Sunny Banana

Jarvah Biltong

Subscribe for exclusive content and 10% off Biltong at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2429544/subscribe The Sunny Banana, is a play upon the Zulu greeting, Sanibonani, meaning I see you.As tech wrenches us from real life, we are not seeing each other. The Greek word 'idea' means to see. It is as if we have lost the idea of what it means to be human; social, communal, relational. The same word, to see, in Old English is 'seon' which has connotations of understanding. Let's start seeing each other again, listening, respecting, and understanding each other and ourselves. After all, we are people through other people.

  1. 2d ago

    #58 I Wearing A Cross During Temptation And Shame

    A line that sounds outrageous can sometimes tell the truth: why should you still wear your cross when you are watching pornography or falling into any sin? We sit with that discomfort and tease out what is really being challenged not your faith “performance”, but the fantasy that you can keep your habits private, consequence free, and disconnected from God, other people, and your real self. Along the way we reference the film Calvary and its unflinching look at confession, guilt, and what it costs to stay honest. From an Orthodox Christian perspective, the danger is not only the act itself but the way we sin “alone”. When we act as though God is absent, shame grows in the dark and the cycle tightens. We talk about the sacrament of confession as a practical path to healing and accountability, not a stage for embarrassment. The focus is returning to mercy after a fall: getting back up, trusting grace, and learning to bring the struggle into the light with a priest or a trusted person. We also name what addiction can do to your sense of self. Pornography is not freedom when it controls you; it is passivity, and the real you gets suppressed. We call that identity theft, and we push back with a clearer identity: created in God’s image, made to love, sacrifice, and become whole. The closing is intentionally practical: keep the cross on, do not hide, pray simply, and choose the next right step. If this resonates, subscribe, share it with someone who needs hope, and leave a review so more people can find honest conversations about pornography addiction, repentance, confession, and Christian healing. Drop us a line Support the show Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2

  2. Oct 22

    #58 | Rassie Van Vuuren - Running Toward The Storm, Part 2

    What if the way through the storm is to run straight toward it? ⛈️ In this conversation, we unpack what it means to face hardship head-on and how faith, discipline, mentorship, and strong role models can shape the way we respond when life gets difficult. We also dive into the responsibility of guiding the next generation of young men and an exciting vision for 2027: a rugby academy built around more than just performance on the field. 🏉 Rugby. Character. Personal growth. Mentorship. Because developing a great player means developing the man behind the jersey too. 🎙️ Hear the vision behind what’s coming in 2027. #Rugby #MensDevelopment #Mentorship #Faith #PersonalGrowth Drop us a line Support the show Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2

  3. Oct 15

    #57 I Rassie Van Vuuren - Life After The Final Whistle, Part 1

    What happens when the crowds go quiet and the thing that defined you is no longer there? 🏉 In this conversation, two longtime friends sit down to talk about life beyond rugby, and the things that matter when the titles, success and external validation start to fade. They get into faith, fatherhood, failure, masculinity and what it really means to find purpose beyond what you do. 🙏 From navigating life after professional sport to wanting to become a better father, finding a spiritual home and using rugby to guide the next generation of young men, this is a conversation about becoming the man you’re called to be. Because the scars, setbacks and failures don’t have to define you. They can shape you. Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2 #TheTestedMan #MensPurpose #ChristianMen #Fatherhood #FaithJourney Drop us a line Support the show Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2

  4. Oct 8

    #56 Father Justin I I Didn’t Know About The Resurrection Until I Met Orthodoxy

    Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2 You can travel the world, read every book, and still feel that quiet gap: something is missing. That’s where Father Johnson starts, and it’s why this conversation lands so hard. He’s an Orthodox priest from South Africa now serving near Liverpool, and he tells the honest version of the journey, from a barely religious upbringing to Europe, to a serious flirtation with “many roads to God”, and finally to one decisive question: either Jesus of Nazareth is the Son of God, or He isn’t. We dig into monasticism without the romance or the sneer. What do monks actually do all day? Why isn’t it selfish? And why can leaving the monastery make life feel “multi-coloured” and confusing, even when you’re trying to live faithfully in the world? From there we tackle a very modern Orthodox problem: spiritual consumerism. When people discover Orthodoxy online through monastic writings and intense prayer rules, how do they avoid turning parish life into a personal spiritual hobby? Father Johnson argues that real formation looks like showing up, serving, learning humility, and letting community sand down the ego. Then we go right to the heart of Orthodox Christianity: the Eucharist, the sacraments, and the material expression of faith. Icons, incense, vestments, chant, and beauty aren’t extras bolted on later; they grow from worship that refuses to be only intellectual. If you’ve ever wondered why Orthodox worship looks the way it does, this will give you language, clarity, and a challenge. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s searching, and leave a review. What part of the conversation did you most disagree with, or most need to hear? Drop us a line Support the show Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2

  5. Sep 15

    # 55 I Tackle Shame and Blame with The Tested Man a Trauma Christian Life Coach

    Shame is sneaky. It can sound like “I’m not good enough”, feel like a tight chest, and drive you straight into coping habits that promise relief but never deliver healing. We sit down with Jonathan Lewis, a men’s mentor and Orthodox Christian, to trace how anxiety, trauma, and the need to prove yourself can shape a life, and how that same life can be rebuilt with clarity, patience, and grace. We talk about the difference between symptom management and root-cause healing: why alcohol, pornography, scrolling, or even obsessive self-improvement can become self-soothing rituals; why the body remembers what the mind avoids; and how trauma often shows up as a nervous system trying to keep you safe long after the danger has passed. Jonathan shares practical ways to face emotions without becoming them, including the mindset shift that helps people step out of the storm and back into presence. The conversation also goes deep on shame, conditional love, and the labels we inherit in childhood, even when parents mean well. We explore blame, pride, and the hard work of forgiveness that moves from the head to the heart. Finally, Jonathan tells the story of a turning point through boxing, encountering a transformed Christian life, and discovering Orthodoxy as a coherent path where healing has a direction and mercy is lived, not just spoken. If you care about men’s mental health, trauma healing, addiction recovery, and Orthodox Christianity as a way of becoming fully human, you will find a lot to sit with here. Subscribe, share this with a friend who feels stuck, and leave us a review. What part of your own story are you ready to stop numbing and start healing? Drop us a line Support the show Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2

