More Time for Mom

Dr. Amber Curtis

Are you a worn-out mom who used to be the star of the office, spend 45 minutes doing your hair and makeup, and take romantic getaways before you had kids…but now you’re constantly behind and out of PTO at work, there are three days’ worth of dishes piled in the sink, the kids scream when tablet time is over, and you’re so touched out by 8pm that you scroll Instagram instead of spending time with your husband?   Welcome to the club. If you’re paralyzed by what to do first whenever you miraculously find 15 free minutes and fall asleep in tears because you’ve always tried to do everything right but now it feels so wrong, you are NOT alone. I went crazy trying to “balance” it all and believing other experts who tell you to just wake up earlier or manage your time better. Turns out you’re not the problem; toxic productivity culture has led you to equate your self-worth with what you have to show for your time.   I’ve spent years applying my PhD research skills to find scientifically proven strategies for keeping up without burning out—then tailoring them for busy mamas whose hands, hearts, and schedules are fuller than they ever imagined. Now I’ve helped dozens of other women discover the hidden causes behind your stress so you can reclaim your time, restore your energy, rediscover your identity, and look back in 20 years with pride instead of regret.    Join me, Dr. Amber Curtis—certified life coach, behavioral science professor, public speaker, devoted wife, and mom of four—every Tuesday for real, raw stories and actionable advice on productivity, organization, time management, and that elusive thing we call work-life “balance” so you can be the happy, present wife and mom you dream of without sacrificing the talents you’re meant to share with the world.   Ready to make more time for YOU? Hit play and make sure to tune in for new episodes every Tuesday. It's time to take back your life for who and what you love. You’ll soon realize “time” was never the problem after all.

  1. 5d ago

    Health Advice Busy Moms Can ACTUALLY Follow (with The Christian Nutritionist, Chelsea Blackbird)

    Send us Fan Mail What if things didn’t have to be so complicated? What if healthy living wasn’t about obsessing over numbers and trends, but giving yourself more grace? What if eating cookies didn’t wreck you with guilt and shame? What if feeling good in your body wasn’t about control, but about stewardship and joy?   In this episode, I'm joined by Chelsea Blackbird, aka “The Christian Nutritionist”, for a refreshingly different conversation about health, nutrition, faith, and the pressure so many high-achieving women put on themselves to do everything RIGHT. Chelsea is a Christian Health Practitioner, host of The Christian Health Club Podcast, and co-founder of The School of Christian Health & Nutrition. She is board-certified in applied quantum biology by the American Naturopathic Medical Certification Board. Chelsea bridges modern health science with a biblical worldview-helping women understand metabolism, energy, hormones, and healing through the lens of stewardship and faith. Chelsea is the creator of programs including Feast 2 Fast® and The Genesis Prescription®.  If you're a high-achieving, overwhelmed mom who's tired of feeling like you're failing at taking care of yourself, this episode is for you. You don't need another impractical list of health rules. You need permission to simplify, nourish yourself, and stop measuring your worth by how perfectly you follow a plan.   BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: Chelsea's three foundational health priorities for busy womenWhy conventional advice makes healthy habits SO difficult to maintainHow to choose realistic health goals for your current season of motherhoodWhat to do when your husband or kids aren't interested in eating healthierWhy your body may need more nourishment instead of more restrictionHow health and appearance can become idols that distract us from what really matters mostHow to stop seeing your body as the enemy and treat it as the blessing it isAnd so much more    CONNECT WITH CHELSEA: Website: https://www.thechristiannutritionist.com/ Podcast, The Christian Health Club: https://www.thechristiannutritionist.com/podcast-main  FOR SO MUCH MORE: Take my FREE quiz to find out your default stress response: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/stress-response-podcast  Grab my on-demand “Nervous System Fundamentals” masterclass to finally understand your brain and body like never before: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/fundamentals/   Join my 6-week Moms Made New program so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/mmn-waitlist  Book a free consult with me: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult    HOMEWORK:  What’s one new foundational habit you're going to adopt and at least one health "rule" you're going to STOP following so you can start giving yourself more grace to love and care for the body God gave you? Reach out to me via email or on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity to share your thoughts. And don’t forget to share this episode with another busy mama who needs to hear it!   COMING UP NEXT: Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to keep unpacking the hidden sources of stress stealing your time and joy. Don't miss my powerful on-demand masterclass, "13 Things Nobody's Telling You About Your Nervous System," that dispels the common myths and misleading advice out there about capacity, emotional regulation, and so much more: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/13things/  Loving this podcast? Please help it get found by more listeners by taking quick minute to leave a rating & review in Apple Podcasts. Take a screenshot of your text review before you submit it, then email that to help@solutionsforsimplicity.com and I'll send you my powerful Happy Mom Protocol™ (a $297 value) FOR FREE! CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn  Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.

