She's Iconic with Renee Marie

Renee Marie
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She’s Iconic is the podcast for high-achieving visionaries, coaches, and creatives ready to lead from identity, embodiment, and energetic truth—so your business feels as good as it looks. Hosted by mentor and speaker Renee Marie, these raw riffs and iconic conversations guide you through your 10x evolution into your most expressed, magnetic, iconic leader self. Because in this world, the strategy is you.

  1. 3D AGO

    EP 30 Going Bigger Is Actually Easier: The Visibility Shift High-Level Women Must Make with Renee Marie & Vanessa Lambert

    Why does your next level sometimes feel harder than it should? In this conversation, Renee Lowney sits down with visionary entrepreneur and spiritual business leader Vanessa Lambert to unpack one of the biggest blocks high-achieving women face when stepping into greater visibility. Together they explore why diluting your message, softening your power, and trying to be palatable for everyone actually creates more resistance in your business and leadership. Instead, the path forward is often the opposite: full expression. Inside this episode we discuss: ✨ Why going bigger is actually easier than playing small✨ The visibility blocks high-level women experience when expanding✨ Letting go of the need to be liked in order to be fully seen✨ How authentic expression magnetizes the right people✨ The energetic shift that turns you into a category of one This conversation is honest, expansive, and deeply activating for any woman who knows she is meant to lead at a bigger level. Vanessa Lambert is a visionary entrepreneur, artist, TEDx speaker, and founder of The Starseed Collective. With expertise in Kundalini activation, the Akashic Records, and high-frequency leadership, she guides spiritual entrepreneurs to unlock their creative genius, expand their wealth and influence, and lead with radical self-expression. Vanessa is also the co-founder of Bee The Wellness, a global retreat and transformational travel company she built with her husband Adam. Through immersive experiences around the world—from Costa Rica to Egypt—she has helped thousands of people expand their mind, body, and soul through spiritual exploration and personal growth. Her work blends spiritual mastery with business leadership, empowering visionary women to build powerful brands and movements while staying deeply aligned with their truth. Vanessa is currently leading powerful transformational experiences and global retreats designed to help leaders step into their fullest expression and impact. Her upcoming event, The Starseed Summit is a three day live experience in South Beach Miami where spiritual depth and business strategy finally exist in the same room at the highest level. No choosing between your gifts and your ambition. No strategy without soul. June 9-11, 2026 — this is the room you’ve been looking for. Join us here Follow along for more conversations like this: Renee @xoreneemarie Vanessa Lambert @starseed.collective If this episode resonated with you, send us a DM and let us know what landed! And if you know a woman who needs to hear this message, share this episode with her.

    43 min

  2. FEB 24

    EP 29: Your business will expose every unhealed part of you (And why that's not a bad thing)

    At some point in your entrepreneurial journey, you realize your business isn’t testing your strategy — it’s revealing you. “Your business will expose every unhealed part of you.” And if you’re a high-level woman who has built something real…you already know this is true. Because entrepreneurship isn’t hard because of strategy.It’s hard because it reveals you. In this episode, I walk you through: How abandonment wounds show up when clients leave How scarcity hides inside your pricing decisions Why control blocks delegation (and caps your growth) How fear of being seen disguises itself as “the algorithm” Why you don’t rise to the level of your strategy — you lead to the level of your nervous system If you’ve ever: Taken a client departure personally Discounted from fear Micromanaged because you didn’t feel safe letting go Played slightly smaller than you know you’re meant to This episode will feel like someone turning the light on. You’ll walk away understanding that what feels like a business problem…is often a leadership initiation. And when you see it clearly, you stop reacting and start leading. If this resonates, DM me the word LEADER on Instagram @xoreneemarie. I’ll know exactly what you’re navigating. We’re not just building businesses. We’re building iconic women leaders. And that starts within.

