Man, We’re in Trouble!

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Man We're In Trouble is a men's podcast about the real stuff: relationships, career changes, mental health, and the conversations most guys are thinking but nobody's actually having. Hosted by Mitch and Ed, two guys who've been through military service, international moves, relationship chaos, and the slow realization that nobody prepared them for any of it. No gurus. No grift. No red pill nonsense. Just honest, non-toxic talk from men who'd rather think than shout. New episodes every week. Topics include men's mental health, relationship advice, masculinity, communication, life transitions,

  1. Zero to Stepdad: Big Life Changes, Long Distance & Keeping Your Relationship Alive

    11h ago

    Zero to Stepdad: Big Life Changes, Long Distance & Keeping Your Relationship Alive

    What happens when life moves faster than your relationship can keep up?Matt landed a new job, moved cities, got engaged, and is about to become a stepfather — all before he and his fiancée have ever lived together. Then week five on the job, his boss got fired. The plan changed overnight. And he had to figure out how to tell her.In this episode of Man We're In Trouble, hosts Mitch and Ed sit down with Matt to talk about navigating big life changes as a couple — the kind that don't wait for you to be ready.Topics covered:— How to have the hard conversation when the plan falls apart— Why setting realistic expectations early is the only thing that prevents resentment later— The two big life changes rule: why stacking more than two at once breaks relationships— Long distance relationships: what makes them work and what kills them— Moving for a job when your partner has to sacrifice their career and community— What it looks like when couples accidentally become roommates— Asking for help as a man — why we resist it and why it's the dumbest thing we do— Being a leader in a relationship without being an autocrat— How to sacrifice for your partner without losing yourselfMitch opens up about moving to Germany with a toddler, solo daycare runs, losing his entire support network, and the days he's just been a short-tempered a*****e. Ed delivers the most honest line of the episode. Matt figures out what it actually means to shift the target on someone you love.Man We're In Trouble is a men's mental health and relationship podcast for guys who'd rather think than shout. New episodes every week.Find us: https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble

    1h 8m
  2. That's Not Love, That's Control | Toxic Relationships, Escort Confessions & The Game

    May 22

    That's Not Love, That's Control | Toxic Relationships, Escort Confessions & The Game

    On this episode of Man We're In Trouble, Mitch and Ed reunite after months apart — Ed has moved to Europe with his wife, child, and two dogs, while Mitch is juggling two mortgages after buying a new house before his old one sold. Carlos joins mid-episode. They react to six real relationship advice stories covering financial control, study boundaries, an escort confession that led to therapy, orgasm and sexual compatibility, carrying an unmotivated partner, and a girlfriend who found "The Game" with her boyfriend's highlights in it — leading into a full debate on red pill content, negging, and what men are actually reading. ──────────────────────────CHAPTERS──────────────────────────00:00 Cold Open Debate00:25 Season Two Kickoff01:22 Moving Overseas Stress03:00 Two Mortgages Woes04:58 New Advice Format05:49 Hostess Job Control12:25 Study Time Boundaries16:41 Carlos Joins In18:46 Escort Dad Bombshell28:53 Orgasm Conversation35:36 Sex Therapy Reality Check37:47 Resentment And Burnout40:21 Ultimatums Or Exit44:20 Pickup Artist Book Shock46:03 Negging And Dating Tactics53:28 Red Pill Context Debate57:31 Jester Maxing And Apps01:00:46 Man Wit Book Club01:03:11 What We Are Reading01:09:13 War Books And Today01:11:05 Wrap Up And Next Time ───────────────────────────FIND US──────────────────────────Email: Themanwitpc@gmail.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheManWitPodcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themanwitpodcastBluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/manwitpodcast.bsky.socialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheManWitPodcastPodcast: https://tr.ee/mpF4UP-gNZAll links: https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble?utm_source=linktree_admin_share man were in trouble, MWIT, mens podcast, relationship advice, red pill, the game, toxic relationships, dating advice, reddit stories, escort confession, mens talk, podcast, non toxic masculinity, book club, dating tactics, sexual compatibility, orgasm, ultimatum, pickup artist, negging

    1h 16m
  3. There's Always a Salt Guy: Rejection, Breadcrumbing & How to Read the Room ft. Rafael Gomez

    Mar 10

    There's Always a Salt Guy: Rejection, Breadcrumbing & How to Read the Room ft. Rafael Gomez

