Coming Out Christian - A LOVEboldly Podcast

Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and Ben Huelskamp
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Sometimes, it's as hard to come out as an LGBTQIA+ person in a Christian space as it is to come out as a Christian in an LGBTQIA+ space. Deeply faithful, critical, and sometimes a bit irreverent, "Coming Out Christian" meets that challenge head-on through the often silent and silenced narratives of Queer Christians. Join Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and the Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp for frank and revealing conversations at the intersection of faith, sexual orientation, gender identity, race, and other identities. "Coming Out Christian" is a project of LOVEboldly, an organization working to create spaces where LGBTQIA+ people can flourish in Christianity. Learn more about LOVEboldly at www.loveboldly.net.

  1. Sep 27

    Scandalous - Rev. Dr. Pauli Murray

    Scandalous, Episode 4: Rev. Dr. Pauli Murray Coming Out Christian's mini-season "Scandalous" continues as Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and the Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp welcome back Rev. Melinda Garza Moran to discuss a barrier-breaking figure whose story deserves far wider recognition: the Reverend Dr. Pauli Murray. A lawyer, activist, poet, and priest, Murray graduated first in her class from Howard Law School, co-founded the National Organization for Women, and helped shape the legal arguments behind landmark civil rights and gender equality cases, work that influenced both Thurgood Marshall and Ruth Bader Ginsburg. At age 63, after decades of pioneering work in law and academia, Murray entered seminary and went on to become the first African American woman ordained as an Episcopal priest. Melinda shares what drew her to Murray's story after watching a documentary on her life, and the group digs into what it meant for Murray to keep "causing good trouble" well into her seventies, the quiet strength of the aunt who raised her without judgment, and how Murray's justice work continued into the life of the church itself. The conversation also touches on the ongoing scholarly debate about which pronouns best honor Murray's gender-expansive identity (in these notes, we've followed the episode's lead in using she/her). Learn more about Rev. Melinda Garza Moran and her ministry at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church in Kenwood, Ohio, at www.goodshepherd.com. You can also follow Rev. Melinda on social media @heysaints26 (Instagram, Threads, and Facebook). Follow along at @comingoutchristian_podcast and @loveboldly, and find more at www.loveboldly.org.

    Scandalous - Rev. Dr. Pauli Murray

  2. Sep 20

    Scandalous - Rev. Clarence H. Cobbs

    Coming Out Christian's mini-season "Scandalous" continues as Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and the Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp welcome back Bishop Tim Wolfe, who is transitioning from his role as Midwest Regional Bishop into a new role as a Senior Bishop, to talk about a legendary figure from his own faith formation: Reverend Clarence H. Cobbs. Known simply as "Preacher," Cobbs founded Chicago's First Church of Deliverance in 1929 at just 21 years old, building it into a spiritual and cultural landmark of Bronzeville with a pioneering radio broadcast, a 200-voice choir, and a congregation that grew to more than 10,000 members. Though rumors about his sexual orientation swirled for decades, even prompting a 1939 newspaper investigation, Cobbs never confirmed or denied the speculation, choosing instead to be known simply as a follower of Jesus. Bishop Wolfe, who knew Rev. Cobbs personally as a young man finding his spiritual home at First Church, shares vivid, moving reflections on Preacher's radical hospitality, his unbothered response to gossip and scandal, and his gift for reading the Gospels "at face value." The conversation explores what it means to build a church rooted in genuine sanctification rather than respectability politics, and why refusing to let others' opinions dictate your calling is its own kind of holy defiance. Learn more about First Church of Deliverance at fcdchicago.org, and about the Fellowship of Affirming Ministries at wearetfam.org. Follow Bishop Wolfe on Instagram @tgwolfe91159. Follow along at @comingoutchristian_podcast and @loveboldly, and find more at www.loveboldly.org.

