The Other Half Podcast

Tino & Erika
  • 5.0 (1)
  • SOCIETY & CULTURE

The other half can be many things. Most of all it is your perspective, your narrative, your side of the story. We are here to hear the other half of the story.

Episodes

  1. 12/29/2025

    How Much Past Is Too Much? Trust, Identity, And Choosing Each Other

    New year energy hits different when you’re still catching your breath from December. We open up about the emotional clutter of the holidays and why so many people crave a clean slate. Then we dive into the hot-button question: does body count matter? We go past the surface takes and talk honestly about safety, transparency, and what it means to date in a world where people aren’t always upfront. From testing together to drawing real boundaries, we share the steps that actually build trust instead of just talking about it. The conversation turns reflective as we explore what we’d change about high school and why those choices still echo. One of us would have communicated sooner to save friendships; the other admits to being unkind and drifting through classes, a path that reshaped everything. That leads to a bigger question: who were we trying to be for others, and who did we ignore inside ourselves? We unpack identity, confidence, and the pressure to fit in—plus the simple habits that help teens and adults alike find their voice without burning bridges. At the heart is a vulnerable story: she said “I love you” first, he didn’t say it back, and everything that followed tested whether this relationship could hold. We revisit a breakup, a drive through the snow, a ruthless “I don’t know,” and the moment pride almost ended it all. What changed us wasn’t a perfect apology—it was learning to slow down, ask for what we need, and let space build respect instead of doubt. We talk about giving each other room to breathe, loving solitude, and why personal peace is the strongest glue in a partnership. If you’ve wrestled with trust, rushed feelings, or the fear of repeating old patterns, you’ll hear yourself in this one. Tap play, then tell us: what would you tell your younger self to do differently, and where do you draw your non-negotiable lines now? Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and drop your thoughts in the comments—we’re answering listener questions next. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    37 min

  2. 10/30/2025

    Arizona Life Unpacked: Faith Journeys, Culture Clashes, And Service Industry Truths

    We’re back, a little worn out and a lot more honest, ready to talk about the real stuff: how faith changed for us, how identity and race shape daily life, and why Arizona became both a challenge and a fresh start. The story winds from old-school church traditions and years inside a faith that never felt personal, to finding a modern, welcoming community where our kids belong and our spirits do too. We don’t chase perfection; we’re building a daily practice that goes beyond Sundays and gives our family a grounded way to grow. We also open up about identity in America—Black, Mexican, mixed, and navigating the friction between pride and prejudice. The takes are candid: racism is real, culture isn’t a monolith, and labels can’t be your ceiling. We share what it looks like to hold nuance, teach our kids resilience, and still find joy in the messy middle where love and truth both live. Then we get practical about Arizona. Expect stunning winters, serious sunsets, newer homes, and opportunity if you work for it. Expect heat that demands respect, traffic from explosive growth, and a driving culture that feels like a racetrack on the wrong day. We talk fast pace, fitness vibes, and why it takes time to find your people in a sprawling, diverse metro. Finally, we pull back the curtain on service work—from waxing aftercare to barber chair etiquette—why tipping and being on time matter, and the moments that stick with you. One client had a seizure mid-haircut; another story is a final cut for a brother laid to rest. These aren’t just appointments. They’re human lives. If this resonates, hit follow on your favorite app, share with a friend who’s thinking about moving or starting over, and leave a quick review so more people can find the show. What part hit you—faith, race, or the Arizona gamble? Tell us and join the conversation. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    52 min

