.  Anna has spent over 40 years steeped in metaphysics, quantum physics, psychology, and spiritual studies....not just reading about it, but truly living it. Just two years ago, she did the brave thing: she walked away from a job she loved that had turned toxic and fully committed to the work she knows she's meant to do. She’s here to help women clarify their purpose and bring it into fruition. Anna and I dive deep into how we can reprogram our thoughts and why our gut feelings are scientifically referred to as the "second brain." We talk about the power of visualization (and sensory imagination!) - it’s not just for Olympic athletes anymore, but a key tool for creating our reality. Anna shares her incredible, personal journey of listening to the "universal whisper" before it brought out the "club" (you'll know what I mean when you listen!).  She explains why those gifts that come easily to us - the ones we tend to dismiss - are often the exact things we're here to share with the world. If you've been feeling that little internal nudge that there’s something more waiting for you, or if you need a little help listening to your intuition, this episode is a beautiful guide.  Anna even has a great tool - an intuition tracking sheet - that she’s sharing with our listeners! You can find out more about Anna and connect with her here: Website: IntuitionGift.com Thank you for spending time with me today on the Thrive After 45™ podcast! If this episode spoke to you, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss one. And if you loved it, I’d be so grateful if you left a review - it helps more amazing women like you find this show! Your journey doesn’t stop here - let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me at denisedrinkwalter.com, and follow @thethriveafter45podcast for daily insp, tips, and support. Remember, midlife isn’t the end - it’s just the beginning of a new, exciting chapter! Keep thriving, keep shining, and I’ll see you next time!

    44 min

  7. 12/25/2025

    Heal Your Wounded Inner Teenager (and Stop Generational Trauma) - with Tatjana Simakova

    How much of your teenage self is still showing up when you parent, love, or even react to things today? That voice that just wanted to be seen and heard?  My incredible guest, Tatjana Simakova, believes that version of us is still shaping our family dynamics, and she has built her life's work on helping us heal that unseen gap. Tatjana's own journey is one of deep courage.  Growing up with an alcoholic mother and navigating family separation gave her a profound, lived understanding of what it means to heal from the inside out.  Now a psychotherapist, art therapist, and the founder of the S-A-L-V-U-S ParentTeen community, she has helped thousands of families move from emotional chaos to calm connection. In this episode we talk about: Why the teenage years are such a critical stage for catching and working through trauma.The magic of art therapy - why getting messy can be the key to opening up and finding a non-judgmental outlet.The most common shift parents can make to stop "clamping down" and start building a stronger, more trusting connectionHer powerful metaphor of letting your child go further away so they know they can always come back to you.The one place you absolutely must start if you want to see a change in your children This conversation is a beautiful reminder that when we do the work to reconnect with our own inner teenager, we start parenting and living from a place of much deeper understanding.  You’ll be so inspired by Tatjana's story and her amazing, heart-centered work. You can find out more about Tatjana and her community here: Website: https://salvus-parenting.mn.co/share/UutP_DH8-zYFhv79?utm_source=manual (to join Salvus ParenTEENg for free) Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/salvus_psychotherapy_clinic/ Thank you for spending time with me today on the Thrive After 45™ podcast! If this episode spoke to you, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss one. And if you loved it, I’d be so grateful if you left a review - it helps more amazing women like you find this show! Your journey doesn’t stop here - let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me at denisedrinkwalter.com, and follow @thethriveafter45podcast for daily insp, tips, and support. Remember, midlife isn’t the end - it’s just the beginning of a new, exciting chapter! Keep thriving, keep shining, and I’ll see you next time!

    38 min

  8. 12/18/2025

    Why 99% of Women Over 40 Can't Find Their Purpose (And The Simple Fix) - with Jim Marshall

    Jim Marshall has spent years diving deep into the science and spirit of transformation. He's talking about something he calls "The Natural Law of Becoming," and trust me...it’s a total game-changer for how we think about aging and growth. Jim’s whole philosophy is this: You don’t have to push, hustle, or force your way into your next great chapter. It’s actually about slowing down, getting intentional, and letting your purpose unfold naturally, just like a seed turning into a tree. We talked about the pressure we feel after 45 to constantly do more or be more, and how that mindset is what actually leads to burnout.  Jim gives us permission to stop chasing what’s broken and start listening to the powerful, clear wisdom that's already inside us. If you’ve been feeling like you’re trying to run uphill, or if you're ready for your next evolution but aren't sure how to start, this conversation is your moment to exhale. Jim reminds us that you are not a project that needs fixing...you are an entire garden that just needs tending. Connect with Jim here: Website: https://septemics.com/Thank you for spending time with me today on the Thrive After 45™ podcast! If this episode spoke to you, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss one. And if you loved it, I’d be so grateful if you left a review - it helps more amazing women like you find this show! Your journey doesn’t stop here - let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me at denisedrinkwalter.com, and follow @thethriveafter45podcast for daily insp, tips, and support. Remember, midlife isn’t the end - it’s just the beginning of a new, exciting chapter! Keep thriving, keep shining, and I’ll see you next time!

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Thrive After 45™ is a leadership, identity, and personal transformation podcast for women navigating midlife. Hosted by Denise Drinkwalter — Heart Whisperer, Midlife Mirror & Mentor — the show features intimate conversations that explore identity shifts, self-trust, emotional healing, and personal sovereignty after 45. Each episode offers grounded wisdom and lived experience to support women in reclaiming their voice, purpose, and inner authority during midlife transitions in life, relationships, and work.

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  • Creator
    Denise Drinkwalter, a Midlife Renewal Coach supporting women in reclaiming sovereignty, purpose, and self-trust after 45.
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    47
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Thrive After 45™ Podcast
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    Thrive After 45™