    18 min

  3. FEB 18

    EP 28: What I’m Not Bringing Into the Year of the Fire Horse as a High Achieving Leader

    This past year wasn’t about growth. It was about shedding. In this deeply honest and activating episode, I share the four things I had to release in the Year of the Snake before I could step into Fire Horse leadership — grounded authority, calm power, clean decisions, and expanded capacity. We’re talking about:• Urgency leadership• Financial dips and nervous system spirals• Indecision disguised as thoughtfulness• The savior role and people-pleasing• Money avoidance and emotional spending• Why clarity creates overflow This isn’t about astrology. It’s about identity. And the leader you become this year will determine the business you build. You are not here to circle the same level. You are here to lead as your highest, Iconic Woman self. If something in you is shedding right now — if you can feel the shift but don’t quite know how to lead through it — this is exactly the work I do. DM me the word “SHED” on Instagram at @xoreneemarie and let’s have the conversation. I’ll know exactly what you mean. Xo Renee Marie

    26 min

  4. FEB 11

    EP 27: Why You’re Suddenly Not Tolerating the Things You Used To: The Pendulum Swing of Identity Shifts

    If you’ve started healing… raising your standards… doing the deeper work… And suddenly you feel sharper. Less tolerant. More reactive. More discerning. You might be wondering: Why don’t I recognize myself anymore? In this episode, I’m breaking down something no one is talking about — the pendulum swing of identity shifts. When you leave an old identity, your nervous system doesn’t land in balance immediately. It swings. Especially after long seasons of: People pleasing Over-functioning Over-responsibility Burnout Self-abandonment Your body couples pain with danger.And your system says: Never again. So you swing to the opposite extreme. In this episode, I share: Why healing can initially make you feel more reactive The difference between integration and extremes How I decoupled burnout from my beauty industry identity What I witnessed in myself during a full-circle leadership moment Why loneliness is often part of growth How to re-integrate with boundaries instead of fear If you feel like you’re “too much” right now…Or like you’ve burned parts of yourself down just to feel safe… This episode will ground you. Recalibration is not regression.Extremes are information.And balance is something you earn through awareness. Connect with Renee on Instagram: @xoreneemarie

    21 min

  5. FEB 5

    EP 26: Leading by Design: How I Use Human Design to Run My Business, Life, and Motherhood

    Before you listen to this episode, pause for a moment and find out your Human Design. Visit ahumandesign.com, generate your free chart, and take note of your Type, Strategy, and Authority.Knowing your design will allow this episode to land in your body, not just your mind. In this episode of She’s Iconic, Renee Lowney shares how she uses Human Design as a practical, embodied leadership tool — not as a rulebook, identity label, or personality test. This is not a lesson on Human Design.This is a lived example of what happens when a woman stops forcing herself into strategies that were never designed for her — and starts leading, working, and mothering in alignment with her natural energy. Renee opens up about: Living and leading as a Projector Making decisions through splenic authority Structuring business, content, and offers with depth instead of volume Using Human Design to create more conscious, regulated motherhood Why rest, timing, and spaciousness are leadership strategies — not luxuries This episode is for women who already know there’s a different way to lead —and are ready to trust themselves enough to live it. Key Takaways: Why burnout often comes from misalignment, not overwork How Human Design becomes a tool for self-trust, not self-judgment What it looks like to wait for aligned invitations without shrinking How leadership changes when productivity stops being the metric Why embodiment — not information — creates sustainable success How knowing your design creates compassion for yourself and others You were never meant to lead, work, or mother like anyone else.Your design is here to remind you of that. If you felt recognized while listening to this episode, that’s not an accident. I work with women through aligned, invitation-based containers rooted in embodiment, nervous-system safety, and conscious leadership. If you feel the nudge to explore working together, come say hello. 👉 @xoreneemarie Let’s see what wants to unfold.

