Lion Counseling Podcast

Lion Counseling Podcast

The Lion Counseling Podcast helps men escape the cages that hold them back and become the Lions they were created to be. It exists to help men obtain success, purpose, happiness, and peace in their career and personal lives. The podcast is hosted by the founder of Lion Counseling, Mark Odland (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified EMDR Therapist), and Zack Carter (Counselor and Coach with Lion Counseling). In their podcasts, they address a variety of topics relevant to men, including: mental health, relationships, masculinity, faith, success, business, and self-improvement.

  1. Detached… or Emotionally Gone?

    2d ago

    Detached… or Emotionally Gone?

    🎙️ Detached… or Emotionally Gone? | Leadership Under Pressure #69At Echelon Front Muster, one of the leadership principles that stood out to Mark Odland was detachment: The ability to step back, create space, assess clearly, and make good decisions under pressure.It’s a powerful skill. But what happens when “detachment” turns into emotional shutdown?In this episode of Leadership Under Pressure, Mark breaks down one of the most misunderstood concepts in leadership and masculinity:The difference between healthy detachment… and emotional disconnection. Mark explores:✅ Why many high-performing men mistake shutdown for discipline✅ How emotional numbness can quietly damage marriage, leadership, and trust✅ Why some men learned to “go cold” as a survival strategy✅ The hidden cost of emotional absence in relationships and teams✅ How trauma and conditioning shape reactions under pressure✅ What true emotional steadiness actually looks like This is not about becoming soft, passive, or emotionally fragile.It’s about learning how to stay calm without shutting down… engaged without becoming reactive… and present without being controlled by emotion.Because real detachment is not numbness.Real detachment is calm and engaged at the same time. 🎙️ Book a Clarity Call with Mark:https://escapethecagenow.com/call/ 📘 Get Mark’s FREE book + join the newsletter:https://escapethecagenow.com/subscribe/ Click here to watch a video of this episode.’ Click here to view the episode transcript.’ About Leadership Under Pressure:Leadership Under Pressure is a series from Lion Counseling exploring the hidden psychological layer of leadership, discipline, relationships, and performance. Mark Odland combines trauma-informed therapy, EMDR expertise, leadership principles, faith, and real-world experience to help high-performing men operate with greater clarity, steadiness, and freedom under pressure.

