Sunny Banana

The Chaplain

YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@sanibonani-y2g?si=09LymOLYjP7sE3cY I am a school chaplain and the content is intended to encourage curiosity about Faith and it's impact on day to day life The Sunny Banana, is a play upon the Zulu greeting, Sanibonani, meaning I see you.As tech wrenches us from real life, we are not seeing each other. The Greek word 'idea' means to see. It is as if we have lost the idea of what it means to be human; social, communal, relational. The same word, to see, in Old English is 'seon' which has connotations of understanding. Let's start seeing each other again, listening, respecting, and understanding each other and ourselves. After all, we are people through other people.

  1. 1D AGO

    #38 | Mercy As Medicine For A Culture Of Pride

    What if the bravest act you make this week is a sincere “I’m sorry”? We open a heartfelt space to rethink repentance during Lent while honouring the parallel fast of Ramadan. From the hush of Mount Athos to the bustle of a school chapel, we explore why turning back can matter more than being dazzled by miracles, and how mercy works like medicine on wounds we’d rather hide. We unpack the meaning of metanoia—literally a change of mind—and bring it down to earth as a true U‑turn in daily life. The Prodigal Son becomes less a parable for children and more a map for adults who have burned bridges and want to go home. Instead of a father ready to punish, we meet a Father who runs to embrace. Along the way we challenge a culture that shames apology and glorifies recklessness, and we share how a simple, public confession can open room for trust to grow again. If you have ever wondered whether forgiveness is accessible or whether change is possible, this conversation offers honest hope and practical clarity. We reflect on why “repentance above miracles” makes sense, how the Lord’s Prayer ties our healing to our neighbour’s, and what proves repentance has taken root: the harmful pattern stops. You’ll hear a simple prayer to carry through the week—“Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on us sinners”—and a gentle reminder to go easy on yourself so you can show mercy to others. Listen for a grounded, compassionate take on Lent, forgiveness, and the courage to turn around. If this moved you or gave you language for a needed apology, share it with a friend, subscribe for more reflections, and leave a review with the one change you’re ready to make. Drop us a line

    9 min

  2. FEB 12

    #37 | What Apartheid in South Africa taught me about Faith and Truth

    Certainty feels safe, but it often shuts our ears and hardens our hearts. We open up about a different way to live: faith as trust, not as a denial of doubt. From a striking AA moment of surrender to memories of growing up under apartheid, we trace how humility and the image of God can dismantle false hierarchies and invite real healing. We share the story of a man who began to pray without belief and discovered the first liberating truth: “I’m not God.” That shift in posture becomes a doorway to change, revealing how recovery, spirituality and honesty work together. From there, we return to a church where black, white and Indian neighbours stood together at the table, a counter-narrative to the culture outside. The teaching that every human being bears God’s image confronts prejudice at its root and reframes how we see leadership, community and responsibility. Along the way we question where we place our trust when leaders fail and certainty tempts us to stop listening. We talk about the King we do not deserve, the danger of mistaking control for courage and the everyday practices that keep love real: asking better questions, forgiving when it costs, blessing the person in front of us. If you’re weary of noise and hungry for a steadier centre, this conversation offers a clear, grounded invitation to live with curiosity, courage and compassion. If this resonated, subscribe, share it with a friend and leave a review telling us one certainty you’re ready to release. Your story might help someone else find their first step toward trust. Drop us a line

    11 min

  3. FEB 6

    #36 | Is Love Love?

    What if the way we talk about love is quietly shaping us into consumers rather than companions? I take a hard look at the easy phrase “love is love” and test it with two simple images: murky “water is water” logic and a monk’s punchy reminder that loving the taste of fish isn’t the same as loving the fish. From there, we open a path toward a thicker, truer love—one that is presence before payoff, gift before grasp. I share why presence is the truest currency of love, drawing on Metropolitan Anthony Bloom’s picture of prayer as simply being with God: I look at God, and God looks at me. That posture exposes our habit of treating people like dispensers of feelings. We dig into how attention, patience and honesty transform relationships from transactions to places of rest. Along the way, we name the cultural drumbeat of “my needs, my feelings” and show why that tune leaves us lonely, while self-giving love paradoxically fills us with durable joy. We also face the hard edge: love costs. To love someone for their good means emptying space inside ourselves for them to live and grow. Yet those who water others are watered in return, not by a neat bargain but by the deeper law of gift. Anchored by the Christian vision that God is love—self-emptying, steadfast, stronger than death—we consider how ordinary choices of presence can heal our homes, friendships and communities. Join me to reimagine love not as a slogan but as a way of being that lasts. If this resonates, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review telling me how you practice presence in love. Drop us a line

    9 min

  4. JAN 29

    #35 | Who Teaches You How To Be Human

    A dark, rain-slick road. Headlights flash, water pools under a bridge, and a stranger glides through the flood like it’s nothing. That simple moment sparks a bigger reflection: we don’t become ourselves by sheer willpower—we learn by following people who have crossed before us. We unpack why imitation sits at the heart of being human, from sport to spirituality. Think about how you learned to shoot a basketball: you didn’t invent footwork from scratch; you watched great players and repeated what worked. The same is true for character, courage, and prayer. Tradition isn’t a dusty archive; it’s a living current that carries tested wisdom through teachers, parents, guardians, priests, and monks. Authority, at its best, is stewardship for the sake of those who follow, not another layer of control. We talk candidly about the limits of the “be your own guru” mindset and why community keeps you honest when life turns into deep water. From there, we turn to Theophany and the claim at the centre of Christian faith: Jesus Christ shows what it means to be fully human. He doesn’t coach from the shore; he steps into the river and makes a way. We explore how his life, teachings, and sacrifice model a path we can actually walk, and how the saints and faithful people around us—friends, coaches, elders—translate that path into daily choices. By the end, you’ll have a practical lens for choosing role models who carry the kind of weight that comes from fidelity, not flash, and a gentle push to name the people you trust as guides. If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a steady voice, and leave a quick review so others can find it. Who are you following, and how have they helped you cross the flooded places in your life? Drop us a line