    20 min

  6. JAN 29

    EP 25: Why Raising Your Standards Can Feel So Lonely (and Why That’s a Sign You’re Doing It Right)

    As you rise into a new level of leadership, something unexpected can happen:your world gets quieter. In this episode, Renee Marie explores why raising your standards often brings solitude — and why that solitude isn’t a sign you’re doing something wrong, but a signal that your capacity is expanding. You’ll hear a raw, grounded conversation about: Outgrowing rooms that once felt aligned Grieving relationships, identities, and environments from your old self Why leadership at this level requires fewer opinions and deeper self-trust The difference between force and true capacity expansion How nervous system regulation — not hustle — builds sustainable power What it means to hold the Diamond Standard of Leadership without abandoning yourself This isn’t loneliness.It’s integration. If you’ve been feeling the quiet, the pressure, or the discomfort of standing between who you were and who you’re becoming — this episode is for you. Leadership isn’t formed in chaos.It’s formed through steady pressure, integrity, and self-trust over time. And if you’re ready to expand your capacity, stabilize your leadership, and build something that actually holds — without burnout — you’ll know what to do next. Connect with me and send me DM @xoreneemarie and let me know what landed for you. ✨ Share this episode with a woman who’s quietly raising her standards✨ Leave a review so this message reaches the leaders who need it most You’re not losing anything.You’re becoming someone who can hold more.

    21 min

  7. JAN 20

    EP 24: Why Conscious Leaders Are the Future of the Coaching Industry

    If things feel quieter than you expected… If the momentum looks different than it used to… If you’ve found yourself questioning your timeline instead of your vision… It doesn’t mean you’re behind. It means you’re building something that can actually hold you. This episode is for the high-capacity, self-aware woman who is tired of measuring herself against timelines that were never hers. The online space celebrates big numbers without context — and it’s quietly discouraging some of the most capable women I know. In this episode, I’m restoring what’s been missing from the conversation: truth, nervous system safety, and leadership maturity. I walk you through: The years of foundation that never made it into my highlight reels Why “overnight success” always has roots beneath it What a real quantum leap looks like behind the scenes Why identity shifts require recalibration time — not urgency How clean, embodied growth feels different in your body What looks like slow growth is often deep leadership being built in real time. What feels like a void is often integration. And what you might be calling “behind” is actually discernment, standards, and capacity expanding. This is a conversation about reclaiming dignity in your timeline, trusting the foundation you’re laying, and remembering that nothing sustainable is built without roots. If you’re still here… still refining… still telling the truth… You’re exactly where you need to be. If this episode landed in your body and you know you desire deeper, more spacious support, I offer long-term one-to-one mentorship containers for women ready to stabilize their leadership, expand their capacity for more income and visibility, and build something that lasts — without burnout or self-abandonment. You don’t need another strategy. You need perspective, regulation, and someone who can see the full picture of where you are — and where you’re meant to go next. You can apply for 1:1 mentorship HERE as we move into 2026. And if this episode supported you, share it with another woman who might need this reminder — or leave a review so this message reaches the women quietly questioning themselves right now. You’re not behind. You’re right on time. And you’re building a Legacy, baby

    27 min

  8. JAN 16

    EP 23: You Don’t Have a Messaging Problem — You’re Done Performing

    The coaching industry didn’t make you more powerful.It made you doubt yourself. This episode was recorded in real life—at the park, with my kids playing in the background—sparked by voice notes back and forth with friends and a moment of truth that needed to be spoken now, not polished later. And honestly? That’s the point. In this raw, fiery riff episode, I’m speaking directly to the high-level woman who feels exhausted by formulas, frameworks, and performative messaging that strips away her humanity. You’ll hear kids in the background.You’ll hear real emotion.You’ll hear truth without optimization. We’re talking about: Why the obsession with “perfect messaging” actually disconnects you from your truth How sales psychology and rigid frameworks have dehumanized leadership Why depth, potency, and lived experience outperform manufactured content—every time The shift from manipulation to resonance, and why people are craving realness now What it actually means to lead from embodiment instead of your head This isn’t about fixing your messaging.It’s about remembering who you are—in real time, real life, real leadership. Rant recorded. Truth activated. If this spoke to your soul, you’re welcome to come tell me.Send me a message on Instagram @xoreneemarie and let me know what landed for you—or leave a review so more women who need this reminder can find it too.

    7 min
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She’s Iconic is the podcast for high-achieving visionaries, coaches, and creatives ready to lead from identity, embodiment, and energetic truth—so your business feels as good as it looks. Hosted by mentor and speaker Renee Marie, these raw riffs and iconic conversations guide you through your 10x evolution into your most expressed, magnetic, iconic leader self. Because in this world, the strategy is you.

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