Sandwich Season Sanity

Ruthie Gray
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Welcome to Sandwich Season:  Peace, joy, and wisdom for moms who are stretched thin in multigenerational caregiving, juggling parenting, grandparenting, and eldercare.  Take charge of reactions, set those oh-so-important boundaries, and find time for new passions and hobbies.

  1. 11H AGO

    Practical and Spiritual Lessons From Caregiving and Parent-loss ft. Lois Flowers

    Click here to send a text and tell us how you like the show! Sometimes life throws a curveball when you least expect it. This episode is a heartfelt conversation about resilience, faith, and finding peace amid chaos—like Lois Flowers’ story of surviving a traumatic brain injury or navigating her parents' last years without fear. We discuss: How fear influences caregiving and the importance of trusting God's planPractical tips for capturing memories with loved onesThe power of scripture, especially Psalm 139 and Deuteronomy 31:8, during difficult seasonsLearning to surrender and find peace in God's sovereigntyEncouragement for those walking through unexpected health crises or loss Resources: Free 7-day devotional called Faith, Fear, and the God Who Goes Before UsBlog: https://www.loisflowers.com/Parent Loss page: https://www.loisflowers.com/help-for-parent-loss/ Bio: Lois Flowers is a book editor, blogger and lifelong Midwesterner who values authenticity. She’s a wife of 31 years, mom of two young adult women, sixth of seven siblings and daughter of two parents in heaven. The tagline of Lois’s blog is “Strength for Today, Hope for Tomorrow.” and she writes—one pilgrim to another—to encourage us all as we navigate the long walk home together. Visit Ruthie's Website at RuthieGray.com Get Ruthie's Sandwich Season Pieces Newsletter Read Ruthie's book, Empty Nest Awakening; Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose

    25 min

  2. FEB 16

    Rediscovering Your Calling in the Sandwich Season ft. Lori Melton

    Click here to send a text and tell us how you like the show! In this conversation, Lori G. Melton discusses the challenges and opportunities of rediscovering personal callings during the sandwich season of life, where individuals often juggle caregiving responsibilities for both children and aging parents. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, journaling, and the practice of journeying with spiritual giants to gain insights and courage in pursuing one's purpose. The discussion highlights the significance of recognizing one's own growth and identity amidst the demands of family life, and how learning from historical figures can provide guidance and inspiration. Resources: Lori’s website: www.lorigmelton.com, Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/lori.meltonInstagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lori.gmelton/Journey with a Giant Sneak Peek (Introduction and Chapter 1) & The Transformational Ten Spiritual Giant Quiz Bio: Lori Melton is an author, spiritual director, and retreat leader. She and her husband, Bryan, are the creators of the Sanctuary Stirrings Podcast and the founders and directors of The Sanctuary at Bear Creek Retreat Center, serving hundreds of people a year. She also has six children and 3 grandchildren AND is the newly published author of the brand new book, Journey With A Giant. her story of writing Journey with a Giant — after homeschooling six children, supporting your husband’s work, and then stepping into a new season as a spiritual director, retreat leader, and author — illustrates that it’s never too late to become who God is calling you to be. Visit Ruthie's Website at RuthieGray.com Get Ruthie's Sandwich Season Pieces Newsletter Read Ruthie's book, Empty Nest Awakening; Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose

    26 min

  3. FEB 2

    Small Habit Shifts for Emotional Eating and Self Care ft. Brandice Lardner

    Click here to send a text and tell us how you like the show! In this episode, I am joined by friend Brandice Lardner, a certified personal trainer, nutrition coach, and Amazon bestselling author of "Fully Nourished: A Grace-Filled Approach to Ditch Diets and Find Peace with Food and Your Body”. Together, we discuss the challenges women face around food, perfectionism, and self-care, especially during busy caregiving seasons. Brandice unpacks her grace-filled approach to ditching diet mentalities, encouraging listeners to shift away from all-or-nothing thinking and embrace sustainable, realistic habits that honor both body and spirit. Listeners will hear practical strategies for marrying their food wants with wisdom, inviting God into everyday food choices, and cultivating gratitude for their bodies. Brandice shares how even small, mindful changes can transform your relationship with food and foster peace—no matter how hectic life gets. The conversation is full of real-life examples, faith-based encouragement, and actionable tips for anyone seeking to break free from diet cycles and find true nourishment, both inside and out. Resources: Book: https://gracefilledplate.com/bookWebsite: https://gracefilledplate.com Bio: Brandice Lardner is a Certified Personal Trainer, Nutrition Coach, Amazon #1 Best Selling Author, and Jesus Girl whose mission in life is to help women ditch the diet mentality and find peace with food and their bodies so that they are better equipped to do the great things God has called them to do. And, she is the author of the new book, “Fully Nourished: A Grace-Filled Approach to Ditch Diets and Find Peace with Food and Your Body”. Visit Ruthie's Website at RuthieGray.com Get Ruthie's Sandwich Season Pieces Newsletter Read Ruthie's book, Empty Nest Awakening; Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose

