Behind The White Coat - Real Talk For Physician Spouses

Amanda

Being married to medicine comes with challenges—long hours, relocations, and feeling like you’re navigating it all alone. That’s where this podcast comes in. I’m sharing the things I wish someone had told me—how to survive medical training, juggle parenting, manage finances, and actually build a life you love. We’ll cover everything from making friends in a new city to understanding insurance, finding childcare, and staying connected as a couple. Some episodes will be just me, sharing real stories and lessons learned. Other times, I’ll bring on expert guests—financial advisors, physician spouses, and those who’ve been through it all—to offer practical advice. Most of all, this is a place for community. A space where you can feel understood, supported, and even laugh along the way. Because being married to medicine doesn’t mean doing it alone. So grab a coffee (or wine!), and let’s talk about the real side of life Behind The White Coat.

  1. 4D AGO

    #42| How A Simple Weekly Call Became A Lifeline For Physician Partners

    Two journeys run side by side: a physician’s career and a partner’s quiet evolution. We explore the unseen weight physician families carry, how a simple weekly call became a global lifeline, and practical steps to move from surviving to mostly thriving. • medlife backstory across training, fellowship, and practice • strain of transition to attending with a young family • hitting a low point and choosing to rebuild • origins of The Flipside and why the name matters • pandemic-era Connect Calls and global community growth • what the weekly calls look like and who they serve • hidden burdens partners carry and identity shifts • privilege and struggle coexisting without canceling each other • micro-connections as relationship glue • advocacy, research, and integrating partner voices in medical education • one practical action for overwhelmed partners today • how to find Hayley and join the community • listener offer for membership TFSL Membership: Our guest, Hayley, has generously shared an exclusive discount for listeners. Use the code AMANDA to receive $50 CAD off the TFSL Membership, regularly priced at $149.99 CAD. This offer is valid until February 28, 2017, so be sure to take advantage of it before it expires.  If you would like to connect with Hayley and learn more about her work, you can find her on Instagram. You can also visit The Flipside Life’s website or follow their Instagram page for more information, resources, and updates.  If this episode sparked something for you, I would love for you to subscribe, leave a review, or pass it along to someone in your circle who needs to hear it.  Connect with me on Instagram or email me at amanda@abtnhomes.com with your thoughts, topic ideas, questions, or even guest suggestions.

    29 min
  2. JAN 19

    #40| From Burnout To Belonging: Tools For Spouses Of Physicians And Service Members

    We talk with relationship and sexuality expert Courtney Boyer about burnout as self-abandonment and how military medical spouses can reclaim voice, connection, and community. Simple tools, honest language, and bite-sized steps help us anchor in constant change and feel less alone. • slowing down to notice body signals and needs • redefining burnout as self-abandonment not just fatigue • speaking one truth to rebuild self-trust • anchoring in new places and blooming where planted • low-stakes connections that reduce isolation • resource gaps for military medical families • using a relationship audit rooted in curiosity • how to connect with Courtney for coaching and support Courtney offers a 10-question Relationship Audit that couples can complete together to reflect, reconnect, and have meaningful conversations across emotional, financial, physical, sexual, and spiritual areas. Please find the link here. To learn more about Courtney’s expertise and the range of services she offers, visit her website for in-depth information and resources. You can also connect with her on Instagram, where she shares valuable insights and updates.  Follow the podcast, leave a review, and send this episode to another physician or military spouse who may need it today. Connect with me on Instagram or email me at amanda@abtnhomes.com with your thoughts, topic ideas, questions, or even guest suggestions.

    26 min
5
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24 Ratings

About

Being married to medicine comes with challenges—long hours, relocations, and feeling like you’re navigating it all alone. That’s where this podcast comes in. I’m sharing the things I wish someone had told me—how to survive medical training, juggle parenting, manage finances, and actually build a life you love. We’ll cover everything from making friends in a new city to understanding insurance, finding childcare, and staying connected as a couple. Some episodes will be just me, sharing real stories and lessons learned. Other times, I’ll bring on expert guests—financial advisors, physician spouses, and those who’ve been through it all—to offer practical advice. Most of all, this is a place for community. A space where you can feel understood, supported, and even laugh along the way. Because being married to medicine doesn’t mean doing it alone. So grab a coffee (or wine!), and let’s talk about the real side of life Behind The White Coat.

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