In The Feels Podcast

In The Feels Podcast
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 "In The Feels" dives into the heart of human experience. Join Lisa and Johnny for honest conversations about relationships, self-discovery, and the emotional landscape of life. Expect relatable stories, insightful discussions, and a safe space to explore all the feels!

  1. Feb 11

    Healthy Love Triggers Old Wounds | EP 034

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back, Feels Family 💛 In this episode, Johnny & Lisa take a deep dive into a powerful truth: safe love doesn’t erase old wounds — it reveals them. They unpack why being in a healthy relationship can actually feel uncomfortable when you’ve been conditioned by chaos, toxic dynamics, abandonment, or survival-mode love. From hypervigilance and nervous system responses to the difference between triggers and red flags, this conversation explores what happens when your past starts showing up in your present. Johnny and Lisa also talk about: Why calm can feel suspiciousWhy space during conflict can trigger abandonmentHow to distinguish trauma responses from real dangerThe importance of boundariesWhy healing often happens inside safe relationships — not before themThis episode is for anyone who has ever felt triggered by something healthy and wondered, “What’s wrong with me?” ✨ Question of the Week: What old wounds show up for you when things finally feel safe? Support the show

    41 min

  2. Jan 28

    What Changes When You Stop Explaining Yourself | EP 033

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back, Feels Family 💛  In this episode, Johnny & Lisa take a deep dive into what actually changes when you stop explaining yourself. They talk about how over-explaining often starts in childhood, gets reinforced through unhealthy relationships, and eventually becomes a defense mechanism rooted in fear, trust issues, and the need for validation. From emotional exhaustion and people-pleasing to learning how to trust your intentions and set healthier boundaries, this conversation explores why explaining yourself too much can cost you peace. Johnny & Lisa break down the difference between explaining, educating, and trying to convince someone — and why emotionally healthy relationships don’t require constant justification. This episode is about reclaiming freedom, trusting yourself, and surrounding yourself with people who don’t need every detail to understand you. ✨ Question of the Week: What’s one thing you’re ready to stop explaining? Support the show

    38 min

  3. Jan 14

    Why Always Being “Okay” Is Draining You | EP 032

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back, Feels Family 💛  In this episode, Johnny & Lisa unpack the emotional cost of always being “okay” — even when you’re not. They talk about the pressure many of us feel to stay positive, strong, and unbothered, and how constantly showing up as “the one who’s fine” slowly drains you emotionally. From people-pleasing and emotional masking to toxic positivity and burnout, this episode explores what happens when you never give yourself permission to fall apart. Johnny and Lisa reflect on how being the reliable one, the strong one, or the emotionally stable one can turn into emotional isolation — and why suppressing emotions doesn’t make them disappear, it just delays the impact. This conversation is a reminder that vulnerability isn’t weakness, needing support doesn’t make you a burden, and being honest about how you feel is part of emotional health — not a failure. ✨ Question of the Week: Where in your life are you pretending to be okay when you’re not? Support the show

    51 min

  4. Jan 7

    EMOTIONAL MATURITY EXPLAINED | EP 031

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back, Feels Family — and welcome to the first official episode of 2026. 💛 In this episode, Johnny & Lisa take a deep dive into emotional maturity — what it actually is, what it isn’t, and why social media has completely distorted the meaning. They kick things off with a weekly check-in that turns into a real-life example of emotional growth, reflecting on a New Year’s Eve moment where reactions could’ve taken over — but didn’t. From learning how to pause, regulate emotions, and choose response over reaction, this episode highlights how emotional maturity shows up in real time, not perfection. The conversation expands into the difference between emotional suppression vs emotional maturity, why being “unbothered” isn’t the goal, and how emotionally mature people don’t avoid conflict — they handle it with intention. Johnny & Lisa also reflect on the cost of growth, including loneliness, outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries, and learning to stop people-pleasing. This episode is honest, reflective, and grounded in real-life application — not internet quotes. ✨ Question of the Week: Where in your life are you learning to respond instead of react? Support the show