    39 min

  4. JAN 19

    Overcoming Old Wounds While Caregiving ft. Laura Acuña

    Click here to send a text and tell us how you like the show! In this episode of the Sandwich Season Sanity podcast, I am welcoming back my friend, Laura Acuña, for her deep insight into caregiving and personal healing. Laura shares in-depth about her own journey of emotional recovery through caregiving.  We explore practical strategies for self-care, share the importance of therapy and spiritual support, and highlight key resources—including Laura’s book, "Still Becoming," and recommendations for navigating trauma and family transitions. With real-life wisdom and touching personal stories, this episode encourages listeners to embrace healing for themselves and future generations, reminding every woman that her journey is sacred and transformative. Resources: Laura’s book: Still BecomingLaura’s websiteEpisode with Lisa Saruga: Identifying and Managing Caregiver Trauma ft. Lisa SarugaLisa Saruga’s book: The Trauma TreeRuthie’s book: Empty Nest AwakeningBio: Laura Acuña is a speaker, author, podcast host, and Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. She’s the founder of Laura Acuña Ministries and host of The Still Becoming Podcast. Known for her honesty, warmth, and humor, Laura shares biblical truth and real-life wisdom to help women grow in emotional and spiritual health. She’s the author of the 31-day devotional Still Becoming: Hope, Help, and Healing for the Diet-Weary Soul. Laura’s journey reflects God’s love, grace, and healing. Embracing her “work-in-progress” nature—quirks and all—she testifies that God has transformed her struggles into a source of freedom and joy. Married for 42 years to her sweetheart, Pat, she’s the proud mom of three grown sons, a beloved daughter-in-love, and one precious 4-year-old granddaughter who calls her Nonie. When she’s not ministering, Laura loves time with family, traveling, exploring vintage shops, and sharing coffee with a friend. Visit Ruthie's Website at RuthieGray.com Get Ruthie's Sandwich Season Pieces Newsletter Read Ruthie's book, Empty Nest Awakening; Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose

    27 min

  5. JAN 5

    Exchanging Expectations of Adult Kids for Peace in Empty Nest ft. Jill Savage

    Click here to send a text and tell us how you like the show! In this episode of the Sandwich Season Sanity podcast, Ruthie sits down with relationship expert and author Jill Savage to discuss the delicate balance of parenting adult children during the empty nest years and how to become “unoffendable”. Jill shares candid insights from her own life, including relatable stories about unreturned texts and learning not to take delayed responses personally. Together, they explore why many parents feel anxious or rejected by their grown kids' independence, touching on anxious and avoidant attachment styles and how these styles shape our expectations and emotional responses. Listeners will walk away with practical wisdom on fostering healthy relationships with adult children, letting go of unrealistic expectations, and finding personal peace rooted in faith rather than in others' validation. Jill offers guidance on addressing past parenting guilt, embracing opportunities for personal growth, and building emotional security in this new stage of life. Tune in for encouragement and actionable steps to truly prioritize your peace while navigating the challenges and joys of the empty nest and sandwich seasons. Resources: Jill’s websiteEmpty Nest, Full LifeRuthie’s Newsletter & Private Podcast Bio: Jill Savage is an author and speaker who is passionate about relationships. She hosts the No More Perfect Podcast, and some of her book titles include Empty Nest, Full Life, the best-selling No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Kids, and No More Perfect Marriages. Jill and her husband, Mark, serve as Christian marriage coaches. They live in Normal, Illinois and have five children and seven grandchildren. Visit Ruthie's Website at RuthieGray.com Get Ruthie's Sandwich Season Pieces Newsletter Read Ruthie's book, Empty Nest Awakening; Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose

