THE UNSIDED PODCAST

Kristofer McNeeley
  • 5.0 (4)
  • SOCIETY & CULTURE

Our world is divided - economically, racially, morally, spiritually, and politically divided.  We are divided by sexuality and by gender.  We are divided by belief which has been handed down by our family and foisted upon us by our community. Social media and the 24-hour news cycle only further muddy the waters of understanding. In a world brimming with divisions, staying open-minded is more challenging than ever. But what if we could change that narrative?   UNSIDED leaps headlong into these divides, not to widen them, but to bridge them through conversation. A conversation that explores all sides and uncovers the intersections. A conversation that requires  vulnerability and willingness to learn from others.  Here we allow for a space in which like-minded people can come to better understand what motivates others and to grow themselves, even if mistakes are made along the way.  No judgement. No shaming. No cancelling. Just endless curiosity and ultimately, connection.  

  1. APR 22

    GABRIELLE STONE: CHAOS, COMPASSION & THE COURAGE TO NOT GIVE A F***!

    This week I’m back with my longtime friend, Gabrielle Stone, for an unfiltered conversation about showing ourselves some much-needed compassion. We also dive into her recent health scare and how it shifted her view on vulnerability—not just in life, but especially in parenting. Gabrielle shares the raw realities of juggling motherhood and personal struggles, reminding us that it’s okay to not have everything figured out. We talk about the pressure to appear perfect, the beauty in embracing our flaws, how we can learn and grow through the chaos and what it means to actually believe you deserve to have the life you want. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or uncertain, this episode is your reminder that you’re not alone. Grab your headphones and join us for a chat that’s equal parts insightful, relatable and empowering.  Let’s get into it. Have a conversation you’d like us to explore? Send us a text! Support the show Produced by Kristofer McNeeley  Engineered and Edited by Kristofer McNeeley  Original Music by Abed Khatib Cover Art Design by Mohamad Jaafar

    48 min

  2. APR 6

    JUST WHEN I THOUGHT I HAD THIS WHOLE DAD THING DOWN...

    What happens when the parenting playbook we thought we had all figured out suddenly feels like it’s missing pages? In this episode of Unsided, I dive deep into the emotional landscape of raising teenage daughters, where joy and heartache coexist in unexpected ways. This isn’t just about the challenges; it’s about the profound growth we experience as we learn to let go and trust the process. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the expectations of parenting or questioned your own worth as a parent when the ground suddenly seems to be shifting underneath you, yeah - me too. Let’s get into it.  Have a conversation you’d like us to explore? Send us a text! Support the show Produced by Kristofer McNeeley  Engineered and Edited by Kristofer McNeeley  Original Music by Abed Khatib Cover Art Design by Mohamad Jaafar

    30 min

  3. MAR 13

    THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM: WHY WE NEED TO TALK

    In a world more connected than ever, why do we struggle so much to have real conversations? In this episode of Unsided, we dig deep into the reasons behind our reluctance to engage in meaningful discussions. We confront the discomfort and fear that often keep us silent and explore the power of active listening and open-heartedness in bridging divides. By understanding our barriers, we can create spaces for honest dialogue that fosters genuine connection. Join me as we unravel these complexities together. With curiosity and compassion, we can learn to embrace tough conversations, enrich our connection, and discover our shared humanity.  Let's get into it.  Have a conversation you’d like us to explore? Send us a text! Support the show Produced by Kristofer McNeeley  Engineered and Edited by Kristofer McNeeley  Original Music by Abed Khatib Cover Art Design by Mohamad Jaafar

    29 min

  4. FEB 27

    ROBERT BUCKLEY: TELL THE TRUTH & TELL IT FASTER

    Emotions shape every part of our lives—but too often, we aren’t given the tools to understand or express them fully - especially men. In this episode, I sit down with my friend, actor/producer Robert Buckley, to explore what it really means to be emotionally available in a world that prizes strength over vulnerability. We dive into the differences between being nice and being kind, the subtle pull of people-pleasing, and the courage it takes to set real boundaries. Through honest stories from therapy, fatherhood, and everyday life, we unpack how embracing vulnerability and speaking your truth can transform the way you live, work, and love. More men are leaning into their emotions than ever before—but without a roadmap, it can feel like stumbling in the dark. This conversation doesn’t offer a neat conclusion. Instead, it’s a raw, honest, and surprisingly hopeful look at what it means to open your heart, take risks, and grow emotionally. Let's get into it.  Have a conversation you’d like us to explore? Send us a text! Support the show Produced by Kristofer McNeeley  Engineered and Edited by Kristofer McNeeley  Original Music by Abed Khatib Cover Art Design by Mohamad Jaafar