    33 min

  5. 12/31/2025

    NEW YEAR NEW INTENTIONS | EP 030

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back, Feels Family — and Happy New Year’s Eve. 💛 In this final episode of 2025, Johnny & Lisa take a step back to reflect on the year that was and intentionally look ahead to what they want to carry — and leave behind — as they move into 2026. Instead of a weekly check-in, they open the episode with a yearly gratitude and pride check-in, sharing what they’re most thankful for, what this year taught them, and how they’ve grown both individually and as a couple. From marriage and travel to personal accountability, resilience, and consistency, this episode is rooted in reflection and honesty. They dive into the biggest lessons of 2025, including why consistency matters more than intensity, how resilience shows up in the hard moments, and the importance of applying the tools they talk about on the podcast to real life. The conversation then shifts toward intention-setting — not New Year’s resolutions — and defining what kind of people they want to be in 2026. This episode is about choosing peace, letting go of old patterns, moving with intention, and learning how to pour back into yourself without guilt. ✨ Question of the Week: How do you want to feel in the upcoming year? Support the show

    24 min

  6. 12/17/2025

    THE P. DIDDY CONVERSATION | EP 029

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back, Feels Family. 💛 This week, Johnny and Lisa step into a heavier but necessary conversation surrounding P. Diddy, the allegations being discussed publicly, and the emotional, cultural, and ethical questions that come with it. Rather than focusing on rumors, this episode centers on accountability, power dynamics, and the emotional conflict people feel when someone they admired is accused of serious harm. Johnny and Lisa talk openly about separating the art from the artist, why these conversations are uncomfortable but important, and how fame and unchecked power can create environments where harm is ignored or minimized. They also explore how these situations affect victims, fans, and communities — and why silence, denial, or “waiting for it to pass” only continues the cycle. This episode isn’t about judgment — it’s about awareness, responsibility, and choosing to sit in the discomfort long enough to learn something from it. Support the show

    1h 7m

  7. 12/10/2025

    WHAT IF IT GOES RIGHT? | EP 028

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back, Feels Family! 💛 This week, Johnny and Lisa take a deep dive into something everyone struggles with but almost no one talks about honestly: overthinking and overfeeling. From reading way too far into “OK” replies, to spiraling when someone leaves you on read, to assuming your partner’s quiet mood MUST mean something is wrong — this episode unpacks how easily our minds can twist neutral moments into emotional disasters. Together, they explore:  ✨ How overthinking turns possibilities into “worst case scenarios”  ✨ What “overfeeling” really is (turning thoughts into emotional facts)  ✨ How trauma, past relationships, and old wounds shape the narratives we create  ✨ Why kindness starts to feel suspicious when you’re hurting  ✨ How to reframe your thoughts before your emotions take over  ✨ How conditioning from childhood affects adult relationships  ✨ The difference between seeking clarity vs. seeking closure ✨ Why slowing down your thoughts changes everything PLUS — a powerful new segment called “What I Learned This Week”, where Johnny and Lisa each reveal the mindset breakthroughs they had in real time. This episode is raw, honest, emotional, funny, and full of the real-life tools people actually need to break free from their own spirals. Support the show

    55 min

  8. 11/19/2025

    LET'S GET PETTY | EP 027

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back, Feels Family! 💛 This week, Johnny & Lisa are diving into a topic that EVERYONE has lived through — pettiness. And we’re talking all forms of it: the funny, the wild, the unnecessary, and the deeply relatable moments that come from hurt, ego, or just straight-up “I’m gonna get you back” energy. From childhood Oreo revenge missions, to petty high-school drive-bys complete with a middle finger out the window, to listener submissions involving Netflix-password warfare and spite-dating that lasted two whole years — this episode is packed with stories that’ll make you laugh AND reflect. But as always, Johnny & Lisa get real about the deeper layers:  💬 Why we react with pettiness when we’re hurting  🧠 How defensiveness and ego fuel those “I’ll show you” moments  😂 When petty behavior is just harmless comedy  ❤️ And when it becomes a sign of emotional wounds we haven’t healed yet  🌱 The shift from petty reactions → emotional maturity & accountability  👀 Plus: parental-level pettiness like teaching kids lessons with cracked car windows in the middle of winter 😭  This one blends comedy, chaos, honesty, and growth — everything we love about In The Feels. ✨ Question of the Week: What’s the PETTIEST thing you’ve ever done (or had done to you)? Drop it in the comments — we want the stories. Support the show

    1h 4m
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 "In The Feels" dives into the heart of human experience. Join Lisa and Johnny for honest conversations about relationships, self-discovery, and the emotional landscape of life. Expect relatable stories, insightful discussions, and a safe space to explore all the feels!

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  • Creator
    In The Feels Podcast
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    34
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 In The Feels Podcast
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