    5 min
  2. 4d ago

    Oleg Taktarov | UFC Pioneer, Hollywood, Masculinity, and the Cost of Strength

    🎙️ Episode 64 – Oleg Taktarov | UFC Pioneer, Hollywood, Masculinity, and the Cost of Strength In this episode of the Lion Counseling Podcast, Mark Odland sits down with UFC 6 tournament champion, actor, and UFC pioneer Oleg Taktarov for a deep conversation about masculinity, mindset, identity, suffering, and the psychology of strength. Far beyond a typical MMA interview, Mark interviews Oleg from his home in Russia. In this wide-ranging conversation, he reflects on growing up in a secret Soviet city during the Cold War, the influence of his parents and teachers, the mentality of the early UFC era, Hollywood, fame, loneliness, personal attacks, the strange experience of becoming a celebrity while still trying to understand yourself, and the unique mentality that made his opponents emotionally submit long before they actually tapped. 0:00 Introducing UFC Hall of Famer and Hollywood Actor, Oleg Tactarov3:54 What shapes a man’s destiny… nature vs. nurture7:00 The power of teaching and listening 10:00 Memories from childhood in the Soviet Union15:37 Oleg’s journey of creativity both in the cage and on the movie screen21:05 The learned ability to read the room and discern people’s true intentions23:14 Celebrity as a threat to peace of mind and creativity26:40 The painful impact of being misunderstood in Hollywood 30:09 A ten-year-long recurring nightmare of being stuck in Russia33:30 The favorite character that Oleg has played as an actor36:35 Oleg’s autobiographical, sarcastic book40:53 Firsthand experience of how the power of words can hurt others42:10 How the Dagestani “hyenas” attacked the “old lion” 49:03 UFC early days and how different rules prevented defeating Dan Severn51:14 Reflections on defeating Tank Abbott and the role of fear in fighting53:35 Mental preparation for fighting Together, Mark and Oleg explore:✅ The psychology of early UFC fighters✅ Genetics vs environment in shaping a man✅ Soviet culture and masculinity✅ Martial arts philosophy and discipline✅ Fear, instinct, and competition✅ Fame, public criticism, and identity✅ Hollywood and life after fighting✅ Why true fighters don’t carry hatred toward opponents✅ The emotional cost of strength and success✅ What it means to be a man in the modern world Oleg also shares stories from the early UFC days, reflections on acting and writing, insights into his legendary fights, and behind-the-scenes thoughts on life in Hollywood. 📘 Get Mark’s Free Book:https://escapethecagenow.com/subscribe/ 📚 Mark’s Books & Merch:https://escapethecagenow.com/books/ 📞 Book a Clarity Call with Mark:https://escapethecagenow.com/call/ 💬 Comment below:What part of Oleg’s story or philosophy stood out to you the most? About the Lion Counseling Podcast:The Lion Counseling Podcast explores psychology, masculinity, trauma, relationships, faith, discipline, and the deeper struggles high-performing men face in modern life. Hosted by licensed therapist Mark Odland, the podcast features conversations with athletes, fighters, creators, leaders, and men who have endured adversity and grown through it. New episodes drop every Tuesday.

    56 min
  3. Why High-Performing Men Get Defensive

    May 29

    Why High-Performing Men Get Defensive

    🎙️ Why High-Performing Men Get Defensive | Leadership Under Pressure #67One of the most powerful ideas taught by Jocko Willink and Echelon Front is Extreme Ownership. Take responsibility.Own your mistakes.Stop blaming other people.Lead yourself first. And Mark Odland agrees with it. But what happens when a man genuinely believes in ownership… yet still becomes defensive, avoidant, reactive, or emotionally shut down under pressure? In this episode of Leadership Under Pressure, Mark explores why high-performing men often hit a wall when trying to live out the principles they intellectually agree with.This usually isn’t a motivation problem.It’s a conditioning problem. Mark breaks down:✅ Why understanding ownership doesn’t automatically change reactions✅ How shame, fear, and past conditioning can override values under pressure✅ Why criticism and conflict can trigger defensive nervous system responses✅ The difference between explanation and excuse✅ Why many successful men stay stuck despite “knowing better”✅ How trauma-informed work and EMDR help remove internal interference This is not about making excuses.It’s about understanding why your reactions override your values in real time—and learning how to change that.Because real ownership is not just saying:“This is on me.”Real ownership is becoming the kind of man who can stay steady enough to own it in the moment. 🎙️ Book a Clarity Call with Mark:https://escapethecagenow.com/call/ 📘 Get Mark’s FREE book + join the newsletter:https://escapethecagenow.com/subscribe/ Click here to watch a video of this episode.’ Click here to view the episode transcript.’ About Leadership Under Pressure:Leadership Under Pressure is a series from Lion Counseling exploring the hidden psychological layer of leadership, discipline, relationships, and performance. Mark Odland combines trauma-informed therapy, EMDR expertise, leadership principles, faith, and real-world experience to help high-performing men operate with greater clarity, steadiness, and freedom under pressure.