    Health Advice Busy Moms Can ACTUALLY Follow (with The Christian Nutritionist, Chelsea Blackbird)
  2. Oct 20

    Rest ISN’T a Reward: Balancing Work Ethic with REST Ethic (featuring Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith)

    Send us Fan Mail You’re exhausted. Overwhelmed. Mentally overloaded. Emotionally depleted. And yet you keep showing up, working, parenting, problem solving, managing everyone's needs, and holding everything together. At what cost?!?! In this eye-opening conversation, I'm joined by internationally renowned wellbeing expert Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith to talk about why rest feels so impossible for busy, high-achieving moms—and how to finally get the different types of restoration you need to actually enjoy your life. Dr. Dalton-Smith is a board-certified internal medicine physician, best-selling author, in-demand speaker, and creator of the groundbreaking Seven Types of Rest® framework. What I love most? She's a fellow high achiever who openly admits that she used to think rest was for people who couldn't keep up. By the end of this episode, you’ll have an arsenal of doable ways to take your “rest ethic” as seriously as your work ethic.   BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: You actually CAN pour from an empty cup…but at a price neither you nor your family should be willing to pay!How getting more rest DOESN’T require finding more time—and simple ways to build meaningful rest into your existing routinesWhy rest and escape are NOT the same thingWhy identifying your biggest rest deficits matters, and where to start when you’re burned outHow understanding your rest needs can improve communication and intimacy in marriageWhat the way YOU rest is teaching your children about how to care for themselvesAnd so much more    AS MENTIONED: Episode 80 – Why You’re Always Tired: It’s NOT Just Sleep! https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/19939843 Get Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith’s books:Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity  https://amzn.to/4yGpCGa Being Fully Known: The Joyful Satisfaction of Beholding, Becoming, and Belonging https://amzn.to/4yYnQk9Take Dr. Dalton-Smith's Rest Deficit Assessment: https://www.restquiz.com More about Dr. Dalton-Smith: https://IChooseMyBestLife.com  FOR SO MUCH MORE: Take my FREE quiz to find out your default stress response: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/stress-response-podcast  Grab my on-demand “Nervous System Fundamentals” masterclass to finally understand your brain and body like never before: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/fundamentals/   Join my 6-week Moms Made New program so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/mmn-waitlist  Book a free consult with me: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult    HOMEWORK: How are you going to get more rest in your life—and what kind(s) of rest are you most in need of? Reach out to me via email or on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity to share your thoughts. And don’t forget to share this episode with another tired mama who needs to know that rest is about way more than just sleep!   COMING UP NEXT: Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to keep unpacking the hidden sources of stress stealing your time and joy. Don't miss my powerful on-demand masterclass, "13 Things Nobody's Telling You About Your Nervous System," that dispels the common myths and misleading advice out there about capacity, emotional regulation, and so much more: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/13things/  Loving this podcast? Please help it get found by more listeners by taking quick minute to leave a rating & review in Apple Podcasts. Take a screenshot of your text review before you submit it, then email that to help@solutionsforsimplicity.com and I'll send you my powerful Happy Mom Protocol™ (a $297 value) FOR FREE! CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn  Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.

    Rest ISN’T a Reward: Balancing Work Ethic with REST Ethic (featuring Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith)
  3. Oct 13

    Why You’re Always Tired: It’s NOT Just Sleep!

