Interlinked

Ray Schonhiutt
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Ever have an idea or experience and then discover someone else has had seemingly the exact same one? Turns out this happens more often than we even know. Interlinked by definition means "to connect." This show aims to capture that feeling you get when someone just understands you -- truly the greatest gift of the human experience. My hope is that through listening, you can find peace, strength, and empowerment in your life, as it mirrors mine. This show covers topics ranging from mindset shifts, learned life lessons, current struggles, wellness tips, and all the memorable moments in between.

  1. 4d ago

    EP 30: you're not the only one

    “If you weren't capable, you wouldn't have the desire ” - pinterest In today’s episode, I'm covering something that has been weighing heavy on my chest for a whileeeee… and somehow every frustration and mental block I've had can be easily summed up by the phrase "you're not the only one.” The episode begins with a personal anecdote regarding my rocky relationship with art and journey to acceptance. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been fascinated by art in every form. I’ve looked closely at every building or every song or every photograph or every drawing with such admiration. I've looked at the creators of these masterpieces with this same level of appreciation, wishing I too could label myself as an artist. The barrier to entry was never there. It was merely a wall that I created for myself. I have so much creativity within me and all I needed was the permission to express that and find value in it. F**k it. Today I decided, I am an artist. The episode then leads into another approach of the phrase "you're not the only one” where I discuss how putting your art on social media can really test our perceptions of ourselves, especially regarding the lack of support from those who we’d hope to cheer for us loudest. It was only through experiencing that hurt and disappointment that I was able to make a freeing discovery.. proximity creates envy. Every artist faces this at some point in their journey and I am certainly not the only one. Yet, today I decided, I am worthy. I am creating from my heart. I am only concerned with growing and evolving and have full trust that those who are meant to be in my life will show up in the way that I deserve. No one can come between me and my dreams! I want to urge you to think about your desires... What do you want for yourself? For your life? For your art? I want to urge you to think about your energy... Who drains you? Who uplifts you? Who makes you jealous? How can you channel your negative emotions into positive ones? I’m here for you & rooting for you always! Xo Check out this week’s homework (scroll down) for a glimpse of the topics covered, and if any stand out to you, tap iiiin. Thank you soooooo much for listening! If you resonate with anything I mentioned, it's because we're interlinked.. DUHHH. Follow to stay up to date on new episodes dropping on Thursdays ! Throw your thoughts in the comments (all feedback welcome) and share with someone who needs to hear this message :) Whole lotta loveee, Ray3 Last Episode's Homework: Think about a place you’ve gone and write down how it changed youTest yourself with “i’ve never done it, so I think I can do it”Travel somewhere. Anywhere. Roadtrip. Flight. IDC. Just go. This Episode's Homework: Think about your desires.. What do you want for yourself? For your life? For your art? What labels are working for you? Which aren’t? Your personality: Who are you? How do you spend your time? What do you do for work? What qualities do you embody? What skills do you have? How do you express yourself?Your environment: Where do you live? What does your space look like? Who is in your circle (maybe describe their personality not giving the names of specific people)? Where do you spend most of your time?Social media: What content are you creating? Does it align with your personality? Who inspires you? Why? Who makes you jealous? Why?

