The Married Therapists: A Relationship Podcast

Amber Semidey, LCSW and Luis Semidey, LPC
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Join Luis Semidey, LPC and Amber Semidey, LCSW, The Married Therapists, as they get real about relationships. With raw honesty and vulnerability, they share their journey of healing from abusive marriages while diving deep into the complexities of love, sex, finances, gender norms, conflict, communication, and more. Blending personal stories with professional expertise, this podcast offers practical advice and heartfelt insights to help you navigate the ups and downs of relationships. No topic is off limits-just candid conversations to inspire growth, connection, and understanding.

  1. 08/21/2025

    S1: E20 | Hot Takes on Modern Relationships

    In our season finale, we get real about the messy, beautiful, and complicated sides of relationships, marriage, intimacy, trust, and communication. From long-distance marriages and friendships with exes to the realities of porn, honesty, and boundaries, we’re unpacking the conversations every couple should be having. Some hot takes we cover:💬 Long-distance marriages can work if you’ve got strong communication.💬 Porn isn’t all bad, but it can create unrealistic expectations.💬 Sharing passwords = safety, not snooping.💬 Friendships with exes? Sometimes okay, but boundaries matter.💬 Proposals should be mutual, not just tradition.💬 Hall pass culture might be more harmful than fun.💬 Vacations apart don’t mean disconnection.💬 “Happy wife, happy life” isn’t healthy for either partner.💬 Marriage is still relevant, but not required for everyone. We also dig into how emotional health, honesty, and communication can help couples navigate differences in politics, religion, and even sleeping arrangements. This one’s honest, unfiltered, and full of takeaways you can apply to your own love story. If you’re looking for a real talk on what makes relationships thrive (or struggle), you don’t want to miss this.

    56 min

  2. 08/13/2025

    S1: E19 | Wives Submitting to Husbands?

    Luis and Amber take a thoughtful look at the themes of submission and power dynamics in relationships, sparked by the documentary Shiny Happy People and the belief system of the Duggars. They explore how gender norms, biblical submission, and cultural influences can shape (and sometimes distort) our understanding of healthy love. The conversation moves into the importance of accountability in relationships, why mutual submission often works better than hierarchy, and how biblical submission can be misinterpreted in modern times. They also share insights on a viral TikTok story involving Kendra and her psychiatrist, unpacking the roles of transference, delusional thinking, and ethics in therapy. By the end, you’ll see why open, honest conversations about submission can help couples create more balanced, connected partnerships. Episode Takeaways: Shiny Happy People reveals the Duggar family’s beliefs. Submission means different things in different relationships. Cultural background influences gender role expectations. Misinterpretations of biblical submission can be harmful. Mutual submission encourages equality and respect. Accountability matters in every dynamic. Transference complicates therapy boundaries. Delusional thinking affects perception and decision-making. Ethics in therapy are essential. Talking about submission leads to healthier relationships.

    37 min

  3. 08/06/2025

    S1: E18 | Marriage Myths We Can't Stand

    Are common marriage myths hurting your relationship? In this episode, Luis and Amber Semidey break down the most popular misconceptions about love and marriage like Happy wife, happy life and Love is enough. They share real relationship advice for thriving partnerships. They explore how communication, independence, intimacy, and conflict resolution can strengthen your marriage while balancing the challenges of parenting. If you want a healthier, happier relationship, this episode is for you.

    42 min

  4. 07/23/2025

    S1: E17 | Is Marriage Supposed to Last Forever?

    Is marriage supposed to last forever, or have we been sold an outdated idea? In this powerful episode, Luis and Amber get real about the complexities of marriage, divorce, and what it means to be in a truly healthy relationship. They explore how family, children, and mental health are impacted by staying in an unhealthy marriage, and why it’s so important to question whether your relationship is genuinely serving you or simply serving tradition. They also talk about the influence of cultural and religious beliefs on staying married, how modern dating has changed drastically (hello, Sneaky Links), and why we need to remove the shame around divorce, especially in cases of abuse or emotional harm. Takeaways You Don’t Want to Miss: Marriage isn’t one-size-fits-all. Divorce can be healthier than staying in a toxic relationship. Kids learn love through their parents. Culture and religion can add guilt and confusion to divorce decisions. Mental health should always come before tradition. Normalize choosing yourself and your well-being. Healthy communication is everything. Sneaky Links = the chaos of modern love. Therapy helps when you're feeling stuck. If you’ve ever questioned your relationship, felt pressure to stay when you weren’t happy, or wondered if commitment can look different in today’s world, this episode is for you. Tap play to listen now.Don’t forget to follow + leave us a review if this one hit home!

    46 min

  5. 07/16/2025

    S1: E16 | Our Fertility Journey

    In this raw and honest episode, Luis and Amber Semidey explore their personal experiences with fertility, pregnancy, and the emotional ups and downs of trying to conceive (TTC). From childhood perceptions and cultural messages to the very real challenges of infertility and family planning, they unpack what it’s really like to navigate the world of reproductive health as a couple They also discuss how fertility education is often incomplete or fear-based, especially around teen pregnancy and STDs, leaving many adults unprepared for the realities of conception and fertility struggles later in life.  Key Takeaways: Fertility wasn’t something we talked about growing up. Cultural and familial influences deeply shape how we understand reproduction. The education system lacks real fertility education. Women are born with a finite number of eggs. This matters more than we were taught. TTC is an emotional rollercoaster, and the waiting game is brutal. Open, honest communication between partners is essential. Sharing your story can reduce isolation and offer support. Protecting your mental health during the process is vital. The episode also features a thought-provoking Reddit relationship dilemma, diving into how relationship dynamics shift when one partner wants kids and the other doesn’t. Whether you’re on your own fertility journey, supporting a loved one, or just curious about the emotional side of trying to conceive, this episode offers both vulnerability and valuable insight.  Follow The Married Therapists on Spotify for weekly conversations about relationships, mental health, and navigating life together. Don’t forget to rate and share the episode! It helps more people find the show and feel less alone in their journey. #fertility #pregnancy #infertility #tryingtoconceive #familyplanning #fertilityjourney #emotionaljourney #reproductivehealth #fertilityeducation #relationshipdynamics #themarriedtherapists #mentalhealth #TTC