    Send us Fan Mail You go to bed tired. You wake up more tired. You push through another day of work, parenting, responsibilities, and everyone needing something from you thinking, “If I could just get a good night's sleep, I'd finally feel better.” But what if sleep ISN’T the kind of rest you’re missing? After sharing my own recent struggles with chronic stress, exhaustion, and an unexpected freeze response, I've been thinking a LOT about what our bodies actually need to recover from the demands of everyday life. I keep coming back to Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith’s powerful book on what really helps you feel rested and fulfilled.   BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: Exhaustion could be a telltale sign your nervous system is stuck in a freeze responseWhy sleep and rest are NOT the same thingThe seven different kinds of rest you need—and which ones are the hardest for busy moms to getHow to identify your own personal rest deficitsAnd so much more    AS MENTIONED: Episode 79 – When Stress Gets the Best of You: Unpacking the Freeze Response: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/19916478 Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity by Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith: https://amzn.to/4yGpCGa Dr. Dalton-Smith's Rest Deficit Assessment: https://www.restquiz.com   FOR SO MUCH MORE: Take my FREE quiz to find out your default stress response: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/stress-response-podcast  Grab my on-demand “Nervous System Fundamentals” masterclass to finally understand your brain and body like never before: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/fundamentals/   Join my 6-week Moms Made New program so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/mmn-waitlist  Book a free consult with me: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult    HOMEWORK: Which of the seven types of rest are you not getting enough of? Reach out to me via email or on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity to share your thoughts. And don’t forget to share this episode with another mama who needs to hear it!   COMING UP NEXT: Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to hear my interview with renowned rest expert, Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, on why it’s ESPECIALLY hard for busy moms to get enough rest—and how they can actually do so. Loving this podcast? Please help it get found by more listeners by taking quick minute to leave a rating & review in Apple Podcasts. Take a screenshot of your text review before you submit it, then email that to help@solutionsforsimplicity.com and I'll send you my powerful Happy Mom Protocol™ (a $297 value) FOR FREE! CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn  Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.

  4. Oct 6

    When Stress Gets the Best of You: Unpacking the Freeze Response

    Send us Fan Mail I've spent years studying stress, the nervous system, emotional regulation, and our default protective responses. I have trainings, certifications, coaching tools—and I help other women recognize these patterns in themselves every single week. But somehow, I didn't realize I was stuck in a freeze response. In this deeply vulnerable episode, I'm taking you inside what this stress response has looked and felt like for me—and why it was SO difficult to recognize when I'm normally the high-achieving, dependable person who prioritizes everyone else and just keeps going. The goal of understanding yourself isn't to become someone who never gets stressed. It's to recognize what's happening sooner, understand what your mind and body may be communicating, get the support you need, and stop making your struggle mean anything about how “good” you are. I’m still working through all this myself…pray for me. But a hard season is never the end of our story!   BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: Freeze rarely looks like doing nothingWhy high-functioning, people-pleasing women have an especially hard time recognizing the freeze responseThe biology behind simultaneously feeling physically exhausted and mentally activatedWhy uncertainty leaves us stuck in an endless holding pattern—and the counterintuitive solution to finally move forward long before external things get betterWhy a freeze response is NOT the time to “push through”Expertise and tools don’t make you immune to stress—why the person holding it together for everyone else needs outside support all the more    PRIOR EPISODES MENTIONED: Episode 53 – The Five Stress Responses Explained: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/18778797 Episode 64 – To the Mom Who’s Holding It All: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/19363710   FOR SO MUCH MORE: Take my FREE quiz to find out your default stress response: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/stress-response-podcast  Grab my on-demand “Nervous System Fundamentals” masterclass to finally understand your brain and body like never before: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/fundamentals/   Join my 6-week Moms Made New program so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/mmn-waitlist  Book a free consult with me: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult    HOMEWORK: After hearing my experience, are you experiencing any signs of freeze or functional freeze? What do you notice about your body, your mind, your thoughts? What stress might you not have fully processed? How can you do that to “thaw” your nervous system back out? Reach out to me via email or on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity to share your thoughts. And don’t forget to share this episode with another mama who needs to hear it!   COMING UP NEXT: Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to keep unpacking the hidden sources of stress stealing your time and joy. Don't miss my powerful on-demand masterclass, "13 Things Nobody's Telling You About Your Nervous System," that dispels the common myths and misleading advice out there about capacity, emotional regulation, and so much more: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/13things/  Loving this podcast? Please help it get found by more listeners by taking quick minute to leave a rating & review in Apple Podcasts. Take a screenshot of your text review before you submit it, then email that to help@solutionsforsimplicity.com and I'll send you my powerful Happy Mom Protocol™ (a $297 value) FOR FREE! CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn  Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.