    A drunk guy at a line dancing bar made crude comments about the women around him. Then he started drinking the table salt. Mary asked him to leave — and he did. But nothing would have stopped him from following her to the parking lot. That firm rejection wasn't rudeness. It was a safety line.In this episode of Man We're In Trouble, Mitch and Ed sit down with Mary, Mariah, and Rafael Gomez — host of Women on Men: Exploring Masculinity — to talk about rejection, breadcrumbing, and what it actually means to read the room.Topics covered:— Why rejection hurts even when you're the one doing it— How dating apps have warped men's expectations of real-world rejection— The friend zone vs. breadcrumbing — and why both are real— How men and women breadcrumb differently— The body language signals women are actually sending at bars and in social settings— Why being rejected is not the same as being disrespected— How handling rejection confidently is more attractive than avoiding it— The "f**k it" confidence shift — Mariah's emotional callus theory— Why you should get off the apps and meet people in person— Rafael previews his upcoming book: The Attraction HandbookMan We're In Trouble is a men's mental health and relationship podcast for guys who'd rather think than shout. New episodes every week.Find us: https://linktr.ee/ManwereintroubleFeatured guest: Rafael Gomez — Women on Men: Exploring Masculinity

    59 min
  4. Communication is Foreplay: Trauma Dumping, Vulnerability & Hard Conversations in Relationships

    Feb 25

    Communication is Foreplay: Trauma Dumping, Vulnerability & Hard Conversations in Relationships

    What do you do when your partner shares something traumatic — and you weren't ready to hear it?Matt is six months into the healthiest relationship of his life. But his partner has dropped some heavy things on him without warning, and now he's carrying them alone — afraid to bring them back up, afraid to look insecure, and slowly starting to self-sabotage something good out of fear it might actually work.In this episode of Man We're In Trouble, Mitch sits down with Matt, Victoria, and Mariah to talk about what real communication looks like in a relationship — especially when the conversations are hard.Topics covered:— Trauma dumping: what it is, why partners do it, and how to set boundaries around it— The difference between listening and trying to fix everything— How to revisit a hard conversation without making it feel like an attack— Using a safe word or scheduled time for difficult topics— Why writing a letter sometimes works better than talking— What belongs with your therapist vs. your partner— The double standard men face when it comes to emotional vulnerability— Red pill culture, the simp label, and why real men are actually winning— How porn and romantasy set impossible expectations for both men and women— The male loneliness epidemic — and who's actually responsible for itMariah closes the episode with the line that started it all: "Communication is foreplay. Don't rush it."Man We're In Trouble is a men's mental health and relationship podcast for guys who'd rather think than shout. New episodes every week.Find us: https://linktr.ee/Manwereintrouble

    1h 15m
  5. Family Bonds and Life's Unexpected Turns

    12/12/2025

    Family Bonds and Life's Unexpected Turns

    Join us for the exciting premiere of Season 2 of The Man We're In Trouble Podcast, now with a brand new format! Hosts Mitch, Ed, Matt, Dhruv, and Brendan dive deep into personal stories about reconnecting with family through gaming, facing health scares, and making life-changing decisions for loved ones. This episode is filled with heartfelt discussions, childhood reflections, and even some light-hearted moments about strange experiences. Stay tuned as we navigate real-life challenges and the complexities of being better men, fathers, and friends. Don't forget to like and subscribe for more engaging conversations in the upcoming episodes! 00:00 Welcome to Season Two! 00:36 Ed's Gaming Bond with Dad 04:32 Matt's Family Health Update 08:31 Matt's Decision to Move for Family 17:34 Navigating Family Dynamics 29:03 The Role of Fathers and Personal Reflections 37:08 Struggles of Being a Provider 37:54 Balancing Work and Family Time 42:25 Parenting Expectations and Insecurities 45:16 Quality Time with Children 56:20 Weird and Interesting Experiences 57:18 Military Life and Parenthood 01:03:22 Vasectomy and Personal Decisions 01:09:27 Closing Thoughts and Reflections The Man We're In Trouble Podcast, Season 2 Premiere, Personal Stories, Gaming and Family, Health Scares, Life-Changing Decisions, Fatherhood Reflections, Navigating Family Dynamics, Parenting Challenges, Quality Time with Family, Balancing Work and Family, Military Life and Parenthood, Heartfelt Discussions, Childhood Reflections, Light-Hearted Moments, Podcast Conversations, Being Better Men, Family Relationships #FamilyBonds, #LifeUnexpected, #TheManWereInTrouble, #SeasonPremiere, #PersonalStories, #GamingAndFamily, #HealthScares, #LifeDecisions, #Fatherhood, #FamilyDynamics, #ParentingChallenges, #QualityTime, #WorkLifeBalance, #MilitaryFamily, #Heartfelt, #ChildhoodMemories, #Lighthearted, #PodcastLife, #BetterMen, #FamilyRelationships