  2. Aug 21

    EP 29: travel = education 4 life

    “Traveling isn't a reward for working, it’s education for living ” - Anthony Bourdain WE SOOOOO BACK BABY!!!  After taking a long — yet much needed — break from the pod, I feel I’ve lived 3 lives since we last “talked” … likeeee wtf.  Although soooo much has changed, not only in my environment, but in my mindset, I wanted to dedicate this episode to my 2.5 month solo trip to Southeast Asia.  In sharing what I’ve learned on this trip, and how it has propelled my life forward following my return home, it’s my hope that you gain even 1% more appreciation for traveling and/or leaping into the unknown. Sometimes all it takes is one decision, one hello, one move, one flight, one text, one moment, one conversation, one connection, one goodbye, one shift, one habit, one feeling, one ____, to change the entire trajectory of your life. What do you need to do? Where do you need to go? What are you looking for? Link to Whatsapp for Mexico trip:https://chat.whatsapp.com/Gd3X1mQEdrmHsFkMhcHHhi?mode=gi_t Link to my substack:https://substack.com/@rayyyx444?r=47nz1a&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=stories&shareImageVariant=image I’m here for you & rooting for you always! Xo  Check out this week’s homework (scroll down) for a glimpse of the topics covered, and if any stand out to you, tap iiiin.  Thank you soooooo much for listening! If you resonate with anything I mentioned, it's because we're interlinked.. DUHHH.  Follow to stay up to date on new episodes dropping every Thursday (ish)! Throw your thoughts in the comments (all feedback welcome) and share with someone who needs to hear this message :) Whole lotta loveee, Ray 3 Last Episode's Homework: Check in with yourself. Like actually.  Take your own advice! Try out the positivity sandwich method for yourself (lol) This Episode's Homework: Think about a place you’ve gone and write down how it changed you Test yourself with “i’ve never done it, so I think I can do it” Travel somewhere. Anywhere. Roadtrip. Flight. IDC. Just go.

  3. Jan 30

    EP 28: taking my own advice

    “The funny thing about life is: the advice we give is often what we need to hear most ” - me You ever feel like you give amazing advice to everyone else, but when it comes to your own struggles, you feel completely overwhelmed? Today I’m gettin down to the psychology of why this is, along with why we lean on avoidance even when we have the solution.  As someone who creates inspirational content every single day, that should now let you in on a little secret: I don’t have it all figured out. In fact, by repackaging similar struggles like productivity and consistency, my weaknesses are dished on the daily. Each time I fail or learn something new that I think might be helpful to all of you, I HAVE to share it. Like deadass feel compelled.  But sometimes, in the midst of motivating others, I struggle to find the time and mental clarity to do things for myself. I struggle to enjoy new activities, or conversations, or breakthroughs without thinking “fuuuck I should’ve recorded that!” or “ouu I need to make an episode about this!”  I have a couple major chapters closing/opening, so it's time to practice what I preach to all of you. Keeping things raw n real, this episode shows a side of me I don’t open up about too often, yet felt I should.  I’m here for you & rooting for you always! Xo  Check out this week’s homework (scroll down) for a glimpse of the topics covered, and if any stand out to you, tap iiiin.  Thank you soooooo much for listening! If you resonate with anything I mentioned, it's because we're interlinked.. DUHHH.  Follow to stay up to date on new episodes dropping every Thursday (ish) ! Throw your thoughts in the comments (all feedback welcome) and share with someone who needs to hear this message :) Whole lotta loveee, Ray 3 _____________________________________________________________ Last Episode's Homework: Take note of the things you’re currently loving! Do more fun physical activities Declutter your space This Episode's Homework: Check in with yourself. Like actually.  Take your own advice! Try out the positivity sandwich method for yourself (lol)

  4. Jan 11

    EP 27: things I'm loving rn

    Life is more exciting when you appreciate the little things: a new show, a new nail color, a new hobby, a new song, the list goes on..  In today’s episode, I’m giving y’all a lil insight on some of the things that have been bringing me joy lately in an effort to get you to also reflect on what has been entertaining/interesting/enjoyable for you.  Having gratitude is something that I advocate for time and time again, but it’s for good reason. The moment you change your perspective, explore your curiosities, and take note of the mini wins, you will recognize that your energy directly correlates to your experiences in this life. Everything is a mirror. Put the work into your mindset and watch your reality become brighter. I’m here for you & rooting for you always! Xo  Check out this week’s homework (scroll down) for a glimpse of the topics covered, and if any stand out to you, tap iiiin.  Thank you soooooo much for listening! If you resonate with anything I mentioned, it's because we're interlinked.. DUHHH.  Follow to stay up to date on new episodes dropping every Thursday (ish) ! Throw your thoughts in the comments (all feedback welcome) and share with someone who needs to hear this message :) Whole lotta loveee, Ray 3 __________________________________________________________ Last Episode's Homework: Reflect on 2025 & plan ahead for 2026 using my 2025 wrapped document :) Detach from your phone This Episode's Homework: Take note of the things you’re currently loving! Do more activities that you enjoy Declutter your space (auction party)