    5 min
  4. The Two Toxic Family Patterns Destroying Relationships | Enmeshment vs Disengagement

    May 26

    The Two Toxic Family Patterns Destroying Relationships | Enmeshment vs Disengagement

    🎙️ Episode 66 - The Two Toxic Family Patterns Destroying Relationships | Enmeshment vs Disengagement Why do some families feel emotionally suffocating… while others feel emotionally cold and disconnected? In this episode of the Lion Counseling Podcast, licensed marriage and family therapist Mark Odland and counselor/coach Zack Carter break down three powerful family system dynamics that quietly shape marriages, parenting, attraction, boundaries, and emotional health: EnmeshmentDisengagementInterdependence Using real counseling examples, attachment theory, trauma psychology, and even films like Finding Nemo and The Incredibles, Mark and Zack explain why some people feel guilty setting boundaries, why others emotionally shut down, and how healthy families balance both connection and individuality. They also tackle difficult relationship questions like:“What do you do when your spouse wants you to want something you don’t actually want?”And how do you lovingly tell the truth without becoming emotionally fused—or emotionally detached? In this episode, you’ll learn:✅ What enmeshment actually is and how it forms✅ Why some men emotionally disengage from their families✅ How childhood dynamics like parentification affect adult relationships✅ The connection between attachment styles and family systems✅ Why guilt becomes a weapon in unhealthy relationships✅ How to set boundaries without emotionally abandoning people✅ The difference between healthy sacrifice and resentment-driven compliance✅ Why honesty is essential for emotional intimacy✅ How to create an interdependent family culture built on truth, love, and responsibility Get Mark’s FREE book Escape the Cage here:https://escapethecagenow.com/subscribe/ 📞 Book a Clarity Call with Mark:https://escapethecagenow.com/call/ 📚 Explore Mark’s other books:https://escapethecagenow.com/books/ Click here to watch a video of this episode.’ Click here to view the episode transcript. 💬 Comment below:Did you grow up in a family that was more enmeshed or more disengaged? What helped you begin building healthier boundaries and deeper connection? About the Lion Counseling PodcastThe Lion Counseling Podcast helps high-achieving men break free from anxiety, trauma, burnout, addiction, anger, and unhealthy relationship patterns through practical conversations grounded in psychology, EMDR therapy, leadership, and Christian wisdom. Hosted by LMFT and certified EMDR therapist Mark Odland alongside counselor and coach Zack Carter, each episode is designed to help men heal deeply, lead courageously, and become the men God created them to be. New episodes drop every Tuesday.

    38 min
  5. Why Discipline Breaks Down Under Pressure

    May 21

    Why Discipline Breaks Down Under Pressure

    🎙️ Why Discipline Breaks Down Under Pressure | Leadership Under Pressure #65Jocko Willink is right: discipline creates freedom. Structure matters. Standards matter. Doing what you say you’re going to do changes your life. But what happens when discipline suddenly stops working under pressure? In this episode of Leadership Under Pressure, Mark Odland breaks down why high-performing men can dominate in one area of life—but still react, avoid, procrastinate, or shut down in another.This usually isn’t a discipline problem.It’s a conditioning problem. Mark explores:✅ Why discipline works… until it doesn’t✅ How pressure activates old conditioning and nervous system patterns✅ Why successful men often feel confused by their own reactions✅ The difference between discipline and conditioning✅ Why high performers can still struggle with avoidance, anger, shutdown, or over-control✅ How trauma-informed work and EMDR can help remove “internal interference” under pressure This is not typical therapy. This is a deeper conversation about leadership, pressure, performance, emotional conditioning, and what actually happens when stress hits in real life. If you’re a disciplined, driven, high-performing man—but something still breaks down under pressure—this episode is for you. Book a Clarity Call with Mark:https://escapethecagenow.com/call/ 📘 Get Mark’s FREE book + join the newsletter:https://escapethecagenow.com/subscribe/ Click here to watch a video of this episode.’ Click here to view the episode transcript.’ About Leadership Under Pressure:Leadership Under Pressure is a series from Lion Counseling exploring the hidden psychological layer of leadership, discipline, relationships, and performance. Mark Odland combines trauma-informed therapy, EMDR expertise, leadership principles, faith, and real-world experience to help high-performing men operate with greater clarity, steadiness, and freedom under pressure.

