What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding!

Scott Vasquez

There is plenty of information about wedding planning, how to find a dress, picking a venue but what happens on the actual wedding day? What actually goes down? Yes you know your having a ceremony but what is it actually like? Yes you know you have to cut the cake but what actually happens? We are bringing a series to you that is going to focus primarily on the actual wedding day. We are wedding professionals with over 20 years experience exclusively in the wedding industry.

  1. JAN 21

    What I wish you knew about your wedding! Do you need a bilingual officiant or DJ/MC? FIND OUT! EP20

    Today we’re talking about something couples don’t always realize they might need: a bilingual officiant and a bilingual DJ/MC. And spoiler — this decision affects way more than just language. Multi Talented Officiant and DJ/MC Joe Future from DJ Tempoe breaks down the questions you need answered Website DJ Tempoe https://djtempoe.com/Instagram DJ Tempoe https://www.instagram.com/tempoedjs In this episode of What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding, we break down how bilingual officiating can completely change the emotional experience for parents and grandparents, help families feel included instead of like spectators, and allow cultural traditions to be honored authentically, not just symbolically. We talk about vows, readings, generational gaps, and what really happens when ceremonies are only done in English at multicultural weddings.Then we move into the reception and explore how a bilingual DJ/MC transforms guest experience through clearer communication, smoother timelines, better participation, and higher energy on the dance floor. From announcements and instructions to overall comfort and confidence, we unpack why language plays a much bigger role than most couples think.If you have guests who speak different languages — or families from different cultures — this episode might be one of the most important planning conversations you have. #bilingualofficiant #bilingualdj #weddingadvice #bridetips #weddingeducation

    58 min
  2. 12/30/2025

    What I wish you knew about your wedding! Your Day Your Way Wedding Planner Secrets with Shanee! EP19

    There is plenty of information about wedding planning, how to find a dress, picking a venue but what happens on the actual wedding day? What actually goes down? Yes you know your having a ceremony but what is it actually like? Yes you know you have to cut the cake but what actually happens? We are bringing a series to you that is going to focus primarily on the actual wedding day. Website Your Day Your Way Coordintors Coordinatorshttps://yourdayyourwaycoordinators.com/signature-offerings/ Instagram Your Day Your Way Coordinatorshttps://www.instagram.com/yourdayyourwaycoordinators/?hl=en In this episode of *What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding*, I sit down with a professional wedding planner, Shanee, "Your Day Your Way Wedding Coordinators" Founder, Lead Wedding Planner and Coordinator to answer the real questions couples are afraid to ask — what vendors you actually need, where splurges truly matter, and what planning decisions cause the most stress later. We break down which vendors couples regret skipping, the most underrated hires that drastically reduce overwhelm, and what truly elevates the guest experience without blowing your budget. We also dive into practical planning advice you won’t find on Pinterest or Facebook. From creating an emergency weather plan for summer and rainy weddings, to understanding what venues should provide versus what couples must bring themselves, this episode covers what’s worth buying, what’s not, and how to avoid costly surprises. You’ll learn what couples consistently forget to budget for, which “optional” expenses end up being game-changers, and how to cut costs without sacrificing quality. If you want a wedding that feels personal — not cookie-cutter — we share creative, affordable ways to add personality while keeping your timeline intact. We talk about guest experience moments that leave a lasting impression, big gestures guests actually notice, and timeline mistakes that derail wedding days more than anything else. Plus, we cover vendor red flags, must-ask venue questions, family pressure, preventable planning arguments, and the one piece of advice every engaged couple needs before they start planning. We also highlight top wedding venues in Redlands, California, including which are best for certain styes of weddings and feel. If you’re engaged, overwhelmed, busy, or just want honest wedding planning advice from someone who’s seen it all, this episode is for you. Keywords: wedding planning podcast, wedding planner advice, vendors to hire for a wedding, wedding budget tips, guest experience wedding, Redlands CA wedding venues, wedding timeline mistakes, wedding planning stress, must ask venue questions, emergency wedding kit, real wedding advice

    1h 25m
  3. 11/26/2025

    What I Wish you knew about your wedding! Take it from a bride Erik & Kalauna, Gold Coast Farm EP17

