In this profoundly moving episode of Friends in Training: Life is a Marathon, Marcela welcomes Yvette Salva, a personal trainer, author, and coach whose story of survival, recovery, and transformation will leave you breathless and believing in the power of second chances. Yvette's journey began with a childhood marked by feeling like she didn't belong. Born in Canada to a Spanish father and Haitian mother, she moved from country to country, always the new girl, always different. Walking into an American school in seventh grade wearing a boarding school uniform, she faced ridicule and racism that left her searching for where she fit in. The message she absorbed was clear: if you're beautiful, skinny, and have money, you'll have power and happiness. That lie set her on a 30 year battle with addiction that nearly cost her everything. Her first addiction was anorexia. Hospitalized at 82 pounds, she then discovered bulimia, a secret she carried from age 14 to 47. As she moved through high school and into college, alcohol became her escape from the chaos in her mind. After graduating, she took a job as a shot girl in what turned out to be a go-go bar, and that's where cocaine entered her life. For six years, she lived in a cycle of working all night, coming home at 4 a.m., and repeating the same destructive routine. She had blood running down her nose, a hole blown through from cocaine use, and eventually found herself homeless, living in her car, a stripper with nothing left. The turning point came when she looked in the mirror and realized she was going to die if she didn't change. She met a man who believed in her, and they were married for 20 years. But recovery wasn't linear. Even after three years sober and seven months pregnant, she relapsed at a party, changing her daughter's name from Emily to Mary Rose that very night. That moment taught her how cunning and powerful addiction truly is. Throughout their conversation, Marcela and Yvette explore the three steps to change: awareness, acceptance, and action. They discuss the importance of surroundings, people, places, and things, and why secrets keep you sick. Yvette shares her morning routine of devotional reading, journaling, and working out at 4:30 a.m., and how fitness became her medicine. She talks about her book, Booze, Blow, and Pancakes, a memoir that chronicles her 30 year battle and offers hope to anyone struggling with addiction. Today, Yvette runs a personal training studio for women over 40, helping them transform not just their bodies but their lives through fitness, nutrition, and mindset. She believes that fitness is Prozac, that doing hard things builds confidence, and that everyone needs a coach to stay accountable. Her message is simple but powerful: if there's breath, there's hope. Help one person every day. You are unique, and you matter. This episode is a testament to resilience, the power of community, and the truth that no matter how far down you've gone, you can always reset, restart, and refocus. Whether you're battling addiction, emotional eating, or simply trying to find your way, Yvette's story will remind you that you are stronger than you think and you are never beyond saving. 00:00:00 Welcome and Meeting Yvette 00:02:50 Growing Up Different: The Identity Struggle 00:05:55 The Beginning of Addiction: Anorexia and Bulimia 00:07:15 Descent Into Darkness: Alcohol and Cocaine 00:09:26 The Turning Point: Meeting Her Husband 00:09:54 Three Steps to Change: Awareness, Acceptance, Action 00:10:56 Rock Bottom: Homeless Stripper 00:15:02 The Power of Surroundings: People, Places, Things 00:34:27 The Morning Routine: Devotional, Journal, Workout 00:37:40 Booze, Blow, and Pancakes: The Book 00:40:16 The Relapse: Seven Months Pregnant and Three Years Sober 00:42:45 Finding Recovery: The 12-Step Program 00:48:48 Coaching Women Over 40: More Than Just Exercise 00:51:25 Reset, Restart, Refocus: Overcoming Setbacks 00:52:24 Fitness as Medicine: Building Confidence Through Strength 00:57:54 Hope is an Acronym: Help One Person Every Day 00:58:28 Message to Your Younger Self: You Are Unique 00:59:57 Final Message: Guardian Angels and Never Giving Up Learn more about Marcela, and the FIT community, at https://friendsintraining.net/ Connect with Yvette Salva on Instagram: @YvetteSalvaFitness Learn more at YvetteSalvaFitness.com Find Yvette's book Booze, Blow, and Pancakes on Amazon