  5. Sep 22

    He Didn’t Kiss Me, Total Spiral: Why You Take Things So Personally

    Send us Fan Mail I got triggered. BIG TIME. Last week my husband didn’t kiss me goodnight. The next morning, he left for work without kissing me goodbye. No fight. No argument. No obvious reason. My brain immediately went to: “Why is he mad at me? What did I do wrong? Does he even love me? Is he going to leave?” Cue the tears, sadness, anger—and a HUGE feeling of rejection. I grabbed my phone and recorded this episode because this seemingly tiny moment illustrates three huge truths: It’s never about what someone did. It's what your brain decided it means about YOU.You can know “the truth” and still get swept away by your nervous system’s wounds, triggers, and protective adaptations.Until you know how to restore your own sense of safety and sufficiency, stress will just continue to sabotage you and your relationships.In this raw, vulnerable episode, I'm taking you inside my own emotional trigger in real time to show you how differently I handle moments like this after years of getting to the root of my patterns, better understanding my nervous system, and learning to stop outsourcing my worth to other people's love and approval.   BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: Why seemingly tiny things can trigger disproportionately BIG emotionsHow childhood beliefs about earning love and belonging show up in random everyday moments as an adultWhy intellectually knowing nothing’s wrong doesn't necessarily mean you FEEL safeWhat I now do instead of numbing or suppressing my emotionsThe crucial difference between asking for what you want and making someone else responsible for how you feelHow unspoken quid-pro-quo expectations just breed resentment and conflictWhy healing doesn’t mean you won’t get triggered anymoreAnd more!    FOR SO MUCH MORE: Take my FREE quiz to find out your default stress response: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/stress-response-podcast  Grab my on-demand “Nervous System Fundamentals” masterclass to finally understand your brain and body like never before: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/fundamentals/   Join my 6-week Moms Made New program so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/mmn-waitlist  Book a free consult with me: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult    HOMEWORK:  Think about the last time you got triggered by someone else. Pause and get clear on the thought you had in between whatever they did and how it made you feel. How easy is it for you to change your thoughts? What underlying beliefs or nervous system patterning might be in the way? Reach out to me via email or on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity to share your thoughts. And don’t forget to share this episode with another mama who needs to hear it!   COMING UP NEXT: Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to keep unpacking the hidden sources of stress stealing your time and joy. Loving this podcast? Please help it get found by more listeners by taking quick minute to leave a rating & review in Apple Podcasts. Take a screenshot of your text review before you submit it, then email that to help@solutionsforsimplicity.com and I'll send you my powerful Happy Mom Protocol™ (a $297 value) FOR FREE! CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn  Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.