    7 min

  5. JAN 22

    # 34 | A Priest, A Brothel, And The Measure Of Mercy

    A quiet blessing rounds a corner and meets a room most people would avoid. What follows isn’t scandal or retreat. It’s a living lesson in compassion as Elder Porphyrios steps into a brothel during a house blessing, stands firm at the door, and insists that every soul deserves the dignity of a kiss to the cross. We share the story with care and then open it up—what does worthiness mean when the measure is not reputation but the heart? We explore why mercy needs a body, not just beliefs. The elder’s calm presence reframes the moment: holiness isn’t fragile, and grace doesn’t shrink from hard places. As the women gather, he sings with joy, not hesitation, and the room changes. We talk about how that move—showing up without judgement—translates beyond faith: to shelters, clinics, prisons, offices, and family tables. You’ll hear why kindness still shocks, how labels narrow our sight, and why the simplest acts of respect can reset a day. We also turn the light inward. Borrowing from Dostoevsky—everyone wants to change the world, no one wants to change themselves—we ask what it takes to start with our own habits. The conversation gets practical: noticing snap judgements before they harden, choosing words that bless rather than bruise, and practising presence where we feel most awkward. This is a story about love that does the harder thing, and the quiet courage required to offer it. If this resonates, share it with someone who needs a reminder that they are not beyond the circle of care. Subscribe for more thoughtful stories, leave a review to help others find the show, and tell us: where will you choose mercy over judgement this week? Drop us a line

    7 min

  6. JAN 14

    # 33 | When Life Feels Like A Grave, Remember You Are A Seed

    When the world goes dark, it’s easy to assume the worst. We take a breath together and try on a different image: you’re not buried—you’re planted. Across a short, reflective journey, I share a monk’s wisdom, a friend’s hard-won phrase, and a captain’s call that reshapes how we carry pain, forgive enemies, and keep going when progress hides under the surface. We start by naming the truth that growth costs something: effort, sacrifice, and discomfort. Then we explore how anxiety feeds on open loops and accusations, and why simple, clear commands—love God, love your neighbour, pray for your enemy, give to those in need—cut through the noise. These aren’t abstractions; they’re daily steps that move us from spiralling thoughts to grounded action. Along the way, I use a sports-captain analogy to show how trust changes the weight of hard instructions. If the captain loves you, the miles you don’t want to run become training, not punishment. I also share a short prayer—Lord have mercy on me, a sinner—that steadies the heart when words fail. This humble line holds space for grief, anger, and confusion, while opening us to help we cannot manufacture on our own. From there, we look at how lift often arrives through God’s hand, a friend’s presence, or an old piece of wise advice that finds us at the right time. Like a seed in the soil, the most important growth is often hidden. Patience isn’t passive; it’s trust that roots are forming. If you’re navigating loss, conflict, or uncertainty, consider this your quiet nudge toward purpose and peace. Press play, reflect, and share this with someone who needs a reminder that darkness can be a beginning. If this spoke to you, subscribe, leave a review, and tell me: does “planted, not buried” change how you see your season? Drop us a line

    7 min

  7. JAN 8

    #32 | Providence Or Chaos: How We Decide What Pain Becomes

    Drop us a line

    11 min

  8. 12/09/2025

    #31 | If God Became Human, What Does That Make Of Us

    What if Christmas isn’t a soft-focus memory but the moment the world tilted toward restoration? We open the season with a bold claim: if God truly became human, then matter matters, history bends toward healing, and every ordinary moment can carry eternal weight. No clichés here—just a step-by-step walk through why the Incarnation changes everything from the ground up. We start with the wound beneath our restlessness: the story of Eden as a pattern of misdirected desire. Then we trace a surprising reversal—Mary’s consent answering Eve’s grasp, the new Adam entering through the fruit of her womb. From there we follow the thread to the Cross as the new tree, where the self-giving of the God‑Man turns defeat into life. Along the way we talk about Holy Communion as the “fruit of immortality,” where bread and wine become the place we receive what we cannot earn. This is faith with texture: embodied, sacramental, and hopeful enough to meet a weary world. Drawing on ancient teachers, we picture humanity as a marred portrait being restored by the return of the Original. Prayer, acts of mercy, and worship become the steady brushstrokes that clarify the image. Whether you’re sceptical or devout, the claim reaches you: the highest has become the lowest so the lowest can rise. That means your body, your work, your table, and your relationships matter far more than sentiment suggests. If Christmas is true, the path home is open, and we walk it together with grace. If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review to help others find the conversation. Drop us a line

    7 min
See All (39)

About

YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@sanibonani-y2g?si=09LymOLYjP7sE3cY I am a school chaplain and the content is intended to encourage curiosity about Faith and it's impact on day to day life The Sunny Banana, is a play upon the Zulu greeting, Sanibonani, meaning I see you.As tech wrenches us from real life, we are not seeing each other. The Greek word 'idea' means to see. It is as if we have lost the idea of what it means to be human; social, communal, relational. The same word, to see, in Old English is 'seon' which has connotations of understanding. Let's start seeing each other again, listening, respecting, and understanding each other and ourselves. After all, we are people through other people.

Information

  • Creator
    The Chaplain
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Sunny Banana
  • Show Website
    Sunny Banana