    5 min
  6. UFC Hall of Famer Mark “The Hammer” Coleman on Addiction, Redemption, Faith & Fighting Back

    May 19

    UFC Hall of Famer Mark “The Hammer” Coleman on Addiction, Redemption, Faith & Fighting Back

    🎙️ Episode 65 – UFC Hall of Famer Mark “The Hammer” Coleman on Addiction, Redemption, Faith & Fighting Back UFC Hall of Famer and MMA pioneer Mark Coleman joins the Lion Counseling Podcast for one of the most raw, emotional, and inspiring conversations we’ve ever had. Known as the “Godfather of Ground and Pound,” Mark Coleman helped shape modern MMA and became the first-ever UFC Heavyweight Champion. But behind the championships, Olympic wrestling career, and legendary fights was a much deeper battle involving addiction, trauma, shame, broken relationships, recovery, and ultimately faith in God. In this powerful Lion Legacy Conversation, Mark opens up about nearly losing everything to alcoholism and benzodiazepine addiction, hitting rock bottom in isolation, entering rehab, rebuilding his life through sobriety, and the life-changing role faith played in his recovery. This episode goes far beyond fighting.It’s about suffering, masculinity, redemption, forgiveness, resilience, and learning how to truly live again. ✅ In this episode, you’ll learn:☑️ The untold story behind Mark Coleman’s addiction and recovery journey☑️ What rehab taught him about resentment, shame, and forgiveness☑️ How faith and surrender transformed his life☑️ Why many successful men secretly struggle with addiction and emotional pain☑️ The psychology of rock bottom and why some men never escape it☑️ How trauma, pride, and isolation fuel destructive behavior☑️ Why sobriety is “the toughest fight” Mark has ever faced☑️ The emotional story behind rescuing his parents from a house fire☑️ What Mark would say to his younger self today☑️ The mindset that helped him survive, rebuild, and find peace This may be the deepest interview Mark Coleman has ever done publicly.Whether you’re a UFC fan, someone battling addiction, or simply a man trying to become stronger spiritually and emotionally, this conversation will stay with you. 📘 Get Mark’s FREE book:https://escapethecagenow.com/subscribe/ 📚 Explore Mark Odland’s books and resources:https://escapethecagenow.com/books/ 📅 Book a Clarity Call with Lion Counseling:https://escapethecagenow.com/call/ Click here to watch a video of this episode.’ Click here to view the episode transcript. 💬 Comment below:What part of Mark Coleman’s story impacted you the most? About the Lion Counseling PodcastThe Lion Counseling Podcast exists to help high-achieving men break free from anxiety, trauma, addiction, burnout, resentment, and emotional isolation. Hosted by licensed therapist and EMDR clinician Mark Odland, the show combines psychology, faith, leadership, and practical wisdom to help men become the lions God created them to be.New episodes drop every Tuesday.