  6. Sep 15

    What ACTUALLY Overcomes Victim Mentality

    Send us Fan Mail A 1:1 coaching client recently said one of the most transformational parts of our work together is that I validated painful things she'd experienced that other people had minimized, dismissed, or told her to get over. For years, when she expressed her feelings, needs, or struggles, people she loved responded by criticizing her for having a “victim mentality.” Now, having someone acknowledge her felt experience is what allowed her to STOP living like a victim. Most people think “victim mentality” is complaining or blaming everyone else for their problems. In this episode, I reveal five much more sneaky ways it shows up. In this episode, I’m unpacking the hidden ways victim mentality gets wired into your nervous system…and why trying to “get over it” is the surest way to stay stuck and disempowered.   BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: Why feeling validated is the first step to overcoming victimhoodHow being told your emotions or needs are wrong makes you disconnect from yourselfWhy incredibly capable, high achieving women often feel powerless underneath it allHow victim mentality looks different depending on your default stress responseWhy acknowledging your pain is NOT about blaming anyone elseHow to move from helplessness toward greater agency, choice, and self-trustAnd more!    PRIOR EPISODES MENTIONED: Ep. 6: Martyr Mentality: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/17083616Ep. 53: The Fight, Flight, & Freeze Stress Responses: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/18778797Ep. 54: The Fawn & Fix Stress Responses: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2471152/episodes/18831735   FOR SO MUCH MORE: Take my FREE quiz to find out your default stress response: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/stress-response-podcast  Grab my on-demand “Nervous System Fundamentals” masterclass to finally understand your brain and body like never before: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/fundamentals/   Join my 6-week Moms Made New program so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://momsmadenew.com   Book a free consult with me: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult    HOMEWORK: How much have you let victim mentality run your life? Which of the five ways has it tended to show up most for you? Reach out to me via email or on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity to share your thoughts. And don’t forget to share this episode with another mama who needs to hear it!   COMING UP NEXT: Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to keep unpacking the hidden sources of stress stealing your time and joy. Don't miss my powerful on-demand masterclass, "13 Things Nobody's Telling You About Your Nervous System," that dispels the common myths and misleading advice out there about capacity, emotional regulation, and so much more: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/13things/  Loving this podcast? Please help it get found by more listeners by taking quick minute to leave a rating & review in Apple Podcasts. Take a screenshot of your text review before you submit it, then email that to help@solutionsforsimplicity.com and I'll send you my powerful Happy Mom Protocol™ (a $297 value) FOR FREE! CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn  Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.

  7. Sep 8

    Why Little Things Bother You SO Much

    Send us Fan Mail Why do the towel on the floor, the shoes kicked off everywhere, your husband's plate left on the table, or your kid doing that annoying thing over and over make you snap? You can know it's no big deal while your body reacts completely the opposite. In those moments, you typically decide THEY are the problem and exhaust yourself trying to get the chaos under control…or you make YOURSELF the problem and try to “just relax” and care less. What if neither blame nor shame is warranted? In this episode, I'm taking you inside a ridiculous recent moment where I got triggered seeing my husband’s sunglasses out of place. The truth is, your reaction is never just about the present moment. It’s your nervous system patterns trying to protect you from something that feels unsafe. Understanding these “protective adaptations” has completely changed the way I respond to clutter, stress, my husband, my kids—and myself. I may still get triggered, but how I HANDLE things is so, so much better than the past. I want that for you, too!   BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: Why tiny, objectively harmless things can create surprisingly BIG reactionsWhat hypervigilance is and how it can show up in everyday lifeWhat repeatedly getting triggered by the same kinds of things is actually telling youHow understanding your unique stress response can transform the way you handle everyday stressThe question to ask yourself the next time something seemingly insignificant makes you lose your coolAnd more!    FOR SO MUCH MORE: Find out your default stress response with my FREE quiz: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/stress-response-podcast  Sign up for my “Nervous System Fundamentals” masterclass to finally understand your brain and body like never before: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/fundamentals/   Join the next round of my Moms Made New program so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/mmn-waitlist  Book a free consult with Dr. Amber 1:1: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult    HOMEWORK: Recall a recent time you got triggered. Why did that person or thing bother you so much? What did your brain make it meant? What felt threatening about it? What’s the deeper fear your reaction was trying to protect you from? Reach out to me via email or on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity to share your thoughts. And don’t forget to share this episode with another mama who needs to hear it!   COMING UP NEXT: Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to keep unpacking the hidden sources of stress stealing your time and joy. Loving this podcast? Please help it get found by more listeners by taking quick minute to leave a rating & review in Apple Podcasts. Take a screenshot of your text review before you submit it, then email that to help@solutionsforsimplicity.com and I'll send you my powerful Happy Mom Protocol™ (a $297 value) FOR FREE! CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn  Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.