  6. Sep 6

    #54 I Prayer and Prostitution

    Prayer is easy to dismiss until you hit the moment where you usually lose the fight. We speak plainly about that moment, and why we believe prayer is not an “extra” but a real form of protection and change, especially when the passions feel stronger than your will. We also share a practical need close to home: our Orthodox community in Hastings is working to buy the church building on Albany Road for the Russian Orthodox Church Outside Russia (ROCOR). A permanent home is not just bricks and paperwork. It is where people learn to worship, repent, heal, and grow steady in a noisy world that pulls the heart in ten directions at once. From there we lean on The Way of a Pilgrim, the classic Russian Orthodox book on the Jesus Prayer, and we tell a striking story about a monk battling lust. The twist is simple and sharp: worship comes first. Prostrations interrupt the slide into sin, and the monk discovers he cannot sin after he has just bowed down in prayer. We then bring it back to everyday practice: “quantity before quality”. Like training a muscle, repeating the Jesus Prayer with attention, often helped by a prayer rope, can slowly become inner change, clearer sight, and kinder action towards others and ourselves. If you want a practical Orthodox approach to Christian prayer, spiritual discipline, and resisting temptation, listen now. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs encouragement, and leave us a review. What helps you return to your senses when temptation hits? Drop us a line Support the show Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2

  7. Aug 25

    #53 Anastasia Reborn I Why The Universe Is Not Your Therapist

    Self-help can be genuinely helpful, so why do so many of us end up back at the same pain, just wearing a different mask? We sit down with Anastasia Girali, a mental health and spiritual mentor, to talk about what she learned after a decade inside the personal development and manifestation world, and why the results she saw never truly lasted until faith moved from a vague spirituality to a direct relationship with Jesus Christ.  We get into the real tension between neuroscience and the soul: yes, habits and addictions carve pathways in the brain, and yes, therapy can name patterns and reduce symptoms. But we also explore what gets missed when healing becomes self-centred management rather than true transformation. Anastasia shares her journey from cultural Greek Orthodoxy to lived communion, how repentance changes the mind, and why prayer is not positive thinking with religious language but an actual encounter that reshapes desire, attention and behaviour.  The conversation also tackles New Age spirituality, “the universe” language, and the hidden cost of seeking power apart from God. We talk spiritual warfare, deliverance, forgiveness, the role of images in shaping lust and addiction, and why short prayers like the Jesus Prayer can carry you when willpower fails. If you’re looking for faith-based healing, Orthodox Christianity, addiction recovery support, or a grounded alternative to manifestation culture, this one offers a clear path and plenty to wrestle with.  Subscribe for more conversations like this, share the episode with someone who needs hope, and leave us a review with the one line that stayed with you. Drop us a line Support the show Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2

  8. Aug 21

    Joan Part 2 I From New Age Seeking To The Faith

    A single moment can cut through years of noise: a quiet nudge that says, go to church because you cannot do it by yourself. Joan from Primal Thrive joins us for a wide-ranging conversation on Eastern Orthodox Christianity, Orthodox masculinity, and what it looks like to move from private spiritual seeking to an ancient, communal way of life. He shares how childhood glimpses of Russian churches and icons stayed in the background, then resurfaced after a long stretch of New Age spirituality that left him with more confusion than answers. We talk honestly about the first liturgy experience: incense, vestments, the shared communion spoon, and the feeling of being out of place. Then something shifts. Joan describes the surprising sense of coming home, and how one small act of hospitality after the service can be the difference between walking away and staying. From there we explore why Orthodoxy does not rush you, why humility is so hard for modern people, and why prayer and fasting are not self-improvement tricks but a steady battle to reorient the heart towards God and neighbour. One of the strongest themes is forgiveness. Joan argues that bitterness and bad thoughts can fester into stress and even psychosomatic illness, while forgiveness can bring real lightness, peace, and healing. We also push into the paradoxes of Christian life: strength and gentleness, boundaries and mercy, physical weakness and spiritual beauty. If you’ve been searching for meaning, struggling with isolation, or tired of spiritual content that loops back to “me”, this will give you language, direction, and a practical next step. Subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. Drop us a line Support the show Do you or someone you know need or want Christian Life Coaching?Follow this link for a free chat to explore - https://linktr.ee/CoachJonah2

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Subscribe for exclusive content and 10% off Biltong at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2429544/subscribe The Sunny Banana, is a play upon the Zulu greeting, Sanibonani, meaning I see you.As tech wrenches us from real life, we are not seeing each other. The Greek word 'idea' means to see. It is as if we have lost the idea of what it means to be human; social, communal, relational. The same word, to see, in Old English is 'seon' which has connotations of understanding. Let's start seeing each other again, listening, respecting, and understanding each other and ourselves. After all, we are people through other people.

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  • Creator
    Jarvah Biltong
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    58
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Sunny Banana
  • Show Website
    Sunny Banana