  3. 08/24/2025

    Spouse or Friend? Worst Dates & What Makes a Good Friend

    Friendship – it seems so simple when we're young, yet becomes increasingly complex as we navigate adulthood. In this raw and unfiltered episode, we explore the nuanced boundaries that define our closest relationships and when those boundaries might need reinforcing. When your best friend and your partner clash, who do you choose? Erika shares her powerful experience of cutting off judgmental friends who couldn't accept her relationship with Tino. Ten years later, she stands firmly by that decision, revealing how sometimes losing a friendship can be the price of personal happiness. The discussion highlights a universal truth: relationships often serve as mirrors, reflecting our values and revealing others' true colors. We tackle the question of standards – are yours too high, too low, or just right? Guy admits his friends criticized him for dating women they deemed not attractive enough, sparking a deeper conversation about superficial expectations versus genuine connection. Tino confesses to being picky about appearance but acknowledges that shared values ultimately matter more. The heart of the episode emerges when we distinguish between true friends and mere associates. "If you ever feel like you're about to cut your friend off and then the next minute you're cool, you're not real friends," Guy notes, crystallizing the difference between meaningful bonds and casual connections. Erika reveals her selective approach to friendship, distancing herself from energy-draining, one-sided relationships that demand everything while offering nothing in return. From hilarious first-time drinking stories to profound reflections on loyalty, this episode offers both entertainment and wisdom. Whether you're questioning a friendship, navigating relationship drama, or simply curious about how others maintain their social boundaries, you'll find authentic perspectives that might just change how you view your own circle. What makes someone worthy of your inner circle? Listen now and join the conversation. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    46 min

  4. 08/02/2025

    A Decade of Growing Together: How We First Connected

    Have you ever wondered what those first tentative messages that spark a lifelong connection actually look like? In this deeply personal episode, we pull back the curtain on our relationship's origin story as we celebrate a decade together. The year was 2015. A chance nightclub sighting at the Town Crier in Tri-Cities, Washington. A determined Facebook message the morning after. And just like that, our journey began. What makes this episode special is that we actually read our original Facebook messages from August 2, 2015—preserved exactly as they were written. You'll hear our authentic first impressions, the careful dance of getting to know someone new, and those moments of vulnerability that laid the foundation for everything that followed. We go beyond just telling our "how we met" story to explore what's kept us together through ten years of growth, challenges, and change. From breaking down gender role expectations (yes, he does laundry and cooks!) to the years-long process of learning to communicate effectively with each other, we share the raw truth about building a partnership that works. As Tino reveals his journey to better emotional awareness through journaling, and Erika considers therapy for her communication challenges, we discuss how creating safe spaces for vulnerability has strengthened our bond. Whether you're single, newly dating, or decades into a partnership, this conversation offers honest insights about what it means to truly grow together. Because sometimes the path to a solid relationship isn't finding someone perfect—it's finding someone willing to work through the imperfections alongside you. Have a question about relationships or a topic for a future episode? Drop it in the comments below and don't forget to subscribe to join us on this journey. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    52 min

  5. 06/25/2025

    Father's Day, Dreams, Destinations, and Finding Your Path in Arizona

    Sometimes the most powerful conversations happen when family comes together. In this special Father's Day episode, we welcome Guy – Tino's "little lying brother" – who recently made the bold move from Iowa to Arizona to pursue his barbering dreams. His fresh perspective as a newcomer to the desert provides the perfect backdrop for our exploration of life's big questions. "Are you living the life you always dreamed of?" This deceptively simple icebreaker reveals striking differences in how each of us measures fulfillment. Guy, standing at the threshold of adulthood, feels aligned with his path. Erika acknowledges gratitude for family and stability while still hungering for more. Avery finds contentment in his current life while maintaining ambition for financial growth. Their varied responses illuminate how our relationship with success evolves throughout different life stages. The Father's Day theme prompts heartfelt appreciation for the men who've shaped their lives. Guy's reflection that "having a dad in my life is a flex" strikes a powerful chord, highlighting how something some take for granted represents profound privilege for others. The conversation takes an unexpectedly vulnerable turn when Guy shares his journey with syndactyly – a congenital hand condition requiring multiple childhood surgeries. His matter-of-fact resilience and adaptation as a barber showcase remarkable strength. We explore how geography shapes aspiration, contrasting the limited horizons of small Midwestern towns with Arizona's visible prosperity and opportunity. Those palm-tree lined streets from movies like "Friday" aren't just aesthetic backdrops – they represent possibility. For transplants from places where "we never saw successful Black people in our neighborhoods," the access to diverse models of achievement becomes transformative. Join us for this intimate look at family bonds, personal growth, and the courage to chase dreams beyond familiar territory. Whether you're contemplating a major life change or simply appreciating the father figures in your world, this episode reminds us that our definitions of success are always evolving. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    46 min