    *🎙 Take It From a Bride | Real Wedding Advice You Can’t Miss* Ever wish you could sit down with a real bride and hear exactly what worked, what didn’t, and what she wishes she knew before saying “I do”? In this episode of What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding*, our Take It From a Bride segment dives deep into the real, unfiltered wedding experience—perfect for DIY couples, budget-conscious planners, and anyone who wants a stress-free, unforgettable wedding day.💍 What you’ll hear in this episode: How this bride planned her wedding from start to finish What she splurged on, what she saved on, and why The vendors that were worth every penny (and which ones she’d skip next time) The unexpected moments that went wrong—and how she handled them like a pro The one thing she obsessed over that didn’t even matter in the end How she navigated family drama, stayed calm, and stayed presentThe decision she’s so glad she made on her big day Plus, you’ll get quick-fire bride-to-bride advice on guest count, dress shopping, first looks, dance floor hits, and those little details that end up meaning the most. Whether you’re planning your own wedding or just love hearing behind-the-scenes wedding stories, this episode is packed with emotional insights, budget tips, vendor recommendations, and real talk from someone who’s been there.📌 Perfect for: DIY brides & groomsCouples planning on a budget Anyone hiring wedding vendorsBrides looking for stress-free planning tips Wedding lovers who want to hear authentic stories🎧 Listen now and take it from someone who’s already walked down the aisle—your perfect wedding is possible! There is plenty of information about wedding planning, how to find a dress, picking a venue but what happens on the actual wedding day? What actually goes down? Yes you know your having a ceremony but what is it actually like? Yes you know you have to cut the cake but what actually happens? We are bringing a series to you that is going to focus primarily on the actual wedding day. We are wedding professionals with over 20 years experience exclusively in the wedding industry. Follow us on Instagram or TikTok @iepdjs for even more insight and wedding highlight reels from REAL weddings! Instagram / wiwykayw TikTok / iepdjs Websitehttps://impressiveeventproductions.com/✨ Keywords:* wedding advice, real bride interview, wedding planning tips, wedding budget ideas, how to plan a wedding, wedding vendor recommendations, wedding mistakes to avoid, DIY wedding tips, bride advice podcast, real wedding stories

    1h 35m
  4. 11/12/2025

    What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding! Do I need Wedding Videography? The Answer is YES!

    🎥 Do I Need Wedding Videography? | What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding Podcast 💍 In this episode, we tackle one of the biggest questions couples face while planning — Do you really need a wedding videographer, or are photos enough? We break down everything you need to know to decide if videography is a must-have or a nice-to-have for your big day, especially if you’re a DIY bride working within a budget. ✨ We cover: Is wedding videography an essential investment or a luxury? How video captures emotion in a way photos can’t. How to know if you might regret skipping a videographer. Choosing your style — cinematic, documentary, or highlight reel. Reliving vs. remembering your wedding day through video. What to ask before booking a videographer. How videography fits into your budget priorities. Tips for negotiating or finding creative, affordable alternatives. Whether you’re on the fence or ready to book, this episode will help you make a confident decision about how to capture your wedding day memories. Please Visit Hope Boat - Website - https://www.hopeboatproductions.com/ Hopeboat Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/hopeboatproductions/?hl=en Unveiled Talk Show Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/reel/DPrSF9PidHW/Unveiled Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@Unveiledtalkshow 🎧 Listen now and take it from a bride — you won’t want to miss this one! 👇 Subscribe for more wedding planning insights for DIY couples!#WeddingVideography #WeddingPodcast #DIYBride #WeddingPlanningTips #WhatIWishYouKnewAboutYourWedding #WeddingBudget #WeddingAdvice

    1h 12m
  5. 10/25/2025

    What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding! What should I pay for catering and what to expect? EP14

    🍽️ What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding – Catering with OTS Catering

 Ever wondered what wedding catering *really* costs — and what you’re actually paying for? In this episode, we sit down with On The Spot Catering (OTS Catering) to answer the biggest questions every couple has when it comes to feeding their guests on the big day.

 We cover it all — from per-person pricing, menu customization, and minimums, to what’s included in that catering quote (and what’s not!). Whether you’re planning a buffet, plated dinner, or something totally unique, this episode will help you make smart, stress-free catering decisions.

 🎧 In this episode, we talk about:
 - 💵 What couples should expect to spend per guest on catering
 - 🍽️ What that cost actually includes (food, rentals, servers, beverages?)
 - 🤝 How caterers coordinate with venues and planners
 - 🥩 Menu options, customization, and accommodating allergies
- 👶 Kid-friendly meals and dietary flexibility
 - 📅 How far in advance to book your caterer
 - ⚖️ Minimums, deposits, and cancellation policies
 - 🔧 Setup, cleanup, and travel fees — what to expect
 - 👨‍🍳 Tastings, last-minute changes, and kitchen requirements
 - ✨ Listen now and get one step closer to a wedding day that’s as delicious as it is memorable.

 🔗 Follow OTS Catering: Website: https://www.otscateringservices.com/ Insta https://www.instagram.com/otscatering Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@otscatering?lang=en #WeddingPodcast #WeddingPlanning #CateringTips #weddingbudget #WeddingFood #OnTheSpotCatering #WeddingVendors #WhatIWishYouKnewAboutYourWedding #BrideTips #EngagedCouple #WeddingAdvice

    1h 21m
  6. 10/11/2025

    What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding! What is a Wedding Content Creator? Still need video? EP14