  5. 12/22/2025

    EP 26: new year, MORE me

    “Your goal should never be to become someone else. Instead, your focus should be to keep becoming more yourself ” - mee With everybody and their mom throwing around the phrase “new year, new me!” it had me thinking.. there has to be a better framework. In today’s episode, I want to encourage you NOT to become a NEW you, but instead to become MORE you.  The start of a new year often feels like all or nothing. Everything begins on January 1st. You have to do better, eat better, look better, spend your time better, manage your money better.. the list goes on. It's a clean slate. It’s a chance to get to everything you’ve been putting off. It's a time to set goals and fantasize about how beautiful your life will be when all your dreams come true. So we get out our journals, head to pinterest, daydream about our bright future, and convince ourselves THIS is the year.  Why is it then that we often fall flat? That we don't accomplish our goals? That we get stuck in looped patterns? Lack of gratitude, lack of reflection, and lack of connection with ourselves.   In this episode, the teacher in me really came out to play. I have created a fully editable document for you to dive into 2025 and plan ahead for 2026. Two options: listen fully & reflect later OR listen & pause the ep to reflect. The choice is yours! Link to document: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1s9R2c7K1858cHnU_IOsKfBCPnAH6fOCQ9UPOn7SHQ74/copy PDF if you don't have a google acc: https://1drv.ms/w/c/91713d4de60fc694/IQB9fHnTLZR5TrPdt4OK5i5OAUrINzzsRC1jUGG4z5KdfW8?e=qpgij3 I’m here for you & rooting for you always! Xo  Check out this week’s homework (scroll down) for a glimpse of the topics covered, and if any stand out to you, tap iiiin.  Thank you soooooo much for listening! If you resonate with anything I mentioned, it's because we're interlinked.. DUHHH.  Follow to stay up to date on new episodes dropping every Thursday (ish) ! Throw your thoughts in the comments (all feedback welcome) and share with someone who needs to hear this message :) Whole lotta loveee, Ray 3 _____________________________________________________________________________________________________ Last Episode's Homework: Detach from your phone Hang out with friends in person more often Join a club or create one of your own Find alternative forms of entertainment Start using a journal Connect with nature Appreciate the present moment This Episode's Homework: Reflect on 2025 & plan ahead for 2026 using my 2025 wrapped document :)

  6. 11/27/2025

    EP 25: it's that damn phone

    “Your greatest power in this life lies in what you choose to give your attention to” - mee Asking for a friend, but uhh you check your screen time lately? I think we all have lowkey gotten beyond the point of caring to a certain extent. Like yeahhh that’s scary, buuut I use my phone for everything, so it’s not like that’s just doom scrolling. For me, a flip phone is sounding more and more appealing each day. However, there is a cheat code… let’s just say, stop putting all your eggs in one basket. As someone who uses social media as an outlet for creativity and self-expression, I have found myself in a huge, all-consuming dilemma: how do I exist in the present moment while still creating and sharing my life online? How do I give less attention to my phone in a world where that is an expected behavior? Maybe this isn’t your specific struggle, and for that reason, we’re going through a huge pros n cons list. When provided the whole picture, my hope is for you to pinpoint your positive intentions as well as problem areas.  Ultimate goal: get you to use that mf phone less and connect more! I’m here for you & rooting for you always! Xo  Check out this week’s homework (scroll down) for a glimpse of the topics covered, and if any stand out to you, tap iiiin.  Thank you soooooo much for listening! If you resonate with anything I mentioned, it's because we're interlinked.. DUHHH.  Follow to stay up to date on new episodes dropping every Thursday! Throw your thoughts in the comments (all feedback welcome) and share with someone who needs to hear this message :) Whole lotta loveee, Ray 3 _________________________________________________________ Last Episode's Homework: Take note of the branding techniques that typically convince you you NEED something versus just wanting it Before you impulse buy, ask yourself the questions I mentioned and recognize when you’re buying to fill some type of void  Create your own deep clean checklist or print mine! Try one or all five of the challenges I mentioned As we approach the holidays, plan to make homemade gifts rather than splurging at the stores This Episode's Homework: Detach from your phone Hang out with friends in person more often Join a club or create one of your own Find alternative forms of entertainment Start using a journal Connect with nature Appreciate the present moment