    Scandalous - Rev. Clarence H. Cobbs

  3. Sep 13

    Scandalous - Bayard Rustin

    Scandalous, Episode 2: Bayard Rustin Coming Out Christian's mini-season "Scandalous" continues as Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and the Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp welcome back the Rev. Dr. Mashaun D. Simon to discuss a holy tantrum thrower whose legacy has too often been pushed into the shadows: Bayard Rustin. Born in 1912 to teenage parents and raised by his grandparents, Rustin was shaped by his grandmother Julia's Quaker faith, a faith he lived out for the rest of his life, from his training as a conscientious objector to his practice of nonviolence even while imprisoned. That same faith carried him into the heart of the Civil Rights Movement, where, largely uncredited, he helped organize the Montgomery Bus Boycott, co-founded the Southern Christian Leadership Conference, and orchestrated the 1963 March on Washington. Mashaun and the hosts explore how Rustin's identity as an openly gay Black man shaped both his activism and his place in history, the radical grace of his grandmother's love, and what it means to be a faith leader outside the traditional pulpit. The episode includes a candid historical assessment of Rustin, though it ultimately lands on the power of his activism and the depth of his faith. Learn more about Rev. Dr. Mashaun D. Simon at mashaundsimon.com, and find his book, Faith Deconstruction for Dummies, at Bookshop.org. To hear Bayard Rustin tell his own story in his own words, visit the Bayard Rustin Center for Social Justice's Queer History Archive at rustincenter.org/brcsjqueerhistory. Follow along at @comingoutchristian_podcast and @loveboldly, and find more at www.loveboldly.org.

    Scandalous - Bayard Rustin

  4. Sep 6

    Scandalous - St. Francis and St. Clare

    "Coming Out Christian" kicks off a new mini-season, "Scandalous," inspired by the Rev. Dr. Jacqui Lewis's essay "Scandalous Confrontation: When a Temple Tantrum Is Transformative." In each episode, hosts Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and the Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp welcome back a favorite guest to spotlight a "holy tantrum thrower" whose scandalous faithfulness sparked real transformation. This week, the Rev. Br. Ian Boden, OLF, returns to introduce Saints Francis and Clare of Assisi, two thirteenth-century "young upstarts" whose radical rejection of wealth and status the church could hardly believe. Ben sets the historical stage before Ian dives into the good trouble Francis and Clare stirred up: Francis renouncing his father's fortune, and Clare defying the pope himself to write her own rule of life as the first woman in church history to do so. Along the way, the conversation explores medieval attitudes toward wealth and poverty, gender norms within religious orders, and how Francis' radical embrace of creation still challenges the church today. For more on Ian's community, check out the Order of Lutheran Franciscans (lutheranfranciscans.org) or follow him on Instagram @ian.boden1. Ian also recommends Francis: A New Biography by Fr. Augustine Thompson and Light of Assisi by Sr. Margaret Carney, along with the Franciscan Intellectual Tradition website (franciscantradition.org) for further reading. Follow along at @comingoutchristian_podcast and @loveboldly, and find more at www.loveboldly.org.

    Scandalous - St. Francis and St. Clare

  5. Jul 12

    "A Fluid, Nonlinear, Living Spirituality" with Zé Soza

    Coming Out Christian | Season 3, Episode 15 Guest: Joseph "Zé" Soza What happens when the faith you were raised in no longer fits and you find yourself building something new from the pieces? Joseph "Zé" Soza (he/him/el) grew up in a deeply Pentecostal household in Ohio, shaped by long Sundays filled with ecstatic worship, speaking in tongues, and teary altar calls. His father is a theologian, Bible scholar, and pastor; his mother a devoted pastor's wife and public servant. Faith wasn't just part of Zé's upbringing, it was the air he breathed. And yet, after years of being torturously closeted, Zé came out as a gay Queer man in his early 20s and began a journey of self-actualization that eventually led him away from Christianity and toward Buddhism, though he'd be the first to tell you it's more complicated than that. In this episode, hosts Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp sit down with Zé to explore his journey from Pentecostal pastor's kid to Buddhist practitioner and yoga teacher and his deeply thoughtful approach to spirituality, not adopting a tradition wholesale, but using the tools and practices of multiple faiths to build a life of meaning and authenticity. Honest, searching, and beautifully human. 📲 Follow Zé on Instagram: @zesoza8🧘 Find Zé at Modo Yoga Columbus: modoyoga.com/columbus🎙️ Follow the podcast on Instagram: @comingoutchristian_podcast🌈 Follow LOVEboldly: @loveboldlyNote - Since this episode was recorded the date of "Over the Rainbow: A Symposium on LGBTQIA+ Death and Dying" has changed to August 22, 2026. For more information visit https://www.loveboldly.org/overtherainbow.