    1h 13m
  7. Discipline Works… Until It Doesn’t

    May 14

    Discipline Works… Until It Doesn’t

    🎙️ Discipline Works… Until It Doesn’t | Leadership Under Pressure #63 Most high-performing men already know what to do. They’ve read the books.Built the habits.Practiced discipline.Pushed themselves harder.And for many men, that works.But for some men…something still breaks under pressure. In this flagship episode of Leadership Under Pressure, Mark Odland explores the critical distinction between true detachment and unresolved trauma responses—and why discipline alone sometimes stops working. After attending Muster with Jocko Willink and Echelon Front, Mark reflects on one principle that repeatedly surfaced: Detachment. The ability to stay calm, clear, and emotionally steady under pressure.It’s a powerful skill. But in his work as a licensed therapist specializing in high-performing men, Mark has seen something important: Sometimes what looks like a “discipline problem” is actually an unresolved nervous system problem. Mark breaks down:✅ The difference between healthy detachment and emotional shutdown✅ Why some men freeze, numb out, disconnect, or spiral under pressure✅ How unresolved trauma affects leadership, marriage, business, and performance✅ Why survival responses often override discipline when stress gets high✅ The hidden relationship between dissociation and emotional overwhelm✅ How EMDR therapy helps resolve traumatic memories at the nervous system level✅ Why healing often unlocks the discipline men were trying to build all along This episode is not anti-discipline.It’s about understanding why discipline works powerfully for many men…until something deeper gets in the way. At Lion Counseling, Mark works with high-performing men who are successful externally but still experience emotional shutdown, reactivity, numbness, or disconnection under pressure.Because sometimes the issue is not motivation.Sometimes the brain is still trying to survive something it never fully processed.And when healing happens…everything changes. 🎙️ Book a Clarity Call with Mark:https://escapethecagenow.com/call/ 📘 Get Mark’s FREE book + join the newsletter:https://escapethecagenow.com/subscribe/ Click here to watch a video of this episode.’ Click here to view the episode transcript.’ About Leadership Under Pressure:Leadership Under Pressure is a series from Lion Counseling exploring the hidden psychological layer of leadership, discipline, relationships, and performance. Mark Odland combines trauma-informed therapy, EMDR expertise, leadership principles, faith, and real-world experience to help high-performing men operate with greater clarity, steadiness, and freedom under pressure.

    6 min
  8. Why High-Achieving Men Quietly Fall Apart (The “Drift” No One Talks About) Most men don’t crash… they drift.

    May 12

    Why High-Achieving Men Quietly Fall Apart (The “Drift” No One Talks About) Most men don’t crash… they drift.

    🎙️ Episode 62 – Why High-Achieving Men Quietly Fall Apart (The “Drift” No One Talks About)Most men don’t crash… they drift. In this powerful conversation with Larry Hagner—founder of the Dad Edge movement and author of The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood—we break down the silent patterns that cause high-performing men to slowly lose their edge, their purpose, and their connection to what matters most. From burnout and emotional disconnection…to pornography, busyness, and quiet dissatisfaction…this episode exposes what’s really going on beneath the surface.If you’re a driven man who feels like something is “off”… this one will hit. In this episode, you’ll learn:✅ Why most men feel stuck—even when life looks successful✅ The concept of “The Drift” and how it slowly destroys purpose and connection✅ How trauma, stress, and unmet needs drive addiction and escape behaviors✅ Why porn, alcohol, and busyness are often symptoms—not the real problem✅ The shocking truth about marriage satisfaction (and why most couples struggle)✅ How to rebuild attraction, connection, and intimacy in your relationship✅ The BRAVE Man System for restoring structure, purpose, and momentum✅ Why “balance” is a myth—and what to pursue insteadvPractical steps to take control of your life, marriage, and mindset this week 📖 Get Larry’s Book + BonusesCheck out The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood and his programs here:👉 https://thedadedge.com 📘 Get Mark's Free Book👉 https://escapethecagenow.com/subscribe/ 📞 Book a Clarity Call with Mark or Zack👉 https://escapethecagenow.com/call/ 📚 Books & Resources👉 https://escapethecagenow.com/books/ 💬 Comment below:Where do you feel the “drift” showing up most in your life right now? Click here to watch a video of this episode.’ Click here to view the episode transcript.’ About the Lion Counseling PodcastThe Lion Counseling Podcast helps high-achieving Christian men break free from anxiety, burnout, trauma, and destructive patterns—so they can heal deeply, lead powerfully, and become the men they were created to be.New episodes drop every Tuesday.

    48 min

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The Lion Counseling Podcast helps men escape the cages that hold them back and become the Lions they were created to be. It exists to help men obtain success, purpose, happiness, and peace in their career and personal lives. The podcast is hosted by the founder of Lion Counseling, Mark Odland (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified EMDR Therapist), and Zack Carter (Counselor and Coach with Lion Counseling). In their podcasts, they address a variety of topics relevant to men, including: mental health, relationships, masculinity, faith, success, business, and self-improvement.

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