    55 min

  6. 07/09/2025

    S1: E15 | Honeymoon Phase or Healthy Relationship?

    In this episode, Luis and Amber Semidey dive deep into the honeymoon phase of relationships, breaking down what it really means, how long it lasts, and why it's often misunderstood. They explore how authenticity, communication, and intentionality are essential to sustaining healthy love well beyond the initial butterflies. Through a mix of personal insights and a thought-provoking Reddit story, they highlight real-life dating dynamics, the pressures of societal expectations, and how social media often skews our views of what love "should" look like. They emphasize the importance of intimacy, conflict resolution, and not being afraid to seek help when relationship challenges arise. Takeaways The honeymoon phase is a real experience for couples. Projection of personal issues can distort perceptions of others' relationships. Authenticity is crucial in presenting oneself in a relationship. Societal norms can pressure individuals to present a false image. Maintaining connection requires intentional effort and creativity. Healthy love can exist beyond the honeymoon phase. Conflict resolution is essential for relationship longevity. Intimacy should be prioritized in relationships. Social media can create unrealistic expectations of relationships. Seeking help is important when facing relationship challenges. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themarriedtherapists/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luisandamber

    48 min

  7. 07/02/2025

    S1: E14 | Mental Health & Relationships

    In this episode of The Married Therapists: A Relationship Podcast, we dive deep into the complex intersection of mental health and relationships. From anxiety and depression to communication and therapy, we share our own personal experiences and break down the stigma that often surrounds mental health in romantic partnerships. We explore the ways mental illness can affect connection, intimacy, and trust, and why hiding severe mental health challenges can be deeply damaging to both partners. Using a wild Reddit story, we highlight the emotional toll of untreated mental health struggles and the importance of clear communication, mutual support, and healthy boundaries. Whether you're in a relationship, navigating your own mental health, or supporting a partner, this episode is packed with relatable insights and real talk. Key Takeaways: ​Hiding severe mental illness can be detrimental to relationships.​Mental health issues are often not discussed openly in families.​Many people experience mental health challenges without a diagnosis.​Therapy can help individuals manage their mental health effectively.​Support from partners is crucial but should not come at the expense of one's own well-being.​It's important to communicate needs clearly in relationships.​Stigma around mental health can prevent individuals from seeking help.​Self-care is essential for both partners in a relationship.​Navigating mental health requires understanding and empathy from both sides.​Resources like therapy and support groups are vital for those struggling.Topics covered:mental health, relationships, anxiety, depression, therapy, communication, support, stigma, personal experiences, Reddit story, boundaries, emotional wellness, couples counseling, mental health awareness “Anxiety, Depression, and Other Things We Don’t Want to Talk About” by Ryan Casey Waller https://a.co/d/6jMLP02 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themarriedtherapists/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luisandamber

    50 min

  8. 06/25/2025

    S1: E13 | Finances in Marriage

    In this conversation, Luis and Amber dive into how much finances impact relationships, often more than people realize. They open up about their own experiences with money growing up and how those early lessons (or lack of them) shaped their beliefs around budgeting, debt, and financial responsibility as adults. One big point they touch on is how financial literacy isn’t really taught much in school, which leaves a lot of people figuring it out the hard way. They also talk about how tricky things can get when partners come from different financial backgrounds. Conflicts can pop up quickly if there's no open and honest communication. Luis and Amber stress how important it is to talk about money openly in a relationship, preferably early on. This isn't just how much you're spending, but your overall financial planning, goals, and even mistakes. They end the episode with their opinion about a Reddit story about someone dealing with a financially irresponsible partner that highlights how messy things can get without trust and transparency. One important takeaway? In a healthy relationship, it's not about splitting everything 50/50. It’s about equity, shared effort, and understanding each other's strengths. They wrap up by saying that having a solid financial plan can actually take a lot of stress off a relationship. Knowing how to manage personal finance, handle debt, and communicate honestly about money makes a huge difference, especially in marriage. Bottom line: trust, honesty, and financial teamwork are key to keeping both your relationship and your wallet in good shape. Follow us on Instagram: @TheMarriedTherapists Follow us on TikTok: @luisandamber Subscribe to our YouTube: @MarriedTherapists

    48 min
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Join Luis Semidey, LPC and Amber Semidey, LCSW, The Married Therapists, as they get real about relationships. With raw honesty and vulnerability, they share their journey of healing from abusive marriages while diving deep into the complexities of love, sex, finances, gender norms, conflict, communication, and more. Blending personal stories with professional expertise, this podcast offers practical advice and heartfelt insights to help you navigate the ups and downs of relationships. No topic is off limits-just candid conversations to inspire growth, connection, and understanding.

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