    "A Fluid, Nonlinear, Living Spirituality" with Zé Soza

  6. Jul 5

    "I'm Not Christian with an Asterisk" with Tyler Chernesky

    What if you could tell your whole story in just six words? Tyler Chernesky is a storyteller, writer, placemaker, and strategist with a resume that defies easy categorization: pastor, art gallery co-director, mixed-media collage artist, Six-Word Memoirs resource developer, and currently Executive Director of Community Happens Here, a neighborhood-focused nonprofit dedicated to connecting neighbors across difference in Cincinnati, Ohio. He's also an openly queer leader whose journey from evangelical Christianity to full affirmation has shaped everything about how he shows up in the world. In this episode, hosts Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and the Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp sit down with Tyler to explore his path from evangelical church kid to fully affirming, openly queer pastor and community leader. They dig into his neighborhood work with Community Happens Here and the ways that connecting people across difference is itself a deeply theological act. And they have a little fun with Six-Word Memoirs, the deceptively simple practice of distilling a life, a moment, or a story into exactly six words. Creative, grounded, and quietly revolutionary. 🌐 Visit Tyler's website: tylerchernesky.com🏘️ Learn about Community Happens Here: communityhappenshere.org🎙️ Follow the podcast: @comingoutchristian_podcast🌈 Follow LOVEboldly: @loveboldly

    "I'm Not Christian with an Asterisk" with Tyler Chernesky

  7. Jun 28

    "A Co-Conspirator for Justice" with the Rev. Charles Unique

    Coming Out Christian | Season 3, Episode 13 Guest: Rev. Charles Unique What does it look like when ministry and justice aren't two separate callings — but one? Rev. Charles Unique is a gender anarchist, organizer, and ordained clergy whose life work centers the dismantling of oppressive systems and the liberation of marginalized communities. With over a decade of community-rooted experience, Charles serves as Legal Empowerment Organizer at Tenants Transforming Greater St. Louis and is the founder of Flower Boi STL, a peer-led space for masculine people of color to dismantle toxic masculinity and build alternative modes of expression. They are also a co-founder and board member of THISTL, supporting trans housing access across St. Louis, and a Master of Divinity student at Eden Theological Seminary. Their organizing, writing, and movement work have been featured in STL Magazine, KSDK News, and NPR, among others. In this episode, hosts Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp sit down with Charles to explore their experiences as a Black trans man of faith, their path toward ordination, and their tireless work at the intersection of housing justice, food sovereignty, gender freedom, and Black trans liberation. It's a conversation that refuses to separate the spiritual from the political — because for Charles, they never have been. Fierce, tender, and utterly necessary.

    "A Co-Conspirator for Justice" with the Rev. Charles Unique

  8. Jun 21

    "Called to Heal in Many Ways" with the Rev. Julia Joyce-Miesse

    Coming Out Christian | Season 3, Episode 12 Guest: Rev. Julia Joyce-Miesse What happens when a life of healing — as a nurse, as a priest, as a mother, as a spouse — finally includes healing yourself? Rev. Julia Joyce-Miesse is a cradle Episcopalian, a registered emergency nurse of 23 years, and an ordained priest whose call to healing has taken many forms. Formed in the Episcopal Church in Charleston, South Carolina, Julia's path to ordination was shaped by luminaries like Bishop Barbara Harris and tested by the crucible of a global pandemic — for which she received the Dean's Cross for Servant Leadership from Virginia Theological Seminary, an honor shared by the likes of Madeleine Albright and Wendell Berry. She is now serving in Ohio, married to the Rev. Iva Joyce-Miesse, and mother to an incredible adult son, Taylor. In this episode, hosts Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp sit down with Julia for a rich, wide-ranging conversation about growing up biracial in predominantly white spaces, the intertwining calls to heal as a nurse and as a priest, the experience of being a parent, and spending many years in the closet — alongside her husband — before stepping into a life lived fully and openly as an LGBTQIA+ person, married to another female priest, and thriving in ministry. Generous, courageous, and deeply human — this one is not to be missed. 🎙️ Follow the podcast: @comingoutchristian_podcast🌈 Follow LOVEboldly: @loveboldly

    "Called to Heal in Many Ways" with the Rev. Julia Joyce-Miesse
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Sometimes, it's as hard to come out as an LGBTQIA+ person in a Christian space as it is to come out as a Christian in an LGBTQIA+ space. Deeply faithful, critical, and sometimes a bit irreverent, "Coming Out Christian" meets that challenge head-on through the often silent and silenced narratives of Queer Christians. Join Siobhan Boyd-Nelson and the Rev. Dr. Ben Huelskamp for frank and revealing conversations at the intersection of faith, sexual orientation, gender identity, race, and other identities. "Coming Out Christian" is a project of LOVEboldly, an organization working to create spaces where LGBTQIA+ people can flourish in Christianity. Learn more about LOVEboldly at www.loveboldly.net.

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