    What Is a Wedding Content Creator?In this episode, we dive into everything you need to know about the fast-growing role of the wedding content creator — what they do, how their services work, and how they differ from traditional videography. Don’t Cut Corners on Wedding Photography — Here’s What’s Trending NowWe spoke with Brianna Shrader from Shyheart Studios who has been featured in so many spaces from priint to TV, NBC 17, KTLA 5, Times Square, Multiple News Outlets, Woman's Journal, Celebrity News, US Reporter and many other PODCASTS! To see all her appearances look here: https://www.shyheartstudios.com We cover: What a wedding content creator is and their role on your wedding day The difference between a content creator and a wedding videographer Typical packages and services offered Average coverage hours and turnaround times The types of deliverables couples can expect Why more brides and grooms are adding content creators to their vendor teamTune in to learn what makes this service so unique — and whether it’s the right fit for your wedding day vision. Have a question about your wedding? Drop a comment below! There is plenty of information about wedding planning, how to find a dress, picking a venue but what happens on the actual wedding day? What actually goes down? Yes you know your having a ceremony but what is it actually like? Yes you know you have to cut the cake but what actually happens? We are bringing a series to you that is going to focus primarily on the actual wedding day. We are wedding professionals with over 20 years experience exclusively in the wedding industry. Follow us on Instagram or TikTok @iepdjs for even more insight and wedding highlight reels from REAL weddings! Instagram / wiwykayw TikTok / iepdjs #WeddingPodcast #WeddingContentCreator #WeddingPlanning #WeddingTips #BrideToBe #GroomToBe #WeddingVendors

    29 min
  7. 09/26/2025

    What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding! Wedding Photo Trends, Ideas, Tips, Advice and MORE! EP13

    Don’t Cut Corners on Wedding Photography—Here’s What’s Trending NowWe spoke with Brianna Shrader from Shyheart Studios who has been featured in so many spaces from priint to TV, NBC 17, KTLA 5, Times Square, Multiple News Outlets, Woman's Journal, Celebrity News, US Reporter and many other PODCASTS! To see all her appearances look here: https://www.shyheartstudios.com/in-the-pressYour wedding photos are the one thing you’ll keep forever, so why follow the trend of slashing the photography budget? In this episode of What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding, we dive into the newest wedding photo trends and why investing in a skilled photographer is worth every penny.✨ What we cover:• The latest photography styles—editorial, film-inspired, candid documentary, and more• Creative themes couples are loving, from moody black-and-white to vibrant color pops• Must-have moments brides are prioritizing (and a few you might not have thought of)• Tips to make sure your photographer captures your true storyWhether you’re planning a luxe celebration or an intimate elopement, this episode will help you choose a style that feels timeless while staying on trend.🎧 Listen now and learn why photography should be the last place you cut costs—and the first place you splurge for memories you’ll treasure forever.Have a question about your wedding? Drop a comment below!There is plenty of information about wedding planning, how to find a dress, picking a venue but what happens on the actual wedding day? What actually goes down? Yes you know your having a ceremony but what is it actually like? Yes you know you have to cut the cake but what actually happens? We are bringing a series to you that is going to focus primarily on the actual wedding day. We are wedding professionals with over 20 years experience exclusively in the wedding industry.Follow us on Instagram or TikTok @iepdjs for even more insight and wedding highlight reels from REAL weddings! Also join our Reddit for more tips, stories and more!Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/wiwykayw/TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@iepdjsWebsitehttps://impressiveeventproductions.com/

    1h 14m
  8. 09/12/2025

    What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding! EVERY Wedding NEEDS a BAR! Cash Bar OR Open Bar? EP12

    Welcome to "What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding"Have a question about your wedding? Drop a comment below! Why Every Wedding Needs a Bar—Even Without Alcohol 🍾💍 Planning your wedding bar can shape the entire vibe of your celebration. In this episode of What I Wish You Knew About Your Wedding, I break down why every wedding benefits from a bar setup—even if you’re serving zero alcohol. You’ll learn: ✨ The difference between open bar vs. cash bar and how each impacts guest experience and budget ✨ Creative non-alcoholic bar ideas for a dry wedding or mixed crowd ✨ How a welcoming champagne toast or signature drinks keep guests engaged and staying longer ✨ Tips to create a festive atmosphere without overspending Whether you’re planning a full open bar, a stylish mocktail station, or a simple champagne welcome, this episode will help you design a beverage experience that guests remember for years.🎧 Listen or Watch now for practical wedding bar tips and inspiration! #WeddingPlanning #WeddingBar #OpenBar #CashBar #DryWedding #SignatureDrinks #ChampagneToast #WeddingTips #WeddingPodcast There is plenty of information about wedding planning, how to find a dress, picking a venue but what happens on the actual wedding day? What actually goes down? Yes you know your having a ceremony but what is it actually like? Yes you know you have to cut the cake but what actually happens? We are bringing a series to you that is going to focus primarily on the actual wedding day. We are wedding professionals with over 20 years experience exclusively in the wedding industry. Follow us on Instagram or TikTok @iepdjs for even more insight and wedding highlight reels from REAL weddings! Instagram / wiwykayw TikTok / iepdjs Websitehttps://impressiveeventproductions.com/

    35 min

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There is plenty of information about wedding planning, how to find a dress, picking a venue but what happens on the actual wedding day? What actually goes down? Yes you know your having a ceremony but what is it actually like? Yes you know you have to cut the cake but what actually happens? We are bringing a series to you that is going to focus primarily on the actual wedding day. We are wedding professionals with over 20 years experience exclusively in the wedding industry.