    31 min

  6. 12/22/2025

    Fun and Meaningful Ways to Celebrate Christmas in Empty Nest Ft. Jim Gray

    Click here to send a text and tell us how you like the show! In this episode of the Sandwich Season Sanity podcast, I’m joined by my husband of 38 years, Jim Gray, for his input on the holidays as empty nesters. We’re talking about our unique lifestyle, splitting time between homes in West Virginia and Florida, and how this has shaped our holiday traditions. We’ll discuss home remodels, creative solutions for celebrating with kids and grandkids across states, and the importance of embracing flexibility as our family dynamics evolve. And don’t miss our memorable Christmas miracle—a decades-long answered prayer that restored lost wedding memories and reminded us of the power of faith and hope during the season. With a thoughtful blend of family stories, practical tips for honoring new traditions, and genuine encouragement, this episode offers a relatable and uplifting perspective for anyone seeking peace and connection during the holidays. Resources: Couples United: Tackling Holiday People-Pleasing Together ft. Billie JaussHoliday Adaptability for Moms of Adult Kids ft. Pamela HenkelmanVisit Ruthie's Website at RuthieGray.com Get Ruthie's Sandwich Season Pieces Newsletter Read Ruthie's book, Empty Nest Awakening; Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose

    27 min

  7. 12/08/2025

    Couples United: Tackling Holiday People-Pleasing Together ft. Billie Jauss

    Click here to send a text and tell us how you like the show! In this episode, I’m sitting down with my guest, Billie Jauss, an international speaker, author, and podcast host known as the "What's Next Coach." We talk through the challenges couples face during the holidays—especially around maintaining a united front and setting boundaries amidst family expectations. Billie reveals her journey as a "recovering people pleaser" and offers actionable advice for couples looking to prioritize peace and connection, even if it means disappointing others. Listeners will walk away with practical strategies for communicating holiday decisions, advice for resisting unhealthy people-pleasing, and a reminder to focus on building a strong foundation in marriage. Whether you're wrestling with family traditions or navigating new seasons as your children grow, this episode offers empathy, wisdom, and encouragement to help you protect your peace and honor your relationships through every holiday season. Resources: {Free} Ebook: What’s Next Game Plan: 7 Steps to Move From Lost in Change to Living With PurposeListen to The Family Room PodcastBillie’s Website: www.billiejauss.com Billie’s Bio: Billie Jauss is an international speaker, author, and podcast host, known as the “What's Next Coach?” Helping Women Trade Inner Chaos for peace, purpose, and powerful connections, empowering them to step confidently into what’s next. Visit Ruthie's Website at RuthieGray.com Get Ruthie's Sandwich Season Pieces Newsletter Read Ruthie's book, Empty Nest Awakening; Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose

    27 min

  8. 11/24/2025

    Finding Time for Friendships Amidst Caregiver Overwhelm ft. Sue Donaldson

    Click here to send a text and tell us how you like the show! In this episode of the Sandwich Season Sanity podcast, Sue Donaldson, a speaker, author, and expert on hospitality opens up about the realities of loneliness faced during the "sandwich season"—the time in life when women care for both aging parents and growing children. Sue also shares wisdom from her new book, "Never Alone: Stories of Invitation and Connection," offering practical advice on building genuine community, finding mentorship, and bringing organic support into everyday life.  Discover meaningful strategies for balancing busy caregiving demands with self-care and intentional relationships while learning creative ways to foster community, even with limited time or space, and how to listen to the Holy Spirit when extending hospitality. Check the show notes for Sue’s free hospitality prayers and mentoring worksheets. Resources: A prayer for a hospitality heart, recipe, and 10 printables to help you get started in a mentoring relationshipSue's Book: Never Alone; Stories of Invitation & ConnectionSue's 17 keynotes and 8 Retreat SeriesSue’s Facebook group: Welcome Heart, Welcome Home Facebook Insta PinterestTwitter Bio:  Speaker, author, podcaster, Sue Donaldson and her husband, Mark, have raised 3 daughters who keep them at the bank and on their knees. Sue loves connecting people to one another, to God, and to His Word, and has been speaking for the last 20 years. Sue hosts a weekly podcast: Welcome Heart: Living a Legacy Life and a free Facebook group: Welcome Heart, Welcome Home. You’re invited! Visit Ruthie's Website at RuthieGray.com Get Ruthie's Sandwich Season Pieces Newsletter Read Ruthie's book, Empty Nest Awakening; Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose

    26 min
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Welcome to Sandwich Season:  Peace, joy, and wisdom for moms who are stretched thin in multigenerational caregiving, juggling parenting, grandparenting, and eldercare.  Take charge of reactions, set those oh-so-important boundaries, and find time for new passions and hobbies.

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  • Creator
    Ruthie Gray
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    32
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Sandwich Season Sanity
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