  6. 06/10/2025

    Growing Through Broken Bonds

    n this episode of The Other Half Podcast, hosts Cruze and Erika dive deep into a raw and reflective conversation: "What did you go through as a kid that still affects you today?" We share personal stories from our childhoods, how those experiences shaped who we are today, and how we continue to grow and heal through open dialogue. Whether it’s trauma, tough love, or just the little moments that stuck with us — we unpack it all. 💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments: What did YOU go through as a kid that still affects you today? 🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications for more real conversations every few week. 🎧 Available on YouTube + all podcast platforms 📲 Follow us on social @TinoCruze + @Sauceyyyxo  Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    46 min

  7. 05/11/2025

    Stepping Into Fatherhood & Self Employment

    What happens when love meets unresolved trauma? This raw, unfiltered conversation explores the delicate journey of step-parenthood through the eyes of someone who's lived both sides of the story. Tino shares his profound realization: "It's hard to come into a child's life when there's trauma that hasn't been unpacked." Having become a father to both younger children (who've known only him as their dad) and older children (who had established relationships elsewhere), he reveals the careful navigation required to build authentic connections. His caution wasn't about readiness but about consent – understanding whether the children were willing to accept him into their lives. The conversation shifts into professional territory as both hosts discuss their service industry experiences. As a barber, Tino highlights how chronic lateness affects his livelihood, while Erika explains the domino effect of tardy clients in her waxing career. Their shared frustrations reveal a universal truth: respecting someone's time means respecting their ability to provide for their family. Perhaps most powerful is their exploration of communication barriers in relationships. They acknowledge their growth over time, with Erika revealing how her professional training unexpectedly provided therapeutic breakthroughs in managing anxiety and confronting her tendency to "run when things get tough." Their candid discussion about misunderstandings demonstrates how different perspectives shape our interpretations of others' actions. The episode concludes with a heartfelt reminder to extend grace to others, understanding that everyone carries hidden battles. Their journey reveals that successful blended families aren't built overnight but through consistent effort, communication, and the willingness to see beyond our own experiences. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    1h 5m

  8. 04/11/2025

    Navigating Loss Together: When Grief Hits Close to Home

    The hardest conversation we've ever shared publicly pulls back the curtain on our journey through unexpected grief. When grief happens in the family it changes everyone. We talk candidly about the unique challenges of losing someone to violence rather than natural causes. The details haunt you differently. The questions linger longer. The what-ifs play on repeat. And when you're trying to maintain normalcy for children while processing your own grief, the burden doubles. Some days, we'd take turns being strong while the other fell apart. Other days, we both struggled to function. This episode isn't about answers – it's about acknowledging the messy, non-linear path of grief when experienced as a couple. Sometimes you have to be there for your partner even when you're not okay yourself. And sometimes you need to create space for private moments of remembrance. Whatever you're facing, know you're not alone in feeling lost, angry, or forever changed by loss. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    46 min

  9. 04/02/2025

    Navigating Tattoos in the Workplace, Cheaters & Breaking Traditional Barriers FT. Dre

    A candid conversation unfolds as The Other Half Podcast welcomes Andre Hernandez, bringing fresh perspectives on tattoos in professional environments. The episode opens with a lighthearted debate about whether anyone would fly someone out for a second date—unanimously deemed too expensive and risky by all parties. The discussion takes a vulnerable turn when the hosts and guest share personal experiences with infidelity. Andre reflects on discovering his ex with a coworker, while Erika acknowledges being cheated on in every relationship except her current one. Beyond the pain, they explore how these experiences build character and enhance one's ability to recognize red flags. Andre's journey from school counselor to aspiring police officer forms the heart of the episode. His candid explanation of leaving education for better financial opportunities resonates with anyone who's faced similar career crossroads. "I'm still too hungry and motivated to just stop at education," he explains, revealing his ambition to eventually become a school resource officer where his mental health background would prove invaluable. Cultural upbringings become a fascinating point of comparison when Andre discusses his Filipino household, challenging stereotypes about strict Asian parenting. This contrasts with Erika's less structured Hispanic upbringing, sparking a broader conversation about how cultural backgrounds shape our development. The conversation shifts to lighter territory with their dream dinner guests and Andre's surprising past as a New Balance-sponsored soccer player. Full of authentic moments and meaningful insights, this episode delivers genuine conversation that feels like catching up with friends. Subscribe to hear more authentic dialogues that balance serious life topics with the humor and perspective that make The Other Half Podcast a must-listen experience. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    1 hr