  7. 11/06/2025

    EP 24: outsmarting overconsumption

    “Society conditions us to believe that happiness lies in having things, but in fact, true happiness lies in having awareness & building connections” - meeee In today’s episode, we are taking a deep dive into overconsumption. There are plenty of motivations for buying whether it’s for holidays, seasons, pleasure, status, influencing, improving confidence, making life easier, or most commonly, filling a void.  Today, I’m offering a chance for you to shop smarter and stay strong when it comes to unnecessary purchases. We gettin to the ROOT. Why do you feel like you actually need something? How do brands convince you of this? It’s not just the trendy packaging and cute illustrations, it’s much deeper.  On my trip to Japan, I gained insight as to the psychology behind marketing and how it's not just one of our senses at play, it's all 5 working simultaneously. In particular, we’ll get a closer look at how audio is one of the most powerful techniques for buyer manipulation.  It is my goal that through listening to this episode, you will begin to practice awareness when shopping. You will question why more often. You will be more creative with the things you already own. You will value people and places more than bags and shoes.  I’m here for you & rooting for you always! Xo  Check out this week’s homework (scroll down) for a glimpse of the topics covered, and if any stand out to you, tap iiiin.  Thank you soooooo much for listening! If you resonate with anything I mentioned, it's because we're interlinked.. DUHHH.  Follow to stay up to date on new episodes dropping every Thursday! Throw your thoughts in the comments (all feedback welcome) and share with someone who needs to hear this message :) Whole lotta loveee, Ray _______________________________________________________ Last Episode's Homework: ​Choose at least one method to boost your creativity to focus on this week​Experiment & play more!!!​View mistakes as learning opportunities  This Episode's Homework: ​Take note of the branding techniques that typically convince you you NEED something versus just wanting it​Before you impulse buy, ask yourself the questions I mentioned and recognize when you’re buying to fill some type of void ​Create your own deep clean checklist or print mine!​Try one or all five of the challenges I mentioned​As we approach the holidays, plan to make homemade gifts rather than splurging at the stores

  8. 09/11/2025

    EP 23: How 2 boost your creativity

    “What if creativity is about experimentation and play, and not about being good at something” In today’s episode, it’s my goal to convince each one of y’all that you ARE an artist. I think a lot of us rely on the left brain vs right brain argument to get out of creative tasks, but I’m not letting that fly here! You might also fall into one (or all) of these categories: you don’t have time for making art, you don’t see the point in it, or you fear trying because the result might “look bad.” The purpose of any creative pursuit is not to have a flawless masterpiece! The goal is, and should always be, joy and self expression. If feeling creative is something you struggle with, tap in. I’m literally giving you the cheat code. Ten original, show stopping, never-seen-before methods for boosting your creativity! Sometimes all we need is a little inspiration or a nudge in the right direction to get those ideas flowin. I’m here for you & rooting for you always! Xo Check out this week’s homework (scroll down) for a glimpse of the topics covered, and if any stand out to you, tap iiiin. Thank you soooooo much for listening! If you resonate with anything I mentioned, it's because we're interlinked.. DUHHH. Follow to stay up to date on new episodes dropping every Thursday! Throw your thoughts in the comments (all feedback welcome) and share with someone who needs to hear this message :) Whole lotta loveee, Ray _______________________________________________________ Last Episode's Homework: - Decide what kind of traveler you are/want to be - Write out your top travel destinations - Download and check out Hostelworld - Bonus: Book a trip! This Episode's Homework: - Choose at least one method to boost your creativity to focus on this week - Experiment & play more!!! - View mistakes as learning opportunities

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Ever have an idea or experience and then discover someone else has had seemingly the exact same one? Turns out this happens more often than we even know. Interlinked by definition means "to connect." This show aims to capture that feeling you get when someone just understands you -- truly the greatest gift of the human experience. My hope is that through listening, you can find peace, strength, and empowerment in your life, as it mirrors mine. This show covers topics ranging from mindset shifts, learned life lessons, current struggles, wellness tips, and all the memorable moments in between.

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  • Creator
    Ray Schonhiutt
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    30
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Ray Schonhiutt
  • Show Website
    Interlinked