    52 min

  5. FEB 16

    THE MYTH OF GREATNESS

    Have you ever carried the quiet (or not-so-quiet) belief that you’re supposed to do something extraordinary with your life? That if you don’t hit some invisible mark of greatness, you’ve somehow fallen short?  Yup… me too. In this episode, I’m unpacking a thought that stopped me in my tracks: What if I’m not here to do anything “special” at all? I share how growing up praised for potential, chasing achievement, performing at high levels, and measuring myself against others created a constant pressure to prove something—and how one simple social media video felt like permission to exhale. If you’ve ever felt the weight of needing to be the best, the most successful, the most accomplished… this is your invitation to pause. What if special isn’t fame or fortune or impact on a global scale? What if it’s how you move through your ordinary Tuesday? How you love your people. How you keep your heart open. How you show up when no one’s watching. You don’t have to change the world to have a meaningful life. You don’t have to fulfill some grand potential to be enough. So what are YOU striving for—and why? Let’s get into it. Have a conversation you’d like us to explore? Send us a text! Support the show Produced by Kristofer McNeeley  Engineered and Edited by Kristofer McNeeley  Original Music by Abed Khatib Cover Art Design by Mohamad Jaafar

    29 min

  6. FEB 3

    ROBB RYERSE: THE COURAGE TO QUESTION

    Have you ever looked at the world of beliefs you've built your life around  and thought..."something about this just isn’t sitting right anymore."  But actually saying that out loud feels risky?  Yeah. Your'e not alone.  In this episode, I sit down with returning guest and Congressional candidate from Arkansas's 3rd Congressional District, Robb Ryerse, to talk about what happens when our personal beliefs begin to outgrow those of the communities that have shaped us.  We explore faith without certainty, politics without tribal loyalty, and what it means to have the courage to ask questions.  This isn’t a debate. It’s a conversation.  A conversation about curiosity, courage, and the quiet bravery of going first—especially when shifting your perspective could cost you belonging. If you’ve ever felt politically homeless, spiritually conflicted, or just exhausted by the us-vs-them narrative, this episode is an invitation to slow down, listen deeply, and remember that shared values might matter more than the sides we’ve chosen. Let’s get into it. SUPPORT ROBB'S CAMPAIGN  https://www.robbforcongress.com/ LEARN MORE ABOUT ROBB https://www.votecommongood.com/robb-ryerse/ https://www.instagram.com/robbryerse/?hl=en Have a conversation you’d like us to explore? Send us a text! Support the show Produced by Kristofer McNeeley  Engineered and Edited by Kristofer McNeeley  Original Music by Abed Khatib Cover Art Design by Mohamad Jaafar

    1h 3m

  7. JAN 21

    NEW YEAR, SAME YOU... AND THAT'S PERFECT

    Have you ever woken up on New Year’s Day—or any “big” day—and thought, This is it. I’m finally going to be different…and by the afternoon, you’re exactly the same? Yeah, me too. In this episode, I’m ditching the guilt, ditching the resolutions, and leaning into something far more powerful: curiosity and grace. I’ll share how I noticed my patterns without judgment, how I gave myself a little breathing room, and how one small choice changed my day—without “fixing” myself. If you’re tired of the pressure to have it all figured out, or if you’ve already failed your resolutions, this episode is your reminder: you don’t have to start over to start smarter. How about we get curious about who we are right now, show ourselves a little grace, and see where that takes us? Let's get into it. Have a conversation you’d like us to explore? Send us a text! Support the show Produced by Kristofer McNeeley  Engineered and Edited by Kristofer McNeeley  Original Music by Abed Khatib Cover Art Design by Mohamad Jaafar

    34 min

  8. JAN 7

    BRANDON ROUTH: THE COURAGE TO BECOME YOURSELF

    Recently I sat down with my friend and colleague Brandon Routh—you know, SUPERMAN Brandon Routh—and it wasn’t about movies or stunts or about Hollywood at all really. It was about life. About being vulnerable and brave enough to show up fully and lean into who you really are. About figuring out what matters to you when no one’s watching and how you can make the world a better place for those around you by first going within.  We get into some of the big moments that have shaped him, the lessons he’s learned about trusting himself and others to allow him to be exactly who he is, and the ways he works to live intentionally—honestly, I think there’s a lot in here that anyone can relate to, whether you know him as a celebrity or just as a human figuring things out like the rest of us. It was definitely a conversation that stuck with me long after we stopped recording, and I think it’ll stick with you too.  Let’s get into it. Have a conversation you’d like us to explore? Send us a text! Support the show Produced by Kristofer McNeeley  Engineered and Edited by Kristofer McNeeley  Original Music by Abed Khatib Cover Art Design by Mohamad Jaafar

    1h 5m
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Our world is divided - economically, racially, morally, spiritually, and politically divided.  We are divided by sexuality and by gender.  We are divided by belief which has been handed down by our family and foisted upon us by our community. Social media and the 24-hour news cycle only further muddy the waters of understanding. In a world brimming with divisions, staying open-minded is more challenging than ever. But what if we could change that narrative?   UNSIDED leaps headlong into these divides, not to widen them, but to bridge them through conversation. A conversation that explores all sides and uncovers the intersections. A conversation that requires  vulnerability and willingness to learn from others.  Here we allow for a space in which like-minded people can come to better understand what motivates others and to grow themselves, even if mistakes are made along the way.  No judgement. No shaming. No cancelling. Just endless curiosity and ultimately, connection.  

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  • Creator
    Kristofer McNeeley
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    26
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 THE UNSIDED PODCAST
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