The Energized Woman Podcast

Tanja Woitasczyk

With simple tweaks, you can go from exhausted and surviving to energized and thriving. Join Tanja as she shares practical, proven strategies to help you regain your energy and reclaim your time, so you can live your purpose. Through a mix of solo episodes and guest interviews, you’ll discover practical tools and insights to break free from the cycle of pushing through and start feeling your best again.

  1. Aug 5

    How Not to Take On Other People's Pain

    Do you feel that pull the second someone you love starts to hurt? That urge to jump in, say the right thing, fix it, make it stop before they've even finished the sentence. It usually means you have a lot of empathy. But over time it can wear you out. Someone you love who's struggling and you feel like you have to be the one to make it okay. So you jump in. You fix. You carry it. And then... they don't seem grateful. Or they push back on your help. Or you're just left exhausted, wondering why supporting the people you love costs you so much. You're not too sensitive. You're not doing it wrong. But there's a difference between empathy and enmeshment and many of us were never taught where that line is. In this episode, I walk through: Why some of us feel an almost physical pull to fix other people's pain (and where that pattern actually started) Why "helping" can backfire even when your intentions are completely good What people in pain actually need from you (hint: it's usually not a solution) How to protect yourself from taking on their stuff You'll walk away with one simple practice you can start using right away. No more losing yourself when you want to help someone who feels bad. 🎧 Available wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. New episodes drop every Wednesday. 📢 Loved this episode? Share it with a friend and tag me on social media! Follow Tanja on Facebook Connect with Tanja on LinkedIn This information is for educational purposes only. For medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment please talk to your health care practitioner about your specific health needs.

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With simple tweaks, you can go from exhausted and surviving to energized and thriving. Join Tanja as she shares practical, proven strategies to help you regain your energy and reclaim your time, so you can live your purpose. Through a mix of solo episodes and guest interviews, you’ll discover practical tools and insights to break free from the cycle of pushing through and start feeling your best again.