    1h 11m
  6. Navigating Modern Leadership and Relationships | Episode 13

    09/05/2025

    Navigating Modern Leadership and Relationships | Episode 13

    In this insightful episode of the 'Man. Were In Trouble Podcast,' the hosts are joined by Rafael Gomez from 'The Women on Men Podcast' to delve into the complex themes of leadership and relationships. They discuss the current trend of men feeling pressured to lead in traditional ways, the role of social media in shaping perceptions, and the importance of evolving as leaders both in personal and professional settings. The conversation covers diverse viewpoints on what constitutes toxic leadership, the challenges of modern dating, and practical steps for personal growth. Real-life examples and actionable advice make this episode a valuable listen for anyone looking to understand the nuances of leading and loving in today's world. If you like the software we edit with, check it out here! https://get.descript.com/tspj4zyhpy3d 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:27 Debate on Leadership and Gender Roles 03:30 Servant Leadership vs. Traditional Leadership 04:28 Cultural and Religious Influences on Leadership 24:32 Hypergamy and Dating Dynamics 32:49 Modern Dating Expectations and Realities 41:24 Managing Expectations in Dating 42:12 Advice from Steve Galloway 42:38 The Importance of Second Chances 43:49 Growth and Change in Relationships 45:59 Setting Standards vs. Expectations 50:07 Defining Toxic Leadership 58:05 The Red Pill Community and Its Impact 01:05:49 Finding Personal Goals and Self-Improvement 01:20:34 Communication and Counseling in Relationships 01:23:41 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks #Leadership #Relationships #Masculinity #SocialMediaInfluence #EvolvingLeadership #ToxicLeadership #ModernDating #PersonalGrowth #ManWereInTrouble #TheWomenOnMenPodcast #DatingChallenges #LeadershipSkills #RelationshipAdvice #MalePerspective #SelfImprovement #SocietalPressure #Communication #EmotionalIntelligence #AuthenticLeadership #LifeLessons

    1h 29m
  7. Navigating Masculine Emotions: Dismantling Stereotypes and Finding Healthy Outlets

    08/18/2025

    Navigating Masculine Emotions: Dismantling Stereotypes and Finding Healthy Outlets

    In episode 12 of 'The Man. We're in Trouble' podcast, hosts Mitch, Finn, Alex, and Kevin dive deep into the complex topic of masculine emotions. Historically, men have been stereotyped as unable to express their feelings or discuss their emotional wellbeing. This episode attempts to address how men can deescalate their negative feelings, avoid violent outbursts, and find healthy ways to express positive emotions. Through personal anecdotes and thoughtful discussions, the group explores various outlets for managing anger and stress. From Mitch's experience of being able to freely express emotions thanks to his upbringing, to Alex's suggestions of channeling anger through building and creating, and Finn's insights from growing up in a more emotionally open Swedish society, this conversation covers a wide range of perspectives. The hosts also discuss the importance of finding safe spaces and supportive social structures for men to express their feelings, whether through personal relationships or reaching out online. Tune in for a balanced discussion on masculinity, emotional expression, and societal expectations, with a mix of humor and serious insights. If you like the software we edit with, check it out here! https://get.descript.com/tspj4zyhpy3d 00:00 Welcome to Episode 12 00:08 Introducing the Hosts 00:13 Today's Topic: Men's Feelings 01:59 Reintroducing Finn 03:00 Career Updates 05:45 Alex's Perspective on Feelings 07:04 Men and Emotional Stoicism 12:50 The Role of Society in Men's Emotions 19:53 Physical Outlets for Emotions 26:42 Mutual Combat and Fight Clubs 32:14 Cultural Perspectives on Violence 34:06 Cultural Differences in Expressing Emotions 35:35 Japanese and Swedish Perspectives on Emotions 40:54 Military Influence on Masculinity 51:35 Coping Mechanisms for Anger 01:00:17 Challenges in Seeking Help 01:03:07 The Importance of Friendship and Community 01:14:26 Concluding Thoughts and Future Topics #Masculinity #MensEmotions #EmotionalHealth #MentalHealth #DismantleStereotypes #HealthyCoping #AngerManagement #ExpressingEmotions #MaleEmotionalWellbeing #SocietalExpectations #Podcast #TheManWereInTrouble #EmotionalOutlets #Stoicism #MenMentalHealth #SwedishCulture #JapaneseCulture #Friendship #Community #EmotionalIntelligence

    1h 16m
4.7
out of 5
3 Ratings

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Man We're In Trouble is a men's podcast about the real stuff: relationships, career changes, mental health, and the conversations most guys are thinking but nobody's actually having. Hosted by Mitch and Ed, two guys who've been through military service, international moves, relationship chaos, and the slow realization that nobody prepared them for any of it. No gurus. No grift. No red pill nonsense. Just honest, non-toxic talk from men who'd rather think than shout. New episodes every week. Topics include men's mental health, relationship advice, masculinity, communication, life transitions,