  10. 03/23/2025

    Fatherhood, Failure, and Finding Identity FT. Ken

    What happens when childhood lessons go untaught, leaving us to figure out life's fundamentals through trial and error? In this raw and revealing conversation, Kenny joins the podcast to share his journey as a father determined to break generational cycles despite growing up without consistent male guidance. Kenny opens up about his transition from barbering to pursuing an HVAC certification—a decision driven by his unwavering commitment to provide stability for his children. Working graveyard shifts, caring for his kids during the day, and attending school until 11pm, he embodies the sacrifices parents make to create better futures. "I just want to see my family happy," he explains, revealing how his priorities have shaped his career decisions. The conversation takes a deeper turn when exploring the psychological impacts of inconsistent parenting. All three share personal stories of searching for validation in unhealthy ways and making conscious decisions to parent differently than they were parented. Kenny's powerful insight that "inconsistency can mess you up real bad" resonates throughout this discussion on identity formation and healing childhood wounds. What makes this episode particularly impactful is the vulnerability with which these friends discuss their determination to give their children what they never had—consistency, communication, patience, and financial literacy. Kenny's metaphor of growing from a "watermelon seed" to a "whole watermelon" perfectly captures the personal growth that comes from facing life's challenges head-on. Whether you're a parent working to break generational patterns or someone still processing your own upbringing, this conversation offers both comfort in shared experiences and hope that with commitment, we can create healthier futures for ourselves and those we love. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    49 min

  11. 03/23/2025

    Finding Balance in a High-Speed Life: Marriage, Depression, and Making Time for What Matters

    Meet Tino and Erika, the dynamic duo behind The Other Half podcast, as they dive into what makes their eight-year marriage work despite their horoscopes suggesting otherwise. Their contrasting energies—Tino's go-getter attitude versus Erika's need for downtime—create both harmony and tension that many couples will recognize in their own relationships. The conversation takes an unexpectedly vulnerable turn as Erika reflects on her recent struggles with what might be depression, sharing how she's gradually withdrawn from social connections and finds even simple tasks exhausting. "I used to be fun," she confesses, expressing a desire to rediscover that side of herself. This raw admission opens up a thoughtful discussion about mental health and how life changes affect our wellbeing. Their story of moving to Arizona with nothing but "ramen noodles and four frozen pizzas" reveals their courage to start fresh, contrasting with the comfort of staying near family that keeps many people from pursuing new opportunities. Now raising teenagers while juggling work and personal aspirations, they navigate the challenges of maintaining connection amid busy schedules. The podcast touches on several universal themes: finding balance between work and rest, sustaining intimacy in long-term relationships, managing different personality types, and recognizing when isolation might signal something deeper than just "me time." Their conversation weaves between lighthearted banter and profound insights about marriage, parenting, and personal growth. Whether you're navigating relationship dynamics, struggling with motivation, or simply curious about how other couples make it work, this authentic conversation offers both comfort and perspective. Subscribe now to join Tino and Erika every Sunday or Monday as they continue to explore life from both sides of the narrative. Merch/Music/Videos TinoCruze.com Podcast Video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLLKnc-BRF332BAwTuTo0r3ihZwBwi2IWW LETS CONNECT! Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/TinoCruze​ https://www.instagram.com/yourstrulyyye_/ Email: TinoCruzeBiz@gmail.com

    38 min
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The other half can be many things. Most of all it is your perspective, your narrative, your side of the story. We are here to hear the other half of the story.

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    Tino & Erika
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  • Episodes
    11
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