  8. Sep 1

    Emotional Decluttering: Drop the Baggage You Don’t Realize You’re Carrying

    Send us Fan Mail What if exhaustion, overwhelm, people-pleasing, guilt, and emotional reactivity aren't really about what's happening in your life today...but from emotional clutter you accumulated years ago?  Clutter isn’t just the stuff piled on your counter, shoved into closets, or preventing you from parking in your garage. There’s another, more serious type of clutter that desperately needs to be let go: unprocessed experiences, responsibility for other people's feelings, and old belief systems about what emotions are/not acceptable. Unlike the junk drawer, you can't declutter your emotions by simply throwing uncomfortable feelings away. In this episode, I walk you through a powerful process for examining your own emotional history so you can learn to remain safe, grounded, loving, and present without immediately fixing, appeasing, apologizing, dissociating, or shutting down.   BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: Why feeling bad about feeling bad creates even more sufferingHow your childhood shaped what emotions you can tolerate todayWhy someone else's anger, sadness, or disappointment can feel physically threateningWhy emotional health does NOT mean feeling happy all the timeHow to begin naming, validating, feeling, and processing emotions you've been avoidingAnd more!    FOR SO MUCH MORE: Find out your default stress response with my FREE quiz: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/stress-response-podcast  Sign up for my “Nervous System 101” masterclass to finally understand your brain and body like never before: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/ns101/  Join the next round of my Moms Made New program so stress no longer sabotages you—or your relationships: https://solutionsforsimplicity.myflodesk.com/mmn-waitlist  Book a free consult with Dr. Amber 1:1: https://tidycal.com/solutionsforsimplicity/free-consult   HOMEWORK: Set aside to write out your personal answers to the questions posed in this episode. For example, what messages did you hear in your childhood home surrounding emotions? How did your parents handle theirs? What did you subconsciously learn to believe about expressing negative emotions? What emotional experiences may your body have yet to fully process through? Reach out to me via email or on Instagram @solutionsforsimplicity to share your thoughts. And don’t forget to share this episode with another mama who needs to hear it!   COMING UP NEXT: Join me back next Tuesday at 5am Eastern to keep unpacking the hidden sources of stress stealing your time and joy. Don't miss my powerful on-demand masterclass, "13 Things Nobody's Telling You About Your Nervous System," that dispels the common myths and misleading advice out there about capacity, emotional regulation, and so much more: https://solutionsforsimplicity.thrivecart.com/13things/  Loving this podcast? Please help it get found by more listeners by taking quick minute to leave a rating & review in Apple Podcasts. Take a screenshot of your text review before you submit it, then email that to help@solutionsforsimplicity.com and I'll send you my powerful Happy Mom Protocol™ (a $297 value) FOR FREE! CONNECT WITH AMBER: Website | Instagram | YouTube | LinkedIn  Ready to finally get to the root of your problems and change your life FOR GOOD? Book your free 60-minute consult to learn more about working 1:1 with Dr. Amber.

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Are you a worn-out mom who used to be the star of the office, spend 45 minutes doing your hair and makeup, and take romantic getaways before you had kids…but now you’re constantly behind and out of PTO at work, there are three days’ worth of dishes piled in the sink, the kids scream when tablet time is over, and you’re so touched out by 8pm that you scroll Instagram instead of spending time with your husband?   Welcome to the club. If you’re paralyzed by what to do first whenever you miraculously find 15 free minutes and fall asleep in tears because you’ve always tried to do everything right but now it feels so wrong, you are NOT alone. I went crazy trying to “balance” it all and believing other experts who tell you to just wake up earlier or manage your time better. Turns out you’re not the problem; toxic productivity culture has led you to equate your self-worth with what you have to show for your time.   I’ve spent years applying my PhD research skills to find scientifically proven strategies for keeping up without burning out—then tailoring them for busy mamas whose hands, hearts, and schedules are fuller than they ever imagined. Now I’ve helped dozens of other women discover the hidden causes behind your stress so you can reclaim your time, restore your energy, rediscover your identity, and look back in 20 years with pride instead of regret.    Join me, Dr. Amber Curtis—certified life coach, behavioral science professor, public speaker, devoted wife, and mom of four—every Tuesday for real, raw stories and actionable advice on productivity, organization, time management, and that elusive thing we call work-life “balance” so you can be the happy, present wife and mom you dream of without sacrificing the talents you’re meant to share with the world.   Ready to make more time for YOU? Hit play and make sure to tune in for new episodes every Tuesday. It's time to take back your life for who and what you love. You’ll soon realize “time” was never the problem after all.

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